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Chronic ulcer could also cause that.

Earthscience:
No offense, could it be he refused to give you attention on the ground that you pay him peanut with respect to Biz transaction with him always?

Work men always give attention to their highest bidders even if they are extremely busy with another gig or personal issue.
Think of this also

I'm one of his top customers. He valued me to the extent of bringing the clothes down to my place sometimes.

motymop:
Your little boy ran away from a cloth like kids too, you say tail is fetish

The tailor stop picking your call, you say he is fetish

till now, you havent shown any proof of the tailor been fertish.

what is the difference between a girl accusing a man falsely of rape and you.

to be sincere no difference

So if you were the tailor, you'd switch off your phone immediately and avoid calls afterwards too just to prove your innocence right?

Afolue:
but from you post you didn’t discover anything actually strange aside to the fact that your Baby was withdrawing self. Has there been anything similar of this nature you both have once experienced that you had to believe his instinct this time around?. Although, some kids could be spiritually gifted but what will make a Taylor want to harm his own customer’s kid for no reason at all. I think you should have just gone back to the Taylor unannounced with the clothes then yourself and your child to see for yourself what actually seem suspicious. Because this is the first time most people are hearing this and again everyone sews clothes, it now like putting fears on people for no clear reason as your phone conversations with him isn’t enough to bring this up

Those were the only things the boy ever rejected. He wore clothes sewn by the tailor before that time. I forgot to add in my post that the tailor didn't deliver those particular ones to me in his shop. He went to bring them somewhere but I wasn't bothered.

I'm very sure of what I'm saying. I wouldn't believe such a story too if I didn't experience it myself.

Kobicove:
I don't particularly believe in the existence of juju but I find it quite strange that such a young child would reject new clothes that were presented to him on three different occassions

More than three occasions because I found it difficult to discard the clothes as they were five in number and well designed.

hotelMan:
Explain what exactly to you? Like others mentioned,your accusation is baseless! Have you considered your son is a wizard cos it's obvious say you don already chop winch. The person you buy the clothe from nko? Why isn't that one a suspect? You wey carry the clothe nko? Why is it the tailor? You are the fetish one from the jargons you wrote. Free your mind and stop being paranoid

The tailor is nice, if na me I will have you arrested so you can explain how you tested and confirmed he was fetish. That's how you go about spoiling people's business

I'd rather focus on those with brains than bandy words with a dimwit.

2special:
The accusation is enough for the Tailor to walk away from you.... probably you don't know the weight of such accusation.

What's your definition of 'accusation' and how does it relate to what I posted up there?

Antwan99:
Good question. I must commend you in the manner you ask me except the striked phrase.

The tailor's responsibility is to sew. If it doesn't fit. He'd adjust. But if a child at that age who doesn't have a choice neither doesn't know if it fits refuse to wear his craft, he owes no one explanation.

Do you know how many times an event is repeated to arrive at a particular outcome before it's labelled 100% confirmed? Why not buy similar materials, give to another tailor to saw same design since you are already cynical with that one. Then present to the child and observe. If he doesn't react as you stated. Take them back and exchange with the first onces and observe again.

People have been lynched for false allegations of witchcrafts practices.

I'm sure you read my post carefully sir/ma'am. My child has never rejected anything bought for him. Those were the only thing he ever rejected.

I later sewed the remaining yards from some of the materials for him from another tailor, he embraced it. I won't talk much. Trust everyone with your property, believe everything you see. Disregard the existence of fetishism. It's cool.

It's a faceless forum. You may even come across same person and trust him with your things, fine. It's a free world.

Factcheck0001:
it's a wise business decision

Not every customer should b treated like king, some are better ignored so they won't ruin your business

Go n read about business ethics

Sorry, it's not a wise decision. I also do business and get different complaints and annoying things from customers. I maintain every dialogue objectively without emotions.

When such and allegation is made as you may want to term it, you simply defend yourself. Either the customer wants to believe you or not is then left to him/her.

May you not fall into evil hands.

