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Adesarahshina:
Hello all, please I'd like to be enlightened on the current charges of bricklayers for casting lintel.

The said building is 2 bedroom. I'm trying to have an idea of the current cost to guide me in negotiating with my bricklayer.

Thank you.

Obavoh:
Once the Bandits are defeated by the special grace of God, I will move back to the village with my Family.

Special shoutout to my wife who has been supporting me through this struggle. She has been so strong, caring and hardworking.

She started fried Groundnut business and has been supporting the family generously. She would cook and serve us without me bringing 1kobo and she doesn’t complain because she understands.

I love you my Angel.

Penkelems:
In the last three days I haven't had good night rests due to persistent and uncontrollable itching on my skin.

Though, right from time I've always had itches from time to time, but not as severe as this one currently.

These few days have been hell for me, as I can hardly sleep at night.

At this stage...all you need is to go herbal. This will cleanse everything in your body system. Chat me up on WhatsApp 09055654526

Over the years, I used to take a particular drug for Filariasis. It's a tiny drug that is white in color and has the exact size of a Piriton tablet. I would take only two of it for three or so months. But since I left home, I haven't seen where I can go to get those drugs. At my former place of residence, I used to go to a Primary Health care centre to take it. The drugs weren't even allowed to be taken home, you have to swallow it right there. And you must not eat before going to take it. You go in the mornings, take it on an empty stomach and wait till 1pm before you eat. It's being over five years since I relocated to a new city and I don't know where I can get the drugs. The drug is Free, but you will have to pay for a Card there.

I don't bathe with Rain Water or boil water to bath during the harmattan season, to avoid the itching.

My arms, armpits, tommy, behind my neck, scrotum and pubic region itch. When I scratch, It get swollen a bit, then the swell disappears after a few minutes, sometimes I injure myself when I'm scratching. The painful part is it itches me even to my anus. Inside my anus, I have scratched and scratched and the place has become painful. I have to be extremely careful whenever I use the restroom and need to wash my nyash.

This has caused me a lot of discomfort. I'm really depressed. The fact that I'm going through a lot now, makes the whole thing really tormenting. I've always prayed that God should keep my health, so I don't get bedfasted for any reason, because if I'm unable to go to work and provide for myself, nobody will. I'm all I've got.

I really need your inputs here, my brothers and sisters. Health is wealth honestly.

Mods, please help move this to front page. I'm losing it already. It's frustrating.

Arietevergreen:
Pls in summary which one should I buy Camry 013 and Corolla 2013

rymalex:
Please is the 2006 Toyota Yaris a reliable car for Nigeria everyday use.

If it's not reliable please suggest a better brand in the same range

Antichristus:
Guys, I've recently bought this minibus to be shipped into Nigeria. What's the best way of making daily income on it. Any wisdom shared will be immensely appreciated.

enemyofprogress:
What is the cause of saggy breasts amongst young ladies who are yet to give birth? I am asking for my brother!

Let it not be what I am thinking.

nlfpmod:
https://punchng.com/truck-tanker-collision-triggers-fatal-gas-explosion-in-lagos/?amp

Gas explosion rocks Ajah area. Windows shattered, smoke everywhere.

Abeg what is going on ooooo pic.twitter.com/AkOcm1yX27

— Oduduwa Republic (@OduduwaR) March 21, 2026

Leobankx:
Good day fellow Nairalanders.

I was clearing the garden in my backyard and while I was trying to dig out a dead stick, I hit an object that looks like a pot. I hard to carefully dig it out it other to identify it, but I don’t seem to know. Please can anyone here identify it?

I broke it to see the internal contents but it was just filled with sand.

Please I need for views in order to identify this item

fergie001:
He was appointed Principal Staff Officer to now ex-IGP Kayode Egbetokun in June 2023 and subsequently Rivers State Commissioner of Police in November 2023 and later FCT Police Commissioner on 7th October, 2024.

He was decorated Assistant Inspector-General of Police (AIG) by Kayode Egbetokun on 25th March 2025. On 6th February 2026, he was deployed to head the Force Criminal Investigation Department (FCID) Annex, Alagbon Close, Ikoyi, Lagos.

Culled from:
@fergie001

Grit2943:
Good afternoon everyone
Happy weekend

Please I need insight from people on the recommended fee I can pay someone to drive my car from Abuja to Ibadan. My car is a 2011 Camry with a four cylinder engine.

My current plan is 100k for fuelling and 100k for his services.

Thank you very much

Grit2943:
Good afternoon everyone
Happy weekend

Please I need insight from people on the recommended fee I can pay someone to drive my car from Abuja to Ibadan. My car is a 2011 Camry with a four cylinder engine.

My current plan is 100k for fuelling and 100k for his services.


Pay 250k and let me run it for you man.
Thank you very much

dam642694:
I'm in a relationship with a young lady . We broke up but reconcile after sometime. She traveled but I do vist her where she stay and made love like two times.

When she finally returned in December,I began smelling certain odour from her private part. After two weeks of being together I began seeing yellow discharge from my private part, no pain no swelling no scratches but it's coming out steady..

Please doctors is the house,or anyone that have heard such experience I need your help, I'm not proud of sleeping with a lady I have not officially married. Please help a brother. Which Medication should I go for pls

saintsrow:
Kindly help with the breed?

Just 5 months plus old.

Sirmwill:
You already bought it
What do you need advice for again 😏

Abizz:
Good morning guys, I need clarification on something.
Some years ago, we were paid quite a sum at work, you know one of these unbelievable bonuses. One of my bosses who's always liked me called on me and advised I put the money to good use.
She specifically advised I should start working on building a house and she gifted me a parcel of land in a government reserved area to encourage me.

