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martinskelly:
Bro, na public forum you dey so no expect 💯% validation for your actions.

One thing i know is that every pregnant woman produces the same core set of pregnancy hormones, but their exact levels, timing, and how they affect the body vary significantly from person to person, so try and observe her from time to time and show empathy where necessary.

I understand boss. Thank you.

Double0h7:
So you work full time and she works full time and you call doing the chores at home “helping her”
You are not helping her, you are being an adult and keeping your environment clean and safe.
You need to do better. Your woman has is pregnant, working, and expected to come home and work some more. Downplaying her job doesn’t help your argument. I feel sorry for her.

Feel sorry for yourself! If you can read properly, you will see that I'm not complaining but rather asking for opinion.
And it's silly to compare my full time job with her full time job.

martinskelly:
To some large extent, you and i knows what the OP is saying, well he wouldn't have said it the way he said it thereby making everyone that works in every local govt in nigeria looks lazy.

I have worked at a government hospital and I know exactly what the OP is saying but saying the pregnant wife is working a non stressful work is an understatement, even the gossip they gossip there na work on it's own.

You get my point, I guess I shouldn't have said it that way sha

Oju4190:
What do u mean dat her job is a local Govet job. Dat DEY are sitting all day doing nothing?

And you think I don't know what I'm saying?

Juliearth:
The hormones are raging, please be patient with her. If you can afford to, please employ someone to help around the house. That would also afford you more rest, which I presume you need as the sole provider.

Alright, noted
Appreciate your input, thanks

Kobojunkie:
1. By this statement in red, I can already tell that she is probably right that you are the problem. You think that a pregnant woman logging a heavy woman back and forth to what is probably a boring job where she gets to sit all day long, according to you, doesn't involve stress? My gosh! 😒😒

Where in my write-up does it seem like I’m not being empathetic about her condition?
Just shut up if you have nothing meaningful to contribute.

dawnomike:
All I can say is that; try to be a patient with her as possible. This phase will pass!!!

Thank your star she has not started telling you to buy her Amala by 3am

Lol
Okay boss

Double0h7:
Does she work?

Do you work?

There isn’t enough context to conclude on.

Yes, we both work. Her work doesn't involve any stress though. It's a local government job, they basically sit in the office from morning till evening.
And of course, I work. I work from 9am to 5pm, Monday to Friday.

Good evening, everyone. Hope y'all had a great day.
I have a question please. I just want to know if am the one not seeing this as I should or something.
So the thing is that my pregnant wife, currently in her 2nd trimester is making it look like I don't assist her enough even though I do help very often, even before she got pregnant. I don't see any big deal in it at all, I cook sometimes, do the whole house cleaning every now and then, and even help her wash her clothes sometimes. But I would say these days I haven't been helping out alot due to work schedule, not that I don't help at all, I still help whenever I can.

But in her own words, it's as if she wants me to do 80% of everything because of her condition. I didn't overreact or anything when she said it, but I was like what sort of talk is that.

I just want to know if she's right and I'm the one not seeing things as I should.

Kindly share your opinion pls.

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Wow! FTC for the very first time ever. This really calls for celebration. One big bowl of python pepper soup for everyone who likes my comment

Anyways, who knows how to get selected for BBnaija.

I’ve always wondered about the Biafra secession discussion. Some supporters seem to believe that independence would automatically lead to a better life, but looking at the economic, political, and security realities of creating a new country, it also seems like it could come with very serious short- to medium-term hardship.
At the same time, if a significant number of people truly want to leave, it makes me wonder why the Nigerian government is strongly opposed to letting them go. Is it about national unity, economic interests, geopolitical risks, or something else?
I also sometimes wonder whether political and business elites from the region are more cautious about secession than ordinary supporters because they better understand the possible economic consequences.
For those who support Biafra and those who oppose it: What do you realistically think would happen in the first 5–10 years if secession actually happened? Would life truly improve, or would the transition be much harder than people expect?

Looking for good spot! Help a kongified brother abeg.

Hello everyone, good day. I trust you’re all doing well. Please, I really need some matured advice from you people regarding something that has been troubling my mind and could affect my future. I’ll try to be as brief as possible, but I also want to explain well so you can understand me.

