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BlindAngel:
Good afternoon nairalanders, It's been 2 years and 6 months since i got married to my wife. She have been completely idle since then, recently i gave her 5m to start up a business, in which she told me she'd start it up by December. The very evening i sent her the money "not less than 5 minutes" she borrowed her friend 1.5m from it to boost her business and locked the rest on her Piggyvest, pending December that she'd be starting up her business. It's been almost a month since i gave the money for business.

Yesterday Sunday, i went to see my mom and we were just discussing randomly "i and my mom" then the discussion let to me telling my mom that i gave my wife money for business, in which i couldn't even disclose the amount. Because my mom have been bugging me for 5k for weeks now to send to her mom that's in the village, but i haven't been able to give her yet because things really seem so hard for me this period, so i couldn't really disclose the amount,

I sold my land, pocketed 1m and gave her the balance 5m to start up the business.


Today, i opened up up to my wife that my family is aware that i gave her money for business and she have been very mad angry and furious. Claiming that how could i tell my family that i gave her money, asking me that if she's the one that gave me money, if she would then start announcing to her family that she gave me money.


I responded by letting her know that, firstly... Her assertion is not possible bcus there's no way she'd give me money, and secondly a man telling his family that he gave his wife money and a woman doing the same thing are two different things entirely, the weight of the words are not the same.

Note : last year i bought fridge for her mom 350k and no single soul in my family knew, until this very hour, i sent her mom 70k too, in which the highest amount i have ever sent my own mom is 50k, I have bought her 5 phones in a space of two years.


Also, my mom have been dreaming of using an android phone ever since, and i eventually bought her a phone, but before even surprising her, my wife said she liked the phone and she took it and started using it, i told her to give me her older phone so I can give my mom and until date she refused, she's still using both phones until this very moment and my mom is using a touch light phone that she bought with her own money from her little savings. It's been almost a year now and i have only brought up the issue twice about her hijacking phone the phone that I bought for my mom, all to herself knowing fully well that It'd make my mom happy because she have been dreaming of using an android phone, the two times i brought up the issue it doesn't always end up well, it's always endless quarrel.



I just want to know if her behaviour is normal, or I'm i the one not seeing anything bad in what i did? Because this girl have manipulated me to the point that I have started seeing every ordinary little thing as a big deal, all thanks to her. How can a normal human being get angry because a man told his mom that he gave his wife money to start up a business. I really want to know if I'm the one seeing all of these in a wrong way or if she's right.

anonimi:
Maybe he is getting a bit of the missing oil windfall from the master strategist of A-looter Propaganda Conmen, APC

kpankpangolo:
The words of the ignorant.

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQuMNW2P2gI?si=OQWHq8-ek4iCau2F

Marvieduke:
Is this fashion or madness?

saintbillion:
The one with God is the richest

Penguin2:
She staked her career to campaign for Tinubu in 2023 and it almost cost her her career.

Only the foolish ones will do the same in 2027.

How many reasonable humans do you see associating themselves with the shepopotamus that calls herself Eniola Badmus?

Tinubu is a cancer to himself and those that associate with him.

MrEar:
A LION does not concern himself with the opinions of a sheep. If he does that, then he is not A LION.

Despite his horrible vocals, Davido has conquered the music industry in a way no other artist can, whether from a rich home or not.

He has won awards, sold out concert tickets, collaborated with famous artists that talented musicians can only dream of.

He is known globally and internationally. Davido himself, from head to toe, is a brand.

Time magazine included him as one of the most influential persons. At this point, he does not need to prove himself or his success to anyone.

Despite all of his achievements, numerous times, he gets triggered, loses his cool, displays an inferiority complex and feels the need to explain or publicize his success, all because of the "opinions of poor men pikin"

Like most celebrities, dead or alive, Davido is another crystal clear proof that indeed money (including fame) can NEVER buy true happiness.

For you to be happy, you need peace of mind, and whether you believe it or not, ONLY GOD can give you that.


You are speaking from higher realm. You are spiritually grounded. God bless you for this great insight 🙏

MrEar:
A LION does not concern himself with the opinions of a sheep. If he does that, then he is not A LION.

Despite his horrible vocals, Davido has conquered the music industry in a way no other artist can, whether from a rich home or not.

He has won awards, sold out concert tickets, collaborated with famous artists that talented musicians can only dream of.

He is known globally and internationally. Davido himself, from head to toe, is a brand.

Time magazine included him as one of the most influential persons. At this point, he does not need to prove himself or his success to anyone.

Despite all of his achievements, numerous times, he gets triggered, loses his cool, displays an inferiority complex and feels the need to explain or publicize his success, all because of the "opinions of poor men pikin"

Like most celebrities, dead or alive, Davido is another crystal clear proof that indeed money (including fame) can NEVER buy true happiness.

For you to be happy, you need peace of mind, and whether you believe it or not, ONLY GOD can give you that.


You are speaking from higher realm. You are spiritually grounded. God bless you for this great insight 🙏

Lovelink1991:
A very young Nigeria female pilot has come out to say what she said she will never forget in her life.

According to her she has never encountered such thing before only on that particular flight.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QC8VhM_omEs?si=6YpKSKaYGs_zzZpl

Elusive001:
Really?
So why is Chagoury group still handling major contracts in your country?

Elusive001:
Really?
So why is Chagoury group still handling major contracts in your country?

Raxxye:
Why is this directive coming now, several months after the individual and companies were found to be complicit in the crimes?
I guess they gave them sufficient time to make all withdrawals and possibly sell off their assets.
Someone might even have pre-informed the criminals prior to the release of the directive.
Terrorist Government!

Amotolongbo:
Please what is the developmental value and economic contribution of this to our GDP?