Ndibuna:
Has anyone been able to notice this. Abokii 1k suya is bigger than 1k beef by the butcher

I dey sorry for people wey still dey buy suya from Aboki.
Aboki uses his dirty hard to cut suya Aboki we know don't wash their hands.
That hand Aboki still use to collect money but inside his apron.
And will use that same hard all through the evening collecting money that has been placed im bras tights money that would have fallen in only God knows where
Money as we know is a vector for all diseases.
So whom sence is given akonuche is required.

HarunaWest:
Yomi. I was a banker like you in the past. Stop snooping through a customers account. If fraud were to occur in that account, I am very sure you are aware the auditors will check whoever logged into that account. Thats by the way. Well its obvious you lady friend still has an attachment with her ex. The fact that she still collects money from him means that they still talk alot. Sit her down and ask her what she wants in life? Cheers.

Sit who down ... the ship has sailed bro.

Yomi you're dating yourself don't be surprised when things don't work out with her and the ex she would remember you how nice you've been to her and manipulate her way into your life.

To her you're just a shoulder and dick to lean on.
Brother you are dating yourself period

EndNigeria:

From Our Ijaw Republic Hero The Great General Ditari.



MARGINALIZATIONS ON IJAW.


I greet the Ijaw Nation.
Those who see this write up should please foward it to the next Ijaw and to different Ijaw groups.
With our joint efforts nothing we cannot achieve.
There is nothing impossible if there is enough force into it.
Even the word impossible say Im-Possible.


The problems of Ijaw have always been Ijaw.
Ijaw have been their own worse enemies.
If Ijaw want anything and work on it, there is nothing that Ijaw can't get.


We were unjustly balkanized into 6 States when all our areas are fully together and share perfect boundaries with each other to weaken our unity.


We produce over 90 percent of Nigeria's crude oil but are being given less than 5 percent of our own money including amnesty and other money being given to us all are still under the 5 percent.


The Creator of the Ijaw tribe gave us crude oil to compensate Ijaw because of our difficult terrains that are not at all easy to develop like other areas, those who have better terrains take their resources and take Ijaw own too.
Their Gold, their Limestone, Tin,Bitumen, Coal, etc are being taken 100 percent by them and they take Ijaw oil too.


So many Ijaws, out of not much knowledge of the size of Ijaw always join themselves to minority groups when we are not minority.
Where Ijaws occupy in the Niger Delta is as big as Igbo land.
We Ijaws are not minority.
Igbo's and Yoruba's are not larger than us truth be told.
Central dialect gives them more popularity that we don't have because we haven't 100 percent settled that central dialect issue
And they don't cross creeks to know us more when it comes to population census.
They calculate Ijaw by proxy.


Its of no use asking for Toru-Ebe State (Ijaws of Ondo Edo Delta) or Oil-Rivers State(Ijaws of Rivers Akwa-Ibom States) because these guys enjoying Ijaw oil in the name of one state will do all in their power to keep those Ijaws in that state with them there because of the crude oil.


The marginalization on Bayelsa Ijaw is so much.
Bayelsa is 873km² bigger than Imo and Anambra States put together, Imo and Anambra have 48 LGAs Bayelsa have 8.
And its mainly Ijaw oil money they use in paying their politicians.
They don't cross creeks to count Ijaw they only count Ijaw by proxy.
Population figures are being rigged in Nigeria because of political reasons.
If they rig population figure in 8 LGA headquarters of Bayelsa they will rig it in 48 LGA headquarters in Imo and Anambra.


Bayelsa is bigger than 10 Nigerian States.
Theyve marginalized Ijaw so much that its too numerous and all can't be said in one write up.


NNPC is now more like Northern Nigeria's Peoples Company and its leadership is filled up with Northerners even when we produce the crude oil.
Will they allow us to take over their Gold Mines like that and rule all of it?
We all know that the answer is fully no but they will be shouting crude oil thief on Ijaws when it's not even their property.


The other day, they said that crude oil belong to the country and not the people but it seems that the environmental degradations belong to the people and not the country.


The ten richest people in Nigeria, seven have crude oil as part of their main income but not even one Ijaw there and Ijaws produce over 90 percent of the oil.


The only thing they leave for us to take alone is the environmental degradations crude oil exploration and exploitation brings alone.


Freedom is never freely given by the oppressors.
It must be fully asked and forcefully taken by the oppressed first.
No one allows their perceived slaves go free just like that.


