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This case exposes the same weakness that has plagued Nigeria for decades a system that bends for outsiders while leaving its own citizens unprotected. When illegal workers can resist arrest, bypass documentation, exit as ordinary passengers,and re‑enter the country within days without sanctions, it shows that the real danger is not foreign nationals it is the institutions that refuse to enforce the law.

A nation that cannot defend its borders, its labour force, or its legal standards becomes a soft target for criminal‑minded opportunists. And when senior officials shield offenders while Nigerian workers face unsafe conditions and exploitation, it sends a clear message: outsiders are prioritised, and Nigerians are expendable. This must end.

pansophist:
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Her response in stressful situations. For example, going on a vacation with her, and due to feign emergency, the trip would change and canceled midway., how is her reaction? Also, testing if she is dependable. Like calling her in the middle of a night and ask for a quick favor. (not 2k favor lol) Also, ask her for cash, yep, a lot of it. Faking loss of financial buoyancy due to bad business deals and watch if her behaviors changed. Asking her about her ex and if she talks shit about them. Her relationship with her parents, especially her father.

Her kind of friends, if she is financially responsible by watching what she spends her money on. If she is religious, or submit to a sophisticated belief system. If she lives within her means. How she relates with people she gains nothing from (eg waiters), how she relates with the defenseless (animals and kids) if she can take good care of you when sick. Does she have it at the back of her head to be adorable and accentuate her femininity by eating healthy and keeping in shape?

Giving her handy crafted gifts and see if she appreciates it more or less than money. If she is a social media addict and attention seeker. If she respects things, events, and people that are important to you. Does she give you gifts equally during events such as your birthday? Does she try to impress you? Does she have the mentality that you should be lucky for having her? Is she submissive (not to be confused with being subordinate), can she cook and spice up the home with her feminine allure?

Is she egoistic? (not to be confused with healthy pride). Does she argue unnecessarily to win, or to make sense and pass her point? Is apologizing when she is at fault a big problem for her? Is saying "sorry" automatic or forced? Has she grown past mind games and cheap manipulations? Does she weaponize sex? Does she go beyond her comfort to make you smile? How is her childhood like? (to know people deeply, you need to study their childhood), Can you be vulnerable to her? Does she carry herself with grace, and do not derive pleasure in provocative dressings?

Do you find yourself pleasing her naturally because her femininity shines out the masculinity in you? or she makes you do the things she wants by force? Does she let you lead? Is she complimentary to your life and brings opposing energy that flourishes the relationship? does she contribute to the growth of the relationship by playing her own path? Can you be yourself in her presence even if you wear a mask navigating the outside world?

Most importantly, a woman will naturally do most of these things and be on her best behavior if she chooses you. Do not ever try to convert a woman that has not fallen in love with you to do all this, it will be a disaster. Go where you are loved, and the woman will naturally submit if you are playing your part right. So do well for yourself, develop yourself as a man, so you'll have female abundance and leverage to set standards.

For now, this will do. If she passes a reasonable amount of this test, congrats. You got yourself a queen.

Nice one.

traware:
I completely agree with the sentiments in your post but who is going to do it? When the majority of our people from the Presidents to the gatemen,desire nothing but closeness to whiteness or those adjacent to whiteness?This has been going on for centuries...CENTURIES and still no end in sight

You’re right to ask who will check these foreigners because the truth is, no outsider can walk into a confident, self‑respecting community and behave like they own the place. The only reason some of them move around with that entitlement is because too many of our own people from the highest offices to the gatehouse have been conditioned to treat foreign presence as superiority. That mindset didn’t start today. It was engineered over centuries through religion, education, and colonial systems that taught our people to doubt themselves and overvalue anyone who looks closer to whiteness. And until we confront that conditioning, the behaviour will continue.
One thing for sure that i know is that no foreigner can dominate a community that has standards,no outsider can disrespect a people who respect themselves,and no visitor can act like an owner unless someone local hands them the keys and this is why the work starts with us. We need to start a community policing to report any foreigners that move suspiciously in our neighbourhood, walking around, taken photos of young girls and boys or where a foreign immigrants seeks to disrespect local women infront of her people while others act like it dont matter we must step up and check him out asap.

traware:
Not surprised.I remember in the late 1990s,there were articles in Nigerian newspapers and magazines about foreign men (mostly Lebanese) paying Nigerian women to furk Alsatian dogs and filming it.Some still photos were even published.E don tay no be today

Isnt it high time we start checking this foregners to know their mission in our community regardless if they walk around with escorts or not, especially when you see them moving around like they owned the pace

Kemetian:
Did ''worshipping money'' come from nowhere?