Zyzman:
If it was someone else that called you over the phone and accuse you of juju would you stay on the call or just drop off.
Lol like someone said before this accusation is baseless

Of course I'd take the calls and defend myself. It's now his choice to believe me or not.

When you go to the court of law to defend yourself what do you do there? You suddenly go mute? Thank you wise one for your contribution!

Antwan99:
If whites reason like this, believe me there wouldn't have been a phone like this for OP to what the baseless allegation he just laid out up there.

African and mysticism.

White man, what would you have done differently?

Factcheck0001:
if I were to b d tailor, that's d same thing I will do

Because if I decide to call u n prolong d matter u will further attribute it to many things not working in your life n u might tell others n spoil his business

That tailor is wise, he removed d smoky wood from fire so he can enjoy his cooking

If he had called u since u already have a made up mind, u will probably blow it out of proportion

But now that he didn't answer u, u will think twice before telling another person that knows d man

Sorry, this explanation of yours doesn't add up. I made up my mind how?

Many things not working in my life? Lol.

You think going mute on such a matter is a wise move? Isn't that suspicious enough?

kellystone87:
oga dia was no evidence...so dis writeup is baseless

Of course there's no evidence in such matters and that's why it's on nairaland. if not, it would have ended in the court of law.

There is no evidence doesn't mean such things don't happen.

Factcheck0001:
so that's what makes him fetish?

See this one self

U didn't even tell us how u approached him, probably he got pissed off by your manner of approach n decided to let u dey your lane

The way I approached him is what I stated in the post. Anything harsh about that?

This isn't a matter of getting angry or not. He got shocked that he didn't know the response to give me. He had to switch off the phone immediately.

If he was innocent, trust human beings, he'd be bold enough to defend himself. This guy should be older than I am.

CrownOfClay724:
Call back to explain what exactly?

The figment of your own imagination?

You think everyone has that time??

The sensible one, what would you do differently if it was you?

2special:
explain what.... The tailor valued his Peace and Time

Someone who reached out to me regularly before the incidence all of a sudden valued his peace of mind and time.

He also switched off his phone immediately just because he valued his peace of mind and time..

Well done ehn.

Exceed15:
May be that's what u do . U suspect people of what you do.. mumu

It's obvious you don't have any meaningful contribution. The sensible one; I hail you.

Exceed15:
This allegation is baseless though.

He didn't call back for over a year to explain his own part to me. How is it baseless?

Are you one of them?

I had a funny experience with my former tailor last year. I got some Ankara materials to be sewn for my son; about five materials and one for myself. After my tailor was done, he called that I should come for the clothes.

To my surprise, the boy refused to wear the clothes. I felt he was not in a good mood the first day so after some days, we brought out the clothes for him to wear any as they were nice. The boy started screaming on sighting the clothes. It was unlike him. A boy of three. He would embrace any new clothes bought for him and anticipate joyfully the day he's going to wear them. The case was different this time around.

We kept the clothes for weeks and after bringing them out again, he'd start running away. It clearly dawned on me that something was definitely wrong. Where could the problem come from? I started asking. Could it be from the material or the tailor himself?

I gave the tailor a call and explained to him that my son joyfully received the previous clothes he sewed for him but he wouldn't accept the last one. He ended the call immediately. I dialled again and the number was switched off. If the phone had gone off inadvertently at least he'd have called back after charging; he didn't. I called back next day he didn't pick. I called with another number and he picked, unknown to him it was I who called. I didn't bother to speak further. It was clear he wasn't innocent.

I didn't believe in stuff like that until I experienced it. I wore one the clothes he sewed to test if it was nice before getting home. I never wore it to any occasion though; just for testing. After the discovery and experience, I burnt all the clothes. This guy is good when it comes to sewing. I wonder why he'd engage in fetish things.

Beware of all these tailors out there. A good number of them are diabolical.

I had a funny experience with my former tailor last year. I got some Ankara materials to be sewn for my son; about five materials and one for myself. After my tailor was done, he called that I should come for the clothes.

