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Nairaland GeneralRe: Inspirational Quotes To Motivate You by GeeStaff(op): 4:29am On Aug 20, 2018
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Nairaland GeneralRe: Inspirational Quotes To Motivate You by GeeStaff(op): 4:21am On Aug 20, 2018
Albert Einstein

Nairaland GeneralRe: Inspirational Quotes To Motivate You by GeeStaff(op): 4:20am On Aug 20, 2018
Feel free to also checkout these awesome 51 inspiring Albert Einstein quotes.


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Nairaland GeneralRe: Inspirational Quotes To Motivate You by GeeStaff(op): 4:13am On Aug 20, 2018
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Nairaland GeneralInspirational Quotes To Motivate You by GeeStaff(op): 4:10am On Aug 20, 2018
It can sometimes be a bit difficult to stay motivated due to pressing circumstances we encounter in our daily lives.

As such, the mind is in constant need of inspiration, encouragement and motivation to keep us moving forward.

Share your inspirational quotes here to help others stay motivated.


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Christianity EtcRe: Will Heaven Be Boring? by GeeStaff(op): 11:50am On May 20, 2018
Airtimex:
No logical perspective in heaven, simply be in spirit and you will feel the enjoyment. smiley


Happy sunday cheesy
What if when you die, God asks you... "so, how was heaven?"
Christianity EtcWill Heaven Be Boring? by GeeStaff(op): 11:35am On May 20, 2018
From what I've gathered, it seems we're just gonna be singing and clapping.

Food won't be available... spirits don't eat.
No cars or luxurious homes. Spirits don't sleep neither do they need transportation.

From a logical perspective, what makes heaven so exciting?
FamilyHow To Find Comfort In The Midst Of Struggle by GeeStaff(op): 9:29pm On Jan 05, 2018
Life can be tough sometimes no doubt, and no one can better understand what you're going through except you. But you must realise that failure and hardship are only pathways to attainment.
Life will test you to either bring out the best or worse in you. Either way, it's up to you. No matter how solid your reasons are to give up on hope, you owe it to yourself to keep going and to see the journey through to the end. You might not see the end of the tunnel, but that as well is part of the program.

We'd love the idea of being able to figure out everything and precisely know where we're heading and how the next step would turn out. But this is the reality, life doesn't give clues or traces most of the time. If it did, you'll never learn the first key to self-confidence- which is trusting yourself. You'd never know what it means to dream and fight for what you believe. You'd never know what it means to have faith even when everyone bails out.

Tough times and challenging situations are what shapes us and form us. They structure a strong sense of our character and ultimately the drive and passion to keep going. You might have tried all there is and failed, but your breakthrough could be just one step away. Just one more try maybe all it takes.

Most people do not know how close they were to actualising their goals just right before they quit. This is such because life sometimes doesn't show signs of progress. All you've got in most cases is to hope and believe.

It can be very frustrating when it appears you aren't making any significant progress after dedicating your best effort and following what's recommended in the book and yet, no positive change or significant advancement. You begin to question yourself and quitting might seem to be the most plausible thing to do.

Rather than being downtrodden or carrying the quitting bag over a mistake you made or a plan that didn't play out as you would have wanted, your failures could be goldmines in disguise if you're able to dig through and view things from a positive perspective. All it takes is a mind change.

Below are some tips that can help you find comfort in the midst of struggle.

Positive meditation:
During difficult times conflicting thoughts and negative pictures may try to colonize your mind. It's your responsibility to prevent that. You must realise that you have the ability to control what you think about.
What you ponder on the most ultimately becomes your reality. It's a natural law that you can either employ to serve you or neglect to hurt you.
Maintaining a positive mindset in the midst of a negative situation is one of the greatest demonstration of true character and strength. It won't be easy to harness, but it isn't impossible. All you need to do is try

Choose the right company:
A slim difference between where you currently are and where you want to be in the next five years can be greatly influenced by the average number of people you spend your time with. Friends have the ability to influence, convince and even change you. Most people allow just any kind of individual into their life without scrutinizing what impact these individuals would pose on them in the long run.
When going through tough situations, surround yourself with folks who can serve as a source of inspiration and encouragement, a ladder and companion.

