₦airaland Forum

ultimateprof:
Life is very easy here in the north, with salary of 150k you can take care of 4 kids and their education in as much as you are contented with an average private school. ABU school fee is still less 70k and an average handout still range from #500 to 1k, likewise Federal College of Education. You guys should learn how to survive with ease!

Family of six, dey play na. Feeding alone will finish that money

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joyousmother2016:
I was pressurised and bullied for my singleness. Got depressed because of the bullying and opted to marry my friend who I thought was really a Godly man as portrayed over the years. 5yrs later, I walked away with nothing except a bag of clothes.
Today, I'm here fighting for my sibling as the same relatives who bullied me are on his neck to get married.
I feel people should be left to live their lives and not be pressurised into doing what they do not want.

Hard luck ma'am

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maasoap:
How much should he have and what should he have before he can get married? Won't his wife be working as well?
I didn't even have a stable job when I got married, I was in NYSC when I got married.

You are things turned out good for you. I know childhood friend her husband ran from her as the hardship got worse

Smelly tow tow ayama

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virginboy1:
hmmm...They wont pressure you with good job connections ooo, they wont pressure you with lucrative business deals ooo, they wont pressure you with sure gigs...

But once it comes to marriage, you see pressure every where.

omo, indeed, "Misery loves company"

Gbammm

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Domaining101:
Good to see. In the name of prophet muhammed(SWT), may allah, the most merciful, the most beneficent bless all our beloved emirs and Islamic leaders in all of Hausa/Fulani/Yoruba land. Sharia Law has come to stay in yoruba land and we the Hausa/Fulani/Yoruba people in yoruba land have unanimously agreed to live by it. There is nothing any of you Obedients or Omo ale's(Yoruba Christians) will say or do that will stop it. We yoruba muslims should come together in 2027 to make sure that president tinubu and shettima remains in Aso rock.

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calabaman:
Do not let anyone put you under pressure to marry

**Op I married when I clocked 40**

Some things I would advise though:

> Marry a soul mate who you can tell sit down on the ground and she will.
> You are a man and can marry when you are ready , however if you are waiting for millions before you marry you may never marry.
> I didn't have up to 200k in my account, but had a 3 million wedding with spare change.
> Don't let your wife to bes people dictate the spending on your wedding ( you are the one paying not them)
> My experience - I fought the TM list and reduced it drastically (whilst telling them they can marry their daughter if they won't budge) my wife did the needful.

Funny enough now, there is pressure on my wife not me to have a child.

I have asked her to chill, some days she listens...some days she doesn't stating menopause.

But me.... I put my feet down and told her whoever is putting her under pressure can come and give her belle (she won't cheat)...but the idea that I don't care puts shiver down her spine.

In summary, the decision to marry now or in 10 years time depends solely on you. Looking for a homely girl ready to settle down and not a broke a55 slay queen with a broke a55 family to make your forever partner.

Imagine demanding for a bike (okada), big gen amongst other outrageous things - regalia for a great grandfather who don kpai since all in the name of tradition for this economy. Aunty come dey say it's tradition (all in the name of looking for marriage) mchewwe

Good luck bro!

Gbammm, OGA don talk am. God bless the senior man 🙏

arkad321:
the rate at which people are telling me to get married lately is alarming, it got me looking at the mirror to check why they are doing it.
Every person I meet, which I have not met for a while, would ask me if I am married or single.
Every week whenever someone younger than me in my area is getting married my friends would say to me "you really need to get married people younger than you are getting married" I keep thinking why always me? There are lots of guys older than me and unmarried but they dont pressure them about marriage like they are pressuring me.
I create this thread out of anger, because I have just come back from where I sit with my friends, and one of them suggested that they should contribute money and find me a wife.
Just because I am 30 years old.
Is 30 years a curse or what? since when i hit 30 years, people have made me depressed they kept suggesting that at 30 I should have this and that.

Its disgusting. they think its a joke but honestly I begin to hate it.

My brother, I will be 35 in March. Am planning how to better my life and future kids. I've reached that level that no one stresses me. Without proper planning, you will be doomed. Job stability is key, my elder sister wey b woman do tell me to get a job before starting family (na woman b dat)
I know a man that is still paying debt two years after his marriage 😥 because of wedding expenses (for what na). Look well oOoOO

ibechris:
U don't know what pressuring is all about.

They are advising u and now u have turned it to pressure.

Na u dey pressure yourself uncle.

If u marry without money u will see the real pressure with ur naked eyes.

LWKMD 😅😂🤣. Aswearugad, beginning of generational porverty 😥

Nnamdipapa:
Especially when you have seen it all. I have had mind-blowing sex with ladies from all over the world and I find the experience to be overrated. Now, I climax when millions drop in my account.

God bless the senior man 🙏💯

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Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

You go dey alright

ednut1:
Pregnant and still going to another man house?

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