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if there's doubt then you dont love them. you know when someone is right. all the stars are lined up perfectly.

This is stupid! I'm american, Americans capitalize on people searching for meaning and finding who they are. The fact that he went and got the damn test let's me know that he has doubt. Love is real, sometime it's sick, sometime it's pure. it depends on the character of the two in the relationship. but when two people love each other above all else and are willing to work as a team nothing else matters. PSH! I wish my babe would come to me about a damn PERSONALITY test to decide our fate and future. it's like reading a crystal ball! DUmbShyt! In life we change. We change the way we think and feel about things according to our situation in that moment in time, they could take the test tomorrow and still have a screwed up marriage. Listen to your heart.

WOW! My hunni has the WORST breathe at night, I sweetly request that he has a meeting with the mouthwash. He get's pecks, but no tongue action until. LOL! I still love him all the same, some days my breathe is the same, LOL!

ccollins: Why do you say the guy would never be sincere? Are you male/female? Are you not a sincere person? Or have you dated someone insincere? Explain.

My relationship is very easy. At first i began testing him to make sure he was sincere, and now that we have an understanding and communicate, it's the easiest relationship in my life, seriously! We work as a team. And I'm always his #1, vice-versa.

Why do u think it would lead to divorce? Have you ever heard of a young person having wisdom?

, And of course, love and respect each other's mind and spirit.

I'm 20, and my companion is 28, so, age doesn't always come with wisdom, and sometimes young age comes with wisdom. When the 2 meet in the middle, something can work. But what matters is 2 people who are mature, attracted physically to one another, and understand what each other wants and needs, and is willing to provide it without compromising what;s in their best interest. Age IS only a #.

Thank you!!! He's from Lagos.

I'm 20 years old, African-American female, and seeing a Yoruba man who's 28 years old. He's the best, he treats me so great! American men have never made me feel this way, he calls regularly, always accepts my phone calls and texts, and treats me like a Queen. I can only do the same in return. He truly is my King. Regardless of stereotypes, this one's real. He's educated, and a little americanized, but still cultured. We've been taking things VERY SLOWLY for 8 months, and I'm falling very hard. Anyone dating, married or been married to an older Yoruba man, experiences, comments, concerns, questions, advice! LET's TALK!