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ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


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good decision 💯 but I think d man na dodoyo hw can u let woman u marry u put under ur room and children treat u that way and u no send dem away d very first day they start that nonsense I trust myself sha

temitope66:
My 27 years old brother has been a chronic gambler for years now, we just discovered he use a huge part of his Salary to play bets. Then after he make excuses when it comes to necessary bills payments. He work in a firm where he make 150k monthly but nothing to show off. I have tried talking to him but he won’t change. Please how can we help him.

is like u know everything about me already the funny part my agemate but I’m trying my best to stop and I pray God help me addiction is not good

IyaTola:
Serious Question: Most guys do not allow their friends to date their sisters, why?

it depends on d kind of nigga cuz every guy knows d kind of nigga they have

Starboytwo:
Chai.. $2.7 million.

I go first run go village. Use the money develop am…

If them carry me. At least, dem no go carry all the infrastructure I don do for village. Do plea bargain, give them small fraction back and light sentence maybe 5 years…

I come back home. My people give me a heroic welcome. Few speeches from people wey use my money blow. Education, farming etc.

I must run for governor, I buy form, massive campaign, win election. Opposition say I be “wire”

I go reference Tinubu, himself nor be something??

u have a point but don’t 4get to put ur mom or dad name in all ur investments u withdraw money to start ur investment e go hard to trace u

Qwikkie:
There is always that one thing, that one habit, that one trait that will immediately tell you, this person is Nigerian. You don't even need them to say a word. Could be the way they talk, the way they laugh loud in public without shame, or the way they will finish your food and still ask if there is more. But honestly? Nothing exposes a Nigerian faster than our food combinations.

Because tell me, HOW are we out here creating meals that no nutritionist, no chef, no sane human being on this earth ever sat down and planned? Nobody held a meeting. Nobody wrote a recipe. We just woke up one day and decided this and this should go together and Gbam!!! somehow it worked. And now it's a whole culture.

That is actually what makes us unique sha. We don't follow food rules. We are the food rules.

Now if you ask me personally, the weirdest combo I have ever tried in my life is bread and noodles. Yes. Indomie inside bread. Sandwich style. Don't laugh, because if you have ever been hungry at 11pm with only these two things in the house, you already know that combination hits different. There is something about the softness of the bread meeting the spicy, oily noodles that just makes sense in a way that should not make sense. Trust me, once you try it, there is no going back.

And the worst part? You will be eating it and thinking I cannot tell anybody about this. But we all have one. We all have that combo we made during hunger, boredom, or pure curiosity and it either scarred us for life or became a secret obsession.
So I need to know, what is the most weird food combination you have ever tried, and did you enjoy it or did you immediately regret your life choices?

have u try beans and fufu b4

Mirasteel:
You just displayed your ignorance publicly, with the 100s or thousands of tribes in the north it's only Hausa and Fulani that you know?

so should we address him as a igbo or Yoruba man?

thrillionaire:
Tell this taqiyya lie to Christian rural dwellers in Benue, Southern Kaduna, Plateau and innocent people all over Nigeria being kidnapped and murdered by Islamists.

Tell this to welcoming and loving Christian Europeans and Americans who took you cancerous Islamists into their countries and are seeing pepper 🌶️
Tell this to the pastor your evil imam placed a 2million naira bounty to have is head chopped off.

Guy you lack commonsense. Well, that's what Islam does to you.

u don’t include Deborah Samuel

Sinkara:
I'm telling you boss
I dey earn 200k monthly and I look very very wretched and malnourished
I just want to speak out and I have
Going forward I want to live a normal life and face those demons

ur story is just like mine but sporty and masturbation

JooEeL:
Yahoo men / not boys?

How do men in their 40's and 50's feel doing yahoo, while watching their wives and children's faces?

It feels somehow o. Even men in 30's sef... how una dey do am?

Shame no dey shame una? What do u tell ur kids is ur source of income? As for una wife sha, that one na bolo. That was likely what drew her in, in the first place, so una be birds of the same feather. She sef no get shame like u

how did Nigeria politician look at they’re children face when they embezzle millions and billions meant for d masses?

jmoore:
https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DmWGbjJdR/

“If you don’t vote APC I will beat the hell out of you, Tinubu will be the first President to go for 3 terms in Nigeria if you don’t agree I will beat you up”
—APC Thug Kesari.