Take a trip:
While running away from your problems isn't the most effective way of confronting a situation, a little change in location could be all you need to get your mind back on track and discover new ways to confront whatsoever you're struggling with.
Take a trip to clear your mind, think and reflect. Various travel tips are updated regularly on agapeless and you can find soothing effect when you venture on an exciting journey with yourself.

Read and listen to the right materials.
What you hear have the power to influence your mood and feelings. During troubling times, you might be tempted to grovel in depression and self-pity. These do more harm than good.
Avoid the negative reports on the news and scout for information that are uplifting and comforting. Browse inspirational articles and videos to fuel your motivation. While motivation doesn't last, the same can also be said for bathing. That’s why it is recommended you do it regularly.



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Travel5 Reasons Why You Should Take A Vacation by GeeStaff(op): 9:12pm On Jan 05, 2018
There are a lot of people who aren't aware of the soothing and energising effect of taking a break to relax and spend time with themselves or their loved ones. While most people think it's a waste of time and resources, they are often ignorant of the resounding and lasting benefits it can have on them.

Anyone can afford a good vacation. However, the rich and few middle-class folks are predominantly the ones who take advantage of this natural healing and self-soothing process. They do this not because they have extra funds to blow off (wealthy people are very astute with their spending), but they are aware of the impact such trips have on their productivity and success.

A good vacation can serve as an opportunity to think, reflect, plan and heal. It doesn't have to be expensive. With the right discipline, you can start saving some percentage of your income to afford a cool place at the end of the year. The benefits are worth the cost.

Below are some highlighted reasons on why you should take a vacation sometime.

1. Reduced stress and Improved mental condition.
The world moves at a dynamic fast pace and we often time get lost in the activities and workload of life. In a harsh economic situation, the chances of multitasking and at the same time maintaining a sane mind can come out very slim- thus, the need for a vacation and relaxation time.

When you take time to relax and rest, you give your body the needed opportunity to attain internal balance essential to function optimally. This reduces your stress levels, rejuvenate your mind and increases your overall energy.

2. Improved productivity:
Your body functions best when it is in balance with itself and its environment. Most of the best innovative ideas people get came to them at a state of relaxation and total easiness.
The body was not made to operate in stress, worry or tiredness. When you take time to care for yourself and create an atmosphere of peace and comfort, your body responds by providing the needed energy and ideas to ace at your job and work.

3. Strengthens relationships:
The power of a good vacation knows no bounds when it comes to working wonders in a relationship.
You and your significant other can have a renewed freshness in your love life when you take a getaway time to strengthen your commitment to each other.
There are various places (that aren't too expensive) you can journey to and you can get some brilliant ideas on travel tips on Agapeless .
The time and money you spend on yourself and the ones you love are never wasted! Life is meant to be enjoyed and lived happily.

4.Reduced risk of heart disease and an overall boost of health condition:
High level of stress and unhealthy diet no doubt play a major role in triggering heart failure in most people. Taking a vacation for some period of time reduces high cortisol levels which in turn stabilises your blood pressure and reduces your chances of a heart attack.
While on a vacation, you can also choose to engage in some workout sessions which are quite essential for your health.

5. Emotional healing.
A quiet time alone could be all you need to rejuvenate your energy. Various life's situations hit us with big blows every now and then. This can often result to your motivation falling at an all-time low as a result of pain, depression or disappointments.

Take some time out to travel, interact with nature and partake in some adventure can be a good starting ground for your healing process. This helps you get away from the noise and the incessant activities that fight for your attention. A vacation time alone can provide you with the opportunity to meditate, gain back mindfulness and fuel your confidence to confront life's situations.



