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fitzmayowa:He is a nonsense boy true true... ![]() |
KIDDRICAsHAWK:Shouldn't you be asking this from those that said she deserved what he did to her, and that she isn't a victim? I've never said this nor insinuated it. If you are referring to what I said about self healing.... then I will say this Bella need to find within herself why she failed to take Ebuka's warning. Is this a character flaw or what? The Bella we watched knew something was wrong, some said she is naive. This might be a fact. But not willing to take a positive feedback is an indicative of flaws that need to be addressed We all have natural instinct to defend and attack, to protect ourselves.... Where one isn't exercising this...it could be out of trauma response or naivety as people said here. Bella need to find out what she loves about Sheggz.... himself or the idea of him She must determine her tolerence level, review what he gives her as opposed to what he takes from her .... She must do some introspection to find if this has happened before, in parts or in whole... and why it's repeating again Healing comes from identifying areas of weakness.... and places for growth As awareness increases.... people are expected to do better and where they don't, they clearly need help to do so. Healing is a participatory journey What I said about making wrong choices and having poor taste in partners is my opinion... if you claim your partner is evil and bad, what attracted you and what kept you there? Having a good marriage and relationship starts from the choices we make, this is not as important as how we conduct ourselves in that relationship Pls don't corrupt my words. I am yet to blame Bella for anything as YET. So I am putting it back to you, what do you think Bella would have done differently in this situation? |
Threebear:This is my argument in a nutshell! I am not about to take the word of someone who allowed wrong narratives to go on for days before correcting it after she was cursed out My focus will REMAIN ON SHELLA What I watched in that one month was horrific. I will never allow anyone do that to me or someone I know I want Sheggz punishment or the consequences of his actions to be the extent of HIS GUILT AND NOTHING MORE!!! Nothing will make me change this stance.... nothing! There is a reason sensible people condemn jungle justice. Quite often, the accused are guilty, some other time they are innocent. But when jungle justice takes place, punishment is meted out without due process to determine guilt or level of it and not a chance for restitution is given to the accused Even court condemnd criminals are given months and years behind bars to atone for their sins before execution People have continued to misunderstand me on this issue because Sheggz is my favorite. They clearly have continued to allow that single fact to erode their sensibilities Some have been quite rude and direct with their attacks.... others run around in circles of indirect speeches. To what end? To shame me or cause me to back off? Exercise in futility I tell you! I conceed to the fact that if Sheggz ain't my fave, I wouldn't spend all this time writing about this but my stance will remain the same, I just might not devote this time posting about it I don't expect anyone to understand me I don't care if they do to be honest I am a prisoner of my conscious And where it hasn't condemn me, I do not allow any other person to do so I didn't start this way, it took years of experiences and formal training to see things the way I do I will never budge on this |
Uwosom:We all are waiting |
Nhazeru:I keep hearing there is a video... what video is that? did you watch it? He broke her leg....sorry she broke it running from him and he hit her head against the wall? God will really punish Sheggz if this turns out to be true or punish this girl if she lied about any of this ![]() This is my stance on this |
KIDDRICAsHAWK:That I said what?, pls provide backing for this if I ever even said this, then I picked it from here... I don't go to Twitter I must have quoted someone who said so. Pls screenshot that for me first so it's her the silly boy wants to go back to? that serves him right. Bella will come out and see the way her so called rival is dragging him by the balls Sheggz is very stupid for saying the 3rd bolded. Do you have a link to this tho? The last bolded is one of the process of self healing. Nobody ever healed until they call to mind the role they played in their hurt/trauma. Don't take my word for it, do your research At this stage, you are facing and acknowledging your truth, either to break a pattern or learn the lessons provided .... most people bypass this stage..... reason their healing is shallow deep This is a topic with large scope....I wouldn't want to go into it now |
carammel:Ask any lawyer around you.... there are guidelines under our criminal law to prove a rape allegation .... Where this is not followed, getting a conviction will be a Herculean task |
Kayyy:The bolded is not too clear to me But I will attempt to clarify what I think you are commenting on The ex brought a physical abuse angle to this which sensationalise the whole thing... I am saying NO WAY! Even in law court, physical abuse allegation must be proved with evidence The fact that the accusation went from "he broke her leg, to she fell running from him" has casted a shadow on whatever gist is out there from the ex I've never in any way or form denied that Bella wasn't verbally and psychologically abused. We all watched I was only initially sceptical about the narcissistic tag. The element of abuse we didn't see, I must take with a pinch of salt I hope I am clearer now |