The party of thugs, criminals and terrorists: APC AlQaeda People’s Congress. pic.twitter.com/1Nx22Ym5j5

— OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 (@OurFavOnlineDoc) April 17, 2026

The moment the mic was forcefully taken from Kesari at an APC convention after he mistakenly called the crowd PDP when they refused to respond to his APC chant. 😭🤦🏾‍♂️ pic.twitter.com/aPhUBOQq03

— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) April 16, 2026

how wish aye don kill this one throw way nothing like this 4 happen

ThugBoy:
Try grow up to understand life. no be everything you go dey comment. Who see you now go they think say you dey enjoy ApC regime hardship kpai you there mentioned Obi

u get bad mouth 😂na this ur comment make me smile today cuz I don too dey think this days

iwaeda:
Aliko Dangote



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2026/04/dangote-group-debunks-claim-tinubu-govt-earns-from-every-bag-of-cement/

I already knew it’s fake when I come across d news even though it’s true u believe dangote to say it out FG will turn his position to number 10 richest man in Nigeria within a month 😂

EponObi:
What was Obi doing at that time?

I heard he was wining and dining with Abacha. FFO, For Food Only!

The only mistake Sowore did was not going for elective position at lower levels decades ago. He would have scaled up to be viable for the presidency? I salute his struggles for democracy, but no way Nigerians will vote for him as president. He should have started as a lawmaker.

Yes you’re right about Sowore I wish he had started from being a local government chairman. Maybe he would have been president by now, or at least a major figure in the presidential race. I believe that if he had been elected, things might not be this bad

Racoon:
https://www.facebook.com/share/18G4FiG6jX/

They chose to love the wrong person because he or she had the right body, the right job, drove the right car or wore the right clothes and walked passed a love that was truly true just because it did not come in the "right" packaging. I love this words 💯

helinues:
What can other countries buy currently with their highest denomination

See, you opposition should stop this hatred arguments with no meaning.

The global war that have been going on for years is it only Nigeria that's affected?

Average daily minimum wage in Ghana is 21GHC but barbing alone on average saloon is 50GHC. Average restaurant with decent meal, you will have 150GHC

ogun kill u there I wish u can see this in my presence make I commot ur teeth sometimes I wonder what kind of brain most Nigerian that support this same government that have been increasing suffering upon suffering daily even US/Israel and Iran that’s at war is better than Nigeria right now

casualobserver:
We know the people you are talking about. We also want them to do well so they stop coming to our side of the country. Unfortunately these people can’t prosper in their side so they will end up in our side and in Ghana.

ur hatred for igbos is in ur blood even though I’m not from that side I already know what u talking about is igbos not part of Nigeria? Is it there no other tribe in Ghana? Sometimes when I read people comment I ask myself where is the united

educatedfool:
Despite IPOB's blatant hatred for Nigeria, especially the North, why is everyone silent about the group's role in funding terrorism in the region?

are u 4 real when did iPob or ESN kill slaughter innocent people d way boko haram/Iswap did in d north this is d same reason why Nigeria will never move forward

Nwaokunkpara:
Camouflage blockage 🤣🤣🤣


Donald Trump looks like the one begging for a way out of this war

I don’t even support anyone cuz they don’t care about we blacks but peace is what we pray for but for u to think Iran can withstand US is a joke all d weapons they use even almighty Russia and they’re Allie’s was first use and discover from US but anyway sha let pray 4 peace

Rootprof:
Her age is 44, I know her personally.
Come to think of how these genz will look when they are 40 years, they start knackin at tender age, they don't even mind body count, they drink eat any, no work out, ....

ancestor nothing like gen z everything happening now have been happening since nothing is new d different is social media

MrEar:
The President Of Iran, Masoud Pezeshkian, Condemns Trump Insult To Pope Leo.





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lol yes Christianity is about love but when did Islam start supporting Christian same Islam that says Jesus is fake killing slaughter people 4 they’re gods hand don touch Dem now dem dey preach peace and pretend they love Christian I no fit laugh abeg 😂

Dtruthspeaker:
When you say forefathers do you not real eyes that you are talking about the same old paganism practiced all over the world, even if Europe, Asia and everywhere?

