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Dfinex:
if u can let him have sex with u, what's difficult in cooking for him?

Sex is a mutual understanding not a duty.

KissChrix:
I must surely taste a Lady's food before marrying Her Plenty times infact


Even after marrying Her, She must spend one week at my mum's place to learn how to prepare my favourites

So she is your slave! The only thing good you think can come from her is food? I am beginning to hate Nigerian men

Masonic:
Its a kiddies fun park here, what do you expect?

I expected people to use their sense once in a full moon at least.

saintCaligula:
You must be kidding me..
Incase you dont know, I've seen men that fell for ladies just by eating their food and incase you don't know, men respect ladies that cook always to the once that goes to an eatery often

Men like you are with the mentality that LADIES ARE MEANT FOR THE KITCHEN. Spits

Maxi112:
its not advisable to always Cook for your boyfriend every time you visit him. its advisable to cook good food for him once in a while

It is not a bad thing if he do the cooking

Mimzyy:
Except you guys are in a 'no sex' relationship then this is hypocrisy. I mean he bleeps you whenever you guys want but you Wana ration the number of times you cook for him just 'cos he hasn't paid your bride price? Talk about double standards. Pfttttt

So sex is the gateway to do anything for a man? Is that suppose to be the key to a lady's heart? Talk about standards

Presh900:
only classless and desperate girls do such...

You can't put the whole blame on them, sometimes it is love

Masonic:
You've said it all. I personally won't take away the element of surprise when I'm dating a lady I plan on settling with. I won't cohabit with her, I won't let her cook to often or even clean. Doing that takes away the anticipation and when there ain't nothing to look forward to or be excited about, I sure as hell ain't gonn marry your ass.

Thank you for this comment. So many myopic minds on romance section

MackBrooklyn:
Yes now, but the problem be say na only Indomie and Spaghetti some of you girls like to dey cook when you come person house

I will be shocked the day you make sense on a thread

Presh900:
Ont everytime,, she should wait until the guy pays her bride price b4 taking up permanent residence there

My thoughts too but girls feel it is their right to cook for a guy who hasn't even officially propose to you

I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

Airforce1:
Nice


If it's not about money, then it's not making sense.

Now you know all your comments/threads on nairaland has not been making sense

Looking forward to that

Airforce1:
Donald Trump was hated.
but that didn't stop him from becoming the 45th President elect of United States.

Stop comparing yourself to him. He will never become the president if he didn't work hard for it. The only thing you do is spend your time on nairaland typing billionaire ambition. Mthww

I will say cucumber or plantain

Being an Internet built doesn't make people fear you. It makes you look like a childish fool who spends all his life on nairaland.

kinibigdeal:
Are you single and working

I have a man and I am working

Women are gift to this world. Without us humanity is going into extinction

If I want to know if you are single. It is because I like you and I want us to date

If I want to make you my man I should also know if you are working. There is nothing despots true about this