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All posters above me don't have anything good to contribute but am sorry I have to join dem cus I too can't think of anything to say.
Maybe the next poster could have something to say

Rip to the victim.
But this doesn't look like a girl that was raped. All am seeing is just a young boy in school shorts

Sunset at noon.
RIP bro

Am here. Will be back after the whole update

When I saw ekiti, I thought it was fayose

400billionman:
I smell front page..


Its [size=16]LadyF [/size] again..

bro, are you ladyF bf

Now someone will call lala to come take it to FP like it's funny or there is a lesson to learn from it

52 men and she survived.
But this one na person future wife/mama

LieDetector:
you ended up spewing trash. I don't need any proof to show you that top forums are already making use of this feature. Google will always be there for you.

Please enlighten me more on how haters will use the dislike feature to their advantage. The primary motive of the opinion for the dislike button to be introduced is because there are some comments that honestly ain't worth liking in any ramification. The best option would be to click the dislike button. This would send the message to the original poster that his comment was condemnable. So tell me the hard thing there for you to understand. Any other reason for using the dislike feature would be secondary.

that Secondary motive is why am against your request.
Like I said fun seekers and haters will misuse it because of their hatred for someone.

And I think the mods will suffer most because many people don't like the mods and are always attacking them daily.
Imagine I hate a mod and there is a dislike button, I will always trail the mod's every topic and comments just to hit the dislike button and by so doing u will frustrate him and he will also be looking for you to break a rule and ban u. Then hatred and e-war will start.

So that secondary motive is I don't support you on this. Like stephansmily said, people will misuse it

LieDetector:
why must you keep displaying this slavery attitude of yours? Must you do because Facebook did or does nairaland look like Facebook to you?

if you have any brain at all you will know your request is silly and doesn't make any sense. Maybe if you can tell me of any site or forum that has a dislike button then I will modify my earlier comment and support u on this. If you can't then ur request is nonsense.

FYI, a dislike button will destabilize this great forum because haters and fun seekers will take advantage of it and hit the dislike button on any thread or comments of someone they don't like, mostly the mods.

Because of this People will be discouraged to create a thread or make comments. Sebi you see how you wanted to die because I asked for a dislike button for your thread. That's exactly how others too will feel wen people dislike their sensible thread or comments

Hahaha lol.
The fear of buhari is the beginning of wisdom.
The man wan collect all his due and not lose all by getting sacked.
It like if u think this man get brain like akpors

Even Facebook doesn't have a dislike button talk less of nairaland.
But I think I need a dislike button just for this thread

Is the op surprised or wat. Who else is surprised, raise up your hands.
This can only happen in lagos, so am not surprised

Cc seun lalasticlala . This goes out to both of you. If you like ban me, Ko Kan aye. No be nairaland dey feed me.

I won't get paid for making FP here but it hurts wen u leave topics like this to die. I remember I complained about not making FP with some FP worthy topics and lalasticlala said only topics worthy of FP will make FP.

I think you guys need to come out and tell us the criteria for making FP, the kind of topics that should be on FP.

I need to know why and how this is not worth FP wen topics like "tiwa savage faceless baby, Asa hot leg and timaya flaunting his mansion" made FP. Topics people won't gain or learn anything from, after all I called u guys attention to this thread .

Maybe u guys should tell us if FP is all about entertainment and we won't bother to expect our topics on FP since it doesn't have Tonto dikeh's name in it.

I don't hold grudges against u guys but I don talk my own mind. But if u think voicing out my mind is worth a ban, then go ahead but remember to ban me till eternity

People started calling me gabazin wen I was in jss 3 because I worwor wella. I no fine at all

Who she dey do yanga for after she don drop 2

Let him make a video if he wants me to believe

IdiAmin1:
Yes ofcourse, you have to forgive him but it's obvious he needs you now for selfish reasons since they don tell am say he no go succeed in life without you.

My advice is, you also have to be selfish when taking your decision. If you don't see much great future with your step dad, you can go to your father but if your step dad is your hero, Omo, forget that run away dad.

