My mum has been pestering me to marry this guy i've been dating for 4 yrs. But i can't. It's a long distance thing and it will continue to be long distance even after marriage. I cant handle it cus i'm not a long distance person. My mum is forcing him on me and she wouldn't even listen to me. What do i do?

Different things work for different people. Long distance relationship didnt work for me but it might for you. Give all you can and if it's still not working, quit before it's too late. Believe me, I've been there.