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Man is destined to take care of another man's issue.

200 plus years of reign, and till now, the royal household hasn't purge their lineage of ugly looks by marrying more presentable humans.

How can a royal family be this ugly when they are not practicing in-breeding.

I calm down. Think, relax, recharge, encourage myself, and move on with more productive stuff.

I don't let anything weigh me down. Nothing at all.

What I will never understand is why a man will be having sex with a woman he planned to marry.

What I will never understand again is why a man will marry a woman that is not a virgin.

You can't bring maggot infested tree home and complain of lizard.

Na WA for Una my fellow men oh. Una mo dey try at all.

But anyway, to each his own business.

True.

Let me reserve my comments.

stanvesco:
Lol!


Women do all these things to out-compete other women! It's never for you!
To inspire jealousy and envy and to a less extent admiration from other women!
They do it to be the cynosure of all women!


Women knows that with a wrapper,shaking ass and a sexy gesture they can get any man naaaa

If not,why do women not do all these and sit in front of a man in the house?

Apt, but not any man. It takes a lot of efforts to get the attention of some men.

Pathokpo:
This is so me.
I just don't understand what love means in conventional sense of it especially when I see grown ass men acting like fools all in the name of what they call love.
I only see it as a form of weakness.

I used to be like that too. But there was a time I felt really lonely. I began to pay attention to people that love me (mostly women).

That did the trick. I am still not a lover at heart, but in action. But, I am a good actor, and I will make you feel loved without ever believing in feelings. But, I believe in keeping to ones words and being responsible for others. That to me, is love.

I think those who caught deep feelings for me did so because of how deep I studied them and fix them up without appearing weak myself most of the time. Never because of feelings, cause I don't have it.

My mum and dad are very opposite people. Mum is an angel.

My dad is a good guy too, but very proactive and active. My mum is rather passive, extremely easy going and hates any form of problem.

Foolish me, I took after my mum throughout my teenage years. But, I soon realize I must overcome it and bring out the man in me. And I did overcame it.

I love them both. I can never grow to this level of success without my mum easy going nature and humility. I can't retain the success without my dad's proactive nature.

A man that has no control over himself should not have the capability to feel humiliation. He will manage.

Klass99:
Oh......okay my bad. I thought I saw my son will be one year old. The tab may be more educational but for a one year old what education does she really need at that age?

Let your baby be a baby for a while and do baby things at this stage which is eat, sleep and play. The education can come later and preferably in a classroom setting with other kids. Screen addiction is not a joke fa.

Good point. Moreover, the best education a kid can get is by reading elders lips. So, he should get a gift that will allow the baby to interact more with humans, not screens.

And that's how they killed an innocent lion.

God1000:
This is horrifying on every level. A woman verbally attacks a child with a racial slur and instead of facing consequences, she’s being rewarded with hundreds of thousands of dollars? This isn’t just about one person’s hate; it’s about a society that enables and even funds it. Very sickening and disgusting behavior


My fellow black brothers and sisters should wake up and stop worshipping these people, I can't believe this is happening in 2025

See mouth like racist slur.

Yet, you all do worst to each other.

Go to black dominated neighborhood in the States and see the degenerated stuff they do.

What about here for 9ja, dem no love themselves.


Na harmless word dey bite them.

I support the woman. I wouldn't want to live among animals like that myself.

To begin with, I don't live aming animals like that.


When a people decided to ride on sentiments, forgetting they themselves aren't innocent, this the end result.


No one is even talking about what the nigga did. They are blaming the woman for getting angry. Lazy, degenerated brains.

If you want to be free, you stop seeing yourself as victims. No one is to blame for your miserable life.

Drop the victim mentality. Wise up.

Never got drunk - 5


I am not a smoker though. But I once try out smoking when I see my friends on it. That was the last time, shit felt horrible.

If you are a dependable woman, you will easily spot a dependable man.

So, what stopped you from keeping the two?

And if you can't, just pick the one you love and prepare for fight or distance from the second one.

Life goes on.

