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Lol, this singing/dancing crew of Bella, Chichi and Phyna
Why are they all wearing black though? Dem arrange am?

Sha let me warn you ahead of time Hawk. This is a long read.

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
Gbemi tweets or not ehn, I know my truth already, I didn't even want her to get involved in this and go through the trauma of reliving that experience but shegemenge fc were tagging her brands yesterday, calling her all sort of names. We should protect abusers but throw their victims to the wolves? God actually forbid!!

But many people here did. They threw Bella to the wolves multiple times. Even if they didn't protect sheggz. They also engaged in throwing Bella to the wolves.

Especially those that claimed that they were so knowledgeable about Abuse, gaslighting, narcissism and therefore wanted to expose sheggz's abuse of Bella. They were the same people that attacked Bella, Trashed her, called her family names and attacked her fans for supporting her through all of this.

Meanwhile if they're really as knowledgeable about abuse as they claim, it would be expected that they know, it takes an average of 7 attempts ( attempts being the victim will try to leave but still end up going back to the abuser) for an abuse victim to leave. So why didn't those who claimed to have such knowledge of how to spot abuse, didn't also have the knowledge of how abuse victims react and have any empathy for Bella? what she's going through and how she's reacting to it? Especially in such an enclosed environment where she couldn't even break up and stay away from him if she wanted to?

Rather they called her stupid, foolish dumb this and that. Even attacked and insulted ber brother and family as if it's Bella's fault or her family's fault for how sheggz was treating Bella. Like you've been saying. Victim blaming her and her family.

This talk about abuse was always used as another hammer to hit Bella with.
It could not just be that she liked sheggz and he took advantage of it to treat her horribly, no, it had to be she's a fool, stupid this and that.

Which is why when this abuse was being taken seriously the first time a couple of weeks ago (and as we can see, anytime the abuse is being taken seriously and people are calling it out and feeling bad for bella) you saw the same people who were previously on board with the sheggz is an abuser to stupid, naive bella story all of a sudden switch and start saying no, it's not abuse. Bella is this, Bella is that. She and Sheggz fit each other. She's no victim. Even you was shocked and said that's why abuse victims don't come forward because they would be attacked, which is true.

What's the difference between their treatment ( "their" being who know Bella is an abuse victim but still continued to trash her, her family and her fans and call her stupid and all sort of names) of Bella and Sheggz's treatment of Bella? Is it because Bella could feel sheggz abuse but couldn't feel theirs? They were just as nasty as sheggz was. They even added insult to Bella's family. Tearing her family apart.

There was such a lack of empathy from the people who acted like they knew all about narcissism and abuse.
It just seemed like they wanted to use this Bella and Sheggz situation to show that they know what the words narcissism, abuse, gaslighting smh and as a means to bash Bella. Her family and the fans that support her.

I'll join people to tag Chris abi wetin be hin name because that konkolo Bella get stubborn head. After the show on Sunday, they should bundle her home. This is threat to life and sanity, no be fanbase, vvip or twitter feminists matter. A o ni resu ooooo.

tag away dear. Bella must be rescused.
They have been tagging Chris since.

Lol, stubborn head Bella. She's just someone in love and considering how hard it is for the victim to leave their abuser it may just as hard to rescue Bella which I pray she will be rescued from that relationship.

I agree with you that they should take her home. Explain things to her gently. She noticed some of the issues in their relationship In the house and tried to break up with him but I feel the enclosed space didn't allow them fully break up so like I said earlier I have faith she can.

I also want her to focus on herself in her media rounds.
I noticed her beautiful ability to be a defence minister for her friends especially with the way she has stood up for Rachel these past couple of days and while it points to her kind heart, her loyal and forgiving nature. I don't like it. I want her to avoid as much drama as she can because as we all know. There is so much drama around her.

All in all sha. I want bella to be ok.
Those who want to expose the abuse, cool.
But I just want Bella to be ok, because I have a feeling that if Bella comes out and doesn't cancel sheggz and throw him into the trash as they want, those who claim to be so knowledgeable about abuse but seem not to know how abused victims behave will start attacking her again and calling her names and attacking her family and fans.
As if that is what will help her. Smh.
One even tried to say that is what Twitter should do if bella defends him, bbn fans should cancel Bella too but Bella fans dealt with her.

No matter how long it will take. No matter what happens with this I just want Bella to be ok.

I gave you so much to read Abi

Sha nobody should ask Bella about sheggz and Gbemi in media rounds
Nothing concern her there
And this Bella's spirit of defending her friends, trying to speak up for her friends. I pray she throws it away before media rounds

Any question they ask her about anyone else, I hope she tells them to call the person and ask the person directly, make Bella rest.

