₦airaland Forum

NozinoGroup:
Rachel, is this one rider work or jealousy?

Aguwanyi:
Buh I didn't say he's broke nau..I only said the Okagbues should hide their ATM cards from Bella...why are u accusing me

Eeghe:
Cancel culture
Some cancel-oriented people believe that one is evil and supports pedophilia and rape by playing and loving RKelly’s songs
That you are creepy and pedophilic by loving MJackson
That when you see a Bill Cosby clip you must quickly zoom past
That we must not partake of their gift/talent as it would be evil to

That is the culture out for Shegz now
At this point that I have grown to really like Bella, I also feel sorry for Shegz.
We read it was verbal abuse before, now physical abuse has crept in
No substantiation whatsoever
Or is there?
I judge based on what’s on my screen - I majorly had a problem with Shegz, all season…but he also has some good. And I do not wish him to suffer in life. He may need to stay off relationships till he becomes better, if he can’t he should buy a snake

Cancel me if you will, but vote Phyna
Vote Bella too

I want these two to turn off Biggie’s lights on Sunday
Phyna to win

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
If this is what this is to you, I'll refrain from engaging you on this.

Alphagan:
Following a one sided narrative to draw conclusion is bad. The tweets people are relying on to drag Sheggzz emanated from the camp of a scorned woman, till date, we don't know Sheggz's side of the story, yet, it is convenient for us to conclude...wonderful!

ItisHi:
Omo. Bella fans you guys better save your fave o. You guys should not let her rest when she is out o. Bombard her DMs.

I really like how Elozonam handled this interview. Sheggz just lying to make himself look good. Its actually appalling. #BBNaija pic.twitter.com/u3W7u2x6TI

— Kelz (@K__4Kelz) September 28, 2022

Threebear:
At least this whole abuse thing is giving My Bella pity votes .

Top 2 , here we come

Alphagan:
I like how people who spent a whole year defending Erica suddenly become emergency apostles of morality, those, despite Erica's character flaw prefer creating monikers to continually celebrate her. I don't know what moral standing they think they have to criticize an act they praised to high heavens some months ago, it is the lack of consistency for me.

Why absolving the enabler of the so called "abuse" ...? We pretend not to know Bella is rude, egoistic and condescending. Sheggz on several occasions pointed to how discourteous and ill-mannered Bella could be, it is rather a misery how a cathedral of sainthood is being carved to whitewash an impertinent behaviour.

My admonition is simple, keep the energy! Tacha built an army on an obvious flaw, Erica was bought a house and was crowdfunded to compete with the grand prize, Ceecee got several endorsements for almost snuffing life out of Tobi. Sheggz didn't exhibit on the show half of what the aforementioned characters displayed, so, why the persecution?

Ladies get away with emotional abuse but are quick to demonize other gender...bad!

Sheggz said sorry several times same as Bella..they "wronged" each other, hiding under whatever guise to deprecate what Bella indulged and actively participated in reeks of hypocrisy.

Ibukzy:
Lol,spare me with this ur bullsh!t

Show me where I have slammed her in any of my posts or attack her person?

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
I wouldn't even loose sleep if Who dey wins, why would I loose sleep if he gets gigs? Good for him, he'd have enough money to seek for help if he's honest enough to face his demons.

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
If Bemi's broken leg didn't shame him into acknowledgement, acceptance and seeking for help, who says our tweets will do anything? The same tweets he read but still went ahead to make viewers look like fools by saying we jumped to conclusion because of the video from bemi.

We aren't muddling his name, he spent nine weeks doing that to himself. His words, his actions muddled his name.

"His soul called ex" will not speak up, she doesn't owe her abuser any clarification. If he knows he didn't do, why is he not debunking it? He only said "I know beautiful women" and "she didn't mention my name", meanwhile, pictures of them together are all over the internet. He did that shit! He referenced being tagged an abuser more than once in the house. If he wasn't guilty, why would that even cross any sane person's mind.

Few times? There are at least 10 videos, showing instances of Segun verbally and emotionally abusing Bella, you watched, I watched. The week he was the clown of the house, they fought 4 times, just in one week. How many is too many?

Yes, women haven't healed becauseit isn't something you get over in few days,week,months or years. No, we aren't projecting, we're seeing a pattern and it'd be a shame to let this happen without a smoke. Most women didn't have anyone speak for them, we wouldn't be doing that to Bella and Bemi or any other woman. Nigeria isn't a serious place, so, the law doesn't send us. We'd fight back with everything we have including shaming and deplatforming abusers.

Bella doesn't need help. Not in regards to the relationship we watched. Yes, she should learn boundaries and what healthy relationship should be like but she doesn't need help except the help is to undo the nonsense Segun has done on her in just 3 months. And no, she didn't admit to chopping lots of breakfast in the past, she had only dated 2 men before Segun and one of them, she didn't even meet because it was long distance relationship. Bella had no single blame in the hurtful dynamics of her relationship with Segun. Not one.

Then he should act it and take a break to figure himself out. The other people that have messed up didn't immediately come out to try to gaslight viewers. Ceec apologized right after the house, Tacha did same and Erica apologised twice. Yet, people still reference their Bleep ups. We won't keep quiet and let people whitewash Segun.