Africans did not always ''worship money''.

That started when FOREIGNERS invaded with guns, bibles and korans!!!

Africans are traditionally and historically a VERY COMMUNAL-MINDED, SPIRITUAL PEOPLE.

You can still see that ancient nobility in ANY Nigerian village you enter today. But in the precolonial era, it existed in the CITIES as well, unlike today.

''In 1691, the Portuguese ship captain Lourenco Pinto observed: “Great Benin, where the king resides, is larger than Lisbon; all the streets run straight and as far as the eye can see. The houses are large, especially that of the king, which is richly decorated and has fine columns. The city is wealthy and industrious. It is so well governed that theft is unknown and the people live in such security that they have no doors to their houses.”

In contrast, London at the same time is described by Bruce Holsinger, professor of English at the University of Virginia, as being a city of “thievery, prostitution, murder, bribery and a thriving black market made the medieval city ripe for exploitation by those with a skill for the quick blade or picking a pocket”.''

- Story of cities #5: Benin City, the mighty medieval capital now lost without trace https://www.theguardian.com/cities/2016/mar/18/story-of-cities-5-benin-city-edo-nigeria-mighty-medieval-capital-lost-without-trace


Our traditIonal religion and spirituality was a check on corrupt practices, unlike foreign religions which preach ''forgiveness of sins'' so long as you ''ACCEPT'' their guy as your ''personal saviour'' or something, and voila!! ALL IS FORGIVEN, EVEN IF YOU LOOT $10 BILLION.

''JESUS'' will ''forgive your sins''.

MOHAMMED will forgive you once you travel to MECCA IN ARABIA ON HAJJ.

THAT'S THE ROOT OF ALL OUR PROBLEMS!!!!

ALL THIS FOREIGN NONSENSE!!!!

The IFA , AMADIOHA, ISIS AND OSIRIS that held your ancestors accountable (hence why they built great civilisations), you've abandoned for EUROPEAN AND ARAB ''saviours'', who 'FORGIVE' you even if you're a kidnapper, fraudster, bandit, terrorist or looter, and you wonder why your society is upside down.

KEEP WONDERING!!!!

ABSOLUTELY LOUD AND CLEAR. Slave Trade was not just a tragedy, it was the deliberate destruction of a people, a civilisation far ahead of its time than the ordinary eyes could comprehend, unmatched civilisation that a total erasur could only be the reason to justify slavery, and subjugation of a great people future. It was engineered through greed, fear of African advancement above them , and then handed us systems,religion and education built to erase our identity, our culture, and our humanity. And those same structures political, economic, religious, and ideological still shape global inequality today.

Liberation of African people from the effect of this damage from this children of Ase Etan european forces must be total erasure of the Religion, political ,education system with unity, communication,strategy, and pressure. they must be demanded with unity, strategy, and an unbroken voice. Imagine plagarising ouir Oral ifa tradition,making a mess of it transllation,made up so many stories and handed it back to us as bible with fake prophets like paul,jesus etc whom we all knew as Esu the high priest in the old time, telling us sacrifices and circumcision of our male children no longer neccesary that a melanin deficiency man has died and then destroyed all our sanctuaries and turned our world upside down to uphold their lies through their missionary teaching us to love poverty while they plunder our wealth and raped our women. . Our sanctuary and alters were places we offer sacrifices for sin and deterence of pollution and uncleaness for the healing of our nation, but its all gone and what we have now is a zombified generations and total immoral society.

Africa remembers.
Africa is organised.
And Africa will not be silent until justice is served.

Gerrard59:
While there are many West African men toiling and doing soapy in the yukay. I wouldn't be surprised the married women here arrogantly ask their husbands at home "Is sex food?"

The Nigerian girl even responded graciously to his question about her age. Imagine if it were a Ghanaian or Nigerian man who asked the same question.

