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...very ugly story if you ask me and several narrations have been flying around. All parties involved clearly have their own bad sides and all, so I am not trying to exonerate anyone here.

Now I clearly understand the pity votes Chike is receiving is due to years of men's polygamous by nature narration in our African clime, so naturally women and young girls are massively pitching their tents with Chike.

Generally, stupidity has nothing to do with fame. I mean to say you could be very gullible and still be the most popular person on the internet. The whole narration making Chike appear as a hero is being fuelled by celebrities who are feminists and all and we all know how heard mentality is ruining this nation.

People can't think for themselves. They are either diehard fans of VDM or Blessing CEO or Saida_boj or another celeb. People just cant think for themselves.

Young girls should remember we live in a very traditional society where infidelity from both gender shouldn't be a norm, however the man has an advantage here based on how the society reputes him even after such ugly incidence and hailing Chike actually proves this right.

The woman in question is an American, millionaire, she can take care of herself, she's already got kids, etc. Almost nothing to lose.

As a young loner girl in Nigeria who relies on urgent 2k to meet the most basic needs, you would ruin yourself if you think doing such foolish thing as a payback for your partner's infidelity is worth it.

Men talk. Alot too especially the uncouth ones. When two or three of them already see your body without clothes ur already low-value to them and they will gladly tell anyone who cares to listen that they've been into your garrage.

Your reputation, dignity, it's all gone. We are different and we need to appreciate that uniqueness, which is why selecting a life partner or accepting a guy's proposal as a lady requires a lot of vigilance, prayer, tests (yes ask him questions and test his patience and virtue on many grounds), patience and elderly guidance to avoid making that first mistake of going for the wrong guy.

A young guy who was still in his private pilot license training once invited me out. Offered me 150k CFA to have dinner with him. Ignored the message and had a long sleep. In my head, there's no point honoring the invite, if he's so poor all he has to offer is money. The way a guy approached you says a lot about his personality, countless number of them here thinks showing their privates mean anything to a woman, it's their nature but there are still men like Angel out there.

Don't let me even start to tell you what I found out about the guy, but luckily he hit his eventual girlfriend one day (badly damaging her dentition), and that prompted the girl to call some area boys on him. He couldn't continue his pilot training cux his own injuries made him no longer eligible to become a pilot.

We can't be like them though and that's an honour. Body count is only a thing for women, you are the one who becomes a laughing stock, poor you. Literally.

Even with wealth, the pride of a woman is in her sexual purity and decency.



Gold 🌹 🍷

Hmmm in this age, what some men do though, makes it hard to even imagine continuing anything with them. I believe a man should always extend the Olive branch first.

You saw her and claimed to love her? Why would you become evil and expect her to nurse you back to your senses? Wahala for who love man🥲

This is very disturbing. I can only imagine what those women and young girls in their captivity endure everyday. They literally stripped that woman naked and kept on whipping her despite her pleas of not being 'well'

Horrible country!

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Not to discourage nor undermine your efforts, I know you probably put a lot into this project but NGL, I also think it's useless if you are positioning it as another forum. Maybe as a business forum for a small niche might work. Just my 2cents.🫰

Gold Rose 🍷

cr7lomo:
If it really had 100m views...it the movie wid have gone viral on social media by the viewers.....person or people would have opened threads about it a while ago

Haters 🤣🤣🤣

Kaczynski:
Op is a man beware I have said my own

You need to grow up this 2026


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Happy Sunday and happy new week to all.
Wishing you a prosperous and blissful week ahead.

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naptu2:
The thread creator can create a poll. This was a feature on the original Nairaland. It was removed when Nairaland 2 was created in 2011. Looks like it is back.

Ancestor🫡🫡🫡

GorillaApp:
High standards you say from a force that brutalize harmless Nigerians? Who are quick to look down on the civilian populace by calling them " bloody civilians?" A force that will almost crush your spine because you wore a camouflage that resembles their uniform while In western climes they celebrate civilians who adorn military fatigue and count that as support for the military force?

Nah! I will never respect the Nigerian army and other sister agencies. Never!!

Well, you have some solid points and unfortunately, they are all true, certainly even worse.😞

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Two Muslim countries fighting dirty in a Muslim country.
Weeks ago anti-semites were on Israel's neck for bombing Yemen, but now Saudi is 'genociding' the same Yemen and crooks are quiet? 🤮🤣

Rose Gold 🍷

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh. You absolutely failed to comprehend that no such nexus exist but exists only in an infantile mind

Nigerian government coordinated the precision strike on regional terrorists hiding in Nigeria and we will likely repeat same to strongholds of Nigerian and regional terrorists located in the North and South East geopolitical zones.

We are not interested in stealing other countries resources or have any nation with gun to our heads.

We solicited and still soliciting support and partnership with every country in the world willing and ready to partner with us in cleaning the regional insecurity mess US created by sacking and killing Muamar Ghadaffi of Libya.

Nigerian tax payers alone will not bear the cost of the regional insurgency created in the sahel region by America and the west.

Please when it comes to international politics, I think dummies and bigots should stop contributing.

jasent:
Yes,you're right. But I just can't support Nigeria when criminal is in power. I tried to change my mind but e non work

I respect your feelings and opinion💯

Gold Rose 🍷

YoungBlackRico:
This forum has gone to the dogs, was surprised when I saw that thread on the front page yesterday.

Was wondering if it was ignorance or just plain stupidity.
Glad I'm no longer active on this shitty site.

