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I met this beautiful girl around last year September. She looked so innocent and she was humble with lot of respect.
We got to know each other very well and then we started dating full time.
Sometimes she comes to my side to spend the weekend with me, she do tell me how her ex whom she loved so much cheated on her and broke her heart. So I promised her that I won't cheat on her. That made me cut off any form of relationship I had with other girls, and then to focused on her alone.
For the few months we dated, I never in any time cheated on her, infact I respected her so much that I don't reply to any girl chats apart from hers, started to ignored most of my female friends so that I won't be distracted or tempted.
The relationship with this girl was going fine, she spends most time with me, her phone was always with me she had no password. I was sure she was not doing anything with any guy.
Sometime around July this year, we had issues, I gave her 10,000 naira to cook for the the weekend, to my surprise, she used the money for her personal use. She did not cook as I expected instead, she used the money to buy clothes.
This got me angry as I shouted at her, I insulted her, she insulted me back and then she left.
She stopped coming to my place and we stopped communicating.
After like two weeks, she called and apologize, I forgave her and we started talking again, we started seeing ourselves, for the two weeks we were having issues, I never cheated on her with anybody as I believed we will reconcile later.
Fast forward to this month, I was with her phone browsing (she gave me to use), when a strange message came in to her inbox. I opened it, and it was a guy. They guy texted that he was missing her and that when Will they see themselves again. This message got me so worried so i asked her whom it was, she told me that it was her old class mate and that she doesn't have anything to do with him.
Yesterday Morning again the same guy called her, she picked and was telling the guy to leave her that she is with her boyfriend. Then the boy of phone said "when we had sex, you never told me you were with your boyfriend".
I got chills when I heard that.
So I asked her to explain, at first she was lieing but later confessed to me that when we were having issues, she slept with the guy just Once with condom and since then the guy has been disturbing her. That before she had sex with the guy, she told him that she had a boyfriend.And now the guy wants to see her again.
I was so Shocked and reminded her of our promise that we will not cheat on each other.
She started crying and asked me to forgive her, that it would not repeat itself again.
I have been thinking about this since, and I don't know what to do. It was so painful because I never cheated on her, I loved and respected her.
She's an hardworking girl, i never believed she could do such a thing even at my back.
She has been begging me since to forgive her, that she only had sex with him once.