Life is grossly unfair.

Bro, these European devils act like kings in their countries, giving you all types of stress, mental discomfort, and immigration-related difficulties when living among them in Europe. Some kind of help they could easily provide to help settle your life based on what we grew up knowing and what was written in the Bible they gave us yet you hear words like “go back to your shit hole Africa,” racial slurs, and constant suspicion that makes you wonder.

Yet they come to Africa and are still treated like kings. That means something was really wrong with the political system, religion, and education they gave us. It’s really unfair, and only an enemy behaves this way.

I’m happy that Niger has finally removed anything related to France, both past and present, from their constitution, and that Hausa is now the official language. I’m also happy with what Burkina Faso and Mali are currently doing to secure the future of the next generation before this evil beast is rooted out of the land of the living with their ill morals.

QuinQQ:
He's an expert, it's his job. I'm sure if an expert in Nigeria goes to Russia he'd get same result over the probably long time it took this guy. Only thing is, Russian men may shoot him!

He infected all of them with AIDS as a result one of the women he defiled killed herself yesterdy upon confirmation of her HIV diagnosed.

The demon no even use motor car not to talk of drives one,nor have any standard, he just dey pick them randomly by the sidewalk , you all see the contradiction in this terrible women?? but when it comes to their darkie brothers showing interest in them. This terrible women behaved badly,set all sorts of standards that often lure lovestrucked men into crimes in order to meet up,insults you for not driving a car or having money and vow not to settle for less, self hatred mixed poverty of the mind..

VonScott:
Those women were all coded hoes, poverty stricken sales girls..used to hanging around touristy areas.
They guy didn't even pay some of them at all. Then, those girls weren't exactly good looking so he had a mission.

No one says:
1. hey
2. you look nice
3. come with me

If you aren't a hoe, or case of just plain inferiority theres no way you'd just go raw!
Then again, that guy was maliciously spreading diseases in Africa (like they always do).
He should be locked up.

Recently, one of these 'visitors' from eastern europe was seen in a remote area of Ghana videoing.
A local accosted him and directed him to get a local tour guide from the office & received praises online.

Some africans are just gawd damn $tupendous. A convicted paedophile from the US came to work as a priest in a local religious school in kenya sometime ago and they just rolled the carpet for him while he was molesting all the female kids .
Don't let these people just walk freely into your hinterland. They don't mean well!!

Your entire comment proves the point: predators don’t succeed in Africa because they are powerful they succeed because some of our people have been conditioned to drop their guard the moment a foreign face appears. Yes, some of these women acted recklessly. Yes, their choices were shaped by desperation, poor judgment, and a dangerous hunger for validation. But the real issue is bigger than them.

The real threat is the way some outsiders can walk into African communities with a camera, a smile, and a fake story and suddenly doors open, boundaries collapse, and people forget to protect themselves. That is how predators slip through. That is how criminals hide in plain sight. And that is how entire communities get harmed.

You mentioned the paedophile who was welcomed into a Kenyan school. You mentioned the tourist filming remote areas without accountability. These are not isolated incidents they are symptoms of a deeper vulnerability: a society that has not yet rebuilt its self-worth and its protective instincts after centuries of manipulation.

But here is the truth we must hold onto in order to move forward: Vigilance is not hatred,Boundaries are not hostility,Protection is not xenophobia. Africans must stop rolling out red carpets for strangers simply because they are foreign. Respect must be earned, not assumed. Access must be regulated, not freely given. And communities must learn to say No without guilt.

Predators thrive where vigilance dies.

meobizy:
You go explain tire.

You stilll think its a joke? A Kenyan woman has now been found dead after learning she was HIV‑positive from this same Russian man this is no longer gossip or country banter. It is something that has shaken the foundation of our nation. A foreign predator moved through African communities with zero oversight, exploiting vulnerable women, filming them, and feeding the content to racist audiences abroad. And with the same Russian and Ukrainian networks already deceiving Africans with fake job offers only to send them to the battlefield, this pattern is a real continental threat.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qCSyH_ZswAM

meobizy:
The story happened in Ghana. The man approached Ghanaian women from the video I saw. The only Nigerian woman he acquired came factory fitted with problems which a later video showed.

