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 Romance › Re: Twelve Rules For Picking A Wife...no BS by GeorgeTheCoder: 2:23pm On Apr 30, 2017*. Modified: 3:49pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Twerky101:@Twerky101 lets have a discussion about your post shall we ? I will itemize each point and respond to them in turn. First off, some women age well believe it or not, I have seen plenty of those Some. Not many, and definitely not all. A woman's best years in terms of looks are between 16 and 27 on average. After that its a toss-up; she may blossom in other ways, but looks are a bonus. I have classmates who were stunners in university (10/10 beauty-wise) and now 2 or 3 kids later when I see them on Facebook everything is gone. No woman really wants to work? Anyway I beg to differ. I agree with you here that this is a generalization and a bad one at that. But if we are honest, a rich husband is better than a poor one. she should be a good girl? Well different people want different things Yes and a man wants a good girl. That's why we play the field with the hoes and marry the church girls. Would you want your brother to marry a 'slay queen' ? Or look at it another way, why do you think a great proportion of actresses are unmarried ? It cant be because they are rich; there are many rich career women who find husbands but rarely actresses. Go figure. she should change just to please you? Sorry oo brother, are you looking for a wife or u looking for a toy? Make up your mind naw oo. Nobody has to Change who she is just to please a nigga Lets rephrase this: she should mold herself to her husbands ideals; within reasonable limits. Nobody is looking for a toy but if she brings bad habits and a 'talk-back' attitude to the relationship, then .... He is free to walk if he doesn't like who you are The young men are all walking away my dear in every state and city of Nigeria. Where has that led us? Old unmarried ladies, 'baby-mamas' everywhere, single parent households. ... seriously it's better that way because when you start changing who you are to please someone then you will end up loosing track of yourself and at a point you will become bitter, and we all know how a bitter woman acts. It comes down to women trying to compare and compete with men. Its foolish and unproductive. A woman should be humble (not foolish). Men want to love and respect women but they get in their own way A woman has real and potent power which will grow stronger in the fullness of time if she is patient and feminine. I have seen this on a few occasions. An aunt of mine runs her household and makes all the decisions despite the fact that she is married to an Air-Force General. In her house she is the boss. She never shouts. She is quiet and composed and her husband defers to her because her decisions make sense. She got to that position by making tactful use of her feminine gifts not by opposing him. Over the years he has come to trust her judgement. How different things would be if she was the fighting type. Finally, you may argue with the delivery, but this writer has made some deep points. Put aside political correctness. This is the shizzle. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Twelve Rules For Picking A Wife...no BS by GeorgeTheCoder: 11:39am On Apr 30, 2017*. Modified: 8:18pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
This is one of the best posts I have ever read on NL concerning marriage. It makes up and then some, for all the bullshi.t articles I have put up with on this site First, some points which I disagree with. 2) She has to come from an intact family with original mother and father. No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes cannot be healthy. Generalizing and discriminatory. Its not her fault her parents broke up; but men should still be watchful 11) She should not have any children from a previous affair. Again another generalization. There must be exceptions. Some ladies are widows and some escape bad unions. Now for some real gems from the article! Are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are sluts? "Yes."  I couldn't stop smiling. A hoe will reveal herself bro!12. She should be a smiler. Ignore this at your peril. A woman who doesn't smile is more dangerous than a snake. Men are not women and women are not men. Things that women should do do not apply to men and vice versa. Double standards exist. That's life. This is so true Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage.... Never thought of it this way. Its true Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You've got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work. Boss! On the whole , a very good article! All men (and women too!) should read this. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by GeorgeTheCoder: 9:06pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Do grown ups with jobs actually find each other on NL ? Just asking. |
| Politics › Re: Soyinka: "Let's Boycott Cow Meat, Boko Haram May Use Cattle As Suicide Bombers" by GeorgeTheCoder: 7:51pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
mightyhaze: Nigeria's Nobel Prize winning author Wole Soyinka has strongly criticised the two main contenders in Nigeria's presidential election: http://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-31487050 Buhari and Jonathan are problematic candidates http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=11&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwirmJil28nTAhVEPRQKHVAiCdQ4ChAWCCUwAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdailypost.ng%2F2015%2F02%2F17%2Fjonathan-buhari-problematic-candidates-soyinka%2F&usg=AFQjCNH3wHKLoC7jWip3LOcb8flQwWjXEQ&sig2=5yUrCmcFXc-2eyRcyZXsag The Crimes Of Buhari saharareporters.com/2007/01/14/crimes-buhari-wole-soyinka http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=2&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwimwoeNq8rTAhVF0xQKHZFnANUQFggqMAE&url=http%3A%2F%2Fsaharareporters.com%2F2007%2F01%2F14%2Fcrimes-buhari-wole-soyinka&usg=AFQjCNE0jChrL7IWz0ppTBVzKNzuUqOMDg&sig2=GVxehtd7lz4jr0EphvpPXw "Buhari and his partner General Tunde Idiagbon, after [former military head of state] Sani Abacha, I think they represented the most brutal face of military dictatorship. There is no question about that," Mr Soyinka said. ...But the environment changes, circumstances change and… I look at the possibility of a genuine internal transformation in some individuals. I've been disappointed before and we must always be ready to be disappointed again," he added. Soyinka 2015 Oga Mightyhaze care to review your post ? Appears IamaNigerianGuy was right. |
| Health › Re: Doctor Amputates A Healthy Baby Who Was Thought To Have Died In The Womb (Pics) by GeorgeTheCoder: 11:47am On Apr 24, 2017 |
IamaNigerianGuy: 1 Like |
| Programming › Re: I Want To Learn Programming by GeorgeTheCoder: 7:38am On Apr 24, 2017 |
crowntoro:@crowntoro follow the link to join the Telegram group. ITS FREE TO JOIN This is a remote training you can join us from anywhere in the world. I run the classes from my base in Lagos and Dubai 1 Like |
That's total rubbish. Growing up with both parents doesn't guarantee emotional stability.
