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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 1:03pm On Oct 01, 2022
fitzmayowa:
Yeap, that's the ex he threatens Bella with all the time, your boy is indeed messy.......
He is a nonsense boy true true... embarassed
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 12:39pm On Oct 01, 2022
KIDDRICAsHAWK:
Just went through our exchanges, you didn't say she should mention his name but you said she should come out to address it. I'd assume they're the same thing but in case they aren't, my sincere apologies.


This is victim blaming. He did this to you because you did this or said that. If we didn't watch him with Bemi, we atleast watched him with Bella. Their fights, What role would you say Bella that warranted how be spoke to her?
Shouldn't you be asking this from those that said she deserved what he did to her, and that she isn't a victim?

I've never said this nor insinuated it.

If you are referring to what I said about self healing.... then I will say this

Bella need to find within herself why she failed to take Ebuka's warning. Is this a character flaw or what?

The Bella we watched knew something was wrong, some said she is naive. This might be a fact. But not willing to take a positive feedback is an indicative of flaws that need to be addressed

We all have natural instinct to defend and attack, to protect ourselves.... Where one isn't exercising this...it could be out of trauma response or naivety as people said here.

Bella need to find out what she loves about Sheggz.... himself or the idea of him

She must determine her tolerence level,
review what he gives her as opposed to what he takes from her

.... She must do some introspection to find if this has happened before, in parts or in whole... and why it's repeating again

Healing comes from identifying areas of weakness.... and places for growth

As awareness increases.... people are expected to do better and where they don't, they clearly need help to do so.

Healing is a participatory journey

What I said about making wrong choices and having poor taste in partners is my opinion... if you claim your partner is evil and bad, what attracted you and what kept you there?

Having a good marriage and relationship starts from the choices we make, this is not as important as how we conduct ourselves in that relationship

Pls don't corrupt my words. I am yet to blame Bella for anything as YET.

So I am putting it back to you, what do you think Bella would have done differently in this situation?
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 10:13am On Oct 01, 2022
Threebear:
Rape and the other things are too sensitive and intense, I'd rather not comment on them, especially as there is no proof or evidence....but the one thing I'm hundred percent certain of , is the burning intense dislike Sheggz has for Bella .

I caught it a lot during his unguarded moments...at some point you could feel the level of disgust he had on his face watching her ....

If not for the cameras, such intense disapproval and disgust would often lead to physical assault...but you could tell he was trying to control the impulse.

I don't know this Gbemi lady and yes , there is always need to exercise a benefit of doubt...but Bella continuing this relationship outside will be her doom .


I hope the people that love her will save her from it.
This is my argument in a nutshell!

I am not about to take the word of someone who allowed wrong narratives to go on for days before correcting it after she was cursed out

My focus will REMAIN ON SHELLA

What I watched in that one month was horrific. I will never allow anyone do that to me or someone I know

I want Sheggz punishment or the consequences of his actions to be the extent of HIS GUILT AND NOTHING MORE!!!

Nothing will make me change this stance.... nothing!

There is a reason sensible people condemn jungle justice. Quite often, the accused are guilty, some other time they are innocent. But when jungle justice takes place, punishment is meted out without due process to determine guilt or level of it and not a chance for restitution is given to the accused

Even court condemnd criminals are given months and years behind bars to atone for their sins before execution

People have continued to misunderstand me on this issue because Sheggz is my favorite. They clearly have continued to allow that single fact to erode their sensibilities

Some have been quite rude and direct with their attacks.... others run around in circles of indirect speeches. To what end? To shame me or cause me to back off?

Exercise in futility I tell you!

I conceed to the fact that if Sheggz ain't my fave, I wouldn't spend all this time writing about this but my stance will remain the same, I just might not devote this time posting about it

I don't expect anyone to understand me

I don't care if they do to be honest

I am a prisoner of my conscious

And where it hasn't condemn me, I do not allow any other person to do so

I didn't start this way, it took years of experiences and formal training to see things the way I do

I will never budge on this
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 9:20am On Oct 01, 2022
Uwosom:
In a recent interview Sheggz said "the beautiful lady" didn't mention his name in the video. Now that she has mentioned his name, let's see what he will say next.
We all are waiting
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 1:27am On Oct 01, 2022
Nhazeru:
The girl is a chronic and pathetic liar!