Akofua is angry that his sisters are easier to catch than the Nigerian women he calls ashawos. He’s trying to drag every other country’s women into the mix. The man never visited Kenya. There is no proof. The only Nigerian woman he slept with was announced to make people believe it was an equal ratio. It is a lie. The video I saw was 29:1. They should handle their problem. There is also zero proof that the man had AIDS. I see it as a situation where he decided to create future Russian fighters of African descent. That body of his is obviously military-built.

You’re treating this like a country‑vs‑country argument when a Kenyan woman has just been found dead after discovering she was HIV‑positive from this same Russian man. This is no longer gossip or Russian propaganda. It’s a real pattern of foreign predators moving through African countries with zero oversight hiding behind charity work, gaining access to poor communities, exploiting women, filming them, and distributing the content to racist audiences abroad.

And let’s not pretend Africa is safe from foreign manipulation. Russian and Ukrainian networks have already tricked African men with fake job offers, only to send them straight to the battlefield. Many have died. That’s documented.

You don’t argue about which country’s women he targeted. You recognize a continental security threat and treat it with the seriousness it deserves.

This is not a joke.
This is not propaganda.
This is a predator exploiting African vulnerability, and Africa must respond with urgency.

Flangelo12:
He should fk off.

Many foreign women sleep with guys they met on the same day.

You are missing the entire point. This wasn’t fun or casual hookups. This man is HIV‑positive, he knowingly infected African women, and he sold the recordings to racist audiences in Russia to mock and degrade African people. That’s not adventure that’s premeditated exploitation and deliberate humiliation. No community should tolerate a predator using Africa as his playground.

SpencerForbes:
You’re 100% spot on. This wasn't just a 'pick me' move; it was a carefully orchestrated script.

There should be legal consequences for this. If you spend time in certain hotels, you'll realize the level of desperation is high once a foreigner is involved. They end up treating these women like cheap goods.

Imagine if a black man tried that same stunt in Russia... he wouldn't even live to tell the story. We really need to start valuing ourselves.

You’re right about one thing: this wasn’t random.
This Russian man didn’t get lucky he followed a calculated script built on poverty, desperation, and the dangerous belief that anything foreign is automatically superior.

But here’s the truth we must hold onto: The problem is not African women. The problem is the predator who studied their vulnerability and exploited it.

He recorded sexual content, sold it online, mocked African nations, and hid behind charity work to gain access. That is not seduction that is premeditated exploitation.

And you’re right:
If an African man tried this in Russia, he wouldn’t even make it to the airport.
That’s why African must stop operating with open doors and friendly arms to every foreigners and no protection.

SpencerForbes:
Some men serious wives and girlfriend🤧🤧🤧 so devastating. While the husbands and fiancés are laboring, their “better halves” are seeking short cuts to Europe.

He is known to be Recording Sexual Content with African women and selling it through Telegram and other platforms targeting russian Audiences to mock and insults african nation by disrespecting our women. He Travels africa,exploiting women from multiple countries,cities and villages, he is known to appear as NGO, build a borehol, offer small projects, a classroom, a dusty road.
These projects are often symbolic enough to gain trust, but not enough to create real development.

He will then amplify the kindness On Social Media like tiktok,instagram,twiter etc to gain likes and praises of african people. Then uses the trust to access women and girls. and sexually violate them and secretly record such acts to post to his russian audiences.

2. Greed and desperation create the perfect opening
When someone believes a foreigner is a shortcut to a better life, they drop their guard.
They ignore red flags.
They trust too quickly.
They allow access too easily.

This is not about morality — it’s about vulnerability.

3. Predators like this Russian man study african country weaknesses
He didn’t target women because they were “cheap.”
He targeted them because he understood the psychological gap created by poverty, colonial residue, and the worship of foreignness.

This Russian guy scandal is not just about one depraved foreigner. His behavior was wicked, predatory, and criminal but the ease with which he moved through Nairobi and Accra exposes a deeper psychological wound we keep pretending doesn’t exist. Some of our people still treat RED skin like a passport to paradise. An HIV Positive man with no dignity, no resources, and no character walked into African cities and was treated like a prize simply because he was foreign and pale. That is not romance that is conditioning. That is the leftover programming of colonialism, where REDness was sold as wealth, safety, and salvation.

