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why is she telling us na, her life her choice... our problem is the increase in fuel not this biko

corruption everywhere

lolz just calm down you will definitely get married soon and you will get all those thing to the fullest infact they say you will get tired of it

gracias124:
Its not an achievement, when you are 30 without a wife or girlfriend. You will always be Hot and staring at your cealing every night like you are cursed.
Some shameless and weak*** will resolve to watching porn and jerking off. What a shameless behaviour watching other men doing the things you want to do.
I am not financially ok to get married and knacking out of wedlock is prohibited to me. I just dey vex

CUSTOM YES BUT CDCFIB NOT YET

pook:
As the exam been written?

hmm that's logical

Samantha125:
After sleeping around, they'll come back home only to slump and die after finding out that some of the children are not biologically theirs as if they were expecting the wives to sit at home lonely while they're having fun with other women...

They'd have affairs with other men's women, but get offended when other men step in to fill in the void they'd have left with their wives while busy sleeping around...

so who are the righteous ones ?

Dtruthspeaker:
No one is good only God!

lolz no vex sir

AllBlack:
How many questions are you asking?

topic header has a different question.

Your comment is another one.

dem don serve you hot breakfast

so true

professore:
Nice thread.

Avoid a partner that gets angry easily.

wow i tap from your blessing ooo

Jane664:
I can’t really relate to deal breakers much because I married my answered prayer.
But for me, it would be being in a place where my voice doesn’t matter. A woman blossoms where she is valued, heard, and cherished and I’m grateful I found that kind of love.

so hilarious but wait no ass chai... hope you have ass too ooo

kiddaz:
In this order:
Lies
Disrespect
Cheating on all forms
No boundaries
Having male besties
Lousy n loud
Chronic begging (almajiri on wig)
Easily influenced by others
Overused koontoos
No ass... Like seriously wtf?

yeah

Theama:
Manipulative and flirtatious.

hmmm this should be for both parties oooo,, very true

DissTroy:
1. If she talks to exes. (I never talk to exes too.) I have never forgiven this.
2. If she is selfish, expecting gifts and favours from me without doing same for me.
3. If she keeps male friends. (I don't keep female friends too. Female friendly acquaintances, but never actual friends.)
4. If I can't ascertain her loyalty as being only to me, she has to go. I don't forgive disloyalty too.
5. I don't mind if she's overly emotional but if she's quick to act on what she feels like anger or resentment, she has to go. Anger will make her cross lines, saying words she can't take back too.

Only when you are certain about this should you procede to do the forever thing with her.

valid point

JohnAOne:
DISRESPECT.


As a MAN, I cannot, and will not tolerate any form of "see finish".

A close 2nd is lack of commitment.

3rd is lack of personal hygiene.

ah you must be a disciplined man ooo chisos

TheStoriesOfMan:
My deal breaker is lying, cheating, stealing, poor personal hygiene, too much affinity for religious activities, disobedience to laws/family and consumption of brainrot media, associations or friends.

you need to have a conversation with her if you ever findout

stan4b:
My woman still in contact with her ex.
The day I find out she's communicating with her ex, that day, the house will not contain both of us.

absolutely

helinues:
If you do something intentional just to satisfy your ego, just don't apologize later

reflex action you say?

femi4:
yes

Flirting is normal...we all do it uknowingly

Its a reflex action

its very confusing

Samantha125:
What do you think their wives would be doing while they'd be busy engaging in romance with many other women? You guys are still very naive...🤣🤣🤣

na wa ooo things dey happen

Wealthyonos:
Kai, girls and guys do steal in relationships o. Like this my guys phone was stolen inside his room, and it's just the both of them at home. She did it to wicked him.. My guy don buy new phone like this but the girl still they deny. Just when she was accusing my guy of cheating, something that he didn't do.

hmmm true

Stephen0mozzy:
Oh no no... One thing with love relationships - if you fell in love with someone because of their energy and friendliness, it'll be insecure and somewhat selfish to tell them to STOP being themselves.

The most you can do is love and be faithful to them and make them know that you expect nothing less than love and full fidelity to your relationship.

But by being themselves, I don't mean, giggling upadan like a crazed rabbit for every Thom, Dhick and Harry tho - a partner that have sense knows that being committed to someone means setting boundaries for every other person - if she cannot set that boundary without you tell him/her - then they're yet to fall in love with you nor see the value in what you both share - and once again, DEAL BREAKER.

Can good people go to heaven without being Christian?

stealing ke in a relationship lolz

Wealthyonos:
Cheating, stealing, and lying. Anyone of them and I'm done.

yeah either by chatting alone or physical

Badfinga:
Any form of cheating and lack of self-worth

exclusively for men ?

pansophist:
Yes.

Speaking as a man, of course yes. If by faithfulness, you mean sexual faithfulness, then probably not.

Paradise for a man is to be faithfully married to one woman, but engage in flings with others. Men like the idea of being married to one woman, but engage in romance with many.

The only thing preventing men from engaging in this act is their morality, sexual market value, and finance.

But where the hypocrisy comes is that men won't tolerate such from their wife. It's exclusively a male's privilege, as far as men are concern.

hmmm interesting

Stephen0mozzy:
Yes, flirting does not mean feelings - but it's a quick way to fall into seduction and then commit infidelity.

Some very extroverted social butterflies can light up a conversation with any and everyone and it might just be friendly - unless if by flirting you mean, subtle touches, holding hands, looking at them and dropping some kain love bombing pickups.

On the topic of your thread:
1. Disrespect is an irreparable breaker.
2. Obvious sign of zero interest to challenge yourself in personal development (life ambition)
3. An overly flirtatious girlie - I like my angels introverted ✌🏿😁 with just a pinch of sanguine personality.

Well said but then it can aswell cause mistrust from ones partner and even though its not an outright cheating but its still some what kind of cheat

Stephen0mozzy:
Yes, flirting does not mean feelings - but it's a quick way to fall into seduction and then commit infidelity.

Some very extroverted social butterflies can light up a conversation with any and everyone and it might just be friendly - unless if by flirting you mean, subtle touches, holding hands, looking at them and dropping some kain love bombing pickups.

On the topic of your thread:
1. Disrespect is an irreparable breaker.
2. Obvious sign of zero interest to challenge yourself in personal development (life ambition)
3. An overly flirtatious girlie - I like my angels introverted ✌🏿😁 with just a pinch of sanguine personality.

learn to be AUDACIOUS

Ended a toxic relationship that was killing my peace

IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A MAN THAT IS IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP TO BE FLIRTEOUS AND STILL REMAINS FAITHFUL TO HIS PARTNER

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