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@ poster eyaa pele  >: ( >: ( >: ( >: ( >: ( >: ( >: ( My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « on: December 04, 2008, 12:56 PM » I recently made my gurl tell me who she dated in the past and found out that she slept with dif guys while we were still datin. she even did it with my frend, i still love her and forgave her, Was it wise to do that? Will it repeat ? I need your advice, Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! arramyjay (f) Posts: 1395 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #1 on: December 04, 2008, 01:11 PM » She slept with different guys while you were still dating?And you are still with her,that is nt wise. Report to moderator Logged Hi jaybee, Jesus take the wheel from us. oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #2 on: December 04, 2008, 02:35 PM » yes she actually did while i was still dating her. She is pregnant for me now and she tells me she is ashamd of what she has done and she is sorry. She actually said she would understand if i left her but i said i would not and that i gat her back, when i think of the guys my heart skips a beat and i grow red and want to $%$#$&&& sumone, HELP!! Am burning inside Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! sistawoman (f) In his heart Posts: 2862 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #3 on: December 04, 2008, 02:59 PM » I guess Jayz was right you can make a hoe into a housewife. Goodluck wit that. Report to moderator Logged It is what is, make it do what it do. YA HEARD!!! Thanks Peter!!!! iz2much (m) United Kingdom Manchester Posts: 436 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #4 on: December 04, 2008, 03:05 PM » @ Poster Dnt be surprised same thing happened to me,my friend went ahead and sleep with my girl am serious about this. Itz a true story and i stayed calm, So Man stay calm and everything going to be okay. Report to moderator Logged If u dnt fall 4 something u fall 4 anything. izeek (m) festac Posts: 723 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #5 on: December 04, 2008, 03:08 PM » sistawoman, and what makes u think all ladies are not whores? i remeber u talking about ur friend and her magun story. @post, i don't know what to tell u sha, but stuffs like that, try never to ask ur lady to open up. most times u would hear things that will linger on for long. yeah now u feel u can forgive, but what would happen later. it would be diff for u to trust her. u for don leave am, but since belle don dey involved, diff call. Report to moderator Logged success is failure turned inside out. sistawoman (f) In his heart Posts: 2862 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #6 on: December 04, 2008, 03:11 PM » Quote from: izeek on December 04, 2008, 03:08 PM sistawoman, and what makes u think all ladies are not whores? i remeber u talking about ur friend and her magun story. I am just having a little fun this am. nothing serious, not feeling well, this cold is kicking my assssssss. Report to moderator Logged It is what is, make it do what it do. YA HEARD!!! Thanks Peter!!!! zignor (m) Nigeria Posts: 1205 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #7 on: December 04, 2008, 03:14 PM » @sistawoman . . . it seems you're headmistress Undecided @poster . . .follow ur heart beat Grin Cheesy Report to moderator Logged You are what you think . . lol oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #8 on: December 04, 2008, 03:16 PM » @ izeek how I take know say the pickin, No i meant issue is mine? Thats the jigsaw in the whole maze, Am so down, I knew she was cheating but dint know all of them, she just confirmed when i asked her some direct qustions, what i don't know now is if she will change, she has alwaz said she was sorry but still repeated, is this the last straw? I could deny the issue or &^%%$ it Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! steve49ja (m) modaland Posts: 265 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #9 on: December 04, 2008, 04:12 PM » Good for you Report to moderator Logged "Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are." 190 (m) I'm yar adua's elder brother for christ sake Posts: 393 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #10 on: December 04, 2008, 04:15 PM » man i can bet u that child isnt urs, tell her 2 bounce immediately rite now before day dark 4 ur head Report to moderator Logged I'm so Hood(Rmix), Feat Rick ross,little weezy wayne,Ludacris,Yung Jezzy,etc steve49ja (m) modaland Posts: 265 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #11 on: December 04, 2008, 04:23 PM » some of us just come up with issues that disturbs our fun day @poster how would you re-consider a girl who cheated once?? funny enough she didnt just cheat once she want along to make alist interesting FCS's she included your back stabbing friend, guy don't let her work on your brain,for me thats what she wants to get pity from you, ' saying she'll understand if you decide to drop her OMG i pray make i no born your type for pikin (nothing personal) Report to moderator Logged "Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are." izeek (m) festac Posts: 723 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #12 on: December 04, 2008, 04:26 PM » well i just feel u should wait till the child comes to confirm. about her cheating, she might change, but can ur perspective about her change? thats the big deal. if that child turns out to be urs, then take care of ur responsibility, irrespective of ur decision about her. Report to moderator Logged success is failure turned inside out. BabeX (f) Lagos city Posts: 80 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #13 on: December 04, 2008, 04:29 PM » Boyo, I feel sorry for you. Il feel sorrier if u stay with the chick. Imagine living ur life wondering if ur wifey is cheating on u, wondering if ur kids are actually urs (u can do a paternity test to make sure sha) The trust is out of ur relationship- its a crucial part. If its gone then u r on shaky ground. Go easy, Report to moderator Logged Still discovering who I am kay_pumpin (m) celestial street,heaven Posts: 517 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #14 on: December 04, 2008, 04:34 PM » The relationship WILL barely work out.Yeah u can forgive her but can you forget[/b]? The problem aint now that her C n B story seem to be working,but when her charm eventually wears out Take a walk if u can[b] Report to moderator Logged who will guard the guards? Hesperus (m) Earth, but I want to go home! Posts: 124 Online Online Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #15 on: December 04, 2008, 04:37 PM » O boy, pick up your legs and run! Cheating is cheating, and worse still with ur friend. Now anytime you see him, ur mind will wander and you'll keep imagining him on top of her! No girl is worth that kind of torture. Report to moderator Logged Jodesky (m) Abj.ng Posts: 94 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #16 on: December 04, 2008, 04:37 PM » oblo, Is she in any way related to Animashaun (as surname) Which ever, please send me her name and number. Thank you so much, nice man. Report to moderator Logged can you hear me! oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #17 on: December 04, 2008, 04:55 PM » Shocked Am really geting scared ooo, Is this a case of ask the audience? Yea trustin her is another issue, because i know trust is the bedrock of any affair, its really very hard, because she is back in school away from me and who knows what on earth is goin on over there, At a stage i had o date another gurl to punish her and by jove was she mad, not knowing i knew her game, another tin is that she is a good liar, she fakes anything, who knows if she even faked it when we were , I am constatntly replaying the scenarious day in day out, will I ever forget? I do my best for her, the othe thing is my frends no just gbadun am again as she begin display some characters , who know if they even knew sef but no tell me ? Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! kokoye (m) San Francisco Posts: 709 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #18 on: December 04, 2008, 05:03 PM » Quote from: oblo on December 04, 2008, 04:55 PM who know if they even knew sef but no tell me ? If ur friends told you - would you have believed them?? I'm sure the girl would've lied on them so you could turn ur back on them. Anyway, you need to move on. Unfortunately there's a child involved but don't let that get you stuck in a life of misery. A woman who has a child for you but sleeps around can kill you! If it happened just once it'll might have been considered a mistake. But she shagged everyone around you to make a fool and mockery of you. Now that she's in school, i'm sure she's using her 'tool' to get passing grades. Relocate if you can. Report to moderator Logged oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #19 on: December 04, 2008, 05:06 PM » Relocate? That serious? The baby nko? Take responsibility? Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! kokoye (m) San Francisco Posts: 709 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #20 on: December 04, 2008, 05:08 PM » Yes. relocate. He's become a laughing stock in the neighbourhood - who knows how many guys / girls she shagged. . . maybe the landlord?? relocation does not have to be leave the country or city. he could leave the general surrounding. AS per the baby, once true paternity is concerned, assume responsibility of course. Report to moderator Logged oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #21 on: December 04, 2008, 05:11 PM » When her frends heard then that i was dating another gurl them wan crucify me, what i intend doing is leting them know what their frend was and makin them see the tru picture, The way am seeing it and the way she told me all, she might be a nympho? I don't mind if she is my nympho, but one foe all, helll know, my vexin day gather steam now oooo, HELP Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #22 on: December 04, 2008, 05:24 PM » Sad Angry Honestly I am just pouring