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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Palema007: 10:17am On Nov 14, 2020
pansophist:
SpeciMental


This is dope. Palerma007, now go save this quote in the museum.
Durh! grin

They there dey test... Upon your test, nothing is certain. What will be will be!
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Palema007: 10:20am On Nov 14, 2020
pansophist:


Feel free to enter a relationship without deliberately vetting out if he is a good man. Then come back later and cry how he treats you bad and sleep around. Why you think arrange marriage was a thing and stipp culture in many parts of the world ?
If you are discerning enough, you would know what your partner is capable of without necessarily giving them the chance to impress you, or only let out what they want you to know.

Seriously, you think women don't know when a man is testing them? Lol make I no talk.
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Joker09(m): 11:25am On Nov 14, 2020
CaveAdullam:
Nothing there is difficult for a woman. It is as simple as ABC as it requires little muscular work and a good dose of mental capacity. In fact, all women were born with the aforementioned qualities, but squandered it away out of negligence, liberality, ignorance, and poor parental upbringing. Only when they are done with their debauchery days, and decide to settle down will they begin to discover and analyse the mistakes they've made in the past. Many of them are lucky though, because since majority of men has veered off from virility traits, they still settle for such kind of women----They've found true love at last. Loooooooool.

If women will not settle for less, men also must raise the bar and not settle for less also. This is stable enough.

Ride on jare.

Exactly, women don't settle for less. If she has a standard of not dating broke guys, guys should have a standard of not dating 'non virgins' and other ill characters pansophist mentioned too. That's why I always say women play their own games smarter than men.

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Joker09(m): 11:31am On Nov 14, 2020
Michelle55:
Hmmm. All these epistle ontop woman matter? Ike gwuru

Women no worth the write up? Abi women no be human being? Since most of us plan to live the rest of our lives with women. Why isn't women matter worth it to u? Or all the divorces and bad marriages in the society dey sweet u? undecided

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Joker09(m): 11:41am On Nov 14, 2020
Shortyy:


In other words a 26 year old lady shouldn't marry because a hymen has cut.

I'm sorry to say this, but this is a very useless post.

She'll get her type. There is a man for every woman.
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Joker09(m): 12:17pm On Nov 14, 2020
CaveAdullam:
But you will never advice any of your brother or male relative to marry a runs girl. Hypocrisy at its core.

And for your info, many men who occupy top positions are simps e.g politicians. The reason you see jobless girls with a very low IQ and mental capacity displaying houses, cars, bags and shoes they cannot afford based on their own ability.

More than 80% of men lack an understanding of the female nature, and they will commit to any woman in as much they satisfy their libido. And of course, many are rich, high quality, famous e.g Will Smith, but that an absolute simp when it comes to women. They are pawns in women's chess board, the ones you call MAGA, ATM, sugar daddies, etc.

Your runs girls classmates were subtle and good in their games.

PURE LIE!!!! LIE FROM THE BOTTOMLESS PART OF HELL.


For your information:
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.

Now lets see who's talking nonsense, and know the truth about virginity.


Who even told her that the simps marriages to her runs girls coursemates will last? Loool

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Magnoliaa(f): 1:38pm On Nov 14, 2020
Fountainofyouth:



You are funny, why are you taking what I said about pansophist personal? If you want to ask if his gf falls under the materialistic women, ask him, not me, what I said of him is facts, and he knows it,

Next time go through my comments to know why I arrived at that before throwing tantrums about.


gosh. *rolls eyes*. You are the only person that is trying to paint this as my personal ish. So everyone that quotes you to say something contrary to what you said is throwing tantrums and on a personal fight??

Even after clarifying my stance. You felt I was attacking you, then responded accordingly and if I became rude because of your responses you'd further use that to say I'm taking things personal.

(I already asked him a personal question on this thread he didn't respond to.)

You can keep at this if you're bent on misconstruing me. x

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Skepticus: 6:03pm On Nov 14, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Lol Question of the Ages. They won't and can't measure up to the standard definitely because most of you possess a very low "IQ" Generally Female Being Brain Is too Shallow and not fit for Cognitive, Logical and Critical reasoning.......

The coon doesn't even know that men drop these knowledge from observing what women say and its relation with what women do when it comes to the dating market and other part of life.

Women are the red pill but they are so dumb (or pretend to be) that they don't see what is in front of them (lack of self awareness) and are waiting for pansophist and ubunja to lecture them about their own innate nature grin

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Evolutionlove: 6:35pm On Nov 14, 2020
Skepticus:


The coon doesn't even know that men drop these knowledge from observing what women say and its relation with what women do when it comes to the dating market and other part of life.