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Literature11 Facts You Didn't Know About William Shakespeare by GeeStaff(op): 1:41am On Dec 22, 2017
William Shakespeare is considered as one of the greatest playwrights in the history of the world. The English poet was born on April 23, 1564. He is often called the "Bard of Avon" portraying him to represent the identity, beliefs and principles of the British culture.

He is the best-selling fiction author of all time (selling over 4 billion copies of written works). His style, lessons and quotes span over 400 years and till reaps relevance in our modern culture - especially in the field of literature.

His plays have been translated into every major language and are performed more often than those of any other playwright.

While Shakespeare is known for his popular works such as The Tempest, Hamlet and Macbeth - most of these book being taught at schools and colleges, a little peep closer into the life of this gifted writer reveals some truths that are often not spoken about.

The purpose of this post is to unravel some facts about Shakespeare you (probably) didn't know.

1 . Shakespeare got married at a very early age. Can you guess…? 25 maybe? You're not even close. Shakespeare joined oath together with Anne Hathaway when he was just 18. The marriage took place in Stratford, Warwickshire.

2 . Shakespeare had twins.
His marriage union with Anne Hathaway saw the birth of three children: Susan and a set of twins, Hamlet and Judith.

3 . Some of Shakespeare's best works were produced between 1589 and 1613. He predominantly produced mainly comedies and histories which are often considered to be some of the best work ever produced in these genre.

4 . The actual date of birth of Shakespeare is unknown. Although it is predominantly observed to be on 23 April, which can however be traced back to an 18th-century scholar's mistake. The widely used date - 23rd April was actually the day he died.

5 . Shakespeare's wife - Anne Hathaway, was 8 years older than him. He got married to her at age 18 while she was 26!

6 . Shakespeare has been translated into 80 languages.

7 . Shakespeare used derogatory and insulting terms in some of his plays. Contrary to popular belief that his work were mainly censored comedies and romantics, his characters knew how to call you a "slowpoke" without stooping to simplism. A collection of some of his insulting statements are on litcharts

8 . Far from being a broke artist, Shakespeare's plays made him very wealthy. In 1597, he bought the second largest house in Stratford

9 . There's a possibility that we're all spelling his name wrong. Recorded spellings of his name range from Shakspere to Shaxberd to Shappere. No documented record of him actually spelling his name as "Shakespeare.

10 . There were no portraits of Shakespeare painted in his lifetime. Therefore all existing paintings you see are all guesswork.

11 . Some scholars think Shakespeare wasn't the original writer of most of his plays. They couldn't fathom How a provincial commoner become one of the most eloquent and prolific writers in history. Even in his early career, William was writing tales that had in-depth knowledge of history and international affairs. Record doesn't indicate he went to a university.




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Webmasters5 Major Reasons Why Most Online Business Fail by GeeStaff(op): 8:02pm On Dec 19, 2017
It's no news the internet has made many millionaires. This fact has led to an increase in the number of bloggers springing up daily. People taking a shot at creating online businesses in an attempt to expand their income through the virtual community. But it's not as easy as the media portrays it to be.

While many go ahead and succeed in their online business, a larger majority throw in the towel even before getting halfway into the journey.

Here are the core reasons why most online businesses do not succeed:

1 . No set-out plan:
The basic success requirement for an online business is to have a definitive plan that pilots the direction of your business. Many people jump into any trending online business and invest money without drafting a precise plan on how the management of the business should operate. The online business is just like any other business, it operates basically the same way as a physical business and must be treated with the same approach.
Before beginning an online business, you must devise a business plan and carefully calculate the risks involved to better plan your investments and weigh your returns.

