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TV/Movies / Which Is The Best Movie To Binge Watch On Netflix by FUNTOoluwa: 10:38am On Apr 28, 2022
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Romance / 8 Things All Guys Feel But Are Too Embarrassed To Admit (according To A Guy) by FUNTOoluwa: 10:29am On Apr 28, 2022
1. That he's insecure

All men are insecure, no matter how tall they stand. Like women, men are human beings, and we too are bombarded with Photoshopped images of picture-perfect bodies and idyllic faces that we can in no way live up to.

I wrongly measure my own aesthetic worth by comparing myself to others whenever I'm out in a bathing suit, and instead of taking note that my body may be considered better than some, I instead compare myself to those in superior shape, and I feel terrible about it.

I hate my body, and I know I'm not alone. Guys just don't talk about it because we aren't "supposed" to. We're instead supposed to be strong and confident in ourselves and project this fabled belief as a sign of manliness.


2. That he's in love

A guy admitting he's in love is viewed as a sign of weakness. Not by you, but by guys in general. It shows that he's let his guard down and he cares about something — it's good news! But men tend to see this as a sign that he's "going soft."

In turn, we'd rather wait for you to say those three special words first so we don't seem "weak" or give the impression that we love you more than you love us (because women are the emotional and nurturing ones, according to norms). Yes, it's childish but that's the way this archetypal cookie crumbles.

3. That he doesn't want to have sex

As detailed by nearly every male character portrayed in movies and television (but this has just recently begun to change, thankfully), not every man wants sex every time it's available to him. I myself probably turn down sex more than my own partner, who's absolutely gorgeous.

Why? For the same reasons she does! I'm tired, I'm not feeling sexy, I'm lazy, I'd rather do something else, you name it! This could even be the result of low testosterone, an even bigger issue. So instead of separating ourselves by traditional gender roles, we should instead address people as just that, people. We really aren't all that different, you know.

4. That he likes "girly" drinks

I'm sorry, but any guy that tells you he doesn't like the odd drink of Sex on the Beach is an out-and-out liar. Those things are damn delicious and a nice palate change from beer or some other male-marketed beverage. As with most things in this article, we don't purchase these things because we aren't "supposed" to. We're men, and men drink beer or whiskey. That's all. Don't believe me? Try this: make your man a girly drink at home and watch him turn it down. He won't! And why won't he? Because it's delicious and there's nobody around to judge him.


5. That he's into some kinky stuff

A dude might be embarrassed to tell you some alternative things he's attracted to sexually because he's not sure how you'll react. When a man feels this way, instead of talking to you about it, he tends to opt for porn when exploring these fantasies because he doesn't want to weird you out or embarrass himself.


The best thing you can do is encourage that he communicates these fantasies and not be judgmental when he does. This could prove to be a huge benefit to your sexual relationship and you don't even know it!

6. That he loves that new Meghan Trainor song
"Pop" music is short for "popular," meaning it's appealing to the masses. Men and women. Any man who says he's never liked a Taylor Swift song is lying to himself because Taylor Swift is a talented artist whose music is damn good to dance to. To be honest, if I'm listening to songs that might be considered "women's music," I look around to make sure nobody looks at my smartphone screen. Stupid, I know, but I don't want to get made fun of!


7. That he checks other guys out

Not in a sexual way (but maybe it is; men can be bisexual, pansexual, or bicurious as well) — a man will check another man out on occasion. He will never admit to this, though. The most you will get from him is that he can admit a certain actor is "a good-looking guy" as he shrugs.

His reasons for said checking could be anything. It could be that he's enviously judging his own looks against the Adonis across the room, or that, like women do with other women, he is merely appreciating a person's good looks from afar.


8. That he kind of (really) likes your TV shows

At first glance, "The Real Housewives of [insert city here]" looks idiotic. The show at its core depicts rich women throwing drinks and insults at each other while throwing fundraisers (just lots of throwing). Women happily admit to indulging in said programming, but guys are much less likely to do so because this show is primarily intended for female audiences.

An admission to watching said programming metaphorically revokes his "man card," so he won't do it and will instead complain whenever you throw it on the tube. But if we really hated it as much as we claim, we'd do something else. By this I mean if we stay and watch the show, we probably like it.

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Politics / Buhari Finally Explains Why Insecurity Will Linger In Nigeria Read More: Https:/ by FUNTOoluwa: 9:19am On Apr 28, 2022
Nigerians have been urged to ensure that they work with the federal government and the present administration to end the growing insecurity in the country This is because President Muhammadu Buhari has said that the criminal activities, banditry and insurgency will linger without collaboration from the people The president also said that his administration has done well in creating a conducive environment for the ease of business Read more: https://www.legit.ng/politics/1467600-buhari-finally-explains-why-insecurity-will-linger-nigeria/
Politics / Nigeria Will Sink If It Doesn’t Substantially Change Leadership In 2023 by FUNTOoluwa: 9:11am On Apr 28, 2022
The Director of Publicity and Advocacy of the Northern Elders Forum (NEF), Dr. Hakeem Baba-Ahmed, has warned that Nigeria might sink if she did not substantially change leadership in 2023.

He, however, said the quality of leaders that would emerged from the 2023 elections would determine her survival.

At the same time, a pan-Yoruba Socio-Political Organisation, Afenifere, yesterday, advocated for a Government of National Unity to midwife a new democratic government.

Speaking at the 2022 Pre-May Day Symposium organised by the Kaduna State chapter of the Nigerian Labour Congress (NLC), with the theme: “Labour, Politics and the Quest for Good Governance and Development in Nigeria”, Baba-Ahmed urged Nigerian workers to rise up to determine the right leaders for the country.

He also called on President Muhammadu Buhari to talk to the relations of those kidnapped in the Abuja-Kaduna train attack to let them know about government’s efforts in trying rescuing their love ones.

Baba-Ahmed said, “The 2023 elections is not an ordinary election, if we don’t substantially change the leadership of this country in 2023, this country is sunk. The politicians would use religion, party lines to divide us but in the end, what will be left is a broken country of divided people.”

According to him, “Nigeria has to go through a major reform and part of the process has to start now. We need to improve the quality of our leadership. In the last 10 years, we have elected poor leaders.

“We need to elect good leaders, who will care about the poor, about the children of the poor, about the education of the poor, about security of everybody. We need to elect good leaders in 2023 or this country is finished.”

The NEF spokesman said, Nigeria needed organisation, stressing that organised bodies like the NLC, needed to raise their voices to demand good governance.

His words: “Why is labour quiet about issues affecting the country? Why is labour not talking in the face of the challenges facing the country? Advise President Buhari to invite the families of those kidnapped Abuja-Kaduna passengers train to tell them what government is doing and give them words of encouragement.

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2022/04/28/nigeria-will-sink-if-it-doesnt-substantially-change-leadership-in-2023-baba-ahmed-warns/

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