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Eruditor:
Truth is, if RM knew Neymar wanted out they would have waited for him instead of getting Hazard. In fact, if they can sell Bale, they would go for Neymar. Let pride be doing Bartomeu when he knows he has failed woefully 2 seasons running.

raumdeuter:
While the pastor might be on a fixed salary, It doesn't stop "gifts" from members. These gifts are not controlled by the church

These gifts can be increased by sweet-talking, seeing positive predictions, selling hope and other coercive measures to the members

That is fleecing

raumdeuter:
The money for that salary, where does it come from

raumdeuter:
The genuine pastors you know who are not worldly.

Where do they get their income from?

chic2pimp:
With all due respect, this makes little to no sense if I am to be totally Honest with you.

In this particular scenario you highlighted, who are we to Blame if not the Irresponsible Adult Male? Just because a Minor is gagging for it does not mean you have to get your d@$k wet. It's at times like these that Self restraint, Self respect and Moral Decency comes into play.

It's not errday Fukku Fakka, sometimes give little man down there a bit of respite.

donjazet:
You continue to show just how limited and biased your critical analytical reasoning is.

@ the bolded, If a 16 year old teen comes unto a teacher and they end up having sex, the teacher is rightfully scorned.
as a teacher you're expected to be ready for such an encounter, you're trained to overcome such incidents.

The teacher is supposed to be the be the moral figurehead to the Student, he is supposed to stop the girl right in her tracks and attempt to make her see the error of her ways and put her on the right track, not give in to her seduction.

What kind of society will we have If every teacher gave in to the temptation and had sex with teens?
The teacher is rightfully scorned so as to dissuade others from doing so.

It's just like justifying a public officer's acceptance of a bribe because he was deeply tempted by his subjects high offer.

Are you not to blame the officer for accepting the bribe?
Wouldn't you expect the public officer to have rejected the bribe and maintained his integrity as his office expect? once again,

THINK.

donjazet:
You continue to show just how limited and biased your critical analytical reasoning is.

@ the bolded, If a 16 year old teen comes unto a teacher and they end up having sex, the teacher is rightfully scorned.
as a teacher you're expected to be ready for such an encounter, you're trained to overcome such incidents.

The teacher is supposed to be the be the moral figurehead to the Student, he is supposed to stop the girl right in her tracks and attempt to make her see the error of her ways and put her on the right track, not give in to her seduction.

What kind of society will we have If every teacher gave in to the temptation and had sex with teens?
The teacher is rightfully scorned so as to dissuade others from doing so.

It's just like justifying a public officer's acceptance of a bribe because he was deeply tempted by his subjects high offer.

Are you not to blame the officer for accepting the bribe?
Wouldn't you expect the public officer to have rejected the bribe and maintained his integrity as his office expect? once again,

THINK.

nihilistjnr:
All pastors do this.

ALL

donjazet:
Greatihex, I am calling you out as a collosal hypocrite on this thread, you're an embodiment of all that is wrong with an African Christian's mentality.

You have repeatedly presented yourself as a defender of Christianity on this thread such to the point of being blind to its shortcomings, I mean how does one who claims to be "righteous" not see anything wrong in having sex with underage children??

At least, One can understand nihilist and dayo's reasons for defending the pastor, these are men who unapologetically consistently narrate their sexcapades on this forum, they clearly enjoy sex illicitly with multiple partners than they can remember just as the perp pastor does, so clearly, this is a case of the pot defending the kettle.

They do realize that anyone of their multiple partners could one day trump up a charge against them and due to the fact that people already recognize their reputation as womanizers could easily believe these charges regardless of its veracity.

But for you a supposed "Christian" to go as far as justifying underage sex in a bid to defend a "pastor who has a reputation of being a philiandere and a womanizer just goes to show how gullible and hypocritical you are.

THINK

BlueAngel444:
Kepa we bought 80m 6months before then was worth 18m-20m.

If Courtios or Pulisic had extra years in their contract, Courtios would have gone for 60m to 70m, Pulisic will reach 100m self.. what about Hazard that 150m would have been 200m or more.


the amount a player is bought for doesn't translate to the players value, or value to his team self. na situations they cause am.

airmark:
What happened when both met at the semis of the most glamorous club soccer competition?

thorrvik55:
Where is Nigerian constitution coming from?
The post I quoted had nothing relating to Nigerian constitution in it...

thorrvik55:
@ the bolded, so having sex with an under age child of 13 to 16 years of age is not a crime?

This ur post just weak me...

Ibime:
Stockholm syndrome. Same way Harvey Weinstein victims continued working with him, and same way some oyinbo girls come out to accuse their uncle of sexual misdemeanors 20 years later. Sometimes, one must be mature in mind and confident in life before dealing with a matter that could affect one's social and financial situation, and be prepared to follow through and feel strong enough to stand up to societal or legal scrutiny.

Last year I reported a company director for a 3 year old fraud, knowing that company policy is to report fraud as soon as it is spotted, and I could also lose my job for holding on to the information this long. The reason I waited 3 years is because I did not feel mentally ready to go to war with a director 3 years ago, as political situation was in her favour, but as of last year I felt ready, both mentally and financially to face whatever outcome. My FD in London even begged me not to report that I could get the sack, and he could get the sack also for such a fraud happening under his watch, but I pressed on regardless, key to my preparedness being that I had saved rainy day funds, and had a mountain of further evidence against the director to where my company would be liable to Crown Prosecution service if they backed the Director and came after me.

