OP Congratulations but don't over celebrate yet!

You are at the first stage of relationship - the lovey dovey excitement stage. Please, enjoy it while it last but be prepared for the power struggle phase... That is where love is "tested".

Also, as a 19 year old, she is matured already but be prepared for any eventualities. Please, be not be too over excited to forget that you have to be in charge of your relationship and USE YOUR BRAIN - especially when she get into the university - worse is should the Uni be distant from your place of residence.

Be prepared! Be Prepared!! Be Prepared!!!

Smiles.
Relax petyprincess

She’s an adult [quote author=Petyprincess post=86827371]
She doesn't know what she wants yet!! Mr supporter nd advicer so you can't do all that without dating her? A 19 years old can't give you love!! [quote]You should be like a older brother guiding her nd telling her to concentrate on her studies nd leave relationship for nw not hiding under the disguise of relationship to b dicking her!!


Looking at the options I have, she is more sensible and more mature than the way you reason.
She sees someone she likes, she goes for him, we fell in love.
Also the dicking around thing u mentioned.. not all guys are useless huh, Sex is not the major reason we are in love.
Go read my initial post then maybe it ll paint a better pics of me to you.
Also we agreed to no sex till when she’s ready.

Petyprincess:

She doesn't know what she wants yet!! Mr supporter nd advicer so you can't do all that without dating her? A 19 years old can't give you love!! You should be like a older brother guiding her nd telling her to concentrate on her studies nd leave relationship for nw not hiding under the disguise of relationship to b dicking her!!
Go for someone of your age or wait for her period!!

You are talking absurdity Ma!

TonyeBarcanista:
OP Congratulations but don't over celebrate yet!

You are at the first stage of relationship - the lovey dovey excitement stage. Please, enjoy it while it last but be prepared for the power struggle phase... That is where love is "tested".

Also, as a 19 year old, she is matured already but be prepared for any eventualities. Please, be not be too over excited to forget that you have to be in charge of your relationship and USE YOUR BRAIN - especially when she get into the university - worse is should the Uni be distant from your place of residence.

Be prepared! Be Prepared!! Be Prepared!!!

Thanks man..
Getting myself prepared for any emotional stress..
But she’s really worth it.

Your reasoning is little . Should I stay in a relationship which I can’t control?

Pierced:
U are looking for who to control......beta leave her alone.

Nahh..
To smash is a no go �‍♂️.
I intend to keep her till she’s ready.

Tonnexy:
Smash

Hehe..
We met in church, I think that’s a perfect explanato that I’m cautious of my relationship with God.

LosC:
Dog lover indeed..
Loving human and animal at the same time...

Leave that Teenager alone and focus on your journey with God

OlawaleBammie:

Bro even me dey reason that tin oo


I wil just b in my seventies and my boo wil stil b rocking it at sixties

no offense, but how do you know you'll live till 70.? Even those that died young had dreams.. no one can predict the future

Wow. Thank you Toks2008.
You have really said all that’s needed to say.

Toks2008:


Don't you know that one the reasons young ladies cry of heartbreak is because they get involved with men too young to know what they really want?

Yes in some cases it is not about age but the truth is that age gap is a great factor.

A lady can be older than her man don't get me wrong and love is not about age but understanding and connection but nevertheless it is better for a young girl in her adult teens or early 20s to be with a man that is at least 8 or 10years older..
Why?

1. In most cases, the guy will adore her like a kid sis and will cope with her nastiness compared to a younger guy who is just about her age.

2. By the time the lady is in her mid 20s the guy is probably ready to take her home if she proves to be a good lady.

3. A 30 year old guy dating a 20 or 22year old lady will likely be stable enough financially, psychologically...to support the lady.

4. Ladies love to be pampered and they can get that easily from a guy who is quite older and not their peers that are probably still as childish as them.

5. Guys naturally get the kick when they know a girl is very younger than them and this spark will continue for a long time at least I am a testimony to this...

I can go on and on listing the benefits and guess what; the reason why ladies fall for married men easily is because married men are so mature mentally and they sure know how to take care of a woman and unfortunately ladies are wired to love a man that takes good care of them regardless of his marital status but the good thing is that girls experience same care from men who are considerably older than them.