To all you crying foul, how about you learn unity and solidarity. If you have taken seriously the killing of your kinsmen, will they insult you?


I'm a Yoruba, but this is a trait I admired about the fulanis. Standing behind their kidnapper (alleged) kinsmen, why you all backbiting un-unified lots cry blood.

The day you all learn bravery and fight for your dignity is the day you will be free.

What stopped the president from ordering detailed investigation into the killing instead of agreeing sheepishly to the "hunter" narratives.

What stopped edo state governor from detaining the entourage and bargaining with northerners to call their people to order, to ensure peace.

A kingdom divided against itself shall not stand.

Yorubas, you are divided and shall always worship a stranger unless you learn unity.

Igbos, you are divided and shall always worship a stranger unless you learn unity.

Stop crying. Call your kinsmen to order.

Kobojunkie:
1. "Make her feel like a proper woman," meaning she does not feel she is already a proper woman—insecurity flags all over the place kind — and the man is one who preys on such women with low self-esteem, abi? 🙄🙄

2. Women don't care if their man had 1000 concubines? Let me guess, we are still on the topics of these insecure women you introduced us to in your earlier declaration of how they are prey to your "Man"? 🙄🙄

3. Oh boy! Now it's all just hogwash and brain farts! Oi vey! 🙄🙄

You are not a woman.

Kobojunkie:
1. It is a very unhealthy fixation given that it has not been proven to provide you all any real value, and many of those who carry that fixation are eventually drawn to even more disastrous/inhumane fixations in the end.

2. Are you having us believe that every man who is not a virgin is from a troubled home?

3. But every man likes to? Is that your personal conclusion? 🤔

4. You mean like the one up there already eyeing primary 5 kids as his target? Even your politicians now prefer them served up as kids.

Once you meet a real”Man”, who makes you feel like a proper woman, you will forget this your current confusion and appreciate a man for what he is.

But I couldn’t blame you. You’ve never met a “Man”.

To men:

Women I know, don’t care even if their man had 1000 concubines.

Men has lots of jealousy. But women has lots of competition. As a man, if you are competing for a woman or learning some “OT” to make a woman wet,
Or make a woman feel loved, you are fooling yourself.

Woman excels more in trying to seduce a “Man” once they sight one. A woman will seduce a man she likes, and it means nothing to her.

But if you try to reverse the role as a man, you are gone. Again, no real woman care if her man has many wives. Just be a “Man”

Kobojunkie:
Of course, you would not find it reasonable for anyone to point out that these delusions/fixations are likely to lead nowhere good if not immediately nipped in the bud. Your best bet is to make an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist or counselor, so you can rid yourself of what is clearly an unhealthy fixation.

It’s not an unhealthy fixation. Not every lady is from a troubled home. And not every lady needs to climb dick or rub Toto with their fellow women to eat.

If he is a responsible guy himself. He shouldn’t find it difficult to find one.

damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

I really don’t know why it’s hard for you to find one.

Two of my lovers are Virgins (I confirm one, haven’t had the time to confirm the second) but it won’t be hard for me to confirm if I want to.

Maybe change your environment. And it is not even a matter of age. While one is just about 20, the other is in her mid twenties, and also very beautiful.

I’m not a virgin myself. And they know. Abd they even know that I am sexually active, but they don’t mind.

I think it’s how you relate with women. Thats very important.

But while I will never say it to any man or woman (that knows me) - I will never keep a woman that is not a virgin at home, even if she had children for me.


Before anyone quote me about “I am not a virgin.” First go and learn what a “Man” is and what a “Woman” is.

Like someone pointed out about genetic pollution, I think one key indicator of a virgin is a woman without a troubled soul. If you are cool headed enough to handle a reasonable woman, you should not find it difficult to find a virgin. Non. Virgins has lots of drama (mostly) and trust issues.

Just be a man, and be responsible, they will come to you themselves. You don’t even need to look for one.

Normal. The result of arrogance.

Reason I always listen to my babe and well wishers.

But technically, it’s not mad. Just “different.”