To my surprise, the boy refused to wear the clothes. I felt he was not in a good mood the first day so after some days, we brought out the clothes for him to wear any as they were nice. The boy started screaming on sighting the clothes. It was unlike him. A boy of three. He would embrace any new clothes bought for him and anticipate joyfully the day he's going to wear them. The case was different this time around.

We kept the clothes for weeks and after bringing them out again, he'd start running away. It clearly dawned on me that something was definitely wrong. Where could the problem come from? I started asking. Could it be from the material or the tailor himself?

I gave the tailor a call and explained to him that my son joyfully received the previous clothes he sewed for him but he wouldn't accept the last one. He ended the call immediately. I dialled again and the number was switched off. If the phone had gone off inadvertently at least he'd have called back after charging; he didn't. I called back next day he didn't pick. I called with another number and he picked, unknown to him it was I who called. I didn't bother to speak further. It was clear he wasn't innocent.

I didn't believe in stuff like that until I experienced it. I wore one the clothes he sewed to test if it was nice before getting home. I never wore it to any occasion though; just for testing. After the discovery and experience, I burnt all the clothes. This guy is good when it comes to sewing. I wonder why he'd engage in fetish things.

Beware of all these tailors out there. A good number of them are diabolical.

Good day my lovely Muslim brothers and sisters. I'd like to know the composers of the songs I'm going to type below.

I used to work with a Muslim brother sometime around 2007 - Alfa Jamiu, of blessed memory who used to play some of these songs. I've searched everywhere but I can't seem to find any. I hope someone here will know any of the composers.

One:
Yarobana Allah gbadura mi, fimi lokan bale, f'adun soro mi Olohun...
We used to play this song around 2007/08

Two:
Wakati adura mi, mo lo ti de, wakati adura mi, mo lo ti de eeh, iyanu aye mi ma lo n sele (wakati adura mi, mo lo ti de eeh).
This particular one may not be more than 10 years.

Three:
Die die ni t'eda n baje, Olohun maje t'emi o baje, were were leda n goke, Olohun Oba wa gbemi ga.
This particular one too should be from a well know Muslim artiste but I just can't find it.

Though I'm a Christian, I listen to Muslim songs. I so much value the Yoruba culture and tradition so much for something like religious differences to separate me from my own.

Please assist if you know these brothers/sisters.

Remain blessed.

Antwan99:
That guy must have toasted her and she declined him.

'Toasted' her? Is she bread? Meanwhile no guy was involved. It's a woman woman thing. I don't think you read properly.

ObalendeCMS:
Interesting!

That's another way to go around it.

My plan Is to visit different orphanage from time to time & make donations because I really like children.

I'm only scared if I will be able to absorb the shock if anything happens to child under my care & with whom I've bonded with overtime.

There's a reward for those who procreate on earth in the other world. Have you ever thought of why sex is pleasurable act? It's for the continuity of life. Theres a mystery about life that we all do not know.

Irrespective of the circumstances surrounding the birth of a child, there's a reward for those responsible even if they are not responsible parents. It's hard to believe though.

Some unknown beings revealed this to me.

Ibechris2:
Business decision is subject to ur locational I really do not know much about ur location.

Irrespective of ur location,if u are a civil servant that usually have time pls,start phone accessories business. U see that business,it is profitable and no-one would ever tell u this.

U can also employ a lady to assist u in running it in the day,while u take take over every evening and weekends.

Think about this and if know how to repair phones...my brother u are made.

Wow. Just what I have in mind to do. I'll be starting next year. I'm adding charging of phones to it and POS. I really know much about phone accessories and I even buy for people whenever I go to Alaba International.

God bless you sir.

Ibechris2:
Practically,I have done all of the above and thank God I did it early.

I work where I earn 250k gross but honestly,my side income is equivalent of my five years salary and I am a level 12 officer soon to resign from this job.

All what u have said is nothing but the truth.

For young men and women in their 20's, start early and refrain from gambling and wastages of keeping girl friends here and there. They are bunch of distraction and same applies to ladies who wants to be focus,leave men alone and focuss on your ambitions.

Which business can one start with 700k sir?

I'm a level 9 officer.