2 . Insufficient knowledge:
The success of an online business is largely hinged on your knowledge about your niche and how regularly updated you are concerning recent information. The online world is very dynamic and things are subject to quick snaps and frequent changes. As such, new concepts are birthed every day which demands the incorporation of new strategies to keep a business on sail.
An online business would definitely hit the rocks if the owner(s) fail to maintain constant learning. The tendency for a strategy which worked 2 years ago to yield the same result today might most likely be very slim.
You must take out time daily to source for new information and refresh your knowledge.

3 . Lack of clearly defined goals:
Goals are a prerequisite for success in any facet of life. Otherwise, how would you track your progress if you have not set a target to hit? This is quite the case of many aspiring online earners, they have no cut out goals or visions on where they want their business to be over a stipulated period of time.
To succeed in the online world, you must be deliberate on what you want and precise in your actions. Create actionable goals and closely monitor your progress.

4 . No proper investment:
Many well-meaning folks set up a website, come up with a good design, put up nice articles and then hope somehow a visitor would land on their page. Well, Good luck with that!
An online business doesn't flourish on hopes or wishes, it develops solely by precise planning and deliberate actions. No matter how good your contents are, you won't be getting any sales or clicks unless you go out and source for them. The best way to get this done is by making sufficient financial investment in digital marketing, classified Ads and SEO.
Many online entrepreneurs are slack on this concept and that’s why their online campaign never seem to fly. A proper investment would get you results in months which would otherwise take years to attain.

5 . Expecting magic success:
The media loves portraying sugar coated success stories of individuals who have attained highly in their respective field. We hear stories of Linda Ikeji and Osewa who have achieved significant success in the online world and begin to think the process was a smooth ride.
Many venture into the digital workforce with that deluded mindset and then quickly get slapped by the reality that success doesn't come cheap.
This is basically the primary reason why many who have ventured into the online business end up quitting. An online business which is just starting would definitely need time to grow before it begins to yield a substantial profit. There is, therefore, a need to exercise a great deal of patience and persistence.



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RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why Many Relationships Fail And How To Avoid It by GeeStaff(op): 12:57pm On Aug 24, 2017
well said..
But sometimes compatibility requires room for complacency.
Beadex1:
make sense.....But relationship shouldn't also allow you accept what you don't like, that's why i am an advocate of compatibility before anything serious happens.
Romance5 Reasons Why Many Relationships Fail And How To Avoid It by GeeStaff(op): 12:16pm On Aug 24, 2017
Many go into a relationship for the many wrong reasons and find themselves suffering from heart aches and break ups. Without the proper guidance and knowledge in the skill of dealing with the opposite sex, your relationship would be long gone even before it gets started. On the part of each partner, there is demand for continuous learning and growth. You can’t rely on your experience when it comes to building a solid relationship because each relationship is a new experience.

Below are the main reasons why relationships fold up and how you can avoid it from happening to yours:



1. Expecting too much.

A relationship isn’t a-solve-all-arrangement and it’s most certainly detrimental to think a fellow human being can meet your needs and give you fulfilment. Many expect their partners to be all they’ve read in romantic stories and beauty fantasies neglecting that imperfection is a trait prevalent amongst a vast array of humans populating the earth.

Fulfilment and satisfaction is what you owe yourself and no one can meet that need for you.

You must realise that the person you’re going into a relationship with (or you’re probably currently dating) isn’t perfect. No one can perfectly match your desires and fantasies, and learning to accept this fact will save you from lots of problem and stress.



2. Expecting things to remain constant

Anything that doesn’t change definitely doesn’t grow and your relationship isn’t exempted from this concept. Don’t expect your partner whom you met 12 months ago to be the same person today. People modify their character and personalities to better enhance their survival tendencies.

Be cautious of a relationship that does not encourage or promote change. Expecting your partner to remain whom they were when the relationship first got started is a journey to break-up land!

So what do you do to manage this ?

Adaptation is your sure bet!. Embrace it and cherish it. Be willing and flexible enough to open ground for change and necessary alterations. Avoid being too rigrig and learn to adopt necessary change along with your relationship.



