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marlow1962:
Don't worry, your mama go arrange one for you after you don train your siblings finish.
I believe they're some decisions only you can make by yourself even without waiting for anybody.

Training your siblings will and can never stop you from getting married, I think the problem is you.

You are right the problem is herself, because she is too obedient to her mother and she cannot use her own brain. But i know of a guy in this case whose mother manipulated, and he is getting close to 50 without a wife or even a child. His mother doesn't want him to get married, and he is the only one doing well in his family; his younger ones, who are not doing well like him, are all married and have kids. He even placed his late brother's 4 kids under his company sponsorship and HMO. Probably, he doesn't even have plans to have kids in the future. Such a dumb fellow, anything he takes a woman to see, his mother, she always looks for fault in the lady, and they end up breaking up.

datola:
Ah. Chai. What a mother!

Or she is not her biologicL daughter?

She is her biological daughter; the earlier we all know that some mothers have favourite children and show partiality in their love, the better for us all.

eepeepook:
All these stories are fake. People believe them because many human beings have no direction in life and will blow into one belief or the next like mindless minions.

Many prominent women got married at 36 - 39 years of age. Some in their forties. Don’t let the hustle for Elon and Mark’s dollars make you consume nonsense.

I can actually see we have too many kids here in NL who canot decipher a fake story from a real one. Hers might be fake, but stuff like this happens a lot in real life, and trust me, there is no Karma for the mother or her siblings. She might even be the one to live a very miserable life in the end. The same siblings she sacrificed her life for will be the same siblings who will insult and turn their backs on her later in life.

insidelife22:
If I say fake story
You say engagement

means you do not know fake when you see it in your face.

We4all:
Some people will blame everybody but themselves when things don't go like they envisaged.

You went abroad and became a fully independent woman responsible for her life's choices.

So, how is your mother who wasn't living abroad with you responsible for your single status?

You are right she also share a large part of the blame. but you also have to understand that things like this happen mostly to the obedient daughters in the house. If she had some element of stubbornness in her, her mother would not have been able to control her. She mostly believes that her mother's word is final and that she should obey at all times. But then, when you marry a self-centered mother, this is the endgame. Her mother never cared about her well-being; she is also very foolish, and she never used her own brain. i can say that her mother loved her other siblings more than her and has shown her that character long even before she traveled abroad, but she was just too dvmb to notice it.

Cousin9999:
It's understandable if she wanted a partner and a bunch of kids by now, but she should remember to be proud of what she has done for others. She should also consider that maybe she would still be single if she didn't do that. She also could have made a poor choice in marriage if she did so when younger. She could also be bitter now because she spent her 20s and 30s looking after a spouse and kids instead of personal development, experimenting, and exploring.

More people need to have a healthier view of marriage and having kids. It's not a box to check or something to put on your wall. It's a major decision. And at this point in life, she's in a better position to choose a good partner and raise wonderful people than when she was younger.

And when, not if, she finds her partner, they'll love and respect her even more for how she sacrificed for her family. They'll be proud to have a woman like that as their wife and the mother of their children. There are men that would treat her like a queen.

You are just trying to console her and trying to sugarcoat things that may never have happened, and you are basing it all on probability. Life does not happen by chance it is a collective effect of our decisions. She decided she wanted to be the saviour of her siblings over her own personal well-being, and she achieved that, so now is the time to pay for that decision. Anyway, she is still young and s she should start prioritizing her needs over those of anyone, and she can still make it in life. In life their is no karma, only that we get the consequences of our decisions and actions. and saying a man will love her for this wrong. A lot of men will not like her for this, because with a character like that, it just shows that she is very selfish towards her family, and she may not care about her own family or her husband's family in the same way.

Breaker001:
Your colleague has been used as the sacrificial lamb for the family, and she seems not to be aware. She has to wake up before it becomes too late 😎

I am sure it is already too late for her friend and colleague at 50. And trust me karma does not exist.

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Gabriel, was told you've a message

yes take MartinCorridon along with you. he needs to be well oiled up by Gabriel

gaskiyamagana:
What relationship between regime change and ceasefire or why ceasefire not regime change?
Ask Al to guide you on answering this question because AI is not Americanized in reasoning like you.

you can tell yourself any lie to make you feel good. but at the end Iran will still surrenderer.

89green:
You've woken up, oya crawl back to your shell

No, you will definitely go back to eat your vomit.

goslowgoslow:
Whoever told you that ISIS was defeated? You can weaken them, they are already re grouping.

