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RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 3:15am On Jun 05, 2020
Ineedhelptostop:
I’ll but I just want to recover from Ramadan first
ok
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 11:11am On Jun 04, 2020
foolishman:
thats why I said that you can't get sex everytime
you therefore will be tempted to service yourself anytime you get the urge. And it has a lot of side effects. It also affects sexual performance.
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 11:05am On Jun 04, 2020
Ineedhelptostop:
I couldn’t resist that much during Ramadan and I haven’t tried to have sex cos any slight stupid behavior from a girl I’ll just ignore them, like there’s this particular one that was supposed to come visiting but she always comes up with excuses I just blocked her number before deleting it.
thats why I said that you can't get sex everytime
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 10:10pm On Jun 03, 2020
oluwaseyi0:
Get proper sex that's what you need

Sex is like food, masturbation is like snacks your urge is like hunger
I really appreciate your contribution. But remember that you can't get sex every time even girls can't
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 8:53pm On Jun 03, 2020
foolishman:
I have a feeling that my method will work for you. You started just this year but I was addicted for over a decade. Use the method and consider starting again and adding 10 days to the 40 days in case you relapse.
and don't forget to be sincere with yourself
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 8:51pm On Jun 03, 2020
Ineedhelptostop:
Cont.... I started masturbating this year let’s say around February when it was time for Ramadan I was finally happy that I’ll get to let it go with the help of Ramadan behold two weeks into Ramadan after Sahur I was about to bath then I got triggered again, I masturbated and perform Jannabah this was how I continue with the act during Ramadan, I’m always stuck on Pornhub I now have my favorite models that I do masturbate to, I still masturbate yesterday.... Pls help me! I haven’t done the act today because I’m now getting scared for myself.
I have a feeling that my method will work for you. You started just this year but I was addicted for over a decade. Use the method and consider starting again and adding 10 days to the 40 days in case you relapse.
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 6:33pm On Jun 03, 2020
themaestro08:
A guy form Twitter? Don't you know some Twitter users are clowns and shouldn't be taking seriously?
I only joke about what he said. It's not my own story sir smiley
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 6:29pm On Jun 03, 2020
And I started. I spend 5 days for the first time without masturbating after many years. But I did so after I broke the fast on the sixth night. I felt so bad cus I wasn't in the mood and I forced my self to do so. The fact is you won't have feel like masturbating after you break, you can't masturbate in the day, and you can't watch porn neither and you will hardly be in the mood. I did exactly like I've planned for about a year without masturbating. I already have a girlfriend that makes about 70 percent of the amount I make monthly not like all these mumu social media girls in their early twenties that live in their WhatsApp status. This is my third year without masturbating and I got my girlfriend dis year.
The end.
I'll answer every single question.
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 6:17pm On Jun 03, 2020
So I laid down my plans:
- to fast everyday for 40 days straight (12am - 6pm)
- then I'll fast 3 days per week for three months