To my own best of knowledge, I gifted a brand new Ladies bike to one of my boys in the street due to his loyalty towards me. And he later sold it without telling me, anytime I asked about it, he'll tell me is with the mechanic...haaaa, a brand new bike with the mechanic? It was later the person he sold it to now called to tell me. I later bought it from the guy he sold it for twice the money he sold it to him. And I intentionally, called the guy I gave the bike to that sold it. Gave it to someone else in our midst there.

This to tell you that it doesn't go down well with the person who gifted you something and sell it

I have all necessary documents; The original Certificate of Occupancy and Deed of gifts with governor's consent.

The project took off and was completed the following year.
She was happy for me, congratulated me and that was the last time we talked about it. It's been over four years now.

I sold the house some weeks back and I'm wondering if I should have carried her along or engaged her dutifully from some legal standpoint.
Money is never her problem really, I'm just curious if normalcy demands I should have sought her permission before making the decision. One, as a boss who wants to see me do well in life. Two, as the gifter. Three, if there is any legal implications of not involving her or possible breach of intention.

Video: Olubadan snubs Alaafin at Oyo’s Tense Inter-Faith Service

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— Daily Economy (@DailyEconews) January 12, 2026

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— TVC News (@tvcnewsng) January 12, 2026

Cherryediva:
Hello everyone, sorry for the long post
I got married at 22, my husband was 40 at the time. We have been married for 5 years and we have a child together.

My concern is that my husband is not able to satisfy me sexually at all, which is frustrating, I have talked to him about it nothing seems to change. Financially, he is struggling, partly because he gambles a lot. He also drinks
alcohol heavily.

Anyways, no marriage or home that doesn't have it's own issues. No 100% good home. I will tell you to please stay with him, because you made mention that he has a character, and for you to find such a man, you go Waka far o. Concerning other habits he has, he can still change for better, through prayer and counseling. You can chat me up for more advice if need be on 09055654526

I work too but he doesn't want me to have my own money he is always collecting money from me.
He doesn’t have clear goals, ambition, or a vision for the future, and this makes me feel stagnant in the marriage.

He is a good man in terms of character. He doesn’t cheat, he doesn’t abuse me at all, and he treats me well overall.

I’m confused because while he is good to me, I feel stuck and unfulfilled. I would really appreciate advice from y'all who have been in similar situations or who can offer honest guidance.
Thank you.

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Glimpsetv:

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Auxtan:
What is the best cream for very stubborn fungi?

Especially the one that can help treat nails infection.

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
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So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
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So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
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Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
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So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
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She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
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So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
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P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

MONEY247:
Salary work is good but I think should be temporary...
OK... Please is there any business or skills I can start this 2026

Hackman1994:
My mumu Gf told me , she has one man that can help me with job that I should pay money.
I paid 200k money through her to give to the man for upto 4 months nothing.
One story to other

pendragon35:
Been in a Cameroon for over 5yrs now and somehow my business has not been moving fine. Have thought of different countries to move into that would easily help me move to US or Canada due to immigration rigidness and St. Lucia is the only one their visa is easy to move in.

Aside from that, I love Caribbean countries and their Visa protocols seems not to be that complex judging form the comments here. But I'm yet to get any concrete information from any Nigerian resident in that country.

Pls does anyone have any solid information on how to move into such country preferably through studies or work Visa. Tourist Visa is out for he equation. I don't want to be running helter skelter in a foreign land but where I can perch, finish my education and find my footing. Of course no intentions to come back.

Pls I need a legit information about how to start with the little savings I have got before I would get struck in Cameroon.

Thanks and looking forward to your good suggestions.

Rapmoney:
TO AVOID EMBARRASSMENT AND UNNECESSARY PRESSURE THIS YEAR 2026👇

1. Put your children for
school wey you fit afford
because expensive
schools no
guarantee good
results. Just ensure
Say them dey attend good
affordable school.

2. Rent house wey your power reach
No go stay house wey you go dey
struggle to pay yearly rent.

3. From the day your wife get belle,
you get good 9 months to prepare.
So prepare well, if possible do Osusu.
You go pack like a week to her due date
so that you no go begin run around dey find
money to borrow.

4. From the day you rent house,
you suppose know say you go
pay rent when rent due.
So plan and save towards your
next rent to avoid disgrace.

5. Plan your life well and
live within your means.
No put your hand for where
your power no reach.
Save more and spend
less.

6. E no make sense to dey buy food
for your children every
morning before them go
school because e dey cheaper
to cook, so cook for your house.

7. If you no get money for DSTV
go for SLTV and upgrade
when your income don
upgrade. Afterall na still
the same CNN.

8. Eat healthy food and
protect your family
from mosquitoes to
avoid everyday hospital wahala.

9. No copy your
neighbours lifestyle, because
una two pockets no be neighbours.

10. No follow trends,
If your power no reach bone straight,
do Ghana weaving, police no go arrest
you.

11. Keep your circle
small, keep only
friends wey get
sense.

12. Above all things, have the
fear of God, get
integrity, work hard
and dey prayerful.

13. Plan and prepare early because if
you fail to plan, you
plan to FAIL.

This na Just my little advice for you this year.

Melezenawii:
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Curtis03360:
My friend hired a guy to run a loyalty test for his fiancée, introduction to take place middle of January just to be sure of what he is getting into but the fiancée failed the test and even though my friend told the guy to end the game, he still went ahead to sleep with the fiancée at the agreed hotel. He doesn’t know what to do because he said he could have still managed to continue had the guy not slept with her and he contemplate on taking this up legally with the guy as he already told him to end it and pay him for his services. The girl is not aware of any of this till now and that was why he couldn’t stop it from his end by telling her he’s pranking her with the said dude

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

judatech:
Point of Correction:
They are not from Akwa Ibom.
They are Cross Riverians