When they finished regrouping, the regrouped ones will still be sent to meet their 72 old hags in hell.

ogolemati:
you need understanding what is the connection between my comments and yours

. Maybe you lack a serious understanding, which is why you typed this rubbish.

LordLicifer:
keep wishing it does in your life time and in the life time of your entire generations, some of you do not reason at all, you believe anything, the insecurity and corruption alone would hinder this fairytale unachievable project. you can bet all you own on it. It would never happen! You think projects are achieved by wishful thinking or calling people with an opinion on it wicked? you better think again.

You are very negative in your thinking here, and there is nothing like wishfully thinking in all of these. The project in question has multiple facets and it serves multiple countries. So insecurity in one nation cannot mean that it will become a total failure. I personally have build mulitipe pipeline across Nigeria, and they have all become huge successes. The AKK project is currently ongoing in the northern part of the country despite the high level of insecurity there, so why do you think this one cannot happen? But almighty Russia can build 6 pipelines to sell gas to Europe, and Africa cannot build just one. Well, Africans are not planning to build just one; they are planning to build 3 different pipelines around 3 different routes, and this Nigeria-Morocco pipeline is along the safest of all the routes, and yet you think it will not work. When it is even Europe that is financing and pushing for it. They need Nigerian gas so badly that they can get rid of Russian gas. If not for Shell, the Europeans trust me, NLNG would have become like one of our own refineries here in Nigeria. So trust me, as long as the Europeans have a hand in this pipeline t will definitely work.

Kobojunkie:
1. It is in treating it as some sort of obligation... something owed you... that it can be seen as bullying or manipulation. If your children or relative show up of their own volition, that is fine. However, no adult has right to demand he/she be cared for simply because. 🤔

2. False equivocation! Those two things do not compare in any way or form. 🤔

3. Wrong! Should are under no obligation either by law or by virtue of being born to take care of any adult. 🤔

I know someone like you will never have kids with this your useless line of thought.

Kobojunkie:
Reality has always been that a good portion of them will be abandoned. Gone is the age where they could bully or manipulate their way into being maintained by family members as entitled beings in their old age. Every adult out there ought to be responsible for his/her own life and welfare. Age, should not be an excuse. 😒

Forming too much wokeness is not good for human civilization. This is the reason the population of caucasians is on a rapid decline and if we allow people like you to bring such useless thought into Africa, the same decline will be felt here, and maybe the human race has reached its peak of civilization and hence it will soon cease to exist thanks to this useless line of thought. Society knows why the unwritten law of parents takes care of kids, and kids takes care of their aged parents. So, what is the gain in having kids?

Kobojunkie:
That is the manipulation we are talking about right there... this notion that because they chose to birth and feed you, you therefore owe them. 🤔🤔

2. Adults who choose to have children are legally responsible for the support and wellbeing of their children. Young people are right to expect support and care from their caregivers. 🤔🤔

They are not right, that is entitlement mentality there. Children are not right to demand any entitlement from their parents. It will have to go vice versa.

Kobojunkie:
. No amount of whining to me will change the facts.😒😒😒

This guys Parents should have taken the pill at 6 or 9 months. and they could have left him or her on the street after birth. That is not murder.

Kobojunkie:
Well, that would have been murder. How stewpid can you be? 🤔

2. If you cannot contend with the fact that your offspring are not your slaves, why not have them altogether? Resorting to murder is simply mindfuckery. 🤔

Sae way your parents are not your slave. They can even choose to birth you and leave you at the place they birthed you. no big deal. when they do you can just stand on your feet and start taking care of yourself or you can become judge of the jungle maybe the animals will take care of you then. No law mandates adult to take care of kids. hence we have alot of Amjiris in the north.

Gilgil:
If you come off your tribalism, you will see the socio-economic reasons, but it's doubtful you will.

Why ship gas to Europe through a 6,900km pipeline with several risk factors along that pupeline when we can just convert our gas to LNG, thereby creating more Nigerian jobs and export the LNG for more revenue than just piping away our resources?

Do you know how much it takes to build an LNG gas processing facility? The price can even build more of these pipelines, and it has limitations. Also, the production capacity will not be up to what the pipeline can transport, and secondly, you need to invest in a lot of ships to transport it. What about the cost? You should think about all these before you make an assertion.

Igbofirstfarmer:
Russia will not allow that project to be completed.

thank God you know. but most Nigerians here on NL are not using their brains to reason at all.

