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Relationship beginnings are wonderful but when a couple begins to grow and their lives change with jobs, children, social activities and other commitments, the love and romance becomes more difficult to attend to. Sometimes love and romance seem to be lost altogether.

When you want to ignite the passion in your relationship but you aren’t sure what you need to do, the best place to begin is at the beginning. How?

1. Think about the things that you used to do for your partner at the beginning of your relationship. If you don’t remember or never tried to be a true romantic, don’t worry. It’s not difficult and once you begin you will find that you will get your own new ideas after a while.

2. Most new relationships or new beginnings rely on the ‘little’ things to show love and affection. Be sure to remember special ‘couple’ days like Valentine’s Day, Anniversaries and even the date you met if possible.

3. Be sure to send a meaningful gift or any other nice things to celebrate your feelings for your partner. Women can do exactly the same thing for men here.

You may not consider yourself to be a writer or a poet, but a few characters long SMS or Whatsapp message with your thoughts about your love feelings for the other person is one of the most touching ways to spark romance.

4. If you aren’t comfortable writing a letter, consider making lists about what you love the most about your partner. Lists can be about the things they do that makes you laugh, what they do for you that you appreciate, how they make you feel inside, how beautiful or handsome they are and other very personal but attentive details. Remember how you wooed her? Do the same now by writing the many things that you love about her.

5. Call your partner and talk softly and loving. If he or she isn’t able to answer the phone, leave loving messages on their voice mail or answering machine. Talk dirty when you know that he or she can’t return the same conversation on the other end.

6. Sometimes couples feel more comfortable trying to bring romance into their relationship by bestowing gifts on their partner. While classics like flowers, candy and perfume or cologne are almost always successful gifts, try ‘giving’ something different.

7. Make plans to go see every romantic movie that comes to the theater during the year.

8. Bring home a bottle of champagne (or pack of Hollandia Yoghurt) to celebrate even the tiniest accomplishment he or she has had. This is very important. There is no better fan than you. Don't just dismiss your partner's achievements. Celebrate it.

9. Randomly send romantic and/or humorous greeting cards to his or her workplace or hide them under the bed pillows at home.

These suggestions are simply ideas, don't stop there. Open the door to romance in your marriage and begin to build a foundation for stronger romance, you will be happier for it.



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