My advise to adult teenage girls and those in their 20s is that they meticulously choose a guy who is at least 7 to 10years older or even more if they truly want to enjoy bliss.

This is my personal opinion and I think lalasticlala should consider this for front page so that young ladies can benefit from this no holds barr expose.
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Petyprincess:
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Trash!!! Will you advice your teenager sister to date a man almost at his thirty? You guys will just be giving advice that you can't give to your sisters!!
Y'all like younger women because they are easy to manipulate nd exploit at the same time! What is stopping him from waiting for her for three more years by that time she will definitely know what she wants if She's truly interested in this age gap shit! A girl at that age have no mind of her own!!

Why are you yelping over my personal opinion? se o wa alright sha? One cap never fits all so stop acting like a pepper seller and make your contribution decently ok!

The funny twist is that a lady at 20 will say a man at 30 is too old but this same girl at 30 will gladly date a man of 45...
Why the change of mind? If you like date a guy you are older than, as long as it works for you,fine but what i wrote is my opinion and only an unintelligent person will start getting fussy over another person's opinion. Be mature and be guided please.

GidiRide:
YOu think so?

The age gap is good but a 19 year old girl is not yet ripe for marriage in my book.

Look for someone who had tasted life a bit otherwise at some point she will think you robbed her of her youth

Petyprincess:

Lol you really delusional!! You believe in this first love shit in this 21st century? No wonder you like them young nd naive!! Just give her three more years you d be surprised she will go for her age group even if he should be her first love as you call it

You sound so indecent and very naive. Yes first love is very very strong not just for the lady but for the guy and the guy or lady you first love can make or mare you cos many people dont recover from it.

in the western world they believe so much in close age gap but guess what! that is why you see many baby mamas and girls in their teenage years or early 20s are already single mothers and this is not unconnected with the fact that they dated babies like them who are still very immature to understand what commitment is. If i were you i will calm down my raging hormone and learn from a man probably old enough to be your dad.

I will stop here. Have a great day daughter.

Kobicove:


The age gap is good but a 19 year old girl is not yet ripe for marriage in my book.

Look for someone who had tasted life a bit otherwise at some point she will think you robbed her of her youth

Did he say anything about marrying her right away? and even if he does, as long as he is mature enough to cope with her idiosyncracies i think it is all good.

Toks2008:


Did he say anything about marrying her right away? and even if he does, as long as he is mature enough to cope with her idiosyncracies i think it is all good.

It's absurd for a 29 year old guy to be walking down the street with a 19 year old girl who does not yet know her left from her right and be introducing her as his girlfriend!

At this stage she has no value to contribute to his life...the only thing she cares about now is who will buy her Coldstone icecream

He on the other hand only just wants an immature girl he can manipulate easily

manGODDED:
no offense, but how do you know you'll live till 70.? Even those that died young had dreams.. no one can predict the future

Sorry, assistant Jesus, we lives long in my lineage

why dis nonsense talk dis early momo sef

Petyprincess:

She doesn't know what she wants yet!! Mr supporter nd advicer so you can't do all that without dating her? A 19 years old can't give you love!! You should be like a older brother guiding her nd telling her to concentrate on her studies nd leave relationship for nw not hiding under the disguise of relationship to b dicking her!!
Go for someone of your age or wait for her period!!

she is an adult. you want him to go for one over used evening paper?

Regina Daniel got married to a man older than her parents and they seem to be doing okay.

people should be allowed to live their life

Petyprincess:

She doesn't know what she wants yet!! Mr supporter nd advicer so you can't do all that without dating her? A 19 years old can't give you love!! You should be like a older brother guiding her nd telling her to concentrate on her studies nd leave relationship for nw not hiding under the disguise of relationship to b dicking her!!
Go for someone of your age or wait for her period!!

Lol, you followed the same advice that you gave the OP and counter Mr Toks, where did the advice lead you now? It left you without a boyfriend because you are off age and no man will like to settle down with a lady within his age bracket for obvious reasons.