Originalsly:
Listen to yourself .... what's the difference between wearing same as a hijab or scarf? ...what can she be hiding as a hijab that she can't hide as a scarf? What about those wearing blouses?...dresses!...skirts? ... what about those wearing bra?...where women usually hide and store stuff? ..should they be allowed to enter with bra? ...or how else would the examiner be sure she's not hiding something in the bra?

You can hide your face like a ninja inside the hijab. but you cannot hide it inside the scarf. how una dey reason self?

PigTormentor:
Shut your mouth. So they don't know h9w to search students before sitting fot exams? Does anyone need to wear hijab if their real intention is to bomb thr place? Think before posting crap.

But it is Hijab people who usually bomb places and not the other way round. Someone whom you cannot see his or her face you want to search such a person. watin una dey smoke self.

turawaa:
😆 Earphones maximum talking range is 10m.

Did jamb allow gadgets to exam venue?

Smartwatches and AI enhanced glass 👓 too

She can be in a whatsApp call all through the duration of the test.

dominique:
JAMB has sent messages to all centres that hijab should be allowed, some centres still choose not to adhere. If they get delisted now, they'll start complaining of discrimination.

If school owners whose schools are used as centers know their centre cannot tolerate or accommodate candidates from certain religions, why apply to be a center? The candidates did not ask to be posted to your center, why must they go against their values to suit you?

If you cannot adhere to simple instructions, it's better you remove your facility from one of the recognised centers.

ranting unnecessarily. If she is wearing the Hijab, how are they going to identify that she is the one actually writing the exam and not some imposter? I don't understand this madness at all.

Mrtrend1:
Is this necessary? Cus I don't really seen any bad in wearing hijab to the exam hall

How is sh going to be identified while wearing the Hijab. most of you just like talking anyhow.

HacheNoire:
Trump is telling lies!

Navigation data says otherwise!

Chinese and Iranian ships are sailing with no obstruction!

Why he had to chicken out with a post that, he is helping China open the straight 🤣😂🤣😂

China already warned him in a public statement by the Chinese defense minister.

US forces are not even inside the strait but outside. They could not even sail through Yemen, they had to go turn around Africa to make it there!

Most Western media are playing along to Trump’s lies. The reality is different!

South Korea just got huge shipment that could last them for 3 months via same strait.

Blockade is only on paper!

because your papa dey there dey help the ships pass abi?

osazsky:
Very good one from d Turkish government u must run for Nigeria and not run from nigeria

Wickedness, evil people. this is nothing but witchcraft.

MrEar:
Did you notice from the video that it is the chinese youths who are deeply interested in Iran?

That is why china is rising! Their youths love observing and learning.

Their youths know that one day China will have to reunify with taiwan and when that happens, they may have to fight the All Mighty and Powerful United States who just got flogged by ordinary small iran.

only that you wished all this bullcrap in your dreams.

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh.

You are naive. Putin is not dumb. He knew Trump's war on Iran was targeted against him and waited it out for the west to burn out their interceptors and expose their hypocrisy at the violation of international law by Trump who decapitated the leadership of a country that is not at war with it.

Now, Putin will do exactly what Trump did and heaven will not fall. Putin will blow up strategic military assets in nations not at war with it.

The west always think others are stupid not knowing that they are the butt of jokes. The western population is the least resilient and likely to sack their leaders by the time Putin descends on them.

Meanwhile, Trump's so called blockade is as useless as the p in psychology

A nor know the kind brain you use tye this rubbish.

WriteerNg:
Botragelad swore that Russia would evacuate it's forces from Syria only to end up watching the US being booted out of Syria.

The war with small Iran has really depleted US military.

People like you will never speak good things in your life. Watch how those clowns like God1000, madidguy, and freestuff will come here and start spewing rubbish like you just did, saying the USA was booted out, when they deliberately handed over to the Syrian army. Or were you expecting them to take over the country? At least ISIS has been defeated. clap for the USA.

samomoli:
When will this deal come to fruition. Every government is signing this deal. Talk less , lets see action.

You people just love to talk anyhow. When did you see any governmnet who signed this thing before in the past. Now that Europe is very much interested in gas from Africa, people like you are now trying to discourage this project that will enable us to make more money than Russia. Them swear for Una Africans?

Reference:
Laying a pipeline through countries that are poorer than you... good luck to that. Nothing more to add. You know me and gas are not friends. Look at the economic devastation through skyhigh energy costs here in Nigeria.

Just hope by the time, perhaps in decades when the pipeline will have reached Morocco Europe will not have gone totally green and cut their gas demands.

I think there are far better ways to spend and better things to spend our money on.

