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Hi dollynnn..
Your younger bro is greatly talented.
Pls don’t give up on him. He’s gonna be a great one.

dollynnn:
God bless your soul for me!

fk002:
Lol, you followed the same advice that you gave the OP and counter Mr Toks, where did the advice lead you now? It left you without a boyfriend because you are off age now and no man will like to settle down with a lady within his age bracket for obvious reasons.

Stop dishing out lame advice to innocent teenagers it doesn't work for you what makes you think it will work for them?

No marriage yet. We plan to settle down in 5years to come.
That’s Enough time to invest and expand, make more money, have more imported dog breeds, add more flesh too etc.

Kobicove:
The age gap is good but a 19 year old girl is not yet ripe for marriage in my book.

Look for someone who had tasted life a bit otherwise at some point she will think you robbed her of her youth

Wow. Thank you Toks2008.
You have really said all that’s needed to say.

Toks2008:
Don't you know that one the reasons young ladies cry of heartbreak is because they get involved with men too young to know what they really want?

Yes in some cases it is not about age but the truth is that age gap is a great factor.

A lady can be older than her man don't get me wrong and love is not about age but understanding and connection but nevertheless it is better for a young girl in her adult teens or early 20s to be with a man that is at least 8 or 10years older..
Why?

1. In most cases, the guy will adore her like a kid sis and will cope with her nastiness compared to a younger guy who is just about her age.

2. By the time the lady is in her mid 20s the guy is probably ready to take her home if she proves to be a good lady.

3. A 30 year old guy dating a 20 or 22year old lady will likely be stable enough financially, psychologically...to support the lady.

4. Ladies love to be pampered and they can get that easily from a guy who is quite older and not their peers that are probably still as childish as them.

5. Guys naturally get the kick when they know a girl is very younger than them and this spark will continue for a long time at least I am a testimony to this...

I can go on and on listing the benefits and guess what; the reason why ladies fall for married men easily is because married men are so mature mentally and they sure know how to take care of a woman and unfortunately ladies are wired to love a man that takes good care of them regardless of his marital status but the good thing is that girls experience same care from men who are considerably older than them.

My advise to adult teenage girls and those in their 20s is that they meticulously choose a guy who is at least 7 to 10years older or even more if they truly want to enjoy bliss.

This is my personal opinion and I think lalasticlala should consider this for front page so that young ladies can benefit from this no holds barr expose.
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Hehe..
We met in church, I think that’s a perfect explanato that I’m cautious of my relationship with God.

LosC:
Dog lover indeed..
Loving human and animal at the same time...

Leave that Teenager alone and focus on your journey with God

Nahh..
To smash is a no go �‍♂️.
I intend to keep her till she’s ready.

Tonnexy:
Smash

Your reasoning is little . Should I stay in a relationship which I can’t control?

Pierced:
U are looking for who to control......beta leave her alone.

TonyeBarcanista:
OP Congratulations but don't over celebrate yet!

You are at the first stage of relationship - the lovey dovey excitement stage. Please, enjoy it while it last but be prepared for the power struggle phase... That is where love is "tested".

Also, as a 19 year old, she is matured already but be prepared for any eventualities. Please, be not be too over excited to forget that you have to be in charge of your relationship and USE YOUR BRAIN - especially when she get into the university - worse is should the Uni be distant from your place of residence.

Be prepared! Be Prepared!! Be Prepared!!!

Thanks man..
Getting myself prepared for any emotional stress..
But she’s really worth it.

Smiles.
Relax petyprincess

She’s an adult [quote author=Petyprincess post=86827371]She doesn't know what she wants yet!! Mr supporter nd advicer so you can't do all that without dating her? A 19 years old can't give you love!! [quote]You should be like a older brother guiding her nd telling her to concentrate on her studies nd leave relationship for nw not hiding under the disguise of relationship to b dicking her!!


Looking at the options I have, she is more sensible and more mature than the way you reason.
She sees someone she likes, she goes for him, we fell in love.
Also the dicking around thing u mentioned.. not all guys are useless huh, Sex is not the major reason we are in love.
Go read my initial post then maybe it ll paint a better pics of me to you.
Also we agreed to no sex till when she’s ready.

We both want a relationship that ll lead to marriage..
All she wants is My love, support And advice.
All I want from her is love too.

Chuks9000:
So, what do you want from her?
What does she want from you?
If your motives doesn't tally, you will both have issues later.
Better to be on same page before committing. Age is not an issue.

I think we are in same page bro..

You think so bro?

Freehuman:
Age is just a number. Go guy.

Dog lover means I own dogs, I care for Pets, also means I have good heart ❤️

LosC:
Dog lover indeed..
Loving human and animal at the same time...

Leave that Teenager alone and focus on your journey with God

YOu think so?

Toks2008:
Perfect age gap. Infact i tell ladies to ensure they are about at least 8years younger than their guys if they can.

I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?