out my heart here because the same frends , my own frends that I am supposed to talk for moral support I dae not because they will only laugh at me and say they warned me bla bla bla, can't tell my mum this because, well, and to think I engaged her and was going to the alter with her, Argh, what am i doing, I am going bonkers !!! I guess its tru that the ones that truly love you ,you dnt appreciate , 3yrs!!! or was it becuz she was still young? started datin her when she was like 18, Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! MrCrackles (m) ~LnDCity~ Posts: 5511 Online Online Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #23 on: December 04, 2008, 05:26 PM » Oma se ooo At least she didnt cheat on you with your father! Report to moderator Logged Relax Miss I Got This"N" Av Locked It!! M Brash:Rash~Harshy~Nasty~Cocky kokoye (m) San Francisco Posts: 709 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #24 on: December 04, 2008, 05:38 PM » Quote from: MrCrackles on December 04, 2008, 05:26 PM Oma se ooo At least she didnt cheat on you with your father! You sure about that? @ post Age has nothing at all do with this. She'd still be a slut if she was 80 with grandkids. I'm sure she's still breastfeeding now sef. Damn! Report to moderator Logged oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #25 on: December 04, 2008, 05:52 PM » red lights, red lights, red lights@!!! Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! sistawoman (f) In his heart Posts: 2862 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #26 on: December 04, 2008, 06:06 PM » how long ago was this in the relationship? How many different guys are we talking about? I really need to bend this sistas ear. For all other sistas reading this, this type of shit if you do it, it must go with you to the grave. Report to moderator Logged It is what is, make it do what it do. YA HEARD!!! Thanks Peter!!!! oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #27 on: December 04, 2008, 06:31 PM » @ sistawoman 3 years , well while we were dating like 6 guys, randomly, wonder what she meant by it just happend, PLEASE CAN SOMONE TELL ME WHAT LANGUAGE THAT IS?, she said and i quote" he just started touching me and it happend" or like "I got attracted to him and then one day while we were doing tutorial it happened' damn my ears got filled up to the brim, How could she? She really took me for a ride, No wonder she fought like a cat when i even received a txt or call, An i alwas told her that 'cunny man die, na I'm also bury am' Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! sistawoman (f) In his heart Posts: 2862 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #28 on: December 04, 2008, 06:52 PM » so the whole 3 years she has been cheating on you? Report to moderator Logged It is what is, make it do what it do. YA HEARD!!! Thanks Peter!!!! sunnym (m) Nigeria Posts: 28 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #29 on: December 04, 2008, 07:47 PM » My guy, still ask her if really the child in her womb is your, if yes forget about chasing her away because she might have repented to open up to you, if she did not open up you could not have known. She will not do it again, let the sleeping dog be. For your friend go thank him for being a good pal. Report to moderator Logged damola1 Posts: 329 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #30 on: December 04, 2008, 08:17 PM » tutorial indeed Grin Grin Grin, olosi 6 guys,,, men u strong oh, First off, beat your "friend", I mean really beat him up, if u can't alone, hire area boys, and then beat him up, until he sees you like a lion, next time he see your woman he go run. Secondly, straighten that chick of yours, don't let a child who has his own life to live to hold you back, give her a second chance if ur heart can accept it, don't get married yet, chill, if she mess up one more time, carry your load waka!!!, plus check the maternity of the baby once he/she is born, if no be your own, beat the girl, until them put POP for her neck!!!! Report to moderator Logged ~smurf (f) US. Posts: 323 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #31 on: December 04, 2008, 10:27 PM » Pele o OP, I guess its time to move on then, Lips sealed Grin Grin Grin Grin Report to moderator Logged T.K.B I Feel Guilty! Can U Marry An Hiv Positive P y Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! Hey, glorina, you have spent 6 days, 18 hours and 53 minutes online 1 Admin Messages | 10 Recent Posts | Please update your profile details The Nairaland Forum is the biggest Nigerian website on the Internet. Welcome! Date: December 11, 2008, 06:10 PM 270561 members and 167572 Topics Latest Member: boldinc Nairaland [Nigerian Forum] Home Help Search Edit Profile Who is currently online? Nairaland Rules and Regulations Logout Nairaland Forum | General Discussion | Romance (Moderators: mukina2, iice, StephenP) | My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! Pages: (1) (2) Go Down Send this topic Reply Notify of replies Mark unread Print Author