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helinues:
Who is this?

stipend collector

helinues:
Shut up small boy

He don use style tear race from Naija while his court case is there.

Continue complicating things for yourself, the bitter way you have been insisting on learning, you go soon get am yafun yafun

Stipend collector

Factcheck0001:
can obi do better?

His records in anambara says otherwise

If u bring any new person that have never governed before I can still agree but if I am to pick between obi, tinubu n atiku. I will always pick tinubu

I will pick anybody but Tinubu

nairalanda1:
That same bag of rice cost less than 60 naira in the 1980's.

Perhaps GEJ was also as bad as t-pain too?

Or there is another cold reason why the naira is bad, and why APC and PDP are just like each other?

I do not like t-pain. He's not good.

Between 1999 to 2003, minimum wage averaged N3,000. That would get you 1& half bags or rice or 1 & one quarter bags.

In 2014, minimum wage of N18,000 would gey you 2+ bags of rice at N8,000 per bag.

Today, the minimum wage of N70,000 cannot buy a bag of rice...

Have you seen the difference??

Omoboricash:
Pls remimd me, how much was a bag of rice in 1998. I just want to check something.
How much was a liter of fuel in 1998 before Obasanjo took power.
Can somebody pls help me with price of cement 8. 1998.
We should stop fooling ourselves.
Meanwhile dont come for mt head because i did not vote for Tpain.
The last time i voted was 2015.

Between 1999 to 2003, minimum wage averaged N3,000. That would get you 1& half bags or rice or 1 & one quarter bags.

In 2014, minimum wage of N18,000 would gey you 2+ bags of rice at N8,000 per bag.

Today, the minimum wage of N70,000 cannot buy a bag of rice...

Have you seen the difference??

helinues:
That's all what you guys know. Trolling others as you don't have opinion of yours

Stipend collector

santaclaws:
I'm not a fan of Tinubu or his son, neither do I care about APC, PDP or LP, I'm just not given to nonsensical statements like the one made by the governor's son.

If anyone wants to criticize anyone, it shouldn't be the governor's son. He should also leave his father's house and teach Bauchi youths "how to fish".

let Seyi go and feed his Lagos family. They're also hungry. He's not welcome there. Very simple

Alliswell248:
Show us the one of 2011 too.

Cry cry boy

Between 1999 to 2003, minimum wage averaged N3,000. That would get you 1& half bags or rice or 1 & one quarter bags.

In 2014, minimum wage of N18,000 would gey you 2+ bags of rice at N8,000 per bag.

Today, the minimum wage of N70,000 cannot buy a bag of rice...

Did you now see that Tinubu is terrible?

Amalekki:
50kg bag imported rice was around N120 under Buhari then N400 under Babangida.
Nigeria's population was 80 million in 1985 and 95 million in 1990. 180 million under Jonathan by 2015 and now estimated at 235 million under Tinubu.

The minimum wage then can get the bag of rice and additional stuff unlike the minimum wage now that can't get it.

Samsungx2:
what so ever he does should be appreciated 👍,he was not elected as president or a senator. Just a kind gesture anyone will do his what he is doing.

let him go and feed his Lagos family. They don't need it

santaclaws:
Almajiri like you won't know the implication of altering a school's calendar with 5 weeks of inactivity...

Tell us Ronu

santaclaws:
Your father, Bala Mohammed, has closed the schools where Bauchi youths should be learning how to fish, blame your father, not Seyi Tinubu.

a month closure of School will make the students not to learn?

Thundafireseun:
Seyi Tinubu is greater than his father will ever be and that’s why he is so pained….

which office is Seyi Tinubu occupying?

rickleye:
OP mentioned scars … lives in an incompleted building . Everyone has a phone . If you want to bring attention to an issue . I would take pictures to show the HOS of the terrible living conditions and of grandma. … anyways that’s just me.

you have a point. I'm considering the boy's image appearing in the public. Not even the old woman.

rickleye:
No pictures to show , how does one corroborate the story

you want him to post pictures of the boy?

Kobojunkie:
Are you concerned that OP may have difficulty with turning people down?

is it not better not to show up than turning her down?

Wike will later regret all what he has done

We4all:
I have heard stories like this in the past. While some of the kids turned out well, others didn't. This is an example of how stupid and mean some people are.

Even if the father of the kid raped her, must the kid pay for his father's actions?[b] If you have a way to report that wicked woman to any NGO, [/b]please go ahead. Abandoning her kid with an old woman with no source of livelihood is the height of it.

Nonetheless, there could more to the story, and you will know more if you hear the grandmother out. You could be the boy's saviour, you know. Go and visit the woman, and try to update us.

I doubt if this exist in Nigeria. So many children in Nigeria had been abandoned by their mother/father without being arrested. Op can only get her arrested if she continues abusing the boy physically which i guess she must have stopped doing that since she has sent him and her mother packing. They know Ngeria is a lawless country, that is why they can do anyhow and go scot free.

internationalman:
I just don't fancy it. I hate fish too.