3. Trying to change your partner.

Nothing kills a relationship more faster than this!

A squirrel and a cat have a better chance of relationship longevity than a person in quest of changing their partner to somebody they’re not. Don’t conceive this to be the same thing as the point stated earlier in number two. There’s a difference between someone changing voluntarily and a change influenced or initiated out of force by someone else.

A long lasting relationship is made possible as a result of respective partners learning to accept each other just the way they are.



4. Not giving room for self-improvement.

There’s something just as terrible as moving backwards; its remaining static and not moving at all.

To stand a chance of having a relationship that's worthwhile, each partner must take up the daily task of improving and developing themselves. Read and listen to people who have gained the experience but be careful not to swallow everything you hear, apply only what works for you and filter everything else.

Don’t just waste your time on news and entertainment blogs, patronise and pay regular visits to personal improvement blog such as Geeflix.com - aimed at providing success tips, advice and motivation.



5. Comparing your relationship to that of others.

As the Apostle Paul rightly said;

“those who compare themselves with others are not wise” ( 2 Corinthians 10:12)

If you’ve got to copy and paste this somewhere in your house so you could see it every morning, please do! It will save you for years to come.

Most people look outside and scout for what others are doing right in their relationships and use the same standards to evaluate their own. This error doesn’t kill immediately and that’s what makes it even more dangerous. It takes its time to eat up whatever exist in your union until every affection you once had for your partner are completely drowned!

For a long lasting relationship, steer clear of comparing your partner with someone else. Everyone is unique in their own way and learning to accept them the way they are breeds true love.


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FamilyTop 5 Reasons Why You Aren't Winning by GeeStaff(op): 11:44am On Jun 26, 2017
If you think your life sucks, it probably does. If you think people aren’t giving you a break, they probably aren’t. If you feel as if you will never be rich, you are probably right.

Why? Your mind is that powerful. It will manifest your dominate thoughts into reality, whether you like it or not. Your life is only the sum total of your thoughts, and if you are not winning, your thoughts suck.

You are the reason you are not winning. You and only you. I am going to help you with this, but for now, you need to fully accept the fact that your losses are yours to own and yours to reap.
Here are the top five reasons why you aren’t winning.

1. You are playing to play , not playing to win.

I see this one the most. Most people are just cruising through life with no purpose or plan, they are just catching the waves because waves are relaxing and cool to catch. While this sounds exhilarating, it is not, it is a waste of energy. Of course, riding the waves is not a bad thing to do, but if you are a mechanic and your lifestyle depends on your ability to dominate your craft, why do you spend more time with a surfboard than a monkey wrench? This is just simple logic but most people don’t use this simple logic.

You are not winning because you aren’t playing to win. When you don’t play to win, you only perform averagely, and average performances don’t win games, and life is a big game and you are the captain of the team. So, why are you acting like a bench player? Why are you so lazy? Why are you moving without a purpose? Why are you not even operating in your gifts? Just because you love the water and the waves don’t mean you are supposed to be at the beach? Does your income come from surfing? Are your gifts transferable to the sport of surfing? Be the best at what you do, give your best at what you do, or keep being the reason you are losing.

2. You Keep Looking At The Negatives.

If you don’t have what it takes to look into the world of the unknown, which is the imaginary world you want to build, and then pull that world into the physical reality, you will keep losing. Winners are able to look past the things they don’t want and live inside of their heads. When they do this, they visualize the world they want and then make the proper decisions to bring those visions into reality.

If you are still alive, life is not done with you. For whatever reason, you still have something to do and something to give, but you will never be able to give the world what it needs from you while looking at the wrong things. Your vision will determine where you travel. I tell the people who work for me and my clients every chance that I get, “Your body has never traveled where your mind has not told it where to go.” It is simple really if you are physically in poverty, your mind went there first. If you are in riches, your mind went there first. You will only go where you are looking. Stop looking at the negatives and pull the positives into your reality.

