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Motayoayinde, it's about to down real quick. Isreal decides how e go b🙌

Jerusalem lives in our hearts -PM BENJAMIN NETANYAHU

Time to annex West Bank east Jerusalem 📌💯🙌

dangermouse:
This is like three now.
I wander what is responsible for the all females death.

Nigerian politics shaa!

All die na die, no one is talking about Buhari sef. Rather all the rogue are battling for his followers

Afodot0022:
I remembered when I went to the barracks where she works to check up on my children,I discovered that she dumped the children at her father's place just because she is dating another man.this woman embarrassed me and ridicule me to her colleagues. Me the father of her kids, someone I paid her bride price treating me like that, even her colleagues where angry at her and was begging me.I even received a phone call from one male colleague and I was even threatened that if I set my foot in the barracks again, I will be lock up in prison. Can't you imagine a woman treating the father of her kids like that. Ever since then I stop any form of communication with her and just focus on my life. All these she was doing are all in support of her family. So now that the man is dead, they now want me to come and discuss what pls.

Number one mistake, never marry a military/paramilitary woman 📌💯, na wetin kill my papa. Thank God you are alive

Afodot0022:
The reason why I will say we are divorced even if not officially done cos what we did was traditional marriage, when we separated,I requested for the bride price to be returned but they refused to give me.I was made to understand that in Yoruba land, they don't return bride price if there are children between the two especially if the kids are with the nother. Maybe Yoruba people should shed more light to this.From my own end, am divorced and can't have anything to do with that woman. I will be a fool to accept her back cos am the one that knows what she did to me. This woman took my kids away to her parents and deny me access to those children. So now that the man is dead, they now want to see me. Honestly if not that I respect the dead, I won't step my foot there irrespective of anything. You all won't understand the pain I went through by this wicked and evil woman. I can't even stand being in their midst cos I don't trust them. A woman that can boldly and blindly took me to the man that she was sleeping with and the man was trying to counsel us. Is that the woman I should trust or reconcile with...never. Incase the divorce was normal, I won't mind going there but with thee acrimony going one within the both families, I don't think it's a good idea to go there. They can't even call my family members to notify them, it was a stranger they sent, you can see the kind of rubbish family they are. Not even a text message. It's easy for you all to say I should act matured but if you have been through what I went through, you will just ignore that family totally.

My brother, follow your mind, no b you kill am. Na man you be , you are a conqueror 📌💯🙌

Afodot0022:
Happy Sunday to you nairalanders and top of the morning. There is this issue I want to let the house know so I can get advise from matured and experienced people here that have got through the same issue and how they deal with it

I have been separated or let say divorced for close to 3yrs and this had created lot of acrimony between myself and my ex wife including issues with her family. The last issue I had with her was she took my kids to her father to live there without my consent. Ever since then , she had been denying me access to my children cos the new place her parents stay is a new site which I don't have the location, I stop interfering when the issue was becoming too much for me and focus on my life cos I know at the right time things will sort itself out.
This morning I got a call from a strange man and he introduced himself to me, by that, I knew the man is from my ex wife family by mentioning the location he was calling from.He told me that did I heard that my father in-law passed away few days ago, I mentioned I wasn't aware. Non of the family called me to pass the information to me neither did they call my own family to notify them. At first I find it strange getting a call from a strange man and giving me such info while it was supposed to be done my either my ex wife or her family, but I thought maybe because of the acrimony going on, they decided not to communicate with me cos ever since my ex took my kids to stay indefinitely with her father without my consent, I stop communicating with her or her family members.

Now that the man is late, I was told by the man that he wants to see me and have a meeting with me that he got my number from my ex wife.
What I need to know is that, now that am divorced, do I have any responsibilities whatsoever to render to the family being that am no longer married to their daughter again. Is it a must to be present in whatsoever they want to do or present at the burial. Pls I need advice from people that have experience this before and how they handled it or people that are vast in wisdom. I don't want to be mean to ignore the family cos their daughter really disappointed and betrayed me and also her family had input on how our marriage collapsed. My kids are still with them and also I have the intention to taking custody of my kids as the grandpa they live with is dead and seems like my ex wife have remarried and can't leave my kids to strangers. I want to use this as an opportunity to get custody of my children.

Pls all your advice are welcomed and appreciated. Gracias

Firstly, call that number back and find out who that man is 👌.
Secondly, if you must attend that burial, don't go alone, consult your family and security 📌💯.
Lastly, take any decision that deems you fit. You are your own soldier, army,god. Not even the USA secretary of defense can guide you . Take charge 💯

Onegai:
Decency and following the Lord means that you should do unto others as the Lord requires of you, not as they do to you. Which means, you should politely greet the man, thank him for informing you, get details of the burial, show up and pay your respects.

Kindly leave all talk of custody till you have seen your ex-wife and ascertained whether your daughters are well taken care of.

I beg of you (I've been begging you since last year)...break the pattern you have of listening to bad advice that is sure to follow. Because you're nursing greviances and bitterness, you tend to only listen to really bad advice.

You don't want to admit any mistakes, you just want to spin your version of events (mostly half truths and careful editing of your story so you're not the villain) so you can get strangers to insult your ex-wife and pity you because it makes you feel good. I've seen the path you're walking down, how it ends, e no worth am.

Attend the burial, be composed and dignified. Show your maturity. No need to contribute if you don't feel like.

Your ex-wife isn't your enemy, both of you screwed up in your marriage and until you can look into a mirror and be deeply honest and humble, peace will elude you.

And I want you to have peace.

You are blaming him too. My father is dead in his grave because of tolerance and peace. He needs to be alive for himself too.