@mr. seun @nlfpmod this is exactly how many of us now feel about this forum o. Nairaland should do more to promote our dear nation irrespective of bad governance or not.🙂

Buhari is known to be one of the most inefficient and clueless leader Nigeria's ever had (arguably)

But that same Buhari almost captured Chad o
I mean, a 22 years old girl like me have to remind Nairaland adults?? See the importance of making history compulsory in schools.

Many argue that Jonathan is slow (man is my favorite President though)

But the same Jonathan overan Mali with Nigerian soldiers in 2014 and restored Democracy within a space of few days! (Just in case some people might say Buhari's conquest of Chad is 'old glory')

We need to stop reducing our nation to rubles. No one can dislike the rot in this system as much as I do but my Yoruba people will say "bi a ba ta ara-ile eni lopo, a'o le rii ra lo'won"


It sort of literally means if you sell your kinsmen cheaply (dishonour or disvalue), you can't buy them back at an expensive value. (don't expect outsiders to respect them.)

jasent:
God forbid me support tinubu Nigeria.

I am not a fan either. But Tinubu doesn't own Nigeria🥲 what do you think?

enemyofprogress:
what happened? What did he did?

Sir, please don't wound me with laughter this evening 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Gold Rose 🍷

Inspo thread

https://www.nairaland.com/8588527/well-kitted-armed-soldiers-burkina

While I acknowledge that we all harbor legitimate grievances against the incumbent government, the act of denigrating our military architecture, deriding our gallant soldiers incarcerated in Burkina Faso, and eulogizing foreign military might over our own to the extent of wishing Nigeria capitulates in a war against another sovereign nation is not merely a dastardly act of unpatriotic perfidy, but a truly lugubrious reality.

It is utterly disheartening to observe that such vitriol often emanates from supposed elders and veterans on this forum.

We must endeavor to exhibit higher standards of patriotism. Whether you acquiesce to this fact or not, your Nigerian identity is immutable.

You may choose to naturalize elsewhere, but the very day you perpetrate a crime, your supposed 'new love' will inevitably reference your ancestral roots.

Gold Rose 🍷

Hmmm coincidentally, my cuz bought 2014 model in November(facelifted to 2017 or so). Nigerian used, the new body model. 18.7m really really clean though. We went Christmas cruising in it today.

So I do feel the price for this 2009 upgraded HL is too inflated.

No vex oo not a car expert, just my observation

Idaytesj29:
Are you single? I'm open to a serious relationship and intelligent too, I work and I have business. We will make a good couple and have brilliant and intelligent up spring. What do you say? What's your location? Let's not waste time, let's get to know each other and if all is well we can proceed. Respond pls

😊I appreciate the approach, I really do.
But I am not open to starting anything in the likes of a relationship right now, certainly not one initiated from a faceless forum.🙂

Goodluck and Merry Christmas🫡❤️🙌

Gold Rose 🍷

Prophit:
My friend is an agent. For some two years now he has only been getting money from people looking to rent houses.

Nothing serious. Just some 10k here, 25k there etc. (you know this agent business, sometimes up to 5 agents share the spoils on a single house)



Now fast forward to two weeks ago, he was part of a land deal and got over 800k as his portion.


He was able to save 400k from the beginning of the year till now.


So he wants to add his 400k to the 800k and buy second hand keke of 1.2m


He is doing this because he heard that keke riders make up to 300 to 400k a month.

I don't know for any other location, but I know that in uyo the type of lives keke riders live doesn't depict 300k monthly earnings. (I might be wrong)

I am not looking down on any body so please spare me all the dignity of labour activism.


I honestly want to know, can keke riders make such amount of money monthly?

Be truthful and come out clean sir😊

By the way I think those riders make up to that or more depending on region and how they work. Don't use people's lifestyle to judge their bank balance, alot of them drink alot, they spend on several women carelessly, some are paying back the over inflated lease on their tricycle and some save up judiciously for a more serious future project.

Besides, riding doesn't stop you from doing your agency work does it? It only gives you more options.

However, reality check🥲 All businesses have their downtimes. Everyday can't be christmas.🥲

I wish you goodluck with it❤️🙌
When you start making it, value the woman in your life, not the street girls that don't see you now.

Rose Gold 🍷

Tenrack:
I agree. You be virgin abi you no be virgin? Muumuu even if you're a virgin, doesn't make you special. Geddifock

I think this is a conversation you need to hold with your mom and dad. You'd be surprised he found her so so used.😊

Tenrack:
Hu so in summary you no be virgin

Some people's level of comprehension makes a dummy sound like a professor when compared to them.

My purity
My soft side (I am rude with everyone else except my dad and my favorite aunt🥰😋😋)
My mumu button


My first kiss. I kiss my dad everytime oh but I am sure you know the type of kiss I am talking about🤕
Gold Rose 🍷

nedu666:
But Shettima was not the chief security officer during chibok that your likes were blaming Jonathan

Check my previous posts. I am a Jonathan's girl!!
You just come online to cap rubbish. I was merely correcting your erroneous insinuation earlier.

BAILMONEY:
Are you implying that kwara state governor kidnapped Bayahan-ile traditional ruler

Are you so slow The governor's main job is to protect lives and properties!! He is the Chief security officer of the state!!

SultanOfPuna:
Pagan culture and marketing

Christmas is 98% marketing business
The remaining 2% is for family gathering

Christmas has little to do with Jesus birth
Just the time of the year for business to cashout

Your opinion, gladly, it does not count. Just look at your name, he who comes to equity must come with clean hands. Someone like you want to preach to us now? Smh🤣
Rose Gold 🍷

Lovely...coup plotters would dare harm him❤️

They risk regional and international condemnation which could lead to allied military actions against them. He was never in trouble.

Gold Rose 🍷