3. You Keep Hanging With People You Don’t Like Or Trust

Tyrese Gibson, a famous actor, and music artist is probably one of the wisest people on YouTube. I invite you to search him and listen to some of his motivational videos. There is one that contains the following quote:

“How easy and how convenient is it for us to blame everything and everybody for the things we’ve got going on in our lives. There isn’t such thing as you being a positive and a great person with the best of intentions towards everybody and shit is rough and you just can’t get a break. But most of you, most of you, are waking up every day, looking for pain, dysfunction, drama, unemployment, being broke, struggling, dropping every excuse in the book about your childhood and the problems and dysfunction that you grew up in that’s stopping you from becoming successful. You don’t like your friends, so why you still f…. with them, you don’t trust your managers, agents, and lawyers so why are they still there. Do you really expect your life and career to be any different, from messing with the same things, people and situations…that’s all I’m saying.”

As long as you hang with these types of people, you will never get what you want. You cannot get the desires of your heart when you are always mad at the people around you. That is wasted energy. Fighting them or fighting to impress them will leave you with no energy to work on your dreams because you have spent all day working on your relationships or defending yourself. Get rid of these type of people. If they are family or anything you hold sacred, then limit your time with them.


4. You Lack Follow Through

The outcome of your life and your career is based on the choices you have made. And most people choose to have poor follow-through skills. You will never get a good harvest with a bad follow-through trait. It is a choice. You are either committed to success or committed to failure, but you do not have commitment issues. You are a commitment genius. You are just not committed to the things that serve you properly.

Get your stuff together and stick with it. Commit to it. Then crush it! Don’t stop until it has been crushed. Don’t half way do it. Kill it. Dominate it. The outcome of your life and your career is based on the choices you have made. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and make winning work for you.

5. You Lie To Yourself And Believe That Crap

The truth is, you don’t want to win. You can fool yourself all you want, but you can’t fool a winner. We see you and we see right through you. Your words are pretty when you come up with a clever excuse for why you didn’t get the job done, but winning has a special kind harvest and your harvest isn’t special at all. Excuses sound best to the people who are making them up. There are no such things as circumstances. If you don’t see the circumstances you want, then get focused and create the circumstances you need to win. No one feels sorry for you, they only pretend to do so. People like you are actually happy that you have problems because they don’t want you to be better than them. So they will convince you that your excuses are valid so you can be just like them: losing losers who pretend to be winning.

Everything in your life is negative and you keep pretending that it is not. And since you won’t ever seen things for what they are, you can never manipulate things for what they can be. Here is a very simple truth of life: anything you can account for you can control. Since you won’t account for your actual situation, you cannot control it. That is why your life is uncontrollable because you haven’t accounted for anything within it.


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Family3 Core Qualities That Will Improve Your Confidence Level by GeeStaff(op):
1. Become the Master of Your Thoughts

Do you realize how many thoughts go through your head the second you wake up to when you go to bed? Experts say the average person has around 60,000 thoughts every day!

What’s troubling is 80% of these thoughts are negative. That is telling yourself 48,0000 times each day why you can’t have what you deserve. Would you hang out with someone who continuously told you how you weren’t good enough?

You are often the tormentor of your own life. These negative conversations in your brain become self-fulfilling prophecies because they start making you believe that you aren’t good enough for your deepest desires. That leads to more negative thoughts, and the cycle goes on.

The only way to live confidently is to start believing in yourself. That requires you to become the master of your thoughts. You have to start questioning every negative idea that runs through your head. When a thought about how you can’t have something shows up, you need to respond, “How can I make it happen today instead of waiting for the perfect time?”

Over time this continuous questioning will transform your thinking. Not just by making you think positively, but looking at the opportunities in everything that crosses your path.

2. Delivering Your Power Through Your Body

What makes a firefighter run into a burning building or finally walking into your boss’s office to ask for the raise you deserve is a physical action. There is a point where you push past the thoughts and uneasy feeling and move forward. Walking through life confidently is not just a metaphor. It is the absolute truth.