As an Igbo man, you don't have certain rights in your step dad's place shaa as per landed property dem

as for the step father, he sees me as a son and no one will know he is not my father unless they tell u. I think I own all his property

talk2riel:
No follow am go any where o. Him babalawo don teLl am say na ur head go make the money he need. Forgiveness is the only thing you owe him, nothing more.

to forgive him is not a problem. But he wants me under his roof

Cc: Seun lalasticlala ishilove farano rocktation. Pls and pls come do justice to this top by taking it to FP and hear what others think.
Do this one for me pls

olajorn:
Not possible

bro believe me, it very very true and possible.

I stayed with my grandma wen I was young because things weren't too good for her then. She only comes to visit me then until he married my step father and I moved in with them.
What my grandma told me was that my mom and dad are travellers and my dad is in over sea but am too young to know it was a lie despite the poor life we living den

faith551:
the problem people have in life is that we rush into things we are not prepared for, and when we meet the required challenges, we run back with tails tucked in between our legs. It's a very difficult thing to forgive prodigal father, I can't even imaging what I'll fell like to be in your shoes, cause there is no justifiable excuse to warrant a man to forsake his family.
But the real truth is that forgiveness frees the mind, not forgiving him is a burden to him as much as it is to you, if you can find it in your heart to forgive him, do so, but never forget for even the Bible says what so ever a man soweth, that he shall reap

ikbnice:
Just forgive him...There is always a reason for everything. God is the architect of ones life.
No one else can be your dad.

faith551:
the problem people have in life is that we rush into things we are not prepared for, and when we meet the required challenges, we run back with tails tucked in between our legs. It's a very difficult thing to forgive prodigal father, I can't even imaging what I'll fell like to be in your shoes, cause there is no justifiable excuse to warrant a man to forsake his family.
But the real truth is that forgiveness frees the mind, not forgiving him is a burden to him as much as it is to you, if you can find it in your heart to forgive him, do so, but never forget for even the Bible says what so ever a man soweth, that he shall reap

to forgive is not the problem but he wants me under his roof

Deejavuu:
Just find it in your heart to forgive him, holding a grudge against him wouldn't help you either..

But don't move in with him, he should be paying visits and you return it too. Probably spend weekends with him or holidays..

that's the problem, I gave him this option but he insisted that his pastor asked me to be his care

Noloss:
To repay evil for evil is devilish
To repay good for good is human but
To repay good for evil is divine.
It is difficult though but if u don't forgive him ur progress may be hindered too. Let it go n learn some lessons from his mistake ur self.

what if he only wants me into his life because his pastor told him so. What's the assurance he won't leave later wen things start to work out for him

This is my true life story. Am in my early 20's but met him for the first time this year.

Growing up my mom told me how my father left her to go on a business trip when she was pregnant but never returned. She told me they were engaged and did a traditional wedding and he promised they will get married legally as soon as he is back.
After he left, my mom and her family didn't hear from him for years. My mom moved on after waiting for 8 years but the marriage didn't produce another baby till now, though they are still married and every body believe am the man's first and only son. He took me as a son and I see him as a father until my mom told me he is not.

To cut the long story short, my father showed up in our house last month. My mom fainted after seeing him but she regained consciousness at the hospital and then she told me who the man was.
My father came back again after a week, me, my mom and my step father were watching movie in the sitting room when he entered. I was pissed at his sight and went inside but was eavesdropping what they were discussing. I peeped and saw my father rolling on the floor and asking for my mom's forgiveness that he was asked to come take me into his care before he can ever make it in life.
While inside, I wasn't even moved because I hated him so much. I faced him last week and told him he was never my father and I will never go with him. My father begged me to forgive him and spend some time with him since he is my biological father but I don't want to listen
My father has since be coming to our house every day to beg. The excuse he gave for his actions earlier was that he refused to return home because he didn't meet his target, he had hoped to be rich before coming home but was ashamed since things didn't work out for him on his trip.

Am confused as to what to do now. Help pls

Lalasticlala come and see o

That ur gf na bad belle. She wan send u on a suicide mission

Because my salary was always finished even before I get paid