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hello , am really depressed right now , it as if the world has come to an end in my side , I think of suicide everyday , I beg God to take my life , instead of what am passing through

lollloll , I can't laugh , that is so good for you

thanks to everyone , I stand to take responsibility for my mistakes , I have gone to see a fertility specialist , I am asked to carry out test for infection first , then hormonal analysis , to know where its coming from , I already have an hsg done , did that on my own , nothing is wrong with my tubes....

Loisemm:
fullofregrets, all will be well. It's good as you told ur fiance about what happened. It could lead to divorce or leaving you at the altar (God forbid) if he found out too late from you or the doctor u guys may use later or someone else.

Don't give up on life or do anything rash. U will get over it and find another man to marry and have children with. Just hold on to God and keep asking/believing Him (God) for mercy.

And by the way, u tried to conceive for 8 months only so do not conclude anything is wrong. Some ppl who didn't do abortion, try for far longer before they get pregnant. Could be caused by other factors like fibroid, infection, blocked tubes, cysts, PCOS, male factor, spiritual reasons or just that it's not their time yet.

So, my dear, don't despair or be depressed. Stay calm, get married and try again with faith and medical assistance. There is a lady I know that did only one abortion too with her fiance. He later left but not because of the abortion. The lady is married today with a son (to another man). So please keep hope alive. Take care

I already asked for forgiveness many times , I believe God answered me already , my spirit has been so weak , I am so lonely right now , I am just too faithful and loyal to my fiancee, I deserved a chance, he spoke to me in a horrible way , I never for once asked to be heartbroken again in life , I just can't deal with this cause its just too much for me to carry

hello everyone , I don't know if I should get pity or support from here , my boyfriend just break up with cause I told him of my past abortion , the relationship is a serious one , leading to marriage , I ttced with him for like 8months , when I first know him , I once took a lot of contraceptives when I met him , it really stopped my period from coming for months , I really don't know where the problem is coming from . help a soul........

I gave up on this world already , you can't trust anyone with your problem , I am feeling so rejected and dejected right now , I find no peace in this life again , I am taking my life right now , I don't know how to lived without him in my life, I loved him so much , I thought I could move on , but I can't

hmmm , this comments makes me wow , so its a crime to speak my mind , you don't know my pains , so I beg you not to judged me , before you judge ask yourself if you have the courage to open up your flaws to people , its been done , no one should crucify me , we are all humans in flesh , in one way or the other , we have succumbed to the flesh, I am telling you that the unwise decision I took was something I regretted , I am not proud of my pasts , I am sober and feel bad , and I have mend my ways ever since , we should all learn to forgive , and pls those who judge me don't forget you are still in the race , the life and flesh in you can still mislead us in one way or the other , who are you all to play God the judge , I only need advice , not to crucify someone who's dejected right now , peace out

thanks nairalanders , I appreciate all you have said , but I love this man so much , and I never expected him to throw me off like this , he's the person I will stand with in time of troubles , I mean worst troubles I can imagined, my worst fear is that he's not giving me chance to do the right thing , even with all he did , I still love and heart him so much , I still hope he comes back to me

rebella:
@fullofregrets , you had an abortion the deed has been done. Personally I think instead of crying, you should thank God for making you avoid a fair weather husband, that is someone that will only be good to you when the going is good. That man didn't love you. When a man starts saying you should get pregnant first before the marriage can hold, that's a warning sign.

I know you probably miss him a lot, but remember a broken relationship is better than a broken home.

my dear , you are right ,
we learn everyday ,
sometimes in just a hard way ,
I just wish he can give me chance to make things right again , but he refused to hear my pleas, he said he's fed up , and ready to find another girl , and impregnate her , well I can only wish him luck , am not bad either , God will surely send my own husband and children my way , I moved on already ,

I asked God for forgiveness

I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

well I have done everything necessary , my
womb is okay and intact

I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do