Islam is the paganism practiced in the arab world and all these things was what God first washed away except Noah's wife and kid's and their wives kept it alive and made it rerun

chai ur 🧠 have been washed away by this Arab religion

Excellent93:
I pity people wey dey envy celebrities majority of them dine with the devil just to make fame

so d religion ur forefathers have been practicing for thousands of years now is now devil religion but Islam and Christian worship d real God who do black man this kind thing

Sccarrr:
Una sure no be one Yahoo boy from somewhere in West Africa Trump dey follow discuss about ceasefire😹😂

abi na u dey run ham 😂

Willy2025:
This is just to discredit the government of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and paint it in bad colours against re-election. The spike in killings and kidnappings in recent times is a testimony to the fact that these people are being sponsored.

you meant be right but why is he not doing anything about it is he not the president again?

christejames:
Well, he didn't lie here, it seems to be in our blood although we the Ijebus are repulsive towards begging...

dey play na ijebu b number in Yoruba land

Bahamas95:
You don't need a prophet or babalawo to tell you this......Any sensible person knows this is the trademark of Nigerian politicians.

They pretend to be nice in their first tenure and turn monsters in the second. In the case of Tinubu he didn't even pretend in his first tenure, he showed Nigerians shege......Just imagine what he would do if he returns for second term.

exactly he don’t even pretend imagine his second tenure but it seems they is alot of insane Nigerian that we die for this same government 💯 times

nairalanda1:
Buhari inherited an economy that was already failing in quote for several months.

In 2014, March, oil prices started falling. People who had seen the same story before in 1982, began nodding their heads like agama agama. By January 2015, NOI was prophesying that the economy would be bad, regardless of who won.

So, yes GEJ handed over a bad economy to buhari. Na high oil price he dey use to hide the cracks.

The problem with Buhari and tinubu is that instead of using hard times to shine, dem come dey do borrow borrow to maintain what we had when oil prices were high, because the sane decisions they needed to take to pull us out of danger, they no take because they preferred to be in power rather than do the hard decisions to leave Nigeria a good leagacy

All of our leaders are the same.

don’t defend failure yes they’re all d same but little different compare d suffering to now u will understand what d op is saying

Lithiumite:
The truth? And he is insulting a fellow soldier who is trying his best to secure his country under the most horrendous conditions......that American cant last 2 days in the Nigerian front line where that soldier operates with limited capacity.

is that what d US soldier talking about?I pray Nigeria soldier show u hell u go understand better

BlackViper:
🚨: BLACK MUSLIM ☪️ MAN CRIES 😭 OF RACISM FROM SUPERIOR MUSLIMS AFTER HE MARRIED AN EGYPTIAN MUSLIM WOMAN..

People online called me a monkey, said my wife was a disgrace to her family for marrying a black man. When people found out that I as a black Muslim man married an Egyptian, the racism came out. Messages I won't repeat, comments calling me names, telling her she is a disgrace, that her father should cut contact with her, that she betrayed her people by marrying someone dark-skinned. And these weren't comments from random people in the West. These were Muslims, people who post Quran verses everyday and talk about the Ummah.

But the moment they see a black man with an Arab woman, all of that disappears. But you know what? As a Muslim, you always have to think the best about your brother. I'm not angry. I assume they just don't have the right knowledge. And that's why I want to educate them. The Prophet said in his final sermon, An Arab is not superior to a non-Arab, nor is a non-Arab superior to an Arab except by taqwa.

White is not superior to black, nor is black superior to white, except by taqwa. Her father looked at my character, my deen, whether I could protect and provide for his daughter. He didn't see my skin color as an issue. Maybe they never learned this. Maybe no one ever taught them. So I'm teaching them right now. This is what Islam actually says and we need to do better.

🚨: Black Muslim ☪️ man cry 😭 of racism from superior Muslims after he married an Egyptian Muslim woman..

In Islam ☪️ all Muslims are not equal 🤦🏻 pic.twitter.com/cKWoCcO9hH

— SIZWE-BANSI (@SizweBansii) March 24, 2026

black Muslims going to Mecca it’s up to u guys