If his behaviour on the show would mar his career or not, that one is in his hands. If he had acknowledged and accepted his shortcomings instead of gaslighting viewers, we wouldn't be here. He should keep running his "I'm yoruba and educated" mouth.

Eeghe:
And, you still don’t get it, do you?
Has she been doing the “planting of it” on you/your person?
She has a right to feel/sense whatever about any HM
Why can’t you slam her favs or ignore her, rather than attacking her person? That you know zilch about?
How is this not clear?

Sorry I can’t do this right now have to get stuff done
Will be back later

Geezeem will keep doing her no one will beat her

missidy:
You thought how? You quoted me first, go back and check. You quoted my response to Threebear. My number rule here is I don't quote people, I only respond when people quote me. So don't play reverse game. Avoid me and keep it moving as well. I didn't come to you, you came to me.

Eeghe:
But she barely knows people here?
She keeps it on the housemates and game but you guys always find ways to make it about her person

When you support the same person with her, are you going to take back the unnecessary and reaching personal digs or just roll with it? And applaud her when she slams other HMs?

Lol!

Aguwanyi:
Geezeem is a pure hater of beautiful thing..

Aguwanyi:
The best is for her siblings to hide their ATM cards cos shegzs will definitely ask her for money..

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
To do what? To defend him? That wouldn't be a gotcha moment because we all know she's going to do that. But, will it undo his actions? Will it undo his narcissistic behaviour? Will it undo the emotional abuse we watched? Will it undo Bemi's trauma?

Lol. Even Bemi went back to him after her video of calling him out, who's Bella to not defend him after being properly coached be him?

Ibukzy:
Reprehensible behavior ?

Did he touch her in any way that made her feel uncomfortable?

Did he abused her?

Did he forced anything on her?


Did he in any way isolate her from others ?

All he did was to declare his interest to a lady who is not in any defined ship and has been respectful about it, what is wrong about that?

safarigirl:
And it will change ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.

At worst, she will support him. Bella will not be the first victim of abuse to defend her abuser. It does not make the person any less an abuser, it makes the victim ignorant.

You dey talk am as if when Bella comot, she go fit wash the stain from Sheggz, the only thing that will happen is people will call her the fool they have always called her. She's kuku not even pitiable, so, if she do anyhow, she go collect with her boyfriend.

"Bella will soon come out", so that your boy can break her leg like he broke his ex's own, abi? Women supporting abusers

NozinoGroup:
Ok. Is that all??

Are you forgetting that your fave is a woman hater with no balls who only fights women?

Have you forgotten how he went against his level 2 family by nominating a fellow level 2 hm for immediate eviction? You may argue that Amaka had it coming but If any level 2 HM had any right to nominate Amaka, it was Phyna. Yet she didn’t!!! That’s love and maturity.

Even when she saved Chi chi bad beech, she could have nominated a fellow level 2 HM but she didn’t.

Sit this one out dear. Phyna is the innocent soul you wish the failed musician is.

PatientVulture:
Geezeem , come and carry your boy o . i said this before, deep down you know he messed up, but you just did not want to back down on Nairaland

NozinoGroup:
Women get away with a lot of things. If it was a guy who threatened to kill his fellow hm, pour water on the bed and chased his roommate out of their room, the narrative would have been different.

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
They shouldn't. Maybe then he'd unlearn and relearn. He's so full of himself and not even remorseful, I'm shocked.

Alheeri:
Dis one na real wahala ooo, he's out of the show and cannot rest again.
Make Bella pple pity dis guy nah, ok we no marry Bella again

omotolly22:
I watched most of their media round

When the asked groovy about his relationship with phyna ,his responds is always that for now he is concentrating on building his brand , while phyna is trying to win the money in the house

While sheggz answer is always , I love my baby bella, my baby bella, she is my world ,she is my wife ,my baby bella

That is why this abuser tag keep getting worst ,and people keep bring evidence out , to dent his reputation the more.

If he can keep it low with this relationship matter,this abuser tag will die down in few days

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
This wasn't even me trying to drag Segun but the people that coached him to deny everything we watched and even question our intelligence, saying we concluded because of Bemi's video.

If he'd accepted responsibility and promised to get help, I for no even mind but he's out here telling us he only fought with Bella 3 times and he doesn't know the beautiful woman in the video when there are pictures of them everywhere, there are posts from him denying the abuse in 2020, there are tweets from Bemi's friends he did that shit.

We're not going to cover up for abusers regardless of their accents, how rich or fine they're. Segun will not mess another woman up in the mighty name of Jesus!

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
And please, for the umpteenth time, this isn't about bbn or fave for me. So, miss me with the bullshit of this person did this, this person did that. Where were you when I supported him when the show started? Where were you when I defended him and even gave him benefit of doubt despite seeing the patterns? Have you watched his interview, go and watch him deny everything that we watched and try to blame Bella for how viewers perceive him.

There are video evidence and even tweets from as far back as 2020 that nail him for an abuser that he is.

And God actually forbid you people because what wrongdoing would you accuse Bella of in her relationship with him? Even when he constantly moved mad, not for one moment that she call him out for a fool that he is.


He won't get breathing space, he can't mess people up and think he can clean his record by lacing shoes or making breakfast for an unassuming lover on TV.