Topic: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! (Read 365 views) Akinagirl (f) IN YOUR DADDYS BED Posts: 1207 Online Online Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #32 on: December 05, 2008, 12:19 AM » And you are still with her? Please either leave, and find out if you are indeed the father, or forgive her and work it out. But if you ask me, i think the trust isn't there anymore. NO ONE needs that kind of stress. What is her issue? Undecided Report to moderator Logged Excuses are what people make of their own short comings oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #33 on: December 05, 2008, 07:32 AM » I am still with her, I can't even beliv I am doin this, and she tot i never knew, I am willin to let her be but will she change? Yea she opend up but that mean she will? I feel like ,, Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! Akinagirl (f) IN YOUR DADDYS BED Posts: 1207 Online Online Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #34 on: December 05, 2008, 07:55 AM » Man I hate to see people suffer then ask for advice, knowing what they want to do already. People DON'T change unless they are WILLING to change. Her confessing to you could either mean 1 one of 2 things. 1. She really is sorry and she wants to turn a new leaf. or 2. She isn't sorry, but lets you know so she can see how far she can go with you. Take advantage of the fact that you will always be her fool and be there, irrespective of how she treats you. Now, how do you know which one? Observe her from afar. Monitor her actions and see if its worth a second go. But If she really is sorry, forgive her and take her back. But please understand, it will never be the same. You will always have that burning feeling in the back of your mind that every time she goes out, shes not doing what she is supposed to be doing. Like I stated before, the trust will no longer be there. And no one changes over night. Its a process, she needs counseling. Don't continue to be a fool. If you ask me, the handwriting is written on the wall, so the ball is in your court. Report to moderator Logged Excuses are what people make of their own short comings tmoney11 (m) Nigeria Posts: 143 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #35 on: December 05, 2008, 08:40 AM » Guy i will advise you to X, ONCE BEATEN TWICE SHY Report to moderator Logged oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #36 on: December 05, 2008, 08:49 AM » Huh Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! angelina08 Posts: 90 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #37 on: December 05, 2008, 10:17 AM » I am so sorry for what happen, but if you still love her forgive her. but such a friend that will cheat his best friend is not a good friend. So quite him. Report to moderator Logged steve49ja (m) modaland Posts: 265 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #38 on: December 05, 2008, 10:37 AM » @poster you're beginning to sound annoying Report to moderator Logged "Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are." oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #39 on: December 05, 2008, 11:00 AM » @steve Why do you say so? I know i mite sound annoyin but if one is low down really in love you ave a lot of cross roads. One thing I can thank all of you for is that your oppinions have really taught me a lot, i feel beter rlieved because I could not talk to anyone bout this, but was able to vent my heart out here, I intend having a deep talk with her tonight and I hope I take the right decision, your comments are still welcome sha , as pesn no day know finish. Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! BabeX (f) Lagos city Posts: 80 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #40 on: December 05, 2008, 11:01 AM » OP is she the only girl in this world jare. please move on, to better things. Shes not worth it! Report to moderator Logged Still discovering who I am inze (m) Nigeria Posts: 504 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #41 on: December 05, 2008, 11:28 AM » Sometimes we keep secrets to protect the ones we love, Report to moderator Logged I don't know what u've been told but that is for you, "I n z e" is in this house inze (m) Nigeria Posts: 504 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #42 on: December 05, 2008, 11:45 AM » Quote from: Akinagirl on December 05, 2008, 07:55 AM Man I hate to see people suffer then ask for advice, knowing what they want to do already. People DON'T change unless they are WILLING to change. Her confessing to you could either mean 1 one of 2 things. 