Some of the things she said is not making sense, so many contradictions

The original video she posted in 2020 she said he hit her head on the wall

Today she is saying a different thing
I keep hearing there is a video... what video is that? did you watch it?

He broke her leg....sorry she broke it running from him and he hit her head against the wall?

God will really punish Sheggz if this turns out to be true or punish this girl if she lied about any of this lipsrsealed

This is my stance on this
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem:
KIDDRICAsHAWK:
Yesterday, you said she didn't mention Segun's name. Tonight, she has mentioned his name but you want Segun to come. Okay, we'd wait for him. She's too bitter? Of course! She is bitter, no one gets abused and have their abuser use them as a pawn in subduing their next victim and not get mad. Abi you think she didn't see how Segun threatened to leave Bella to go back to her? Imagine someone that treated you like trash, trying to use you to svore cheap points with his new victim? Why wouldn't she be bitter? Imagine someone that dated and abused you for 3 years denying that they know you and call you a random beautiful woman , of course, she'd be bitter! Imagine the supporters of your abuser coming for your job and livelihood, she has every right to be bitter!

I'm glad you haven't had to deal with this at any point in life, I'd be absolutely glad if we can make that possible for more women.

The bolded is you blaming the victim and that's so awks...
That I said what?, pls provide backing for this

if I ever even said this, then I picked it from here... I don't go to Twitter

I must have quoted someone who said so. Pls screenshot that for me first

so it's her the silly boy wants to go back to? that serves him right. Bella will come out and see the way her so called rival is dragging him by the balls

Sheggz is very stupid for saying the 3rd bolded. Do you have a link to this tho?

The last bolded is one of the process of self healing. Nobody ever healed until they call to mind the role they played in their hurt/trauma. Don't take my word for it, do your research

At this stage, you are facing and acknowledging your truth, either to break a pattern or learn the lessons provided .... most people bypass this stage..... reason their healing is shallow deep

This is a topic with large scope....I wouldn't want to go into it now
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 12:54am On Oct 01, 2022
carammel:
Emotional abuse is just like rape, it is usually hard to prove especially if there was no witness but does it mean the victims are lying about it?

Here you are asking for receipt even though the Sheggz couldn’t hide the tendency for long, if he was that abusive on camera, one can only imagine what he would do behind the camera.
Ask any lawyer around you.... there are guidelines under our criminal law to prove a rape allegation

.... Where this is not followed, getting a conviction will be a Herculean task
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem:
Kayyy:
Sorry to reply this post I just want to ask, you are not concerned about whatever Bemi posted , You're concerned about Sheggz and Bella and affirm he needs therapy and help based on what we have all watched on the TV?, You question the honesty of Bemi cos she came out today to talk about the injury, you're annoyed she didn't come out to explain this better since ?, In all, what you are doing here is agreeing that while Sheggz might have some abusive tendencies you chose to overlook that but label the lady as dishonest, and deep down you are doing this just cos he is your fav
The bolded is not too clear to me
But I will attempt to clarify what I think you are commenting on

The ex brought a physical abuse angle to this which sensationalise the whole thing... I am saying NO WAY!

Even in law court, physical abuse allegation must be proved with evidence

The fact that the accusation went from "he broke her leg, to she fell running from him" has casted a shadow on whatever gist is out there from the ex

I've never in any way or form denied that Bella wasn't verbally and psychologically abused. We all watched

I was only initially sceptical about the narcissistic tag.

The element of abuse we didn't see, I must take with a pinch of salt

I hope I am clearer now
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem:
fitzmayowa:
No one can actually say for sure the extent of the abuse on only Sheggz who was with her can attest to what happened.

However, if the YouTube video that was released few hours into the show is anything to go by then Sheggz lived what was painted IN the youtube video in the house with Bella, which we all talked about.

