Sports › Re: Michael Olise: The Best Midfielder In The 2026 Fifa World Cup by gr8cany: 8:03am On Jul 01 |
Utimu: Tou must be looking for argument onlime as the very Busy Youth that you are. No doubt.
Very typical of Average Nigerian Youth who is very Busy with their life I want to attack you because this your comment has everything wrong with the beautiful personal opinion topic. The comment you could give is this gibberish you typed here instead of passing. Stop living a low life please, can't people openly express what impress them again? I would have pass but your comment really is annoying, perhaps you want to be noticed or trend |
Education › Re: As A Teacher, How Would You Rate This Student? by gr8cany: 8:36am On Jun 28 |
What do you mean by longitudinal drawing?.
There is no longitudinal drawing in skeletal diagram or rather it make no sense as all parts will not be represented.
Maybe you explain more what you mean by "a longitudinal drawing could have be better."
Meanwhile, The student is just good in artistic drawing and nothing special here...I would just give him/her all marks deserved and nothing more |
Business › Re: GTBank Holds Customer's ₦5.3 Million Until He Created A Scene At Their Branch by gr8cany: 4:13pm On Jun 18 |
ericmor: Sue them with all evidence you have got Exactly what I need to do |
Business › Re: GTBank Holds Customer's ₦5.3 Million Until He Created A Scene At Their Branch by gr8cany: 7:29am On Jun 18 |
GTBank is a criminalized bank.
In 2022 I paid my wife's application fee (supposedly through GTB) to study a masters degree in Ghana, the school claimed to have not received the payment, I sent the money again. At the end the school did not receive the two transactions and as well GTB refused to refund my domey account till today despite all efforts I made.
That I am still banking with them in my local account is something I must reconsider as soon as I make up time to go to another bank for account opening.
Rubbish people at GTB |
Romance › Re: He Cancelled The Wedding Because I Missed His Father's Funeral… by gr8cany: 9:47am On Jun 07 |
AdisGlobal01: SHE_NEEDS_YOUR_ADVICE
My wedding was scheduled for March this year, but everything changed after my fiancé's father passed away unexpectedly in November.
His funeral was held just three weeks later, in December. I genuinely wanted to attend, but there was one major problem: my employer had a strict policy against granting leave during the December holiday period. When I accepted the job, this condition was clearly stated. Despite explaining my situation and pleading for an exception, my request was denied.
I informed my fiancé immediately. At first, he appeared understanding. I even contributed financially to support the funeral arrangements.
Then his mother called.
She told me that if I truly wanted to become part of their family, I had to be physically present at her husband's funeral. I tried explaining my circumstances, but she ended the call before I could finish.
When I called my fiancé afterward, I expected him to stand by me. Instead, he asked:
"If it were your own father, wouldn't you find a way to attend?"
I explained that the situations were different because my employer might make an exception if it were my immediate family member.
That was when he dropped the bombshell:
"No presence. No wedding."
I thought grief was speaking. I thought time would calm him down.
I was wrong.
The wedding was officially cancelled.
My family tried everything to reconcile the situation, but his family refused every attempt. Eventually, my father advised me to accept the loss and move forward with my life.
It broke me, but I did.
Months passed.
Then, on May 20th, my ex-fiancé called me.
What he said left me speechless.
According to him, I had failed the test of being a good wife because I stopped trying to convince his family after the wedding was cancelled. He said a "real wife" would have kept begging until she was accepted.
Then he announced that he had "forgiven" me.
Not only that, he had already chosen a new wedding date in August and expected me to start preparing immediately.
As if the breakup had never happened.
As if my feelings didn't matter.
As if he alone had the authority to decide when a relationship ends—and when it resumes.
Without hesitation, I told him I was no longer interested.
His response shocked me even more.
He said:
"I'm not done. You don't have the right to be done."
I blocked his number immediately.
But that wasn't the end.
A few days later, he appeared at my father's house carrying the bride price and all the marriage items he had previously rejected.
My father told him clearly:
"My daughter has moved on. As far as this family is concerned, she is no longer available."
Still, he refused to accept it.
Since then, he and his mother have continued calling, visiting, and pressuring both me and my family despite my repeated refusal.
Now I'm beginning to wonder:
Is this really about love, or is there something deeper behind their sudden determination?
What troubles me most is the mindset that someone can cancel a wedding, disappear for months, return when it suits them, and expect another person to simply obey.
I am now considering legal action because the constant calls, visits, and refusal to respect my decision are becoming disturbing.
My question is:
If someone ends a relationship, then later decides to "forgive" you and resume the wedding without your consent, would you see that as love... or as a dangerous sense of entitlement?
What would you do if you were in my shoes? . |
Romance › Re: He Cancelled The Wedding Because I Missed His Father's Funeral… by gr8cany: 9:46am On Jun 07 |
I expected you to had resigned that work in agreement with him instead of missing your "father in proxy" burial but both of seems not to be in true love which is the trend today, eyes are always open at either ends.