fitzmayowa:This is why I said she should stick to the part of her story that has been corroborated on the show and nothing more unless she has evidence But I asked if this is the ex the silly boy wants to get back to? |
Nhazeru:Yes you said so. They called you names as usual Now it has turned from he broke her leg to she broke it herself running from him.... can you beat that? ![]() If she was running from him, does it now mean he had been physically abusing her for her to have anticipated a bodily harm the day she ran and broke her leg? Nah.... I shouldn't be swallowing some of this bull crap at this stage of my life! She better stick to emotional and verbal abuse we watched.... it makes her story more believable that this hog wash And yes, she is chasing a clout with this! |
KIDDRICAsHAWK:She conveniently allowed it to fly... until it got very ugly. That is sheer wickedness and why I will never believe anything until Sheggz confronts this She sounds too bitter for someone who has "healed and moved on" But I don't know her and I don't CARE! When I said, personally I withdraw into my shell... you shouldn't read that to mean I will stay until physically abused In all my years of existence, no man born of a woman has ever abused me in any form I know what love looks like, feels like and sounds like.... I've a litmus test that must be passed before I even get on with someone Anyone who is with a bad partner, must first judge their poor choices and taste |
BiggestB0y: ![]() |
fitzmayowa:By the way I hope it isn't the ex he had threatened Bella a couple of times to go back to? I am not an adekunle fan, if I were, I would say she is just jealous.... a scorned girl trying to pull the young man down. That She watched him propose to another girl and was planning a wedding on TV and is out for his blood But I am not kunle's fan I won't say this or trivialize this issue. I just won't take her serious. There is a reason matters of abuse need evidence to be proven. We need receipts Sheggz is a reflection of her personality and taste in men. You dated someone for 3 years and know him to be a broke ass fake footballer but stayed there ![]() I am actually mad! I will take her more serious when she call herself out on the role she played even as a victim |
Eeghe:Exactly I keep saying until Bella comes out I don't know this Bemi, I don't care about whatever she has to say... |
KIDDRICAsHAWK:It was all I was interested in as I had said before that physical abuse is my deal breaker. This is not me trivializing the emotional or verbal abuse. We all have our threshold. Me personally, verbal abuse will send me inside my shell, but physical abuse will unleash the lioness You people sold a narrative that HE BROKE HER LEG. the silly girl allowed that to fly for a couple of days before coming to clarify it You see eh... I don't give a rat ass about this Bemi girl and whatever she has to say. I didn't witness it.... it's left for Sheggz to clear this I am more concerned about what I WATCHED and how it affected Bella. I am convinced that Sheggz need a therapy. I am convinced that he needs help I will contain myself within the boundaries of what I watched and I don't care how this makes anyone feel or nor give a fuvk about whatever they have to say This should not be my business but theirs Everyone is entitled to their opinions Hopefully Sheggz do the needful |
duduade:Meaning he was physically abusing her right? |
Jay16:Obviously |
Amibranki:Was it today Rachel and Giddy did whatever? As long they are both not there to defend themselves, it serves no other purpose than to assassinate their characters |
PatientVulture:5 or more of them have said same thing.... there has to be an element of truth there Some viewers also see this...not a lot of people saw it cos he played most of his game on viewers The bolded was the explanation his fans gave... just as you guys called him minister of information to cover up his gossiping ways. Kunle is saintly, yet during instant eviction day he nearly went home, during last Sunday's eviction DS more than half of those up for eviction named him as someone going to be evicted. Kunle is disconnected from his fellow contestants due to his cunny ways... periodt! |
KIDDRICAsHAWK:I thought he was the one that broke the leg? |
Nhazeru:Very apt |
Winner90:From day one! Na another person his win go pain me ![]() |
Jay16:Saying it behind both Rachel and Giddy is plain evil |
FIGARO00:True I hate reunion shows! |
creolehunt:A lot of housemates said he is cunny, only preekk struck Daniella said otherwise ![]() |
TrulyTemitayo:Her friends are gone, she should go on sleeping galore..... tap into Bryan's sleeping anointing and sleep the remaining hours off |
MamBi: ![]() |
Sanqa:I started watching from BBN 2 anyway... and judged from then |
fitzmayowa:Good thing is... Voting has ended ![]() |
The most interesting last week ever in the history of BBN |
fitzmayowa:Has always been |
Gentlefury:Yes he repeatedly told her he won't have sex in the house. |
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Dem dey watch am moreso it was part of Ràchel's highlights shown today so?