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Jesus is king of kings.
All principalities bow before him.

Chelsea need this winning to get 20 points and second position at the moment

Wonderful, this is seriously serious, it would have be one of the most brutal coup in the world

SpencerForbes:
And in those five years, she never exhibited such traits or love blinded you🤔
Or you thought she could change??
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Nothing of such happened during my stay with her for those years and last year after our marriage, she started this misbehavior this year.

SpencerForbes:
How long did you guys date🤔 so we can all learn. Hope you’re not this people that after 3 months, you’re already engaged🤔
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We dated for five years before we got married last years

SpencerForbes:
That’s true. He should leave the daughter of Delilah so she don’t kill him. As a man you need to have maximum morale. I think the man has a weak frame that’s why the lady isn’t taking him seriously. He should try to boost his morale and stop taking bullshit from women. If I was the one, she’ll go to her parents house to learn to treat a man well and the second time, she should be out of the relationship.

As a man never tolerate shite from any lady cos once you’ve started, there’s no going back😎
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My family has pack her things out and I have called her family to let them know that their daughter is not in my custody anymore

SpencerForbes:
Seems you married a runs girl or agbero. I’ll love to hear her own side of the story and also know the root causes of the problems at home before I can say my mind.
Leave first, don’t decide before I speak my mind. So you will understand the truth.

She is not a runs girl or agbero but a church girl to the core, if she sing you will think Angels will come down but in aspects of this marriage, she is not worth it, and regard hearing her side of stories, I can't sugar coat my part in order for me to look lie a saint, in a forum that I don't know any person personally and for the root cause, I don't know why she is misbehaving because anything that man can provide for his family, I have done that in regards to feeding, accommodation, clothing, emotional, and otherwise so I don't understand her behavior and moreover thanks for your input

Kobojunkie:
Congratulations @OP!1. Why is your family putting their mouth when the decision is yours? Did they have some sort of contract with your wife that they then feel it is their place to interfere in the divorce?

2. Good decision! From your post, it is not clear if you have actually implemented the divorce or if you only recently decided on this.

3. Please, be sure to opt for shared/joint custody of your children(or full custody if you feel your wife is a threat to them), so you can only have a part in the raising of your own children and maybe have them at least 2 weeks out of each month.

1) My family is taking it as a pain upon themselves because they know that she is taking my weakness as a strength to her because I don't talk or beat her, she has started misbehaving. This said ladies has slapped me over hundred times this year without me retaliate.
2) I started having the thought of divorce when she started misbehaving and hitting me and today when she stab me is what broke the camel back
3) No ( child) issue yet we courted for five years and the marry is one year and 8 months.

I Finally Chose to Walk Away from My Marriage

After deep reflection and repeated attempts to make things work, I have decided to step away from my marriage for the sake of my peace, safety, and well-being.

For a long time, I have endured constant physical and emotional abuse from my wife. During disagreements, she often resorts to violence, slapping, hitting, and using hurtful words. On several occasions, she has even threatened me with sharp objects such as knives and scissors. Unfortunately, today, she carried out that threat and stabbed me in the neck. By the grace of God, it wasn’t fatal, but it was the final straw that made me realize I cannot continue living in fear.

Throughout our marriage, I have done my best to provide for our home and ensure we lacked nothing. Despite my efforts, I have never received her support, emotionally, mentally, or otherwise. I have never raised my hand against her, yet that restraint has often been taken for weakness, giving her the boldness to abuse me repeatedly.

My family, having witnessed much of what I’ve gone through, has now asked her to leave and packed her belongings. She has quarreled with nearly every member of my family and remains in conflict with them.

This decision to end the marriage is not out of anger but self-preservation. I am choosing to prioritize my mental, emotional, and physical health. I have nothing to hide and no intention to tarnish her image; I am only speaking the truth about my experience.

From this point forward, I am focused on healing, rebuilding, and finding peace again.