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Hello please I need help, I am a lady I am a lady who is approaching 40 I am divorced due to domestic violence I have four children with my ex husband,,,and I wanted to give love a chance again, I just found out that my baby daddy is a married man with two children and we have been together for three years we were friends for a year before we started dating I know some of his friends and younger brother I asked question and I was told he is single and has no children before I dated him I guess I did not make my findings very well I have known this man for 4 years now the younger brother even handed a project for me, he has a wife and two children in his country I don't know what to do because my children love him I also hate him for Ling to me my heart his heavy , he said he did not tell me because he didn't know our relationship was going to go this far he didn't know he was going to fall in love with me that he is sorry and that he wants me to be second wife and that this first wife knows and she agreed, the funny thing is I have been with this man I have helped him have stood by him fought for him thinking I was the only woman in his life he once told me that he would take more than one wife as a Muslim man I said no I said no because I do not like polygamy it comes with a lot of things,I never knew he was trying to tell me that I will be the second wife