1. She really is sorry and she wants to turn a new leaf. or 2. She isn't sorry, but lets you know so she can see how far she can go with you. Take advantage of the fact that you will always be her fool and be there, irrespective of how she treats you. Now, how do you know which one? Observe her from afar. Monitor her actions and see if its worth a second go. But If she really is sorry, forgive her and take her back. But please understand, it will never be the same. You will always have that burning feeling in the back of your mind that every time she goes out, shes not doing what she is supposed to be doing. Like I stated before, the trust will no longer be there. And no one changes over night. Its a process, she needs counseling. Don't continue to be a fool. If you ask me, the handwriting is written on the wall, so the ball is in your court. Well Said, Oblo take note !! Report to moderator Logged I don't know what u've been told but that is for you, "I n z e" is in this house oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! NOW SHE IS BEGGING TO COME BACK « #43 on: December 05, 2008, 07:57 PM » Noted, she wants me back and her frends are pleading on her behalf, Ijust have this gut feeling that she will not change, she wants to abort the vbaby, what if its mine, Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #44 on: Yesterday at 08:35:27 AM » Decided i loved her and i think she is willin to change, so we are goin to have the baby, but we have to get maried first, Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! MoneyRule (m) Nigeria Posts: 34 Online Online Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #45 on: Today at 06:00:26 PM » Oh boy u be God? Even God get condition 4 forgiveness,she cheated on u more than once and you forgave her out of love or plain stupidity?learn this now guys;when a girl tells u she will understand if u dump her,suspect foul play,no body gives up just like that! Take it or leave it,that issue isn't yours but if u want 2 spend d rest of ur lyf taking care of another man's child then bon voyage! 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she slept with dif guys while we were still datin. she even did it with my frend, i still love her and forgave her, Was it wise to do that? Will it repeat ? I need your advice, Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! arramyjay (f) Posts: 1395 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #1 on: December 04, 2008, 01:11 PM » She slept with different guys while you were still dating?And you are still with her,that is nt wise. Report to moderator Logged Hi jaybee, Jesus take the wheel from us. oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #2 on: December 04, 2008, 02:35 PM » yes she actually did while i was still dating her. She is pregnant for me now and she tells me she is ashamd of what she has done and she is sorry. She actually said she would understand if i left her but i said i would not and that i gat her back, when i think of the guys my heart skips a beat and i grow red and want to $%$#$&&& sumone, HELP!! Am burning inside Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! sistawoman (f) In his heart Posts: 2862 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #3 on: December 04, 2008, 02:59 PM » I guess Jayz was right you can make a hoe into a housewife. Goodluck wit that. Report to moderator Logged It is what is, make it do what it do. YA HEARD!!! Thanks Peter!!!! iz2much (m) United Kingdom Manchester Posts: 436 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #4 on: December 04, 2008, 03:05 PM » @ Poster Dnt be surprised same thing happened to me,my friend went ahead and sleep with my girl am serious about this. Itz a true story and i stayed calm, So Man stay calm and everything going to be okay. Report to moderator Logged If u dnt fall 4 something u fall 4 anything. izeek (m) festac Posts: 723 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #5 on: December 04, 2008, 03:08 PM » sistawoman, and what makes u think all ladies are not whores? i remeber u talking about ur friend and her magun story. @post, i don't know what to tell u sha, but stuffs like that, try never to ask ur lady to open up. most times u would hear things that will linger on for long. yeah now u feel u can forgive, but what would happen later. it would be diff for u to trust her. u for don leave am, but since belle don dey involved, diff call. Report to moderator Logged success is failure turned inside out. sistawoman (f) In his heart Posts: 2862 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #6 on: December 04, 2008, 03:11 PM » Quote from: izeek on December 04, 2008, 03:08 PM sistawoman, and what makes u think all ladies are not whores? i remeber u talking about ur friend and her magun story. I am just having a little fun this am. nothing serious, not feeling well, this cold is kicking my assssssss. Report to moderator Logged It is what is, make it do what it do. YA HEARD!!! Thanks Peter!!!! zignor (m) Nigeria Posts: 1205 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #7 on: December 04, 2008, 03:14 PM » @sistawoman . . . it seems you're headmistress Undecided @poster . . .follow ur heart beat Grin Cheesy Report to moderator Logged You are what you think . . lol oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #8 on: December 04, 2008, 03:16 PM » @ izeek how I take know say the pickin, No i meant issue is mine? Thats the jigsaw in the whole maze, Am so down, I knew she was cheating but dint know all of them, she just confirmed when i asked her some direct