- then i will fast 2 days per week for another 4 months.
- if I ever relapse I will have to start again but the 40 days will be 60 days
- I have to be sincere with my self
TBC
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 6:11pm On Jun 03, 2020
I was lucky enough on a particular day to meet my colleagues discussing about masturbation and its side effects. One tebliq guy then said that Mohamed mentioned fasting as a way of curing the addiction. I did not contribute cus I don't want to drop any hint that would make them feel like I'm involved in the act. I thought about it throughout the day. The demon inside me aske that what after I break but I agreed with my self to give it a try first in a particular order tho.
TBC
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 6:04pm On Jun 03, 2020
Omo my head reset fast fast. It was like I've been under a spell. It was a great experience. It happen twice again after the first time. The girl and her mother later left the compound and I started masturbating again but I was already feeling the shame everytime whenever I'm done. So the struggle to stop BEGINS
TBC
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 6:00pm On Jun 03, 2020
ZINIBANKS:
Niggar someone lured you to this act you didn't just wake up one morning and start doing it
Meaning things you copied are way more easier to stop than things you start practicing on your own
If you don't wanna do something no matter the force and pressure niggga I swear to God you ain't gonna do it you're a man you choose what right for you and leave what's gon kill you at a very youthful age let me tell you how to stop get a fúcking bitch explain it to her and tell her how she can help you to stop it
i already know how to stop that's why I want others to learn. Read till the end bro wink
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 5:58pm On Jun 03, 2020
I actually used to feel like doing her one day but I won't stoop so low to become her friend because of sex. After spending some months in my new apartment, she started coming to my room after her mom traveled for a while. She would come in and be doing anyhow but I would just look away. After like a week of the same occurrence, she came as usual on a faithful day, she changed the channel to zeeworld and I did not even move. She was feeling so free that I have to take of my boxers in her presence, took out one of the condoms I used to use earlier and I wore it and I was like "shall we"? ;DI could read confusion in her face but she boldly asked that why? And I said that because we are friends. She took off her gown (she wasn't wearing anything under shocked) and we did the do
TBC
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 5:47pm On Jun 03, 2020
I graduated with the ability of telling anyone the number of girls I actually had any form of conversation with grin grin like I fvkn hate them even till now that I don't jerk off anymore. I got a job I'm okay with how I was getting paid because I had no girlfriend and I only take care of my parents, my sisters and my friends are independent and doing great. I rented an apartment (a bedroom self contain). The apartment is one of the many apartments in the compound. There a lady in one of the apartments and she lives with her mother. I hardly have any form of conversation with with her. I only greet her mother. I shun any form of joke she tries to crack (who you grin grin)

TBC
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 5:38pm On Jun 03, 2020
ZINIBANKS:
That Shi still make me tense has as a MOTHERFÚCKER like when you can simply just fúck some pussy with just #150 indomitable and egg she's all yours
thats because you did not discover masturbation a early as I did. I started masturbating around the age of eleven
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 5:37pm On Jun 03, 2020
After the first year I decided to rent an apartment. I was free to do it anytime I feel like I became more professional and I even created my own instrument i used to masturbate with using condom an other materials I won't mention so that other people won't fall into the trap. Masturbation made me hate girls so much that I hardly have any form of conversation with any my sisters. I had no plans of getting a girlfriend. I'm always feeling classy and I won't stoop so low for any girl cool cool(excluding my family members)
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 5:30pm On Jun 03, 2020
I later gained admission into a university after masturbating for many years. I lived in the hostel but I later left due to privacy issues. It's hard for me to masturbate in the hostel cus everyone is together almost all the times I spent there. The bathrooms had short doors and walls. But I still managed to do so at night. At this moment, I believed I'm an ADDICT.
TBC
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 5:24pm On Jun 03, 2020
After this, I started feeling like a genius like I've discovered what no one else has ever discovered. I remember the urge I had to tell my guys in school then about it but I no wan cast. I became the everytime "first man to bathe" in the house. I started spending up to an hour in the bathroom. Everyone started to wonder what goes on in the bathroom whenever I get in cus you won't hear any sound of water for the first 30 minutes or more.
TBC
RomanceRe: The Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 2:20pm On Jun 03, 2020
It all started in the bathroom when I mistakenly discovered masturbation. Sounds stupid right?

I lived with my parents then. My room doesn't have a private bathroom so I used to make use of the visitors' bathroom. I was only bathing just like every other day before my moisturised hand stroked my stick I felt moved so I had to try it again and I continued for up to like 30 minutes then I the enjoyment stopped (it was actually an ejaculation) shocked I don't know the reason behind this and I was shocked cus I was a novice and I hardly watch porn. And I don't have a phone that can browse(they were really scarce then).......
TBC
RomanceThe Only Way To Stop Masturbation by foolishman(op): 1:45pm On Jun 03, 2020
A twitter user said that getting caught is the only cure to the addiction, lol......


I'll be back to give y'all the gist I'm kinda busy right now.

TBC

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