And here is the part nobody wants to say out loud: African men in Europe have been beaten, stabbed, chased, and even killed for simply being seen with european women. Asylum houses have been burned down because African men were accused of “sleeping with their women.These incidents are widely reported across Russia, Italy, France, and Eastern Europe.

So while some Africans are busy worshipping this devils, the same people is busy policing, punishing, and violently rejecting Afican presence in its own backyard.That contrast alone should wake us up. This is what happens when: RED SKIN is worshipped more than self-worth ,foreignness is valued more than character,desperation replaces discernment,validation from outsiders becomes a drug.

The Russian man’s wickedness is obvious. But the mindset that allowed him access the mindset that lowers boundaries for anyone with an accent and a passport is the real danger. This is not about shaming African women. It is about exposing a psychological vulnerability that colonialism planted and society never uprooted.


Until Africans rebuild their sense of value, Destroy the colonial mindsets and its religion idealogy, predators will keep slipping through the cracks left by history.
Self-respect is the shield. Not REDness.
Not fantasy. Not escape dreams.

The hypocrisy and brainshwashing kagame saw.

everybody dey craze for that country nii. no originality anymore ni

SisterAnn:
You are being too emotional now and you are not seeing clearly.

Haa i sha don talk my own lol.

SisterAnn:
Not possible in this life. Faith is a necessity for living. Only don't use it for evil.

Make dem ban dem or regulate dem abeg. A belief system that rejects moral discipline, rejects accountability, rejects community order, and rejects the behavioural laws that keep a society healthy is not faith o. it is sentiment. Real faith produces obedience, justice, self‑control, and care for the land and community. What many call faith’ today is simply a doctrine that excuses erosion of responsibility and tells people a foreign saviour has given them the right to live without restraint. That is illusion, not spirituality. A nation cannot rise on emotion; it rises on moral law, discipline, and works that match the faith people claim to have.

SisterAnn:
You are very correct!

The former seems a bigger problem because of its penchant to kill and spill blood of innocent people with reckless abandon.

The later can kill too with their manipulations, but not until you use your two legs to walk into their trap will they begin to fleece you of your income. 😅
When reality hits you, it could be too late.

They all should be designated as terrorist entities by the Federal Government so as to restore sanity to the minds of the people. Nationwide emergency should be declared.

lawani:
What is in Christianity apart from promotion of and excuse for immorality? Your past, present and future sins have been died for over two thousand years ago by a foreigner

Absolutely!. When a belief system tells you that a foreign savior already absorbed every sin you committed, are committing, and will commit, it stops being a moral guide and becomes a comfort blanket. It doesn’t regulate behaviour, it excuses it. That’s why immorality thrives not because people are evil, but because the doctrine removes responsibility and replaces it with sentiment.

A doctrine that cancels all accountability before you even act will naturally produce people who live without restraint. That’s not spirituality that’s moral anesthesia.

kingthreat:
Well the religious standard then was to be either a scribe or Pharisee but he wasn't. That's why he was hated, persecuted and setup to be killed.
So you're very wrong.

You are absolutely right!! Christ didn’t choose random, unprepared people to lead. He spent years teaching, correcting, rebuking, and shaping His disciples before sending them out. Paul didn’t endorse ignorance he confronted false teachers, demanded sound doctrine, and insisted that leaders be apt to teach,blameless, and rightly dividing the word of truth. Those are qualifications,those are standards,those are forms of training.
A society that refuses to regulate its religious environment becomes vulnerable to:

1. exploitation

2. extremism

3. manipulation

4. imported ideologies

5. leaders who answer to no one

That’s not faith.
That’s danger.

A responsible nation has every right to say: If you want to lead people spiritually, you must be accountable, trained, and safe.
That’s not fighting God,that’s protecting citizens. The supernatural does not excuse disorder.
And people getting used to invoking Jesus to defend chaos is not spirituality it’s avoidance of responsibility.

Amos 3:10 For they know not to do right, saith the LORD, who store up violence and robbery in their palaces.

lawani:
Churches have millions of tithe paying members. Public money no accountability, private jets, huge mansions. Controlling millions of people like cattle. It can't exist side by side a real government

Damn.... Let’s all come together and petition our government to put an end to unregulated religious houses especially those that spew rhetoric and strange doctrines to justify open resistance to the moral laws, dietary laws, and feast days found in the biblical commandments of the Most High, while promoting rebellion and celebrating Greco‑Roman holidays that are not in the Scriptures at all.