Where are the military apache helicopter gunships Buhari bought. Developed nations deal with criminals with superior fire power 🤷🏿

NkankaCEO:
Impressive. Our universities should be special R& areas and hence, they need independent power generation plants

Which university , when lecturers are masters of plagiarism in their papers

zero8zero:
What is this one talking?, always rushing the first to comment to spit a can of gibberish. If someone registered a party, must you then be the founder, the Chairman and at the same time, the Presidential candidate all the time?. And the same person is always puffing about democracy. Then, let Obi do the same, let him go register his own party and make himself the Chairman and the presidential candidate, you this mob enh, as long as anything is against the Govt , una must support, even if it doesn't make sense.

You should be asking if it's legal 🤷🏿

HenryWilliams:
Direct labour is the antithesis to Corruption.
If you have that in effect.. official corruption will be reduced tremendously
It was implemented long ago in LASG by Jakande. It cut cost by almost 70%.
Due to the corruption started by Military Government and continued by Civilian rule, Direct Labour can never be reintroduced.

Plateau State government had direct labour workers but it stopped when the APC governor came in 2015.

Smitaro100:
Is that grave not too shallow to bury someone..?

You dey mind Dem, Muslims graveyard are very shallow. Small flooding in northern Nigeria, na so water go wash cadavers comot polluting everywhere

Those people that embezzled church money killed him 🤦

Shawarmagirl:
Is nothing for does who still want to go. If I have the money I will pay and go and work. In less that one year, I will recover the 150M with good health care and work environment. The goal is not for me, but for my children.

$100k job in USA ain't easy to come by, won't you pay tax and utility bills . Do you have high in demand skill or STEM COURSES 🤷🏿

Train them in Nigeria but never, they will soon be like obi and soludo kids 🤷🏿

The emperor wicked Wike loves praising himself, he will soon fight lere olayinka who will come after his life 😂😅💩🤷🏿

Hhh4444:
leave that guy....one thing many people don't understand is bad governance touches everyone and everything. Businesses are struggling cos people are now very cautious when it comes to spending.

Clubs are bleeding in Jos, Plateau State. Local bars dey collect sef, some close by 9:30pm

The master strategist plotter have collected all disposable income in taxes 🤷🏿

Raygipson1989:
Jonathan is a big failure politically, just try and travel to bayelsa, you see the roads , you will be surprised s president actually came from that region.
There's no single legacy of him in his area , he should be ashamed of himself

My problem with southern politicians is that they don't want to bring lasting electoral reforms

Yar'adua ---2009 electoral reforms
Buhari ---- BVAS/IREV

Only if Tinubu will sign Electronic voting and Result Transmission . They won't want to leave a good legacy till they're kicked out of power before their head reset

Professor007:
I don't smoke, but also I don't look down on people who smoke.

But still, I can't help but wonder: what's so addictive about smoking? And why do people still choose to smoke up on all the warnings and health risks?

Just the other day I came across an empty pack of cigarettes. Lo and behold, they've graduated from just writing "smokers are liable to die young" to know using graphic images of a severely cigarette-damaged lung. All this in a to dissuade people from smoking.

So, my question is, why do people still smoke when the disadvantages are so glaring?

Cigarettes is the most taxed commodity at 70% but still highly in demand 📌💯

DeGLORIOUS:
I can see. So because you have never seen on social media, it then means that governor is not working? Those roads entering plateau, is it during his administration that those roads got spoiled? All roads entering plateau states are federal roads which demands heavy politics to get federal attention. If you knew how the state was during the previous administration, you would appreciate what's happening now. Any plateau citizen that says he's not happy with what is going on now, is just being political.

You the cheap labor road construction muftwang is doing, dey play. All the billions coming into the state. Abi those buses that many have broken down, don't even know why he bought used vehicles in the first place 🤷🏿. I hope he does quality road network in his Mangu zone.

Chinonye2022:
One thing about table is that it always turn 😆😆 karma

The Emperor wicked Wike doesn't know that Fubara suspension was a big slap to the party and state. Rivers is a big name 📌💯

MaziObinnaokija:
wic law talk say a Pastor must spend 5 years b4 dey change am 🤔 🤔 😒 🤔 😒 🤔,

Members are the ones feeding the pastor, little boycott will make business branch shutdown.

Jasonxxx:
I am not even in Nigeria right now

I envy you bro. I'm presently working on towards getting a skilled workers migration .

Imagindat:
It is definitely the king of Pop, Michael Jackson.

Football has no language barrier but music does🤷🏿

2cribz:
We shall meet him in court.
I also did same thing last week .wanted to transfer 6k then a call distracted me and ibtransferrd 26k.
The receiver denied it entered.till date.
Everyone in naija is a thief.
Shey na opay customer care bot I wan come dey battle
Abegi.
I left it to The Good Lord

Na you gree oOoOO, I threatened to report someone account for fraud, Omo my money landed back in peace

henrybomb:
He should arrest the pastor or report the transaction as erroneous in his bank

Aswearugad, You too Sabi. Taah, make I bend if I no collect that money. Na to give testimony and say what happened, make the church end🤷🏿

Pulpit bandits, mordern day banditry. They are all hustlers, they will owe you and still give you attitude. I avoid them entirely

Mr Governor, no worry your self. The below will be the fate of our common oppressors 📌💯. Shey Canada has given warning shots 🤷🏿.

The FBI, which typically screens all U.S. visa applications for criminal records, applies to Magistrate Judge for an arrest warrant to apprehend a suspect on U.S. soil.

Once a warrant was granted and sealed , they wait until a suspect landed in the U.S.