They cannot go totally green in 2031. didnt you hear that the project will be completed in 2031, Europe is planning to get ride of Russian gas by that time.

Gotocourt:
AKK don end after coup in Benin-Republic

You have seen it na. and some people here are saying that Putin and Russia have their interest at heart, when it was Putin who instigated these coups in those African countries. A bunch of wicked people.

Teymanhenry:
😂 Compare our annual infrastructural budget and that of South Africa, then also compare the quality of infrastructure in both countries. When you do, you'll Nigeria is a mess when it comes to infrastructures.

It's surprising you don't know that monies are syphoned through contractors. The quality of work they do is never commensurate to the money spent

So, because money is siphoned through contractors, then we should not do projects with contractors again.
You people have been deceived too much that Nigeria is a very wealthy nation and that is very wrong.

LordLicifer:
Absolutely! Waste of money, it would never ever come to pass anyway.

It will come to pass, wicked people enemies of the nation.

ogolemati:
more money to the crook from Lagos state the CEO bullion vans manufacturing company

Everything is all about a lie you have been told since you were very small.

SeizeTheMemes:
Didn't they say that our power grid was having gas supply issues now they want to export that remaining gas to Europe. The elite to sell our resources without building anything because the would be too much work I guess. We are an economic colony.

Because you people cannot pay for the gas na. Do you pay for the electricity you consume?

AsomughaChuks02:
A very stupid and wasteful project being undertaken by the Nigerian government. The risks involved are not worth the billions of dollars sunk already for a pipeline that will never recover the costs in 100 years. Let Morocco send their ships to Bonny and buy gas.

It will overcover the cost in a very short time. This is why you are not successful in business, for this comment you just made.

profmallor:
You may have a point. Why run a pipe, considering the level of insecurity in the countries the pipe might run through?

Europe is ready to take that risk because they really need the gas.

Teymanhenry:
Oga we are all Nigerians and we know what our people will do. Independent companies is the way to go. If we want to do business like the Europeans, we gotta think like them. Bring in policies that will curtail any form of irregularities, theft or scams. By so doing we'll be sustainable.

You are just writing a grammar you don't understand jack about. Maybe all you will taught in school is how to speak gramar and no sense in it.

ResidentSnitch:
Suddenly blocking international waterway is no longer a terrorist act because US is also doing it, right?
Who do una this thing no get joy at all.

I think you should ask yoursef that question, because you fit the description perfectly.

Emeskhalifa:
I won't be surprised if she's a 'paid actor'

. So, in your mind, if you are a Nigerian, tell me a time you have ever asked any black person on the street their country of origin. I have a lot of Ghanaians, even Cameroonians, working in my company as colleagues, and no one has ever asked about their country of origin. If you are not so close to them, you will not even know. So where is the lie in what she just said?

Reference:
She doesn't look Ugandan. She looks Plateau/ Nassarawa-ish. Didn't play the vid to hear the accent but you know what. With hundreds of languages, dialects and intonations round this country almost any African can camo in this country. Not bad for the crucible of Africa.

But it has also exposed that raw underside to fiery fiendish felons from the Futa Jallon raining fury on our landscape.

Ogbeni, she doesnt look Nigerian. Most of you just love to hate your country.

Horus:
That is what the US claim, but the reality is that Iran can now monitor U.S. military assets with significantly higher accuracy after acquiring the TEE-01B, a Chinese-built surveillance satellite. It is a massive leap for Iran and the Chinese satellite Data pictures are so accurate that they can detect that something roughly the size of a human is there. With this kind of high-definition imagery and accuracy, the 10.000 US soldiers will be highly vulnerable to attack and will lacks the means to hide effectively.

Make una dey deceive unaself una hear.

89green:
Chai, so its Iran who is giving US sleepless nights, now they are sending 10,000 to go and die for Israel

ODE na your papa wan kill them?

Horus:
They will need 10,000 Coffins

Keep deceiving yourself you hear and keep pushing the Iranians to their death.

anonymous1759:
For small rag tag defeated Iran, Amelika no fit do expendables for small pikin Iran na wa o Amelika just dey pity Iran that's why more troops are coming .

Without Nukes Ghana go whip Amelika front and back Paper Tiger 🐅 for a reason.

Rambo fan boys will be looking for another narrative to massage their batterd Ego Amelika is causing them to them Holywood Movies is what Amelika truly is. In reality na small pikin body them dey Count scores.

Maybe Ghana go wipe Nigeria front back and left. but na small pikin brai dey worry this one. too much of commando, rambo and Vanda has spoilt you.