Too often people believe that confidence is just a mental game. That one can just think themselves into action. The truth is that you must rely on a physical power to move you into action. The body must honor what the mind often can’t justify.

Your body is literally a channel of power that is necessary to live confidently. When that moment comes where you have to cross the line into the unknown, one needs that jolt of energy that makes you say, “Go for it!”

Yet most people abuse their bodies almost as much as their minds. Between the lack of sleep, poor eating habits and sedentary lifestyle, most bodies have a deficiency of power within them.

Look at two of your friends, one that lives an active lifestyle and the other the spends most of their time on the couch. Which one has a more positive mindset? Who is taking more action in their lives? My guess is the active friend is taking more action towards their goals.

Your mind and body work together in the pursuit to stand in your highest potential. If you aren’t taking care of your body it will be hard to take the physical action necessary to achieve your goals.

3. Trusting the Process

Confidence isn’t just about mindset and action. There has to be a trusting nature that lies inside; trusting your abilities, trusting the process used to achieve your goals and trusting that you can survive failure.

It’s tough to believe in the process when nothing seems to be going right. Most people give up too quickly believing the strategy, their abilities or local geography is preventing them from reaching their goals. The truth is that they never trusted the process and gave up right before their breakthrough was coming.

The person that lives confidently is great at letting go of what they can’t control. They understand that they can only control their actions, so that is what they lead with. They understand that if they keep taking action, no matter how many times they get knocked down, that their desired results will be achieved.


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CareerRe: 3 Qualities That Will Improve Your Confidence Level by GeeStaff(op): 8:36am On May 21, 2017
okoyef:
God bless you brother, you might have saved many lives by this post
Thanks...
Such motivational articles are found on www.geeflix.com
RomanceWhat's The Coolest Way To Handle A Guy Who's Hitting On Your Spouse? by GeeStaff(op): 11:53am On May 19, 2017
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Romance5 Key Signs The Person You're Dating Is Not Your Future Spouse by GeeStaff(op): 10:09am On May 16, 2017
Sign 1: He allows his romance to turn into physical roaming.

And with soothing words, he attempts to invade the boundaries you clearly established more than once. Yet time and time again he insists, whispering he’ll love you forever hoping you’ll give in. Caution: that’s his testosterone talking, not a man of integrity who values and respects you.


Sign 2: His sincerity is questionable.

When you speak of your Christian convictions, he agrees with you. When you invite him to visit your church, he goes along. But when you ask him to pray with you, he squirms. Or when discussing deeper issues regarding spirituality, he is ambiguous and distant. Warning: he might be going through the motions to win you over. This red flag needs to fly high reminding you he’s not the spiritual leader, the kind you need should marriage plans appear in the horizon.

Time to assess: Be true to your convictions and be sincere in your asking for God's guidance to identify the strong spiritual leader with sound convictions and good character to be your future husband.

Sign 3: Others are warning you.

You think he’s the one because he “makes you feel so good.” But those around you who know you well and whom you respect give you warnings. They point out flaws you overlook because you’re so much “in love” that you’ve become deaf to their wisdom. But often feelings can be wrong. And emotions can blind one from seeing potential pitfalls.

Time to assess:
Reflect on the advice given, and no matter how well-defined your plans are, welcome wise counsel from those who love you because “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” - Solomon (Proverbs 15:22)

Sign 4: Criticism becomes a pattern.

Sometimes you might mistake humility and patience when he is free with harsh criticism toward you and others. But when experiencing this during dating, it might be a sign of potential emotional abuse only to increase after that wedding day.

Time to assess:
you're a queen, you mustn’t endure painful words, insensitive treatment or even rudeness. Expect to be treated with utmost respect because you know who you are— a masterpiece !

Sign 5: He’s in the red.

