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FamilyRe: Single Fathers Taking Custody Of Their Kids by Goshen5: 11:33am On May 04, 2025
Good morning everyone and happy Sunday.please i have a friend that is having an issue and he needs you people’s opinion on how to go about it.around 2020 he met a girl that he wanted to marry and at a point she got pregnant before the pregnancy she was sleeping with different men,which he later release from her chats with different men,later on she apologized and promised that she has changed,they went to her village to see her people but he didn’t pay the bride price and when they came back to abuja she continued with sleeping with different men while pregnant and he eventually caught her and immediately said he said is not marrying again.

during the pregnancy he gives her money to take care of herself until she put to birth,during the child bearing he bought everything for the child bearing and pays all her bills.at a point the girl’s family got fade up and told him that since there daughter doesn’t want to change if he sees someone better he should go ahead and marry.which he did around 2022.then one day she posted suicide note threatening to kill her self and the child.which he involved police and they rescued her from the suicide.he later realized that she was using the pregnancy to extort money from 3 different men,telling them that they are the father of her child.he realized last year when he went to visit the child,I think he had a confrontation with one of the man and the man said everything,immediately he took the child for a dna luckily for him he was the father and he is the one paying the child fees,child clothing,house rent and he gives her 200k every month for the child’s feeding and she also collects money from the other men.


Last year he gave her 5m to start up a business around 2023 so that she can be using it to take care of the boy which she went and bought a car that she is not driving but yet he is still giving her the 200k every month.one of the said father is threatening that if he doesn’t have the child no body will that when he comes back to Nigeria that heaven will get loose because he stay in America and this guy threatening all this,his cousin is living with her and the child because the said cousin begged her that he is having a house issue.


And my friend has never been disturbed because of the age limit,his child just clocked 4 years you know considering Nigerian rigorous court processes,but now we realized that she smokes loud and all manner of smoke in the child’s presence and bring different men to the house and also sleeps with women in the same house,that is she practices lesbianism and we are afraid she would influence the little child and my friend has video evidences of all this practices and the evil she does and also has a chat she had with different men where she was telling them that they are the father of the child and why they should send money for the child’s upkeep.
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the school authority will call my friend that the child is still in school and once my friend calls his wife she will immediately run to go and pick the child and most times the child goes to school from his house and is the wife that normally take her own child and the boy to school.his fear now is this,her younger sister that was staying with her always call my friend to go and retrieve his child before she spoil him,because of her attitude her people came and carried their younger sister staying with her and little girl always tell my friend how her elder sister brings in different girls and men to sleep in there house and the girl should be about 12 or 13 years old.so he is thinking of involving human right and his wife said he should try and retrieve the child before things go bad because his wife loves the child the way she loves her own son.
TV/MoviesRe: Meet 2018 Bbnaija Contestants: All You Need To Know About Them!! by Goshen5: 11:11pm On Jan 28, 2018
Will knowin dem add any value 2 my life?mek dem enter zoza room abeg
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boy Fights Friends Who Abandoned Him After Going Broke by Goshen5: 11:03pm On Jan 28, 2018
Dat babe back too set

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