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[quote author=makydebbie post=86061832]Sis, make sure you've concrete evidence before you confront him.

Pen!s holders can be funny and turn the table around to make themselves look like the victim, you'll be amazed.

Wish you a safe delivery. x[/quote


Thank a lot, however am 100%sure. I do see the chats iniated by him and also calls even though he ends up deleting them later.

Mymynd4u:
I don't understand how people marry somone u can't check his phone...

Is privacy madt? Even for ordinary bf and GF, we must check our phone talkless of wife n husband.


If u can't trust ur partner to have right to his or her phone, then both of you aren't clean... I hate dt shit like madt...... It can't work for me ooo

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Not that we can't check each other's phone. but i think there is no need for that if both of you have no hidden agenda. I mentioned that we know each other password.so we have access to each other's phone

Hello Nairalanders,

Pease pardon my typo error

My marriage will clock 2years in few months. We have never had any serious issue to warrant serious argument, my hubby is a responsible fellow. Recently i noticed few things via his phone. (We don't check each other's phone except on occasional cases e.g i help with his phone when ringing by calling his attention. We also know each other's password)
Recently, I noticed few notifications dropped on his phone which warrants me to check further,I discovered my hubby make consistent calls to a particular lady, the lady also calls. my hubby also initiates romantic chats on WhatsApp with this particular lady and 2 others. He deletes all this chats before he sleeps, but i was able to come across few. The consistent call is visible on his call log. I don't want to bring up this issue but am not comfortable with all this. We are expecting our first child in few weeks.
Please advise how to manage this issue.