So here’s the matter: I’ve been in a relationship with a lady for almost a year now. From the beginning, we had our fair share of challenges, things like poor communication, not being very supportive (all from her end), and some other small issues here and there. But along the line, we both worked through those challenges, grew to understand each other better, and since then things have been going well between us.

In fact, I’ve already introduced her to my family members, and by next month I plan to go and see her people. I’ve been thinking seriously about settling down with her and hopefully making her my wife next year. That’s how far I’ve gone in my mind and plans with this relationship.

But something happened yesterday that broke me badly, and it’s the reason I’m here asking for advice. I recently found out that she lied to me about her health condition. To give context, some months ago, she was diagnosed with fibroid. I have been supportive since then, reassured her, and made her know that whatever happens, we’re in this together. But what really pained me is that I later discovered she has actually known about this fibroid since over a year ago, long before she even told me, but she kept it from me until recently.

As if that wasn’t enough, I also got to know that she has had two abortions in the past. And please, I’m not just assuming or accusing her wrongly, I have proof of everything I’m saying. Honestly, this revelation has really hit me hard, and I’m just confused about what step to take from here.

The truth is, I genuinely love this lady. But at the same time, my heart is heavy with a lot of thoughts. Should I let go of this relationship because of the lies and past secrets? Should I forgive her and move on, considering the fact that everyone has a past? Or should I take another approach?

I don’t want to make the wrong decision that I will regret later in life, that’s why I’ve come here for guidance. Please, advise me like a brother, or even as a son. I really need matured opinions on this.

dauntless15:
Buy memecoins using bullx before it reach descreener, e go blow quickly sell am before the frauds who made it blow to lure inexperienced people sell theirs off, do am like five times you'd triple or quadruple your funds in a short time, no buy anyhow coins sha, because you can't do a viable business in modern day naija with that money it's small, las las you can become a street food vendor, since people won't stop eating no matter what.

Thank you for your input.

AngelSlay:
What do you have passion for?
This is the right step out of Poverty is to imitate not the lifestyle of the wealthy, but imitate their known source of wealth. Why start a business that you don't know a single person doing such business who is a Millionaire? You are not doing business. You are just being busy. I discourage people from going into several types of businesses. But if they decide to go on, it is their choice. If they succeed I will be surprised. If they do not succeed, I will not be surprised.

No business is 100% guaranteed of success. I know. But unless you are a great Innovator, please focus on doing business that you know several people doing it who are already Millionaires and Billionaires.

Thank you for you input.

francisbarrack:
Pos n data selling. U can look into d business that fetch u d 300k too.

The money was given to me by an uncle, its to get something doing after the demise of my dad. I don't wanna waste it, why I'm begging for a good business idea.

Hello everyone! I’m reaching out because I’m planning to start a business and I have a budget of 300k to work with. I’m seeking your input and ideas on what type of business would be profitable and sustainable within this budget range.

I’m particularly interested in businesses that require relatively low startup costs, have good potential for growth, and could succeed in the current market conditions. If you have experience with a specific business model, know of any untapped opportunities, or have creative ideas that align with this budget, I would love to hear from you.

Please, feel free to share details such as the type of business, startup requirements, expected returns, and any tips or advice you think might be helpful. I’m open to exploring various industries and concepts.

Your suggestions and insights would mean a lot to me as I take this step forward, and I truly appreciate your time and support. Thank you so much in advance!

PS: I'm a man, and currently located in Ibadan.

Give me some ideas please!

Goodman024:
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Hello everyone! I’m reaching out because I’m planning to start a business and I have a budget of 300k to work with. I’m seeking your input and ideas on what type of business would be profitable and sustainable within this budget range.

I’m particularly interested in businesses that require relatively low startup costs, have good potential for growth, and could succeed in the current market conditions. If you have experience with a specific business model, know of any untapped opportunities, or have creative ideas that align with this budget, I would love to hear from you.

Please, feel free to share details such as the type of business, startup requirements, expected returns, and any tips or advice you think might be helpful. I’m open to exploring various industries and concepts.

Your suggestions and insights would mean a lot to me as I take this step forward, and I truly appreciate your time and support. Thank you so much in advance!

PS: I'm a man, and currently located in Ibadan.