qustions, what i don't know now is if she will change, she has alwaz said she was sorry but still repeated, is this the last straw? I could deny the issue or &^%%$ it Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! steve49ja (m) modaland Posts: 265 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #9 on: December 04, 2008, 04:12 PM » Good for you Report to moderator Logged "Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are." 190 (m) I'm yar adua's elder brother for christ sake Posts: 393 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #10 on: December 04, 2008, 04:15 PM » man i can bet u that child isnt urs, tell her 2 bounce immediately rite now before day dark 4 ur head Report to moderator Logged I'm so Hood(Rmix), Feat Rick ross,little weezy wayne,Ludacris,Yung Jezzy,etc steve49ja (m) modaland Posts: 265 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #11 on: December 04, 2008, 04:23 PM » some of us just come up with issues that disturbs our fun day @poster how would you re-consider a girl who cheated once?? funny enough she didnt just cheat once she want along to make alist interesting FCS's she included your back stabbing friend, guy don't let her work on your brain,for me thats what she wants to get pity from you, ' saying she'll understand if you decide to drop her OMG i pray make i no born your type for pikin (nothing personal) Report to moderator Logged "Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are." izeek (m) festac Posts: 723 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #12 on: December 04, 2008, 04:26 PM » well i just feel u should wait till the child comes to confirm. about her cheating, she might change, but can ur perspective about her change? thats the big deal. if that child turns out to be urs, then take care of ur responsibility, irrespective of ur decision about her. Report to moderator Logged success is failure turned inside out. BabeX (f) Lagos city Posts: 80 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #13 on: December 04, 2008, 04:29 PM » Boyo, I feel sorry for you. Il feel sorrier if u stay with the chick. Imagine living ur life wondering if ur wifey is cheating on u, wondering if ur kids are actually urs (u can do a paternity test to make sure sha) The trust is out of ur relationship- its a crucial part. If its gone then u r on shaky ground. Go easy, Report to moderator Logged Still discovering who I am kay_pumpin (m) celestial street,heaven Posts: 517 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #14 on: December 04, 2008, 04:34 PM » The relationship WILL barely work out.Yeah u can forgive her but can you forget[/b]? The problem aint now that her C n B story seem to be working,but when her charm eventually wears out Take a walk if u can[b] Report to moderator Logged who will guard the guards? Hesperus (m) Earth, but I want to go home! Posts: 124 Online Online Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #15 on: December 04, 2008, 04:37 PM » O boy, pick up your legs and run! Cheating is cheating, and worse still with ur friend. Now anytime you see him, ur mind will wander and you'll keep imagining him on top of her! No girl is worth that kind of torture. Report to moderator Logged Jodesky (m) Abj.ng Posts: 94 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #16 on: December 04, 2008, 04:37 PM » oblo, Is she in any way related to Animashaun (as surname) Which ever, please send me her name and number. Thank you so much, nice man. Report to moderator Logged can you hear me! oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #17 on: December 04, 2008, 04:55 PM » Shocked Am really geting scared ooo, Is this a case of ask the audience? Yea trustin her is another issue, because i know trust is the bedrock of any affair, its really very hard, because she is back in school away from me and who knows what on earth is goin on over there, At a stage i had o date another gurl to punish her and by jove was she mad, not knowing i knew her game, another tin is that she is a good liar, she fakes anything, who knows if she even faked it when we were , I am constatntly replaying the scenarious day in day out, will I ever forget? I do my best for her, the othe thing is my frends no just gbadun am again as she begin display some characters , who know if they even knew sef but no tell me ? Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! kokoye (m) San Francisco Posts: 709 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #18 on: December 04, 2008, 05:03 PM » Quote from: oblo on December 04, 2008, 04:55 PM who know if they even knew sef but no tell me ? If ur friends told you - would you have believed them?? I'm sure the girl would've lied on them so you could turn ur back on them. Anyway, you need to move on. Unfortunately there's a child involved but don't let that get you stuck in a life of misery. A woman who has a child for you but sleeps around can kill you! If it happened just once it'll might have been considered a mistake. But she shagged everyone around you to make a fool and mockery of you. Now that she's in school, i'm sure she's using her 'tool' to get passing grades. Relocate if you can. Report to moderator Logged oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #19 on: December 04, 2008, 05:06 PM » Relocate? That serious? The baby nko? Take responsibility? Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! kokoye (m) San Francisco Posts: 709 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #20 on: December 04, 2008, 05:08 PM » Yes. relocate. He's become a laughing stock in the neighbourhood - who knows how many guys / girls she shagged. . . maybe the landlord?? relocation does not have to be leave the country or city. he could leave the general surrounding. AS per the baby, once true paternity is concerned, assume responsibility of course. Report to moderator Logged oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #21 on: December 04, 2008, 05:11 PM » When her frends heard then that i was dating another gurl them wan crucify me, what i intend doing is leting them know what their frend was and makin them see the tru picture, The way am seeing it and the way she told me all, she might be a nympho? I don't mind if she is my nympho, but one foe all, helll know, my vexin day gather steam now oooo, HELP Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #22 on: December 04, 2008, 05:24 PM » Sad Angry Honestly I am just pouring out my heart here because the same frends , my own frends that I am supposed to talk for moral support I dae not because they will only laugh at me and say they warned me bla bla bla, can't tell my mum this because, well, and to think I engaged her and was going to the alter with her, Argh, what am i doing, I am going bonkers !!! I guess its tru that the ones that truly love you ,you dnt appreciate , 3yrs!!! or was it becuz she was still young? started datin her when she was like 18, Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! MrCrackles (m) ~LnDCity~ Posts: 5511 Online Online Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #23 on: December 04, 2008, 05:26 PM » Oma se ooo At least she didnt cheat on you with your father! Report to moderator Logged Relax Miss I Got This"N" Av Locked It!! M Brash:Rash~Harshy~Nasty~Cocky kokoye (m) San Francisco Posts: 709 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #24 on: December 04, 2008, 05:38 PM » Quote from: MrCrackles on December 04, 2008, 05:26 PM Oma se ooo At least she didnt cheat on you with your father! You sure about that? @ post Age has nothing at all do with this. She'd still be a slut if she was 80 with grandkids. I'm sure she's still breastfeeding now sef. Damn! Report to moderator Logged oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #25 on: December 04, 2008, 05:52 PM » red lights, red lights, red lights@!!! Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! sistawoman (f) In his heart Posts: 2862 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #26 on: December 04, 2008, 06:06 PM » how long ago was this in the relationship? How many different guys are we talking about? I really need to bend this sistas ear. For all other sistas reading this, this type of shit if you do it, it must go with you to the grave. Report to moderator Logged It is what is, make it do what it do. YA HEARD!!! Thanks Peter!!!! oblo (m) Posts: 88 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #27 on: December 04, 2008, 06:31 PM » @ sistawoman 3 years , well while we were dating like 6 guys, randomly, wonder what she meant by it just happend, PLEASE CAN SOMONE TELL ME WHAT LANGUAGE THAT IS?, she said and i quote" he just started touching me and it happend" or like "I got attracted to him and then one day while we were doing tutorial it happened' damn my ears got filled up to the brim, How could she? She really took me for a ride, No wonder she fought like a cat when i even received a txt or call, An i alwas told her that 'cunny man die, na I'm also bury am' Report to moderator Logged OHIO!! sistawoman (f) In his heart Posts: 2862 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #28 on: December 04, 2008, 06:52 PM » so the whole 3 years she has been cheating on you? Report to moderator Logged It is what is, make it do what it do. YA HEARD!!! Thanks Peter!!!! sunnym (m) Nigeria Posts: 28 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #29 on: December 04, 2008, 07:47 PM » My guy, still ask her if really the child in her womb is your, if yes forget about chasing her away because she might have repented to open up to you, if she did not open up you could not have known. She will not do it again, let the sleeping dog be. For your friend go thank him for being a good pal. Report to moderator Logged damola1 Posts: 329 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #30 on: December 04, 2008, 08:17 PM » tutorial indeed Grin Grin Grin, olosi 6 guys,,, men u strong oh, First off, beat your "friend", I mean really beat him up, if u can't alone, hire area boys, and then beat him up, until he sees you like a lion, next time he see your woman he go run. Secondly, straighten that chick of yours, don't