If we Ijaws don't stand up, we will never stand up.
The change begins with you.
We cannot say because of betrayal Ijaw won't stand up for Ijaw.


In the re-building of this new Ijaw rights struggling spirits,
If any one betray, that person must be dealt with in a way that they will never forget it.
Even if they bribe you with money, it doesn't give you the guarantee to betray Ijaw.
They are only giving you very little out of the money they stole from your people.
So it should not make any one betray the tribe.
Any one who does that will pay a great price for that betraying of Ijaw and will pay through the nose.


Not even one Ijaw signed the 1914 amalgamation documents of which the documents itself stated that Nigeria will expire after 100 years 1914 to 2014 because by then the people would have been wise enough to know what they want for themselves.
The ones enjoying Nigeria know this but won't allow Nigeria disintegrate as being stated in the documents because they enjoy lording it over other groups that are suffering in the curse called Nigeria.


We must stop living on past glories so that we can move forward.
If we Ijaws can gather ourselves, plan well, and work on the total defence of Ijaw we will end the curse called Nigeria and go to the promise land of which is Ijaw Republic.


Ijaw Republic is bigger than the 51 smallest countries in the world including Isreal.
All hands on deck please.
Always do what you can, wherever you are to move the Ijaw Nation Forward.
To see things happen we must join hands and make things happen.


Thankyou all.

One Tribe
One Ancestor
One Ijaw.

Ijaw Republic the final home of all Ijaws.
Ijaw Republic or nothing else.


General Ditari.

Abey ina godi ooo

Keme sia oo

Use your kaffa
do you remember the great Igodo
Remember africa betrayal,

HRHQueenPhil:


A man with the Holy Spirit as his guide and mentor can't lack woman or finance..review ur relationship with HIM cry for mercy and come back to your first love so mat6:33 can be a reality

Stop this your holy spirit nonsense abeg all the richest men on the world are not Christian but many poor people are christian.

Money is paper if you want some give value to people who would pay for your service.
Fun fct
There are more rich porn stars than pastors.

Burdenbearer:
Hi guys. As we all know, to be a man is damn hard and it is not a days job. Let's face, Naija ladies will hardly date nor marry a guy whose earning isn't big or enough. So, i ask: Apart from me, who else money is hindering from get married or to even have a Gf? As u know, no matter how intelligent or educated u are, if u are not financially bouyant, Naija ladies don't give a damn abt u.

If you keep on thinking like this you'll be broke even if you have a job or business.

You should have enough reason to make money but it should never be about pleasing anyone.

Get money for yourself not liability.

Na wa ooo i dey shame for you

FERNANDEZISBACK:
We first have to understand what his offence was..was he carrying or not..was he a threat..did he run toward them..before y'all scream racism and judge you first have to review the situation..

Cops are more likely to shoot in a panic..even if he was attempting to comply with everything they wanted him to do...
In a situation like this the police are generally full of adrenaline and are likely to mistake innocent objects for guns or other weapons... might have been what happened..

The issue is sure gonna be investigated..

You probably have never seen a gun or hamdle one before.
You "don't point a gun at someone unless you intend to shoot" number one rule for handling guns.

I forget you are a troll

Honestfrend:
I just want to go straight to the point.. There is lady I was dating for close to a year.. We have lots of ups n downs. We do have our differences though. So 2years ago we have misunderstanding and we separated. A year later we came back together and after few weeks she is always talking 2 a guy of which I sense they were having something. So I talk to her about it. She said she was dating d guy that when we broke up the other time is when she started dating the guy.

So I told her that I don't want to share her with anyone.. But she said i should give her time that she will leave the guy.. So I just lock up and didn't say anything, to me I believe that will do as she had promise.

In the Month of March this year was her birthday so I bought stuff for her.. Few days later she told me that she want to travel that they are preparing a birthday surprise for her.

I said OK.. She stayed for 3days and came back. When she came to my house she prepared food and we both eat, next thing a call came into her phone it was this same guy.. So I brought up the issue about the guy again and ask why she is still with the guy she just told me to forget, I ws like what re u saying?

So we quarrel that evening when she angrily left my place. So after 5days we did not talk to each other, I decided to go and visit her, I did not tell her that I was coming..

When I got to her house I saw her putting on an engagement ring.. I was shock to d bone but I didn't say anything because her family members were all there.. I just lockup and was observing things around while I was boiling inside of me.. All what her brother was discussing with me was just entering one ear and coming out of the other ear.