Bella the same smart sense you used to avoid all the groovy and Phyna had sex drama between. Amaka, Chichi, you and Chomzy.
Baby girl please bring that spirit back
Jump and pass stupid questions during your media rounds.

Bella and Chichi settling issues

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
Don't ruin him, don't deplatform him, should he now die?


Last night, his fans were tagging Bemi's brands, they were coming for her source of income and he kept mute. He read tweets of them piling on his victim and kept quiet. I'm sure he was banking on her silence, lol. Definitely, not anymore. He should come out and say his name wasn't mentioned again now. A shameless dirty liar.

As I see say Gbemi dey sew thread on twitter
I know say food don done for you
My own is that I just want Bella to be on her own post show. I don talk my own about how I want her to relate with the housemates post show. No matter the Housemate, real, fake, rider. All of them.
Hi and bye things.
Make e no pass like that.

Bella don defend Rachel tire

Na so so Bella Bella Bella. I dey hear since
Everybody dey call Bella name, they want her to see what Rachel did to them.

Bella will defend Rachel from Adekunle, defend from Phyna.

Top 6. Abeg. Sunday is not far
Make my Bella rest.

Top 6 leave Bella abeg na
She is not Rachel's spokesman

Wait for Sunday and face Rachel with all these questions you guys have for her abeg.

Thank you Bella for saying that.
They should die the matter about Rachel and Adekunle because Rachel isn't there to speak for herself and if Bella keeps talking and defending Rachel it will be like she's Rachel's spokesman.

Thank for you saying that Bella.

Now Phyna don bring another Rachel matter for Bella to defend Rachel again?

Chai. My babe go do defence tire for Rachel
Bella you're a good friend abeg.

Praying for Bella abeg. She won't have any issues at all till Sunday.
Adekunle abeg, wait and ask rachel this question yourself,
Sunday is not far abeg.
Bella doesn't speak for Rachel. Don't ask her anything about you and Rachel problem.

Chaii

Bella ignore these people.
Why is Daniella bringing up Rachel matter when Rachel isn't here to talk to her about it?
Bella don't carry it on your head. Ignore all these people
Bella abeg go to the bedroom abeg and rest.

Daniella rest. Why are you bringing up problems.

Bella. Please avoid these people. Please. Please.
See set up

Nhazeru:
Don't worry

That girl will pack so much endorsement after the show.

She will, in addition to her money.
Thank you

TrulyTemitayo:
Bella just has a day left to win. Congrats in advance bby girl.

Yes oh!!!

This one they are keeping the housemates here. Are we sure Rachel and Chizzy are not downstairs packing their bags?

And Rachel has been saying she was packing like she knew.

Bella yes..
You have been up and saved multiple times.
People really like you
People like me and your rebellz love you and the casuals and neutrals that like you.

Bye Rachel
You made the house nice for Bella this past week
You cooked for my babe, kept her company.

For that. Thank you Rachel

The housemates are saying that the ninja told Ebuka to tell the housemates that voting just ended.

The top 6 now will finally enjoy their top 6 house to themselves.

Bella said Ebuka didn't eat his food.

Rachel and Chizzy.
My baby Bella. They have taken the 2 people you hang out with the most. Chai
My babe.

You'll be all right. Till they crown you winner on Sunday

Look at what Bella asked
She just asked Chizzy if he is a fake Housemate

My smart fave with the instincts

Big brother you have taken Bella's only support .
Bella try sleep from today till 7pm Sunday

Make no body provoke you try disqualify you

Chai.
Chest pain

Envelope don come.
Ninja don bring envelope

I guess the riders are going home

Bella be ready to miss your new friend Rachel

Why is Daniella asking Ebuka if he likes her.
Daniella. Help yourself abeg.

Bella said in her highlights that she has been auditioning for 4 years. I didn't even know that.
I'm glad your dreams came true Bella

Chichi. This wig must be thrown away when you leave this house.

My biggest Bella's highlights on my screen

My soft life Bella.
See as highlights full na.
Love, friendships, fights, enjoyment, winings, tears. Happiness. Sadness.

Bella brought it all.
A worthy winner.

Bella's highlights ending with her saying life is too sweet is just perfect..

Now they are watching their highlights, starting with Adekunle's own

Ah big brother..
I don't trust you and Ebuka

I really think someone is leaving tonight.
Why are we watching highlights then?

Ebuka saying he only came to make them talk because gossip is too much in their house.
He says don't they feel better now that they have let it out.
He says he wants to make them say things out and have them realise that it may be a small issue.

Now Rachel facing Adekunle.

Ebuka. This is when you should be doing reunion..
When matters are still hot and people still dey carry each other for mind


Not one year later when everyone has calmed down

Big brother don't try this break again
We are missing important gist.
Bella has finished talking and we didn't hear.

Now Adekunle is talking about Rachel.