₦airaland Forum

beatsbug:
in What way am i going hard on Folake, if at all i have? . . .well, i dont know u and we have never met, therefore what ever displeasure you had on Dj case will remain with you if not heard but dont try to influence me with it, either being a reason you deleted your former account or whatever. What ever post i make here is for the best interest of Folake, and nothing else, so when you mention "take it easy on Folake" i just wonder what you driving at.

brito:
Men always looking for respect at all cost, respect her and she will do same

cr7lomo:
The op simply meant respect ur husband 1st and then he reciprocates ( unless he is mentally unstable) , but instead of some women on this thread to comprehend, they start to attack . Nigerian women have turned to something else, always wanna eat their cake and have it

brito:
Meaning?

brito:
Respect is reciprocal, wait for a woman that will lick your tiny a55 in the name of respect.

brito:
My man with no brain has no business in marriage. go get a brain, women are humans too.

XBLadez:
I just don't like the way things are going here. Folake, the patient, who's supposed to be resting, is now the busy one

beatsbug:
at begining we never knew it was for her to worry, until lately we heard of the money transfers and now dat other family members take care of her and Ola is very busy. Look, we all feel whats going on here for Folake and her family, but If you want help with public funds and you so much hate accountability, then, i guess you gonna miss alot. I saw how things went smoothly on late Dj dola thread. Look you cant take away the benefits of trust and the urge for continuity to serve that accountability brings. Lack of accountability is gonna take away alot, incase she needs more fund, right now we dont even know the correct figures on whats left and how much is needed for her to complete her treatments and other medications. This thread has rather been flooded lately with too much off course talks, just to make things to be done the right way and the OP wouldnt take corrections. I jus hope there is still enough funds for here.

diddydiva:

diddydiva:
Okay

pickabeau1:
Collecting public money demands public accountability

salsera:
That the public is involved is no excuse - people raise funds through newspapers articles, online campaigns, TV programs all the time but I'm yet to find where the same public DEMAND breakdown of expenses and updates like it was an audit. The most you will get is the total amount raised - finish.

This is someone's life here - her PRIVACY splashed out in the public because she needs HELP.

Kingolaola has given us the the amount given so far its approx 800k as at his last count.

If this cash does not cover all her chemo and radiotherapy sessions left they will let us know.

Just because we gave out our free will does not give us the right to do what comes across to me as 'harassment' like we gave them money to buy shares and we are demanding our dividends.


Next thing is that people will start scrutinising the breakdown - how much is the transport, why is this one there,

Let someone volunteer to do their accounts if you all insist
Not everyone is Jaybee

salsera:
@ALL

I understand that everyone WANTS INFO on how the money has been sent however please remember that we have a PATIENT here.

Please dont think this case is the same as other Tehn cases where you can demand reciepts , weekly updates like they were being paid.

Folake is undergoing CHEMO here!!!!!!!!!!!
All this plus and minus excel sheet computing being demanded here is not in the interest of the patient
Someone that is physically reeling daily from chemo effects and we are discussing lack of updates like its supposed to be a twitterfeed

We have given, we have verified CAN WE LET HER GET ON WITH HER TREATMENT AND COMPLETE IT AT LEAST.

If anyone seriously wants the detailed accounts then they should volunteer to do it for and take that load off Folake's family.
Cancer stops everything in the life of a patient and their family - they are already juggling their personal lives and assisting Folake day in day out whilst we are here online posting posts. They are living it!! Emotionally and physically.


@4llake
I passed the place you get your immunotherapy drugs from in Magodo today.
I'll see what I can do

hybeenoni:
Thirded

Badosqi:
frontpage na ooooo

tbaba1234:
Seun, lalasticlala This should be on front page

RSA:
Senegal , Naija lets go.

ifypedro38:
ok , i will be updating all actions and inactions

joxxy01:
5:30 pm match kickoff.

ifypedro38:
To the stadium nah, am in front of the gate 5 now

Samueldo:
You are wrong
6:30pm

ifypedro38:
am on my way to the action area now,

Olufemiolaolu:
What time is d match?

greeatest:
My!my!!my!!!pls extend my regards 2them..lol

owoh2305:
Hello House,I just landed a good job at multinational company headquartered in Norway. The problem I have is that I(the only Nigerian living in Nigeria at the moment)and 6 other staff have been posted to their new office in Vietnam.Please how is the country like?iis it safe for a black man like me?are they friendly?how's the weather like?Please I need the houses input.Thanks

gmacnoms:
Me too.... How do we delete threads we created