I couldn't take it any longer I just told her that I want to leave that she should see me off.. On our way I ask her about the ring and she sigh.. Her answer was I told u to come and engage me u re saying till next year. I just weak at that moment

She said that it was what that guy gave her as birthday surprise when she traveled.
I just left because it was all over between us..


After about for months I didn't call her n she also didn't call me we have both moved on.

Now about 2weeks ago she called me and was like u don't even call person. I told her that I don't call because I don't know when to call another man's wife.. From then on she just keep calling me for us to come back. Me I have already move on and also I have another lady am dating now.

But this my ex girlfriend keeps talking about us coming back together. We just spoke dis afternoon and she wants to come to my house tomorrow evening. Should I go back to her after she left me for another guy or I she just let her go... Because me am thinking of telling her that if I she want us to come back it will just be an open relationship and nothing more.

Mumuni na person name but them suppose to give you that name.

You wan carry leftover abi open relationship for where she go manipulate you as she has been doing since

You go turn philosopher by force i wish you well o captain saveAwhore
...you are even thinking �

See grown men talking politics of region and ethnicity...

No iota of what the person has to offer no economic agenda, not asking issues facing the average Nigerian.

This is not a country...

Shitty course affliction affiliate marketing or saturation kdp course.

Ive the course and its garbage ityonly fit for the trash na lawma cursed course

Nigerian are their own worst enemies

Father wanted obi to donate to his private property in public the guy refuse to because he knows the funds might be diverting they call him stingy.
Be like say i go stop to dey give anybody wey dey go church money ooo because their pastors now dey guilt trip peoyto take their money.

This guy win next day I'm out of this hole asap

FalseProphet1:

Why are you afraid of doing this verification suggested by the moniker I quoted? A handful number of people promised you a token but rather than do the verification you're here trying to play victim. Look here young man, if you don't do that verification you're not getting a penny here.

I don't know what you criminals take us for, you just post pics with an account number and expect strangers to start transferring money into the account, tell the baba that did the juju for you that I falseprophet1 said he's a fake.

Do this so we know you're not fake.
Quote me when you've done it i to wire you small coins

oz4real83:
I don't support violence but some people deserve the beating they get sometimes. I had an experience yesterday which got me very angry. I was passing through a road on which cars where packed on one side thereby leaving the other part of the road for motorists. Somebody else still came to park his\her car beside the already parked cars instead of going to queue among other cars . This action now left motorists with one lane, cars will have to wait for each other before you could access that particular spot where the idiot parked the car. If somebody like that is seriously beaten for he or she to receive some common sense and such news comes to the public, people will criticise the beater\beaters not knowing that they would have done the same thing if they were in their shoes

As superman wey you be you wan do road safety job for them...conty beating the day person off for your hand na there you go go explain.
Burna don japa police wey help am shoot dey undergo drilling and demotion, and maybe dismissed.

Rules of life: get enough patience pill to calm down because many mentally unstable people full this country no let them use their afrojuju spoil your felabration

Everything artificial and she's already damage.

The guy next should try fine face no be asset..

I'm sapiosexual

ObamaMessi:
Hello @all nairalanders...

I suppose to post this in the travel section, but the response in my previous thread wasn't encouraging so I decide to post it here.

I've been in the U.S for the past one week plus but things are just weird here.No friend.No counterpart.The family(my uncle's family) seem to mind their ways and I feel sidelined.

I just need any Nigerian living here in Houston, Texas.I live in Willowbrook to be precise.I live just some Kilometres away from this church(my church in Nigeria) RCCG.

I just need a friend here.

Sometimes I call uncle Amos Boniface in Taraba, Nigeria to discuss international politics just to keep myself lively.

If you live in Willowbrook or a neighbouring suburb just holla at me(hit me up).

Thank you! PM me.

That place is full of yahoo boiz don't ever tell someone there your account number or any detail about your. Account even your socalled RCCG members except you want to be an azza man.

You go join waiting list of many Nigerians under investigation.

Mind your business na him n
Be willowbooks but in case you doubt experience is the best teacher.

Now do i fcucking know ...oro po ju oro lo pademi ni show.


Shout out of opa 6 ijaya jaya

KiNg0G:
Have been clubing since I was 16 and now that am an adult it getting more worst.. Wednesday day I club, Saturday you find me there... Sunday it's confirmed. This has really eaten my finances deeply been a night walker I can't just help myself. I tried several times buying same drinks I buy in the club outside at a cheaper rate, vsop and the rest and keep them in my fridge just to keep me indoor during weekends like this..no way as soon as it gets dark the urge to go mingle around with different new faces, pick new figure 8 and probably get to meet new baller's in town always wins. This is an habit I really want to let go, please clubbers how can I go about it?