If you stay close to the border you'll know how Nigerian security officers harrass foreigners on a daily basis.

seanery:
Dem DEY MAD.

I DEY OWE ROUGHLY N200K, AND i will never pay.

Its almost a year now.

My bank and name still intact.

Una faada

Don't do that. Pay them when you have.

They're hustling guys like us who get employed by these Chinese.

SilentEmma:
Ok...

I had intentions of paying them back... Even till now I am still making efforts to pay them (so what you are sure about is totally wrong)

The only time I will zero my mind In paying them back, is when they start defaming me, which untill now they haven't...

Now, as to why I will borrow from five different institutions

(i blame myself for that, I was definitely foolish and stupid to be taking from one loan app and be paying another, not knowing I was digging a pit for myself that I can't come out of easily)...

It got to a point I became overwhelmed, and I said to myself I can't continue taking from A to pay B... I really messed up... But don't u think it's better I stay alive than bow to their pressure and do something stupid just to pay the loan...

See bro, that you are okay doesn't mean some others are... It's well

Bro, don't kill yourself. You're not alone. Pay the initial amount with the interest when you have it and ignore the overdue charges. Screenshot your payments and keep.

I was also in that cycle of collecting from one to repay one until a friend rescued me. Ignore those quoting you and saying thrash. They work for these loan sharks.

Please pay Fairmoney, Branch and Carbon first. They're licenced by CBN. Those are the ones that can report you to credit bureau but they won't.

I repeat, don't kill yourself. If you choose not to pay again nothing will happen but please pay them.

NB: they didn't call your contacts because they've been prevented from having access to your contacts by Google, except for the emergency contacts you provide them.

Remain blessed.

SilentEmma:
1. I borrowed the first money from new credit and across cash in 2023... When I was sick (80,000 & 50,000) respectively

2. Everything from the beginning was 130k to pay 225k...
Trouble started when I couldn't meet up and now took from branch to pay new credit and from okash to pay xcross cash... Beginning of my downfall (now my eyes don clear say I cannot continue taking from A to pay B

3. I used the money for medical bills... Cause no one was able to help me then...

4. What's stopping me from paying back now is that, the total debt has risen in excess of 500k... Though I can't pay all at once and there's no way I can meet up with the deadlines... I am making effort by doing monthly contributions with my small salary pending when I will get the bulk money to pay back...

Praying and hoping they dont tarnish my image before then... But if they do, it's completely finished between me and them ...

You better don't stress yourself. Pay them the amount with the interest and ignore the overdue charges.

They'll be the ones to propose that to you when they discover you're not paying on time. Make sure you pay Branch first the full amount as they're the only legit one among those you listed.

Paramount01:
I also fall a victim,somebody called me that they can give me laon of 100k to pay 110k in 3 months,I said I don't want but on the other hand I think is a good laon,not until I told him I need ,she said she will chat me on whatapp to send me the link,she did,I asked ,if is less than 100k.i don't want,she said is 100k to pay 110k within 3 months.

She sent 2 app to me,the first I downloaded it and filled the requirements after filling ,I saw a message I have borrowed 5800 to pay 10k in 7days,I chatted her up she said she will cancell it now,I said better do,she said I should used the other app that I showk be carrying her along as I progress in the registration,I was informing her ,until I finished and I was giving 13000 to pay 26000 all with 7days,I was schock ,I called her and she block me ,I have to look for extra 18k to pay .till now ,I sent cursed message to her everyday .so don't blame people when they defult

God sent you free money but you didn't realize it; probably because you think they have access to your contacts. No they don't. Google prevented them from doing that since 2023.

One credited me 6500 to pay 9300 in 7 days time without me asking for loan. He's still begging me to pay the 6500 and leave the interest. I'll pay him the 6500 next year if God touches my heart.

People should take note that the 100k is feeding fee and not tuition fee.

Government schools are free.

What the government is telling the parents indirectly is that the quality/quantity of the food their children eat is nothing to write home about; their children need to be fed well.

Something is not right. The Bishop and others were not smiling.

Something tells me it's the man's decision to retire for reasons best known to him.