The things I like eating are snails, gizzard and eggs

okay

zero8zero:
Leave your cave and come out and live among humans.

mention just one let's hear

internationalman:
The way una dey broke shame who una nor even know for real life for this forum en na God go save una.

And yes I don't consider it enjoyment. I buy food all the time at expensive and exquisite restaurants and yet on some occasions I don't even buy meat..

sorry why don't you buy meat at times? Not even one?

Kobojunkie:
Quite an unfortunate one there. Maybe you should just go hear the grandmother out and then go from there. Even if she offers that you take custody of the boy and you have to decline, it is still ok to listen to her. 😩😩😩

I don't think seeing her is all that necessary. The woman might want op to take custody of the boy which might not be possible considering op financial status as a PTA teacher. She might also want to appreciate op for what he has done for the boy. Seeing her is not a big issue but turning her demand down is the problem which is preventable by not seeing her

The mother is heartless and wicked. She neglected the boy because she has 4 other children. Evil woman

Savingrace678:
Hello nairalanders, pls I need matured mind on this.
I created this account to post this.

My marriage has been stressful and draining.
I have really suffered if not for the help of my elderest brother, we would have died by now.
My husband has been in addiction since we got married 5yrs ago. that has never allowed him to take care of us. In 5yr we married, he has changed More than 5 jobs all wasted effort. We have two twine children. A boy and a girl. 4urs.
His addiction has been the reason I never want to have another child ever since then.

Right now my husband's uncle, a father figured to him has invited him to come home to the village, so they can advise him and my elderest brother has asked me to pack my things and the children, as soon as my husband left for the village, he will relocate us and my husband will not have access to us again.
And he said, if I declined, he will take his hand off my matter. He has been the one taking care of our rent, school fees and upkeep as my husband's money goes to addiction.

My fear now is, my children are so used to their father and I'm afraid if they can cop without their father. Especially my son.
Secondly, I'm so scared that I don't know how I'm going to handle more brokness in my life
My life is so scattered right now.
And lastly, I don't want my brother to take off his hands off me. He's the only person helping me out with my mistake.

Separation

Inform your husband family that you're not divorcing him but Separation. They should look after their son/brother and ensure he's completely healed and also he should get a job or business to sustain the family as your brother cannot continue to cater for his wife and kids. Let them know you'll keep in touch with them and you're ready to return once there's evidence that he's completely out of the addiction and has a source of livelihood to cater for the family. They might not want you to leave but don't listen to them and don't leave your kids for them please. If your brother is the one bankrolling your family without the support of the man's family then such family is not responsible. You can decide not to come back again. It's your choice but i implore you to listen to your brother. Someone supporting you cannot mislead you. I will do same if you're my sister.

Oluromantic:
Congrats boy, your mama toto is hardworking.

poverty don do you something

Tayorshd87:
Yes I know d angle u are coming from but it is what it is ..man cannot have it all in life.
So part of what can make u happy is giving birth and seeing your offspring .
U cant be poor wrecked and also don't have kid or find happiness connected to your life.

you don't need marriage to have kids. There are several ways of having kids including adoption. Married people also get depressed. Some Married men and women are lonely even at old age. You want a girl to accept any idiot that comes her way for marriage? Nothing we no go see for nairaland

You're truly unexposed.

We4all:
Ha..ha..ha..the story sounds familiar. Firstly, that dude is suffering from a severe case of low self esteem and is hiding under the cover of being generous.

Secondly, he is the only one who knows what he is getting from your cousin. One thing I know for sure is that, nothing is free.

Thirdly,a lady I know had similar experience. The guy would spend thousands on her and she thought he was generous. Eventually, he had a court marriage with her without a witness from her family.

After living together for a couple of months, he ran away claiming he was tired of the marriage. Obviously, he was after something and has gotten it.

That dude is after something and will dump your cousin when he is satisfied.

you don too watch nolywood o. Someone that is established and doing fine in an oil and gas industry is after something? If na yahoo guy now i go understand. A cooperate guy. You can tell us what he's after

ednut1:
Married man. Don’t deceive yourself

Nah

The dude probably no want marriage in his life for now or he has someone he's committed to. I don't think he's married. Far from it.

immortalcrown:
You are very toxic. Otherwise, point out any immorality in the comment you attack.

point out any immorality in my own comment that you should adopt the boy when they send him away. Or can't you adopt him? Prove to us that you can do what you tell people to do.

immortalcrown:
Why are you attacking my comment? Why? Must I use your own approach?

I ask again, what is the basis of the question you asked me?

you can adopt the boy when they send him away. Prove to us that you can do what you advice people to do.

Very simple

immortalcrown:
What is the basis of this question?

stop asking silly question please. I believe you aren't blind. You read what op posted from the beginning to the end and all you could come up with is for the family not to send him away. Until he uses op sisters undies for yahoo or used op parents for rituals before they can do the needful. Someone who can wiped out the money of the man that adopted him from little. That boy is a BASTARD and capable of killing.

Left to me, that boy will rot in jail but i will make sure i remove all his front teeth and give him beating of his life before sending him to jail

immortalcrown:
Discipline him but don't disconnect him from your family.

can you adopt him into your family?