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carmelily:

LOL. seriously, we have trained psychologists and therapists, professionals for stuff like this (and their oath to confidentiality takes care of the anonymity part). Trust me, there's probably nobody licensed to give her advice on this thread. Read through and tell me how she plans to take an intelligent decision.

@joichi
you (and other indecisionists like you) should write to Dear Abby or Dear Margo. They are both available for free on Yahoo. I wrote to Dear Margo and she sent me a personalised reply.

Very well said. Scanned thru the thread and cant help thinking this is just to get people's attraction.
Lots of contracditing statements here, how do u expect to get good advice like this.

I must confess that i think this is a make up story probably to help write a script for a nollywood movie in the making.

If you want serious advice from me, then lets chat one on one on yahoo messenger. my id is yomexy4.

Very funny. It could be either ways you know. Not too good to quickly conclude he/she is a scammer. I would suggest next time you be a little more tactful by playing along until you have enough evidence (mainly or primarily in the form of your written conversation with him/her) to prove beyond reasonable doubts that he/she is a scammer

With this he/she can sue you for character defamation or whatever it's called in the legal world.

So, my dear, let's be more tactful and am sure one day, we'll win the war against scammers in Nigeria and give this country a better image it deserves.