My conclusion about you is that you are very wicked and u sacrificial. Your ex is more wicked, weakling and not man enough.
Inform him directly that you will get him into the law court which will be more embarrassing if he don't leave you alone.
The relationship is shattered and will be devastating if you guys later come together again. Move on as already and urge his stupid ass to move on forever too |
Travel › Re: Does Anyone Know Where To Buy This In Sweden (stockholm)? by gr8cany: 3:15pm On Apr 09 |
Bigkoko: Nnna too far.
Anyone coming by May, I am ready to pay, well too Okay. Complete the other characters |
Travel › Re: Does Anyone Know Where To Buy This In Sweden (stockholm)? by gr8cany: 6:35am On Apr 09 |
Bigkoko: Does anyone have any idea where to buy this in Sweden? (Stockholm?)
* Kolanuts (Igbo 3-6 lobes (Oji ugo or oji Ikenga)
* Small bark of Albizia ferruginea
* Ose oji
African importer? I can bring for you by August |
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Romance › Re: My Agemates Don't Woo Me by gr8cany: 8:28am On Mar 25 |
Let's not tell her. She will tell herself very soon. Years sprout like fire...it's not too long the story will be reprinted |
Education › Re: Delay In Release Of Transcripts And Degree Certificates By Nigerian Universities by gr8cany: 11:58am On Mar 18 |
kingandamy4life: I am deeply concerned about the struggles of graduates getting thier Degree Certificates and Transcripts from Nigerian universities!
Many universities in Nigeria are making it difficult for people to access thier documents as the fonts and back is becoming unbearable.
Many of us that will have to leave work and family to travel very far to see things for ourself because you are tired of sending money for someone to keep checking and helping you to process it. When you eventually take that bold step to travel to see things for yourself the only thing you will notice is someone has refused to do his work by refusing to sign off because he is not on sit and even when he is on sit he dosent see that as any issues. And you will literally know that they want you to settle them with thier body language
One of the things you will hear is if you need it for something urgent why didnt you apply since last year because it will take a long while before its processed. My question is do we really need to make the life that is hard extra hard for people in the name of getting what they really worked hard to earn?
Please i call on the authorities in charge of acedemics to look into the processing and issueing of trancsript and certificate. This is not a rocket science and we shouldnt bleed to get this certificates.
Many public schools in Nigeria are making it tough for graduates to access their documents. Delays are causing missed opportunities and hindering progress. Let me call on Imo State University Owerri to please attend to the application of students desiring to get thier certificate and transcitpt urgently as the delay is not good for student desiring to further outside Nigeria or even in Nigeria
Let me suggest ways Nigeria Universities can make it easy to process this documents
- Create an online portal for applications and payment - Set a clear timeline for processing and release - Allow tracking of application status online
Let's make life easier for graduates! #ImoStateUniversity #NigerianUniversities #EducationMatters" This need to go viral. The problem is not particular to Nigerian universities, but West African universities. It's alarming and annoying too |
Autos › Buy This Car by gr8cany(op): 8:49am On Mar 17 |
If you are looking for highlander. Buy this and drive. Location is Enugu.
3million non-negotiable, Owner want to jappa.
Call 09053582837
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Forum Games › Re: Boat Is Sinking. You Can Only Throw One Overboard To Survive. (photo) by gr8cany: 6:39pm On Mar 11 |
What is journalist doing there |
Education › Re: Nnamdi Azikiwe University Gets New Deputy Vice-chancellors by gr8cany: 2:56pm On Feb 25 |
Who is the vice chancellor |
Education › Re: I Analyzed 10 Years Of JAMB Papers - Here Are The Topics That ALWAYS Appear by gr8cany: 9:30am On Feb 22 |
You are a good thinker.
Mod you can help me complete the rest of the characters |
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Politics › Re: Who Would You Vote Among These Presidential Candidates If Presented And Why? by gr8cany: 2:35am On Feb 03 |
SonOfDSoil01:
what difference? Dey play…….what was his score card in tiny Anambala? Incase you missed it, here is what soludo and some of Anambala citizens have to say about his failed administration  It's normal political bashing. Every opponent finds what to say to another |
Travel › Re: Why Prospective Nigerian Students Should Avoid Poland by gr8cany: 4:57pm On Feb 02 |
Well I have a lot of guys whom Poland has blessed so much that they do give away everymonth . It all depends |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Bill Gates Marriage Crashed Over Russian Hooker And STD Infection by gr8cany: 4:43pm On Feb 02 |
Sex is a problem that every man should try to manage. We need not to rate or bring people down because of sex. This is what made women unbecoming everywhere they are involved ..the sooner we support men on this matter the better. Men has tried for this world and still trying |
Politics › Re: Who Would You Vote Among These Presidential Candidates If Presented And Why? by gr8cany: 4:37pm On Feb 02 |
If not tribalism and sectionalism we would try peter obi and see what he could do with his shenanigans..we can't tell until we try him ...he has shown a lot of differences from all we have experience from others but Nigeria believe in "if not my brother or my faith no one else" |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Paid Volunteer (research And Training) by gr8cany: 2:27am On Jan 11 |
Do you mean STEM or what is STEAM education.