Stop dishing out lame advice to innocent teenagers it doesn't work for you what makes you think it will work for them?

No marriage yet. We plan to settle down in 5years to come.
That’s Enough time to invest and expand, make more money, have more imported dog breeds, add more flesh too etc.

Kobicove:


The age gap is good but a 19 year old girl is not yet ripe for marriage in my book.

Look for someone who had tasted life a bit otherwise at some point she will think you robbed her of her youth

Toks2008:


Why are you yelping over my personal opinion? se o wa alright sha? One cap never fits all so stop acting like a pepper seller and make your contribution decently ok!

The funny twist is that a lady at 20 will say a man at 30 is too old but this same girl at 30 will gladly date a man of 45...
Why the change of mind? If you like date a guy you are older than, as long as it works for you,fine but what i wrote is my opinion and only an unintelligent person will start getting fussy over another person's opinion. Be mature and be guided please.

God bless your soul for me!

fk002:


Lol, you followed the same advice that you gave the OP and counter Mr Toks, where did the advice lead you now? It left you without a boyfriend because you are off age now and no man will like to settle down with a lady within his age bracket for obvious reasons.

Stop dishing out lame advice to innocent teenagers it doesn't work for you what makes you think it will work for them?

Pierced:
U are looking for who to control......beta leave her alone.

Is that what you understood from what he wrote

Sometimes is not our universities that are bad, some peeps just cant comprehend simple things

Hi dollynnn..
Your younger bro is greatly talented.
Pls don’t give up on him. He’s gonna be a great one.

dollynnn:

God bless your soul for me!

Hehe..
Thanks for the assist.

ecstasy357:


Is that what you understood from what he wrote

Sometimes is not our universities that are bad, some peeps just cant comprehend simple things

Smiles..
I await who will reply you..

Kobicove:


It's absurd for a 29 year old guy to be walking down the street with a 19 year old girl who does not yet know her left from her right and be introducing her as his girlfriend!

At this stage she has no value to contribute to his life...the only thing she cares about now is who will buy her Coldstone icecream

He on the other hand only just wants an immature girl he can manipulate easily

GidiRide:
No marriage yet. We plan to settle down in 5years to come.
That’s Enough time to invest and expand, make more money, have more imported dog breeds, add more flesh too etc.

If you tie this girl down for 5 years and in the end you refuse to marry her, trust me she will pour acid on you!

Let her go and explore other relationships so that when she eventually gets married she will not feel that she missed out by not dating other guys

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree.
We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking..
In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.
Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

She will break ur heart ..

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree.
We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking..
In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.
Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

Hmmm! this your story gives me a sweet nostalgia.

Met my woman a day after her 19th birthday and I am 8years older having met her when I was 27 and guess what? I married her at 33 After 6years of courtship and 18years down the line we are still waxing stronger.

So you no get any reason to worry but just be mature enough to cope cos she was so naughty at the beginning but I coped.

Kobicove:


If you tie this girl down for 5 years and in the end you refuse to marry her, trust me she will pour acid on you!

Let her go and explore other relationships so that when she eventually gets married she will not feel that she missed out by not dating other guys

Not every lady is ready to be sampled by different dck bro. Yes she might get carried away but let that happen first but asking him to leave a lady he desires to go sample other dcks is not a good advise.

Oh wow.
Thanks for this sir.

otherway:


Hmmm! this your story gives me a sweet nostalgia.

Met my woman a day after her 19th birthday and I am 8years older having met her when I was 27 and guess what? I married her at 33 After 6years of courtship and 18years down the line we are still waxing stronger.

So you no get any reason to worry but just be mature enough to cope cos she was so naughty at the beginning but I coped.

Really
Thanks anyway.

Came4amod:


She will break ur heart ..

If I don’t have any good intentions for her, she won’t be discussed here..

Kobicove:


If you tie this girl down for 5 years and in the end you refuse to marry her, trust me she will pour acid on you!

Let her go and explore other relationships so that when she eventually gets married she will not feel that she missed out by not dating other guys

Be ready to be infected with STD...

Sexually transmitted Disrespect!!!