Never think coming out to report anything is as easy as A or B. There are many factors for someone to consider before deciding to report something. Believe you me, you wouldn't want to be in her shoes when her whole history is dragged out in public domain.

raumdeuter:
Very soon someone will say Sterling is not professional because he tattoos and pose for magazine thus not a good footballer the same argment against Neymar

Ibime:
All these were reported to her sister at the time who flew up from Lagos and held family meeting with the Pastor and 2 elders where he apologized blaming the devil. Her brother even wanted to stab him then.

So this has been reported then. There was no social media then.

nihilistjnr:
Isnt this the standard technique for pulling babes?
You guys should stop trying to criminalise toasting abeg.
Its getting really annoying

A40:
You as the teacher why are you falling for a 16 year old? You're supposed to be the adult in this setting

raumdeuter:
In America the age of consent is defined, In Nigeria its not defined clearly.
A Nigerian Senator married a 13yr old and you think having sex with a 16yr old in Nigeria is a "crime"

A40:
Wasn't she 16 at the time? What kind of consensual relationship is he running with a 16 year old?

Lmaooo Dayo no kill me with laugh Biko. With written consent at least you have the tools to defend yourself and discredit your accuser. There is nothing I hate more than false r@pe accusations but the mere fact this dude was actively knackin a 16 year old you can't defend that

raumdeuter:
Not everything done in the West is also right. I believe there are 2 sides of a story. Its possible Biodun raped her and very important, its also possible she might be embellishing the story

In the West we have seen how rape allegations against Kobe, Neymar etc where the men were crucified initially turned to be false.

Its also in the west where a president claims he grabs women by the pussy. didn't someone try to use the rape allegation against Brett Kavanaugh, How did that end
R.Kelly has been under suspicion for almost 25yrs and has never done jail time

What would he be going to prison for? Maybe because age of consent in the West is clearly defined as 18 while in Nigeria it's not that well defined what would be his crime? Because she hasn't proven this was not a consensual relationship. Her actions and words before and after the act, when looking from a neutral point shows that this was like a relationship or friendship between them.

There are so many gaps in her story that if you look at it critically will be questioned

Even her written consent via WhatsApp and other app does not mean you are not raping her, even if she was begging you to put it, she might say that 12 thrusts was the one she consented that your other 10 thrusts she didnt consent.

emmy2807:
True, what baffles me most, is that men are the one handing it to them.
all that remains is for enough sons to be born, and told that the rights and benefits given to their mothers isnt enough.
the ones ranting on social media are just doing so to provide proof to the foot soldiers who are men.

A40:
If that guy was in the West he would be facing prison time oh let's be honest. I have heard a lot of his stories and the guy sounds like the predatory type.

Women are very complex creatures and what may be r@pe to them might not be r@pe to you. Some would even tell you they yielded so it wouldn't feel like they were being r@ped, so what you thought was just her playing hard to get and you feeling you canvassed her like a bad sharp guy to change her mind, to her she registered it as r@pe. Lool since babe told me this thing ehn I wait for both verbal and written consent (via WhatsApp or any other app)

Ohh and girls do get r@ped in their parents house. Pretty frequently I might add.

lordfalcao:
he did not fully play the sarri ball you said. Did he play it at all, he did. Did he win a trophy with his philosophy? He did. Over to juventus where he would be working with one of the goats

lordfalcao:
we will see the importance of sarri ball when he starts winning in juventus

BlueAngel444:
45m for Kovacic.
players can improve.

BlueAngel444:
which football be that





Anyway did u watch Derby vs United, vs Chelsea how they played? in those cup games, anyway na the coach decision on who to play.

raumdeuter:
homesteady this is writing exactly from what she posted on youtube from around 2:10

When he was about to do it, I wanted to react but he covered my mouth and said 'Busola listen to me and you will be fine, just do what I want you to do"
I didn't struggle, I just let him, he brought out his dick, pulled down my panties. I was grunting I will cry and he eventually penetrated he finished what he wanted to do....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFUAYYmRfmU

raumdeuter:
The nature of sexx in most cases there will never be another witness so its always my word against yours. You can have consensual sexx with a girl even your babe and she comes out 3days later to show it was rappe. There is very no way to prove either ways

On this power difference thing. How can a celebrity have sexx with a non celebrity without the lesser one claiming it was power differential rape

How can Ronaldo have consensual sexx with a girl not a celebrity and not get accused of rape. Even is she signed a letter she can claim it was under durress or powerstruck

See the Neymar case even with the girl texting him and showing she enjoyed some of the sessions She is now claiming something like OK I can we had sex 10 times while I gave consent to session 1,2,3,4 etc but sexual session number 6 was not with my consent.

How can anyone prove that

Biodun is a dog, a womaniser but that itself isnt a crime, Rappe is a crime

raumdeuter:
There are some nuances to this
Biodun is a fine boy pastor, Most ladies that attend his church have some form of a crush on him(See Oyakhilome and other fine boy pastors). He is also randy and a serial womanizer but is being a womanizer a crime?

There are some questions here. What crime did Biodun commit with Busola? The incident happened in Buslas house. Not many people will want to rape a girl and do it in her fathers' house when someone else was at home.

After the first "rape" they still had sex. So how does someone rape one more than once on different days

After these, Busola, as a full-grown adult continued to attend the church of her rapisst for many years and as an adult, was a choir in the church of a man who raped her

I know the angle of underage, but what is underage in the Nigerian context? what is the age of consent in Nigeria?

What I felt happened. which could be wrong
Busola was young and had a sort of relationship/friendship with Biodun, she reverred him, feared him maybe had a crush on him. Biodun used that advantage to have sex with her. Maybe she felt the relationship might grow into something more serious, but over the years Biodun just didn't show she was special and there were like 100 babes in front of the Biodun dicck queue. She felt aggrieved inside her and wanted to even it