This advert is not clear to me |
Travel › Re: Lagos To Cotonou Via Seme Border by gr8cany: 11:04am On Dec 10, 2025 |
Well written for travel frecs. However, all monies involved in this write-up are way million plus.
One example among others, though not recommended as said (because you may put yourself to risk, makes you illegal migrant, makes you unpatriotic citizen and will limit your banking or transactional activities) but if any way you chose to by pass the seme border, with 2000naira NOT cfa, they(the bike guys) will cross you with enthusiasm unless you just want to help someone's huzzle, that's fine |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Military Coup In Benin Republic: Soldiers Announce takeover On Live TV (Pics) by gr8cany: 11:31am On Dec 07, 2025 |
I dey Benin republic like this. Presidency has said situation under control. We keep watching |
Romance › Re: Bae Only Sees Me As A Provider. by gr8cany: 7:12am On Nov 07, 2025 |
meobizy: These Gen Z kids are too smart for their own good.
All this small girl does is use me to pay her bills and go on dates with her hungry friends. Pant, I never see. I know she finds me attractive. I can smell it whenever we’re together. The physical fights we go through for me to explore her body — I’m getting tired. I’m too old for this. I normally give up and call the more mature women in my roster when she’s gone. We cuddle for hours on end. That’s where our intimacy ends. Why is this girl a challenge?
How do I break out of the provider zone?
CC: Livingiconrebor. 🥱 Maybe your story is unreal. If true, I will only say Sorry to you. At this age you still leave in the stone. Provide genuinely for her, sex must not be on the table. It's your type that make this little girls insultive |
Politics › Re: Christian Killings: I Never Replied Trump, Who Am I To Reply Him? - Akpabio by gr8cany: 9:51pm On Nov 04, 2025 |
Now I see that this man is a very wise and intelligent public servant |
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Crime › Re: Police Recover Parts Of Slain Anambra Nurse In Native Doctor’s Shrine by gr8cany: 11:37am On Jul 31, 2025 |
columbus007: How do you ascertain the meat was human? Do you eat human meat to know she was human? I don't understand. You are a suspect for saying this. Most acclaimed native doctors are accomplice to these crimes, don't defend them so quick |
Celebrities › Re: Peller And The ₦500k Cameraman Job: A Mockery Of Nigerian Graduates? by gr8cany: 2:24pm On Jul 18, 2025 |
DrMB: In life, if your pride is greater than your ability or usefulness, you're already shooting yourself in the foot. You must be very intelligent and street smart. Concise and pointful. You either learn after reading this or misunderstand it |
Romance › Re: That Day I Watched Her Walk Away And Knew I’d Just Lst Something Money Cn’t Buy by gr8cany: 9:45am On Jul 18, 2025 |
Make that call to her. You both are being ravaged by pride. I'm sure you are missing each other.
Make that call |
Family › Re: Lalasticlala Welcomes A Set Of Twins by gr8cany: 8:20am On Jul 12, 2025 |
lalasticlala: My wife and I welcomed our twin babies this week. To God be the glory.
We wanted to have our last child, the 3rd but we didn't know that God had another plan for us. We were surprised when the scan showed that we were expecting twins.
Thank God for safe delivery!
As you celebrate with us, may God grant you your heart desires.
#PapaEjima #BabaIbeji Congratulations. Glory Glory to God almighty |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: CDCFIB Recruitment 2025/26: How I Applied, Passed And Got Accepted by gr8cany: 2:38pm On Jul 08, 2025 |
tobillionaire: Can someone apply with statement of result in place of certificate Swear if you didnt have connection and got this. I was part of this process you decribed here, and was in that same NSCDC achi ojiriver for the final stage. during the screening, one of the officials, who represented my state hinted to us to ensure we reach out to high profile politician in our zone, that the final shortlist was called on merit due alot of issue and the new chief that came but it will not end like that, hinting that politicians are fighting for the positions. been my kind of person, who don't believe in such "man know man shiit of Nigeria job placement" I told myself that having reached this final stage I must be called for the documentation owing also that i met up all requirements, so I kept it in God's hand and waited for my succes in the NSCDC. Surprisingly even to my colleagues who were interviewed with me. I was missing out during the call-up for Abuja documentation, many or all of the people I met got it except those in officers category who didn't have father or politician at the top. only other ranks, like olevel applicant and the likes(ND, NCE) that got on merit. forget Nigeria my guy...corruption is highly deepened. Well, today i am very happy I missed out the overrated shiithole-job |
Politics › Re: Benin, Togo Owe Nigeria $11 Million In Electricity Debt – NERC by gr8cany: 12:02pm On Jul 05, 2025 |
nairalanda1: USA, china and India are not oil dependent and both china and India have very large numbers of poor people.
Your country is doing badly because you guys are interested in sharing money instead of a productive industrial economy Every country has poor people no doubt but can you compare this measure with Nigeria. Your last paragraph made the sense |