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@angola_g

I understand how things are too and how women can become. Making you feel like you've done them so much evil. Forgetting they were plotting and scheming all along.

@brymore
You're right and believe me, I empathise with you on this, if you have sorted your self out of it. I'm in it and the girl is pregnant after I had rang in her ear that I had a girlfriend I was serious with. She kept forcing herself on me.
Now I'm mentally preparing myself to marry two women. I'm in shit right? I know!

Or maybe its her turn to play hard to get?

@tundewoods

The truth is our women want to hear something. You can't just keep quiet and not say anything. You're caught and there's no escaping that! But you cannot but say something. She still needs to know that she is still that special someone to you. Special enough to cook up a lie. She knows men will always be men!

Honestly, I didn't really agree to the quote - men will always be men. Because I have been faithful for over 8 years. But I just tried it! First time. Just to mark that register and BOOM!!, the escapade has gotten me a pot bellied woman (the fling got pregnant!). And I have not been able to get out of it ever since.

@configur

Suspect you are judging me. And I deserve to be. Believe me, about 8 months ago, I would have done the same as you. But now, I'm not that quick to judge anyone for 'assumed' mistakes and bad behaviour. There are always two sides to a story. And no one is truly innocent (a quote from 'prison break' that I love)

@mamaput

I dont even have to go as far as Cleopatra and Macbeth. I am a living example of what a woman can do to a man. You can copy and paste the link below to know what I am talking about.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-76905.0.html

On my topic, I made it very brief so that I dont bore you with my sorry case but there is more to my story. All her tricks just to achieve her goal to make me marry her. But of course, who else can I blame but me!

My advise - a man needs to be careful of women as they really can be dangerous.

@toyinrayo
Thank you for advise. I don't want to send those kind of signals so I'll need to look at that decision very carefully. Guess I'll continue to be responsible and allow my actions to speak for itself. Maybe as things progress and unfold, we'll be able to sit in the same room with each other!

@azpunpin
Thanks men! I know say I don enter this one well well! E be like fish bone in my throat! Seems to be that I'm on a suicide mission

@saucekid

I understand the false smiles! I want to be guaranteed that they can't be happy with the way things have turned. This is very understandable. No one is, really! I've thought about leaving my GF but I can't bring myself to do it. I won't allow her to suffer for my mistakes and it'll be the last thing that I'll do to her.

Care for Baby mother too and I wont allow her to do this all alone. Can't abandon her. I've thought of a million and one reasons like she planned this, trying to trap me and all. But I just can't act like a typical guy faced with this situation.

The question remains - based on my resolve to take care of both women, how do I face her dad with these intentions? I'll marry my GF but hope to compromise and accommodate Baby mother if she doesn't get married in future! Nasty move but coming from guilt!!!!!!

@toyinrayo

No. Its not rhetorical. Really need an answer!! Trying to figure out what to expect if I do or not at all!!!

@kanmosyl

Actually the pregnancy is about 6 months now and like I said, all parties are in the know. Including my GF. She is willing to forgive me and I am grateful for this. Both women are  hurt and I plead with them daily on this. I feel very guilty but if only she had aborted it, we wont be going through this now!!

Do I know if this is my child? Only time will tell! But as it is, I will do all my best to make sure that he is on the path heading toward CBN governorship. Even though I'm super broke at the moment!

Hello my people! I need your help with this one.

Its a bit complicated. There's a girl thats pregnant for me! It was an away match as I have my girlfriend that I hold dear. The pregnancy will not be aborted as she has vehemently refused. I'm not leaving my sweetheart and that has been established to all parties involved. So I'm going to be the father without entering into marriage. At least in the first instance.

Baby-mother has moved from being demanding that I marry her at all cost, to a more compromising stand that she will accept being wife 2 (This was a proposal I put forward because the baby came from a relationship that included the awareness that there was someone important in the picture!)

Dont misunderstand me. I didn't do this purposely. We got into the relationship and liked each other. We made several failed attempts to stop this relationship because it was hurting each of us. But with the introduction of the baby, I think she is deliberately trying to keep the baby to make me stay with her.

Anyway, I have had to meet with her parents at the early times of the knowledge of this baby. And they were not particularly harsh because maybe they thought I would change my mind. Infact, they have been nice. But I wont be disillusioned. I want to make another visit to see her dad. To show respect and to let him know that I'll do my best for his daughter and grandchild. Now that its obvious I'm not marrying her now, do you think this is advisable?

For me, a few thrusts get me to ecstasy! Most times disappointingly! I am what can be considered a one-minute man but my high turnover compensates for this. I can go up to 8 rounds in a session. Enabling my partner climax too, severally.

My advice. Know what works for you. Big d*ck, not-too-tiny d*ick, it really doesn't matter. Know how to touch your partner at those points. Use your tongue!

My technique and prowess has even got me into major trouble. Hence, my next post!