One thing about gaslighting is its makes you think you are the problem we saw Bella question herself, even though Bella had her own rude and condescending side which we all saw. Gbemi might have emblish some of her narrative but she is not lying about what she went through based on how Sheggz was with Bella in the house......
This is why I said she should stick to the part of her story that has been corroborated on the show and nothing more unless she has evidence

But I asked if this is the ex the silly boy wants to get back to?
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 12:32am On Oct 01, 2022
Nhazeru:
I said it before that there's no way Sheggz would break that girl's leg and not get arrested. I knew she was lying. She's just chasing Clout.

Sheggz needs help
Sheggz needs therapy

I hope he gets it before it's too late.

Waiting for Sheggz to give his own account of the story thou
Yes you said so. They called you names as usual

Now it has turned from he broke her leg to she broke it herself running from him.... can you beat that? lipsrsealed

If she was running from him, does it now mean he had been physically abusing her for her to have anticipated a bodily harm the day she ran and broke her leg?

Nah.... I shouldn't be swallowing some of this bull crap at this stage of my life!

She better stick to emotional and verbal abuse we watched.... it makes her story more believable that this hog wash

And yes, she is chasing a clout with this!
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem:
KIDDRICAsHAWK:
Your limit is cool and personal but not everyone will wait till it gets to that point, as a matter of fact, nobody should tolerate any form of abuse or be waiting till it gets physical before speaking up.


She isn't silly. She doesn't owe her abuser any form of clarification. She hasn't said what she didn't say in her YouTube clip, she's still maintaining the same stance. People speculated, added and deducted from the information and ran with it. That's on people, not on her.


Yup. People are entitled to their opinions. While you draw the line at Physical abuse, some of us draw the line at the slightest form of abuse and won't be quiet about it.


Getting help doesn't have to interfere with facing the consequences of his actions, he'll and must collect both.
She conveniently allowed it to fly... until it got very ugly. That is sheer wickedness and why I will never believe anything until Sheggz confronts this

She sounds too bitter for someone who has "healed and moved on"

But I don't know her and I don't CARE!

When I said, personally I withdraw into my shell... you shouldn't read that to mean I will stay until physically abused

In all my years of existence, no man born of a woman has ever abused me in any form

I know what love looks like, feels like and sounds like.... I've a litmus test that must be passed before I even get on with someone

Anyone who is with a bad partner, must first judge their poor choices and taste
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 12:04am On Oct 01, 2022
BiggestB0y:
Agbaaa baller grin
Gazeem will not like this grin
lipsrsealed
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:59pm On Sep 30, 2022
fitzmayowa:
Sheggz ex said a lot of things that are very shocking.....Whew!!!
By the way I hope it isn't the ex he had threatened Bella a couple of times to go back to?

I am not an adekunle fan, if I were, I would say she is just jealous.... a scorned girl trying to pull the young man down. That She watched him propose to another girl and was planning a wedding on TV and is out for his blood

But I am not kunle's fan

I won't say this or trivialize this issue.

I just won't take her serious. There is a reason matters of abuse need evidence to be proven. We need receipts

Sheggz is a reflection of her personality and taste in men. You dated someone for 3 years and know him to be a broke ass fake footballer but stayed there

embarassed

I am actually mad!

I will take her more serious when she call herself out on the role she played even as a victim
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:45pm On Sep 30, 2022
Eeghe:
This cracked me up
cheesy
Lemme go and mute the girl. I am absolutely not interested in the story.
When Bella comes out I will follow the stories till their interviews are over
…and go on a muting spree
Exactly
I keep saying until Bella comes out

I don't know this Bemi, I don't care about whatever she has to say...
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:40pm On Sep 30, 2022
KIDDRICAsHAWK:
She was trying to escape from him and she fell off the stairs.

Is that all you got from her tweets?
It was all I was interested in as I had said before that physical abuse is my deal breaker. This is not me trivializing the emotional or verbal abuse. We all have our threshold.