Women are the red pill but they are so dumb (or pretend to be) that they don't see what is in front of them (lack of self awareness) and are waiting for Ubunja and Caveadullam to lecture them about their own innate naturegrin

Lol this wraps It Up......

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by ZIINI: 8:00pm On Nov 14, 2020
pansophist:
Her response in stressful situations. For example, going on a vacation with her, and due to feign emergency, the trip would change and canceled midway., how is her reaction? Also, testing if she is dependable. Like calling her in the middle of a night and ask for a quick favor. (not 2k favor lol) Also, ask her for cash, yep, a lot of it. Faking loss of financial buoyancy due to bad business deals and watch if her behaviors changed. Asking her about her ex and if she talks shit about them. Her relationship with her parents, especially her father.

Her kind of friends, if she is financially responsible by watching what she spends her money on. If she is religious, or submit to a sophisticated belief system. If she lives within her means. How she relates with people she gains nothing from (eg waiters), how she relates with the defenseless (animals and kids) if she can take good care of you when sick. Does she have it at the back of her head to be adorable and accentuate her femininity by eating healthy and keeping in shape?

Giving her handy crafted gifts and see if she appreciates it more or less than money. If she is a social media addict and attention seeker. If she respects things, events, and people that are important to you. Does she give you gifts equally during events such as your birthday? Does she try to impress you? Does she have the mentality that you should be lucky for having her? Is she submissive (not to be confused with being subordinate), can she cook and spice up the home with her feminine allure?

Is she egoistic? (not to be confused with healthy pride). Does she argue unnecessarily to win, or to make sense and pass her point? Is apologizing when she is at fault a big problem for her? Is saying "sorry" automatic or forced? Has she grown past mind games and cheap manipulations? Does she weaponize sex? Does she go beyond her comfort to make you smile? How is her childhood like? (to know people deeply, you need to study their childhood), Can you be vulnerable to her?

Do you find yourself pleasing her naturally because her femininity shines out the masculinity in you? or she makes you do the things she wants by force? Does she let you lead? Is she complimentary to your life and brings opposing energy that flourishes the relationship? does she contribute to the growth of the relationship by playing her own path? Can you be yourself in her presence even if you wear a mask navigating the outside world?

Most importantly, a woman will naturally do most of these things and be on her best behavior if she chooses you. Do not ever try to convert a woman that has not fallen in love with you to do all this, it will be a disaster. Go where you are loved, and the woman will naturally submit if you are playing your part right. So do well for yourself, develop yourself as a man, so you'll have female abundance and leverage to set standards.

For now, this will do. If she passes a reasonable amount of this test, congrats. You got yourself a queen.
He too long undecided
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by pansophist(m): 8:12pm On Nov 14, 2020
ZIINI:

He too long undecided

She no need meet all cry
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by scottyy: 3:09am On Nov 15, 2020
Internet sha.
How easy is it to find a virgin nowadays?
Not just that, to find a virgin with all the aforementioned attributes?

All na cruise sha last last.
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by kurupt1: 4:36am On Nov 15, 2020
geedot:
This is where I judge people's true behavior. Watch how they treat people below them, then you already have an idea of how good or bad a person she is or they are.

A lot of women now know this secret ,so even pretend to be nice to waiters and drivers
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Whitemagic: 10:20am On Nov 15, 2020
SteelMcqueen:
Op!!! The fundamental of any relationship is the man's frame. You bring her into your frame. if she can't submit to your frame... ditch her.

Get this guys!!! it's not what she is.....it's who you are!!!
Tell em to read Rational Male

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by LostMyZeal(m): 10:51am On Nov 15, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Actually this Is not really news lol, I was expecting N250/litre upwards because I need to capitalize on this to make some great bucks. But It's still fine at 170/200litre. The Sheeples will definitely buy as they have no Option. Merry Christmas and Happy Blissful New Year In Advance......


Sorry but this is a moronic and disgusting thought process

JAH help you...shalom
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by pansophist(m): 2:12pm On Nov 15, 2020

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by anochuko01(m): 2:16pm On Nov 15, 2020
Saccharine:
cheesy cheesy cheesy
You nefa see sontin
All this one can be acted for as long as it takes.

That's not true, except the guy chooses to ignore them. Five months without pay due to covid, my so called gf never for once suggested to be of any help. Not even 200 naira airtime.

