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If a lady you dated for a while could not meet up to your expectations and you tell this lady that you will not marry her but she decides to be pregnant for you to marry her; you made a move to do her introduction and asking her hand in marriage to her family because of this pregnancy.
While you dated, she never wash your clothes nor even cared how you felt about some of her decision against you but will tell you she doesn't wash clothes for guys except for her husband. You visited her in her house, later when you were about to leave, there is serious rainfall, you asked her for her umbrella but she refused to give to you saying she is catching cold, you have to enter the rain to leave her house.
You two live together but she gets upset over your instructions on her to wash your clothes and other house chores but do them with pain in the name of "for peace to reign" not from her heart.
She now threaten you that if you don't do what she likes forthwith, nor change from whom you have always been, into being like her father and her brothers who have a particular lifestyle she likes, and do this and do that, she will be forced to leave you for good but will make sure that she takes you to social welfare for you to be paying every month on your baby when given birth to. At times, you don't feel you are with the right person in your life but torment.
Question 1: Is this woman your wife for real and does she love you?
Question2: What made her become pregnant just to make sure you suffers you.
Question3: Why would she want you to change after bringing her to your house from whom you are?
Question:4 Could she be God ordained wife for you or NOT?
Question:5 What should be done to avoid this her plans?