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I broke up too, because my gel na AS and i too be AS

Omo life bad! i dey sorry 4 my guy.

But why ladies?

This as been a frequent question to be answered by ladies, why do ladies never appreciate the guy(s) that cares for them much, but instead take their abnormality(sorry to say) in damaging their life period.

This is a true story of a friend of mine, who use to love with everything he has, he shows this gurl waiting we dey call love, he gone to the extend of not buying wares for him self, but still cares for how his gurl will eat, ware and all.
Even the guy told the gurl that he is not interested in sexing her but won't to get married to her, now the gurl had turn away from him,(but ladies are dangerous) now my friend can no longer live like he used to, he as spent much on this gurl, he spent cash, i mean cash on her birthday ceremony.

But what actually should we say or concluded on some ladies life.
(Pls don't abuse me, i kn some are use to dat here. But to be sencare it a life story)

Guy, go to her wit one mind jare!

But at 1st stage man, you really want to create a Love that the establishment is not certain, it is cleared dat dis chick don't love you but you forcing your self on.

(1) Why deed she prospone you relationship?
(2) what actually was her excuse for not staying with you, wen u gat no job?
(3) Even if she's just a gel friend, why should she gave an excuse dat "Trafic".(definitely she's not really to take a risk because of you den)?
(4) Most you call her before she xplain what delays her coming?
(5) How many times as she tex you on how she want you guys to build up your relationship or she missed u?
(6) How are you sure she was not delayed by another guy?
(7) she most have dated some1 b4(if not till date), as she really explain what broke their relationship?

Sorry to say, Never use your and to dick you grave! Or you love her because of her beauty?

kay177:
Continue to maintain that frendship with her and dont put much pressure on her,  I have passed thru such experience,  mind you she is putting you on standby as her spare tyre should incase or unexpected happens,  Dont rush her take it cool you will definately have her if you are cool and not too desperate about it, 

true talk.

@TOPIC, just be calm like he said, be your self, take some time if just 20mins a day to xplain how much u love her, but never frustrate her from losing dat opportunity dat she always come around to cook and , I'm sure she feel like you do, u will be surprise if she definitely work up to you a day to xpress her feelings to you too. gud luck friend.

Bro, av once in dis situation, guy just calm down,infact i date my girl 4 a year b4 she gave up to me, just be patience.

Guyz, y ar u all doing like dis? may b some 'em guys don deceived dem say dem fine, we ona kom dey display their pics with word now.

    But is it really true?but my girl is pretty  oooohhh.

sure

bababuff:
You sure sey she no wash am with "Alum"?

yes b/c its possible.

@Ms Potato, 9ise one jare!
more,

It is certain that if not all, but 70% of we NL Guys/gurls must have pass through a regretful stage in life
with particular to relationship issue.I've once pass through too(3years back) when a my xgurl (toyin)
dump me for another guy.It was so painful, but there was nothing i could do, although she's still coming
back to plead.
And my word of advice to all is don't introduce love, but if the relationship is real Love most surely come around.

No knowledge is lost, please share/drop ur experience and advice here!

To be honest, she sent me a message wishing happy new month and i tried to do d same but my messages were not getting through, dat was y i went to her place.

I also date 1 wen i was in SSS2 and she spent on me, but she still left me 4 another guy(she told me her self), finally she's still on her kneel pleading, i can't just accept her back because i've found a beautiful and well behave 1(Blessing), (True story).

Let we Yoruba stop getting married without wedding jare.

I started dating a gel last year March, and when i return back to sch. after my IT programme, she could no longer hold her self, but after two month i dreamt dat she left me 4 a guy, my waking up for sch (i was in sch then), on my way to sch she called and said narated all i dreamt about, dat she had found some1 else.
I came home last week and i called her dat i'm coming to greet her but what she said was "my husband is arround", and she just finish are SSS last yr.I'm a Yoruba guy too oooo. but Y Yoruba gels are lkie this?

Wat else do u want to do 4 her, bobo let heroff jare! na she sabi, just move on and hope u found a beta lover.(wishing u well).

LouisThoro:
some roads do get blocked after being broken, you know?

i kn but it will take longer time.

D-sense:
Go nd sleep jor .The other guy don fork your girl

But i hardly belief.

I posted a post about my gf dat we had clash some days back(for those we read that post). Well we desolved the assue. But withen that clash period she was dating a guy, after my coming back she still refuse to let that guy off her. Yestaday she told me the guy was trying 2 force her down of sex intervention and she said, she excaped 4rm him.
But she's no more a V, because i deed broke that road. Now,can it be true dat she's excaped?

Pls do any1 have a N73 phone, working perfectly and 2nd handed. willing 2 sale for 8k.
Should pls contact me on 07062997745 or 07095156479. Tax.

XkeRoss7:
(scratchin' my head lyk I've got lice) Guy, na d V b your probs?? Make we do billboard b4 U go knw say d babe no send U?? Abeg, get a lyf & get wiv person wey send U, Or U no go 'gree waka until U "cut your share"??

But she's on are kneel begin and regretting 4 what she did.

medjai:
what's all these virgin hunt about? is that the new trend,screwing virgins?

I always pray to get married to a V!

Tax to ali nairalanders,
@odiaero                                                                         @ijelendu
i can't just let her be and i won't.                                    yes i'm, i love her too but she's an igbo girl,she always tell me dat we can't maried
because i'm a yoruba.

I went back to her yesterday, wen i got their i saw her younger bro, and i ask his bro to call her inside to for me.Immediately she came, what she first said was"what have u come to see me for", i felt digressed and disappointed, but she was busy then, and ask me to come back on wednesday when  i'll be back from sch. to talk more beta and i left.

  I'm now confuse of what she's going to tell me, or can any1 guess what she's going to tell me?because i'm afraid of going back to see her. more advise pls.

@Creamish
i really love my Bleesing, but can't just set Sophine free.

@1one
my Blessing.

@rokiatu
to who?Sophine? no just tell me which of them?

@rokiatu
a LOVER is a person i really have hrt felling for,who i can't do without while,
AGF is just a body pleasure.

well, tax 2 u all.
it normal that all relationship can not b smooth all time. But the clash we had then was because i was agre that she traveled without informing me. wen she arived i was agree with her, and it lasted for 2month before i discovered that she's no more a V***g*n.
more advice,tax.

Do, i'v been dating my lover 2 years ago and i really love her, but last year January i met a girl call SOPHINE, why my lover is BLESSING. But i always av clash wit sophine because i spent much time wit blessing. Now she finally found new guy and dumping me. But her love is now driving me that i can't stop thinking about her. Pls what do i do now,because she owns my hrt now. pls advise me.

ma friend, since u ar nt ready 2 mari dat chick den free her.

A girl u met at a virgin status and u went into a 'temporary' relationship with her.
Along the line u really care and [b]love [/b]her and u both agree to married.
After some years u started ur relationship, she loss her virginity to another guy, if u eventually discover, what would u do?
Mind u, she is sorry for what she deed and still saying 'i love u'.

God fobid! How would i date a girl i LOVE without kissing or touching even if we don't sex.Well to be truthful, i'm in one serious relationship now, started last two years ago (10/09/2008) and even since then she's still a V up till date, and i still love her. then y ,

Well u all right and perfect. But the one that i belief God sent to me Is Blesso(Blessing). she as all i needed in ladies and she's the only fantasy one 4 me.

i luv my girl but i can't stop dating anoda

i'm nt single too ooo