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by kepstone: 4:16pm On Nov 16, 2020
anochuko01:


That's not true, except the guy chooses to ignore them. Five months without pay due to covid, my so called gf never for once suggested to be of any help. Not even 200 naira airtime.
you dont have a girlfriend oooooo. Look for another one.
My girl took care of me during the covid period cooking self and bringing money and food, i will give her the little i have she will say no.
When i was not to fine she brought drugs for me. and food. Abeg fine wife oooooo
looking for JAMB/POST UTME question papers take them online for free hit this link https:///2Ui7JMo

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by anochuko01(m): 4:53pm On Nov 16, 2020
kepstone:

you dont have a girlfriend oooooo. Look for another one.
My girl took care of me during the covid period cooking self and bringing money and food, i will give her the little i have she will say no.
When i was not to fine she brought drugs for me. and food. Abeg fine wife oooooo
looking for JAMB/POST UTME question papers take them online for free hit this link https:///2Ui7JMo

Baba, I already moved on oo
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by mickelkingz(m): 7:12am On Nov 17, 2020
Davash222:
All these just to be with a Nigerian girl




Una sha get time for nonsense.

lol.. good morning. we're learning bro. not only in a feminist world. but life as it matters. kindly drop ur experience. one love.
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by mickelkingz(m): 7:19am On Nov 17, 2020
Shortyy:


In other words a 26 year old lady shouldn't marry because a hymen has cut.

I'm sorry to say this, but this is a very useless post.

sister calm down.. ashawo wey lodge no ready to marry. u know this within urself.
this post is so meaningful. except the truth.

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by maak400: 8:59am On Jan 16
CaveAdullam:
Nice one from pansophist.

A little add: women by default are machiavellians, they know when, where, and how to mimic to any situation regardless of whether it's good or bad. Women, especially those who are approaching the wall, hit the wall or past the wall will play the chameleon game effectively, pretending to pass your vetting scrutinization. Many of them at their epiphany phase or wall phase, will then discover a need for a religious salvation, and begin to act as wise sages. And any man that approaches them in their religious salvation phase will definitely fall for their whims, with little or no cognizance of their past.

We all have a moment of change, but women change not for the sake of change itself, it is a subtle act of game and manipulation; an attempt to eat their cake during the h0e/party phase, and desire it back during the epiphany/salvation phase. What propel this change is because of a decline in beauty, attention, age, fertility and to quickly latch onto a man for marriage.

Therefore, as a man, entering into a long term relationship or marriage, the vetting process for women should be between the ages of 18-25, using the "virgin/hymen" requirement as a prerequisite. If a woman is a virgin, there is a very high probability of passing other tests. In addition to the vetting process: stir all forms of emotions in her; anger, pain, joy, gladness, anxiety etc. This is to determine her balance and extremes, and how to counter it when you eventually commit to her.

You don't need to like this, a man that has upheave himself to a king standard will never find problem searching and finally engaged himself to a virgin with a high dose of femininity. Other lower men can settle for repentant wh0res who wear a facade of intellect, logic, good behaviour, good character etc.

So, as a man, become high quality in every areas of your life, and only commit to a high quality woman. Settling for less is an unbalanced equation and a waste of your resources. Take a detailed analysis of her past, her sexual escapades, her social behaviour, ideologies and belief system.

Do not commit to a woman in her epiphany phase, because it is foolish to buy the cow when the milk is free. If she freely gave the milk in the past, there's no need paying for it in the present. Do not be deceived by the appearance of the cow, it is a facade.

Thanks.

God bless.
CaveAdullam my main man... thumbs up.
I want to know your view about a virgin lady that wants to wait till wedding night before having sex. Should her fiance wait patiently for her till wedding night or demand for sex before the marriage.

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jan 16
%100 write up
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by pansophist(m): 7:35pm On Jan 17
maak400:

CaveAdullam my main man... thumbs up.
I want to know your view about a virgin lady that wants to wait till wedding night before having sex. Should her fiance wait patiently for her till wedding night or demand for sex before the marriage.

This is not a one-size-fit-all answer.

It all depends on the values you hold as a man. A girl that wants to wait till marriage before sex is a testament to her virtue, and you should respect that.

If its left for me, I'll wait. But the question is, is she truly a virgin? Judging by the kind of women we have these days. I don't want to be swindled grin

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by maak400: 8:22pm On Jan 17
pansophist:


This is not a one-size-fit-all answer.