let a child who has his own life to live to hold you back, give her a second chance if ur heart can accept it, don't get married yet, chill, if she mess up one more time, carry your load waka!!!, plus check the maternity of the baby once he/she is born, if no be your own, beat the girl, until them put POP for her neck!!!! Report to moderator Logged ~smurf (f) US. Posts: 323 Offline Offline Re: My Lady Cheated: Even With My Frend! « #31 on: December 04, 2008, 10:27 PM » Pele o OP, I guess its time to move on then, Lips sealed Grin Grin Grin Grin Report to moderator Logged T.K.B I Feel Guilty! Can U Marry An Hiv Positive P Report to moderator 134.2.166.55 Who's Ur Dream Date I Have A Lil Problem: Need An Honest Opinion Advise Pls (Only Married Men Find Me Attractive) Page 2 Pages: (1) (2) Go Up Send Topic to Friend by E-mail Reply Notify of replies Mark unread Print Web www.nairaland.com Sections: TV/Movies (2) Music/Radio (2) Celebrities Job Talk Jobs/Vacancies (2) Career Talk Romance Books Politics Sports Fashion Travel Health Schooling Religion General(2) Business Webmaster Programming Computers Phones Cars & Trucks Links: Page1 Page2 Page3 Page4 Page5 Page6 Page7 Page8 Page9 Page10 Nairaland is owned by Oluwaseun Osewa Nairaland Forum | Powered by SMF 1.0.12. © 2001-2005, Lewis Media. All |
| Romance › Re: Can Your Man Kiss Your Feet? by glorina: 6:03pm On Dec 11, 2008 |
Its not a matter of color. If your feet are clean nd perfumed(smell nice) they would be a turn on |
| Romance › Re: Is Honesty Actually A Good Thing For U Ladies? by glorina: 5:49pm On Dec 11, 2008 |
It's better to say the truth than lie. If you must lie don't say anything at all |
| Romance › Re: I Want To Talk To My Firlfriend On The Phone, But: by glorina: 5:17pm On Dec 11, 2008 |
Hesperus:no need to swallow your saliva bruv. I could share my e-lunch with you specially made by me  |
| Romance › Re: I Want To Talk To My Firlfriend On The Phone, But: by glorina: 5:01pm On Dec 11, 2008 |
blondboy: bettes:On a serious note. Ewa agoyin and agege bread taste delicous. You can top it with orobo coke. mmmmmh delicious  |
| Romance › Re: I Want To Talk To My Firlfriend On The Phone, But: by glorina: 4:58pm On Dec 11, 2008 |
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| Romance › Re: I Want To Talk To My Firlfriend On The Phone, But: by glorina: 4:05pm On Dec 11, 2008 |
blondboy: bettes:rofl |
| Romance › Re: I Want To Talk To My Firlfriend On The Phone, But: by glorina: 4:05pm On Dec 11, 2008 |
bettes:rofl |
| Romance › Re: Y R Guys Like Dis by glorina: 3:58pm On Dec 11, 2008 |
Y-MAMA:Thats why the rich marry the rich. Theyre often scared of marrying a gold digger. Are you the girl in question  |
| Celebrities › Re: Warning:celebrities Are Now On Nairaland And Other Websites by glorina: 10:04pm On Dec 09, 2008 |
LadyT:But you have to admit that CCasseyg was harsh on our Katie  |
| Celebrities › Re: Warning:celebrities Are Now On Nairaland And Other Websites by glorina: 9:59pm On Dec 09, 2008 |
ibkaye:the person wey shit no dey remember how the shit smell na the person wey pack am no fit forget the smell. CCasseyg really yabbed Kate o No wonder she didn't forget her ID  |
| Romance › Re: Are You An Obama Girl? by glorina(op): 2:30pm On Nov 27, 2008 |
I like his smile, his height, his charm and sexy eyes |
| Romance › Are You An Obama Girl? by glorina(op): 2:27pm On Nov 27, 2008 |
If you've got a crush on this sexy dude tell me what turns you on about him? |
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I love Israelites |
| Culture › Why Do Nigerians Like To Yab(insult) people? by glorina(op): 10:29pm On Nov 24, 2008 |
Whether it's on a public forum, on comedy shows, at work, at home. They never relent from using their sharp mouths to yab people, is it in our genes or WHAT? |
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My opinion: Marrying an older or younger guy is not a big deal. Marrying my best friend's son is another cup of tea |
| Romance › Can You Marry Your Best Friend's Son/daughter Or Your Dad's/mom's Best Friend? by glorina(op): 5:27am On Nov 24, 2008 |
I was watching the movie 'because you loved me' a few days ago. A young guy falls in love with his mom's best friend who changed his diapers and took care of him as a child. They later get married, there is a 14 years age difference between them, Could such happen in real life? can you imagine yourself falling in love with your mom's best friend/your best friend's son or daughter? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3U6CGTg4hhg&feature=related |
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Gimme more reasons why people double date |
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neither. It's good to have a balance betwwen both. |
| Romance › Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by glorina: 7:43am On Nov 23, 2008 |
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| Romance › Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by glorina: 7:39am On Nov 23, 2008 |
I prefer nice guys. I don't do bad guys |
