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Hi All,

I’m really in need of assistance from anyone who has experienced or words of advise on the emotional trauma I’m encountering at the moment.

I’m married to a EU National in the UK with kids and finally joined her from Nigeria 4 years ago and got my residence permit. She has a 22 year old daughter who returned from the US and started living with us.
It’s like she came from hell and has been a torn in my flesh, she’s disrespectful,arrogant,practising all manner of spiritualism in my home that I pay 70% on, burning all kinds of candles and incense.

She doesn’t even work and depends on money from her mother, spending it lavishly. I had a quarrel with her once after an argument and just let her do her things without saying a word to her anymore.She doesn’t even greet me in the morning, now brings boys to my home to sleep with and does all manner of nonsense in my living room., that I don’t even want to sit and watch tv or do anything there anymore.

The mother have started her own by acting strange. She sleeps in a different room, not even had sex with her for weeks now and requested I bring 100% of what I was giving her before for the house keep, despite I’m buying my own stuffs.

I’m here because I don’t really know what to do anymore. I feel lonely, alone and at times regretting coming over to the UK.
I’m keeping my cool cos of my immigration status and would really need help at the moment as I’m dying psychologically and don’t know whom I am anymore.

Thanks for reading!!!!!