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Ok i admit say i like the bobo fery mush

t-kid:
Yeah,speak for yourself

candy:
Speak for yaself abeg, he can go celibate for all I care

i'm speaking for ma self and other interested nairalanders na

foye57:
na wa o! babes sha!

just letting him know how i feel about him

Ruby_Pearl:
who is we here?
just say you like the guy.

On behalf of myself and other interested babes

Seun my dear, We nairalanders are interested in your love life. Are you single? If no, who is the lucky baby?

It's something i've been trying to understand. I cant't imagine/believe someone not being attracted to their own race/skin. If someone tells me he/she PREFERS other races, that i can understand/imagine. Because having a preference doesn't mean you're not attracted to other races/your own race but it means that if you had to choose you would chose another race. So bottomline is: not being attracted to ones skin in other words finding one's skin unattractive is for me unbelievable. my 2 cents

Everytime, one keeps hearing the words 'men are scarce, husbands are scarce' all over the place.

Do you guys think that men are more scarce abroad than in naija? I don't get it?

why you dey laugh na?

jennykadri:
LMAO,oh gawddddd

Nor be true i talk? Abi i lie? the fingers is always pointed at the woman whenever a relationship goes sour.
There's nothin' psychich about my comment, my brother.

SOJ:
***somebody bring in the psych****

Thanks for your advice

till we're married

We are engaged and getting married soon

How do i tell my christian boyfriend that i'm sexually inexperienced. I've had sex before but i didn't know how to take control of the sexual act, i mean being on top??

If he were experienced i could tell him and he would teach. But he hasn't had any sexual relationship himself.

What do i do?

TOH:
I was actually going to say dark green

Are you also light-skinned? Do you prefer green?

The majority of you said 'black' so i'll go with black thanks. I would have made a mistake. People tell me i look good in green so i wanted to by a green dress.

it's dyed golden-bown

sistawoman:
If you go with black you will need to go with silver for sure. Gold will go good with the red but if you want to stand out I am not sure i would go with red only because it really says scarlet to me.

What color is your hair? are you as fair skinned as I am?

Oh thanks--------i have mostly gold jewellries. are silver jewelries better?

sistawoman:
I would go with black with silver assessories. I am also fair skinned, look at my profile you will see what i mean.

is red better than black?

Templa:
try lady in red

I am fair-skinned(not white) What color should my romantic dinner dress be: i can't decide between : silver, black, green/lemon and brown

Any sister who can help out?

Thanks

Could any Yoruba native speaker correct the spellings and translate the following popular song for me?

Kile lese Olorun mi Kile lese
Ehin ti eda aiye atorun kile lese
Kile lese olorun mi ki le lese

tale julo Olorun mi tale julo
tale julo Olorun mi tale julo
Ehin ti eda aiye atorun tale julo
Tale ju lo Olorun mi tale julo

Thanks and God bless

Could any Yoruba native speaker correct the spellings and translate the following popular song for me?

Kile lese Olorun mi Kile lese
Ehin ti eda aiye atorun kile lese
Kile lese olorun mi ki le lese

tale julo Olorun mi tale julo
tale julo Olorun mi tale julo
Ehin ti eda aiye atorun tale julo
Tale ju lo Olorun mi tale julo

Thanks and God bless

I have been single all my life. I've never had a love relationship because no christian brother has ever asked me out. I'm in my late 20s and there's this unbeliever, madly in love with me, who has been asking me to marry him, should i keep waiting for 'mr bornagain right' or grab this opportunity?

Please help a confused sister, abeg
cheers

savanaha:
Yes a less beautiful picture so he will be pleasantly surprised.
So does it mean that the dates have not worked because the guys thought you looked better in your picture?

@savanah do you think it would be wise of me to send a lees beautiful picture or does it sound like foolishness?
Please reply thanks

chisimdi:
upload am 1st 4 nl mk we confirm before posting

lol You're not serious

Yes, sort of----

savanaha:
Yes a less beautiful picture so he will be pleasantly surprised.
So does it mean that the dates have not worked because the guys thought you looked better in your picture?

I have used dating sites several times. When some of the guys met me physically they said i looked different from the pictures(non-photoshopped) i sent them; i somehow agree because i always look different on every picture, eg it depends on whether or not i'm smiling, hairstyes(straight or long), etc.

i have another date now and he's been asking me to send him my pictures but  i'm trying to avoid it until he sees me physically.

Or should i send him a not so beautiful picture?

Does any of you know the intercultural differences(miscommunication) between Americans/Africans/South Americans

e.g.

Eye-contact: When an African child looks an elder in the eyes it's said to be disrespectful, but when an American chid looks the other way when an adult is speaking to him, it's also said to be disrespectful

Who knows more about this topic? please give me more examples

Thanks

unfortunately, for me it isn't a small matter. I'm always alone. I don't have friends; if i don't call people they hardly call me. It even came to a point where i was always calling certain people and they indirectly told me to stop calling them. I feel so isolated.

Encomium:
Glorina, why worry over little thing like this? There is nothing wrong with you at all. The issue remains that the so called guy is a wolf in sheep cloth, he is not a real born again Christian as he claims to be likewise he needs a true repentance. Always wait for God's appointed time, the right guy for you will come because what is for you will surely get to you. keep on praying for the right person to come. Goodluck!!!

I keep losing relatzionships and i don't know why. Each time i meet someone new i lose him immediately, inexplainably.

Let me share one of the numerous examples with you guys:

I met this born again christian in a church. we exchanged our email adresses but didn't start communicating until 2 or 3 months later. He was calling me regularly; we could talk (about general things like the christian faith) like hours into the late nights. Since he didn't officially ask me out, i wasn't sure if he was just a brother in christ or if he wanted to go out with me. I didn't ask him because of my past experiences where certain guys were very cllose to me and i thought they were interested in me and they telling me otherwise, which of course destroyed the relationships.

I was invited by this bornagain christian to spend new year's eve with him and other christian brothers and sisters. Since it's like 3 hours drive from where i live iasked him i needed a place to sleep after the celebration and if he could ask one of the sisters if i could sleep at her place. He said no he didn't need to ask aforehand since we are all christians and they wouldn't have anything against it. I didn't want to argue with him because of my past experiences with people so i trusted him blindly. And before we hung up he told me i could also spend the night at his place but i calmly refused his offer because of my past experiences

When i got there none of the sisters he was expecting came. So i then told him i would just sleep in a hotel. He said no, that for him, it's not cultural to do such a thing and that i could sleep at his place, i told him it's not my standard as a christian and also because of my past experiences. He got angry and left to speak with others. So i began to ask other guests like 2 or 3 ofthem where i could get a hotel, in that way, they got to know the story.

He was later angry with me and said he now knows me deep and who i really am. I told him not to take it like, that it's just that i didn't like spending the night at a guy's place because of my past experiences and religious reasons.

Since then he never called me and the relationship just died like that,


This is one of the numerous experiences i've had with relationships. I don't just get along with people very well. Does anyone has or has had this kind of experiences?

I have personally noticed that i only get along with people when i do what they tell me to do. The moment i dare say/do otherwise i become an enemy. I've watched other people's lives and i noticed they have many friends despite the fact they sometimes do otherwise. Especially a christian sister i know of. After the incident with that born again christian guy i told her about it and she accused him of probably having a hidden agenda. This guy later said, for him it wasn't a problem that this sister accused him of anything but that they are still freinds and i was like so it wasn't a problem that she accused him of having hiden agendas against me but it was a problem for him that i asked 2 people where i could get a cheap hotel,