Me personally, verbal abuse will send me inside my shell, but physical abuse will unleash the lioness

You people sold a narrative that HE BROKE HER LEG. the silly girl allowed that to fly for a couple of days before coming to clarify it

You see eh... I don't give a rat ass about this Bemi girl and whatever she has to say. I didn't witness it.... it's left for Sheggz to clear this

I am more concerned about what I WATCHED and how it affected Bella. I am convinced that Sheggz need a therapy. I am convinced that he needs help

I will contain myself within the boundaries of what I watched and I don't care how this makes anyone feel or nor give a fuvk about whatever they have to say

This should not be my business but theirs

Everyone is entitled to their opinions

Hopefully Sheggz do the needful
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:29pm On Sep 30, 2022
duduade:
She tripped down the stairs while running away from him… she s cleared the breaking of leg
Meaning he was physically abusing her right?
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:28pm On Sep 30, 2022
Jay16:
He's still pained
Obviously
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem:
Amibranki:
Lmaooo behind their backshuh Dem dey watch am moreso it was part of Ràchel's highlights shown today so?
Was it today Rachel and Giddy did whatever? As long they are both not there to defend themselves, it serves no other purpose than to assassinate their characters
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:21pm On Sep 30, 2022
PatientVulture:
Who are the alot ? When people cannot figure you out they label you cunning .
5 or more of them have said same thing.... there has to be an element of truth there

Some viewers also see this...not a lot of people saw it cos he played most of his game on viewers

The bolded was the explanation his fans gave... just as you guys called him minister of information to cover up his gossiping ways.

Kunle is saintly, yet during instant eviction day he nearly went home, during last Sunday's eviction DS more than half of those up for eviction named him as someone going to be evicted.

Kunle is disconnected from his fellow contestants due to his cunny ways... periodt!
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:13pm On Sep 30, 2022
KIDDRICAsHAWK:
https://twitter.com/beautybybemi/status/1575963722291740673?s=20&t=znPu2DBneKon6U291CGpnA

Well. I'd say the name rings a bellllllll!
I thought he was the one that broke the leg?
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:09pm On Sep 30, 2022
Nhazeru:
Perfect description of his personality
Very apt
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:07pm On Sep 30, 2022
Winner90:
Adekunle seems too careful, crafty and audience-conscious
From day one!
Na another person his win go pain me undecided
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:05pm On Sep 30, 2022
Jay16:
So Adekunle telling the housemates Gidyfia and Rachel did something in the toilet. So they actually fhucked in the toilet
Saying it behind both Rachel and Giddy is plain evil
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 11:02pm On Sep 30, 2022
FIGARO00:
Yes.

This was honest and organic, straight from the heart and spontaneous. In the moment kinda situation.

During reunion, they would have planned and rehearsed thier lines and fake gbasgbos and what not...
True
I hate reunion shows!
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 10:54pm On Sep 30, 2022
creolehunt:
Theres a vibe I get from Adekunle and I see it in his eyes too.

I think he is a crafty and not being himself.
A lot of housemates said he is cunny, only preekk struck Daniella said otherwise lipsrsealed
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 10:52pm On Sep 30, 2022
TrulyTemitayo:
Bella just has a day left to win. Congrats in advance bby girl.
Her friends are gone, she should go on sleeping galore..... tap into Bryan's sleeping anointing and sleep the remaining hours off
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 10:37pm On Sep 30, 2022
MamBi:
Hehehehehee, so Adekunle been dey shoot multiple shotshuh? grin
cheesy
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 10:34pm On Sep 30, 2022
Sanqa:
Not really... Ebuka's season is when all evicted housemates came to ask similar questions to top 5. It was fire
I started watching from BBN 2 anyway... and judged from then
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 9:51pm On Sep 30, 2022
fitzmayowa:
Bella and Rachel are really going for the balls of Chichi and Bryann this night.....
Good thing is... Voting has ended grin
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 9:48pm On Sep 30, 2022
The most interesting last week ever in the history of BBN
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 9:45pm On Sep 30, 2022
fitzmayowa:
Bella is a straight shooter...
Has always been
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Geezeem: 9:09pm On Sep 30, 2022
Gentlefury:
Nah, Sheggz has been trained to be elitist, all he has in place of character is his family name which is the reason for his arrogance. He wouldn't dare drag that name through the mud with a low-budget sex tape. If not, he would have drilled the masculine voice out of Bella since! grin
Yes he repeatedly told her he won't have sex in the house.

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