It all depends on the values you hold as a man. A girl that wants to wait till marriage before sex is a testament to her virtue, and you should respect that.

If its left for me, I'll wait. But the question is, is she truly a virgin? Judging by the kind of women we have these days. I don't want to be swindled grin
Thanks pansophist... Lol @ “I don’t want to be swindled” grin

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by angelfallz(m): 10:05pm On Feb 06
Please which website did you get the screenshots from?


CaveAdullam:
But you will never advice any of your brother or male relative to marry a runs girl. Hypocrisy at its core.

And for your info, many men who occupy top positions are simps e.g politicians. The reason you see jobless girls with a very low IQ and mental capacity displaying houses, cars, bags and shoes they cannot afford based on their own ability.

More than 80% of men lack an understanding of the female nature, and they will commit to any woman in as much they satisfy their libido. And of course, many are rich, high quality, famous e.g Will Smith, but that an absolute simp when it comes to women. They are pawns in women's chess board, the ones you call MAGA, ATM, sugar daddies, etc.

Your runs girls classmates were subtle and good in their games.

PURE LIE!!!! LIE FROM THE BOTTOMLESS PART OF HELL.


For your information:
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.

Now lets see who's talking nonsense, and know the truth about virginity.

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Dapcity007(m): 9:32am On Feb 13
Palema007:
I stopped reading mid way.... All these test just to know if a woman is worth your commitment? If you have to go through this stress, its best to just keep your commitment to yourself, get a sec doll or better still some clay! grin grin. This is INSECURITY at it's peak!

If a woman had written this, you all would have come for her head!

What jargons did you just finish spewing?
Do you think men and women are fundamentally equal, biologically, psychologically and evolutionary?
Why do you expect social conventions to make us equal?
Do you think we will be held to the same societal standards?
You must be dreaming or drunk?
What Nonsense
Rubbish angry

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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by AlphaSoul: 9:13pm On Feb 18
pansophist:
For the male version, please click the link https://www.nairaland.com/6257463/part-two-traits-woman-should

Her response in stressful situations. For example, going on a vacation with her, and due to feign emergency, the trip would change and canceled midway., how is her reaction? Also, testing if she is dependable. Like calling her in the middle of a night and ask for a quick favor. (not 2k favor lol) Also, ask her for cash, yep, a lot of it. Faking loss of financial buoyancy due to bad business deals and watch if her behaviors changed. Asking her about her ex and if she talks shit about them. Her relationship with her parents, especially her father.

Her kind of friends, if she is financially responsible by watching what she spends her money on. If she is religious, or submit to a sophisticated belief system. If she lives within her means. How she relates with people she gains nothing from (eg waiters), how she relates with the defenseless (animals and kids) if she can take good care of you when sick. Does she have it at the back of her head to be adorable and accentuate her femininity by eating healthy and keeping in shape?

Giving her handy crafted gifts and see if she appreciates it more or less than money. If she is a social media addict and attention seeker. If she respects things, events, and people that are important to you. Does she give you gifts equally during events such as your birthday? Does she try to impress you? Does she have the mentality that you should be lucky for having her? Is she submissive (not to be confused with being subordinate), can she cook and spice up the home with her feminine allure?

Is she egoistic? (not to be confused with healthy pride). Does she argue unnecessarily to win, or to make sense and pass her point? Is apologizing when she is at fault a big problem for her? Is saying "sorry" automatic or forced? Has she grown past mind games and cheap manipulations? Does she weaponize sex? Does she go beyond her comfort to make you smile? How is her childhood like? (to know people deeply, you need to study their childhood), Can you be vulnerable to her? Does she carry herself with grace, and do not derive pleasure in provocative dressings?

Do you find yourself pleasing her naturally because her femininity shines out the masculinity in you? or she makes you do the things she wants by force? Does she let you lead? Is she complimentary to your life and brings opposing energy that flourishes the relationship? does she contribute to the growth of the relationship by playing her own path? Can you be yourself in her presence even if you wear a mask navigating the outside world?

Most importantly, a woman will naturally do most of these things and be on her best behavior if she chooses you. Do not ever try to convert a woman that has not fallen in love with you to do all this, it will be a disaster. Go where you are loved, and the woman will naturally submit if you are playing your part right. So do well for yourself, develop yourself as a man, so you'll have female abundance and leverage to set standards.

For now, this will do. If she passes a reasonable amount of this test, congrats. You got yourself a queen.

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