Although money is not the most important aspect of a relationship, it is the number one reason for divorce. And if marriage is a possibility with the man you’re dating, observe his attitude toward money, his spending habits and his commitment to charity.
Each will give you clues on what to expect should you become his wife. If he’s a creature that flings credit cards at every turn, that’s your clue to dig a little deeper. Otherwise, entering into marriage with debt, money issues and financial troubles will surely have you walking down the aisle toward the altar of disaster.


Whether you’re 20 or 60 years old, or whether it’s your first date or you’re about to send out wedding invitations, bring your girlfriend with you. Her name is
"wisdom "..
Tag her along as you make your decisions to finding "the one "..

Best wishes.

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Career3 Qualities That Will Improve Your Confidence Level by GeeStaff(op): 9:59am On May 15, 2017
1. Become the Master of Your Thoughts


Do you realize how many thoughts go through your head the second you wake up to when you go to bed? Experts say the average person has around 60,000 thoughts every day!

What’s troubling is 80% of these thoughts are negative. That is telling yourself 48,0000 times each day why you can’t have what you deserve. Would you hang out with someone who continuously told you how you weren’t good enough?

You are often the tormentor of your own life. These negative conversations in your brain become self-fulfilling prophecies because they start making you believe that you aren’t good enough for your deepest desires. That leads to more negative thoughts, and the cycle goes on.

The only way to live confidently is to start believing in yourself. That requires you to become the master of your thoughts. You have to start questioning every negative idea that runs through your head. When a thought about how you can’t have something shows up, you need to respond, “How can I make it happen today instead of waiting for the perfect time?”

Over time this continuous questioning will transform your thinking. Not just by making you think positively, but looking at the opportunities in everything that crosses your path.



2. Delivering Your Power Through Your Body-


What makes a firefighter run into a burning building or finally walking into your boss’s office to ask for the raise you deserve is a physical action. There is a point where you push past the thoughts and uneasy feeling and move forward. Walking through life confidently is not just a metaphor. It is the absolute truth.

Too often people believe that confidence is just a mental game. That one can just think themselves into action. The truth is that you must rely on a physical power to move you into action. The body must honor what the mind often can’t justify.

Your body is literally a channel of power that is necessary to live confidently. When that moment comes where you have to cross the line into the unknown, one needs that jolt of energy that makes you say, “Go for it!”

Yet most people abuse their bodies almost as much as their minds. Between the lack of sleep, poor eating habits and sedentary lifestyle, most bodies have a deficiency of power within them.

Look at two of your friends, one that lives an active lifestyle and the other the spends most of their time on the couch. Which one has a more positive mindset? Who is taking more action in their lives? My guess is the active friend is taking more action towards their goals.

Your mind and body work together in the pursuit to stand in your highest potential. If you aren’t taking care of your body it will be hard to take the physical action necessary to achieve your goals.

3. Trusting the Process


Confidence isn’t just about mindset and action. There has to be a trusting nature that lies inside; trusting your abilities, trusting the process used to achieve your goals and trusting that you can survive failure.

It’s tough to believe in the process when nothing seems to be going right. Most people give up too quickly believing the strategy, their abilities or local geography is preventing them from reaching their goals. The truth is that they never trusted the process and gave up right before their breakthrough was coming.

The person that lives confidently is great at letting go of what they can’t control. They understand that they can only control their actions, so that is what they lead with. They understand that if they keep taking action, no matter how many times they get knocked down, that their desired results will be achieved.

Incorporating these three qualities to my lifestyle changed how I showed up in the world. Mastering my thoughts, taking care of my body to generate my physical power and trusting the process of continuous action, has allowed me to achieve more than ever before. What use to take me a year to complete can usually be done in three months.

Do I ever curl up in a ball and hide in the face of adversity? Yes. I am human like everyone else. But I no longer have to “fake it till I make it.” Instead, I can continue to push forward as I am in a manner that most consider to be courageous.


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