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Crunchyg2:
So many guys find it difficult to get a girl attracted to them or you can say getting ladies to like them, most of them even scare the ladies away unintentionally with their initial approach. What I am about to show you is what people pay heavily to learn but I will give it to you for FREE, a practical way any guy can get a girl attracted and the girl glues to you like a chewing gum that you will even marvel how the magic works, well it's not magic rather we call it The Art of Attraction. Are you guys ready!!!!!
FIRST-HOW TO OPEN UP A CONVERSATION WITH A LADY SUBTLY
What you guys don't know is that these girls are looking for who to talk to them, who will find them attractive, who will say hi but the way they put themselves together if you don't know this, you will be scared to approach or initiate a conversation thinking they wouldn't respond, let me burst your bubbles, ladies don't respond to you not because they don't want to respond, by the way, they always want approaches from guys no matter how little. It makes them have a feeling of "I am still attractive" but because you initiated the approach in the wrongest of way if there is any English like that. So let's move on. We will use Nairaland as a case study as we all are in Nairaland. You saw this girls Moniker and her comment and you like it, the next thing you rush to her profile wow a lovely pic, exactly your spec and immediately your adrenalin start rushing up, you want to get her contact, you want to be her friend both online and offline, you want to even take the relationship to the next level just if you can get to know her. And you are confused on how to go about it in getting her attention.
The first step to getting her attention is to quote her comment and say something nice about her comment, if she made a good comment or say something to correct her if she made a wrong comment. Remember her comment is of no use to you, you are only interested to get her attention. So you wait for her reply ok let me make it clearer with this little illustration: she makes a nice comment and you quote her and say something "That was a brilliant comment up there wow, beauty and brain" I assure you with this kind of comment the girl must surely quote you back and say "awwww thanks" some will even attach "thanks dear or thanks darling or just thanks, any how what matters is you have gotten her attention, quote her back and subtly raise a question that will make her respond again like "you are welcome hope your day is going on fine" not that your really care about how her day is going but you know what you are pursuing, you are just buying "Talking time" and you know communication is key when it comes to connecting with someone and that is what you are building up here. The third time she responds to you like " My day is fine and yours" this is the time to add another flavour to the conversation, add something sweet like dear or etc to your reply this time. This is where some guys failure in getting women attracted starts because some of them are like ahhh how can I bring in dear or babe in our conversation, is it not too early, won't she be offended? oga it's not too early rather it's "too right" if you understand what I mean, they are only being offended in your own head but in their head you just struck something sweet, say some thing like " babe my own day was awesome, or mine is fine dear" any how but just add that little spice to spice up the feeling. This takes us to your next move.