IsraeliAIRFORCE:
"theology degrees before leading congregations" This statement is a case of human interfering in the affairs of the supernatural. It's unenforceable.

Jesus Christ never used scribes and saheindriens to propagate the gospel. Even Apostle Paul said it wasn't by enticing words of man's wisdom rather the demonstration of the power of the Holy Spirit.

Invoking Jesus and Paul to justify zero structure, zero training, zero accountability in modern religious leadership is not faith it’s illusion. The early church wasn’t a chaotic free‑for‑all. It was disciplined, ordered, and governed by strict standards of conduct, character, and doctrine. What you’re calling supernatural freedom was actually deep spiritual responsibility. The reality is simple: Untrained leaders create confusion,confusion creates manipulation,manipulation creates harm. That’s not Holy Spirit power. That’s disorder wearing a spiritual mask.

What you’re calling interference in the supernatural is actually protecting people from the damage caused by unregulated spiritual authority.
The illusion is thinking that anyone with a loud voice and a rented hall is automatically “called

SisterAnn:
That religion breeding terrorists needs to be looked into seriously.

Imagine how many lives has been destroyed so far through the doctrines and war rethoric of the jihadist clerics in the north, Religion itself does not create terrorists lawlessness inside religious spaces does. And when a belief system (any belief system) becomes a shield for violence, manipulation, or extremism, a responsible nation has no choice but to confront it with clarity and firmness. A society cannot ignore a spiritual environment that produces: radicalization,anti‑state sentiment,rejection of national law,obedience to foreign ideological authorities,leaders who answer to no regulation, no training, no accountability.

Lifestone:
But several government attempted to do this and it was severely resisted by Nigerians.
Things from other countries always sound good to you guys.

When past Nigerian governments attempted to regulate religious excess, the resistance wasn’t because the idea was wrong. It was because the people had already been shaped by decades of unregulated doctrine, charismatic manipulation, and imported ideologies that taught them that freedom means “no accountability. A leader who wants to restore order must understand three things: Unregulated religion becomes a political force, Imported ideology becomes a cultural virus, A rebellious congregation becomes a parallel government

This is why strong governance is necessary.
Not to silence faith — but to protect citizens from confusion, exploitation, and ideological fragmentation. A leader who wants to confront this must be: firm enough to set standards, disciplined enough to enforce them, wise enough to distinguish faith from manipulation, courageous enough to withstand backlash, principled enough to protect the nation’s cultural identity
Because when a society refuses to regulate its spiritual environment, it becomes vulnerable to: foreign doctrines that erase identity,
charismatic opportunists who exploit poverty, lawlessness disguised as worship, emotional crowds that resist any form of accountability
This is why many African nations struggle: the loudest voices in the spiritual space often hold more influence than the state itself.

This is why decisive action matters.
Not to silence faith — but to protect it.
Not to limit worship — but to guard citizens from confusion.
Not to attack religion — but to ensure it uplifts rather than misleads.

Africa needs leaders who understand that:

spiritual spaces shape national consciousness

unregulated doctrine can destabilize a society

cultural identity must not be swallowed by imported belief systems

citizens deserve protection from manipulation disguised as faith

A nation that refuses to regulate its spiritual environment leaves its people vulnerable to every wind of doctrine, every foreign influence, every charismatic opportunist. A nation that sets standards is a nation that values the mental, cultural, and spiritual safety of its citizens.

This is the model:
courageous governance that protects the people from confusion, exploitation, and ideological fragmentation.
Not by suppressing belief, but by ensuring that belief is guided by competence, integrity, and accountability.

That is how a society preserves its identity.
That is how a nation guards its future.

Hoodrat:
When the memory of a land’s real past fades, colonial narratives slip in to fill the silence.

The story shifts, and with it, the pride that should have been inherited from ancestors is quietly redirected toward those who conquered, exploited, or rewrote the record.

The promised land is undoubtedly in Africa. Just look at the world around you. Care for your communities, restore your surroundings, and allow the land to bring out the best in you