Seun
Lalasticlala
Ishilove
Pocohontas
Candidlady
Ginaz

Continue if you cannot help yourself nobody can help you heaven dey help senior man wey dey use akonuche help himself

People are like twigs they get blown and they flow where the breeze goes .
I don't listen to what people say i just watch what they do.

Because what a man or woman does says a lot than what they say.


Your doing dey loud i can't even hear what you are saying

Greatzeus:

Wisdom is profitable to direct. Don't because of he owes you money,you disgrace him in church or
at any public place. He might actually not have at the moment or he could be trying to take advantage of you because of his position.
First,like how much is the money, Since it's something he buys all the time,it means they're regular stuff we use often like foodstuffs or provisions or clothes or shoes,if it is,the money shouldn't be what can affect you adversely. Please give him time but keep reminding him.
Secondly,there are pastors and there are pastors. There are pastors who collect N30k like the winners story we heard,there are those who own the churches themselves.
If he's an appointed pastor, kindly give him time or just leave the money for him. But don't give you credit again.
If he owns the church, which I doubt,he collects tithes, offerings and other pledges. He has no excuse,make sure you send messages to him and bug him for your money till he pays. If he refuses or ignores you,leave it for him,God will replenish your pocket.

Start a business so i can come and be collected, collection and collecting your goods I'm sure God would replenish your pocket.

There's no God anywhere in this matter tell the op the truth it seems we are allergic to truth in this part of the Continent op collect your money.

Even the bible that your guys quote is clear on debt. And it describe it in clear terms that's hard to forget servant and master.
Abeg make akonuche ya gbara zero

Artiiclebeast:
Here they go again with their demonic lies.

I trust the mod to push this to the front page too while the thread I did to debunk all these evil and envious lies were deliberately ignored.

Evil people wet go use ladder climb up remove am make others not fit climb.

Below was my response on a similar thread which the evil mods keeps deleting including the thread I started to debunk all these lies...I wonder what they benefit from all these.

Withchraft get different departments truly.


Abeg make una no listen to all these nonsense oh..

America na God's own country truly truly if you get the right info and know your way.

If na only the gun violence, I go manage am like that dey careful where I dey enter and the kind neighbourhood wey I go stay.

I start one thread for my profile like that to talk about this same issue but because the mods dem too follow for the people wey dey try preach the abroad life no easy dem abandon am. Dem no want competition for the good life...

https://www.nairaland.com/7145274/re-abroad-life-not-easy

Abeg, anybody wey get legit way to jakpa come America, you better take am oh...

Sweet and blessed country.

I dey come to write more..make I drive reach work first.

Modified:

You see all these spoilt, lazy, and rotten brats, if you listen to them mislead you or successfully make you keep away from competing with them out of wickedness and envy, na you sabi.

This kid could be a privileged rotten kid back home in Nigeria who probably had a whole room to herself with a driver to chauffeur her back and fro wherever she goes without much of an understanding to the fact that "nyansh dey pepper egg wey dey lay egg wey she dey chop".

Her parents obviously needed more in life and thus migrated making this silly kid see herself as living below her standard because of sharing a house and bathroom. She's clearly not happy because she could barely find any poor man pikin to oppress out there.

The idiot even went on to say their condition improved when their asylum was approved. They should have sought the asylum in Nigeria na..

Talking about her parents doing long hours of work. It's evil and ungrateful to God and nature to make such complaints. Now it isn't the lack of jobs oh but the long hours of job. The question people of sound mind should ask are:

* What is the hourly wage
*Do you get owed or short paid for these jobs?
* Are these jobs back-breaking or hard jobs?
* What are the general working conditions of these jobs?

Only wicked and selfish people will tell you America is bad, unsafe, and hard to survive.

Very wicked and mean people.

Even if you find a job with an agency paying $10-12 per hour, you have enough hours to work if you want and can do the job to take in as much as $4k per month.

Now, you can imagine how much a direct staff at the same job who knows what brought him to the US will take home.

Na so all of them dey collect and drive big big new cars because work hours dey to dey pay monthly na all these enjoyment dem no want make people come enjoy with them.

My dear people, there is so much work and less hands such that na me dey reject hours because I need to rest but when I dey my bed I no dey fit rest because my mind go dey calculate how much I dey miss because I want siddon for my bed.

One thing though, it depends on the people you met when you got in and the information you had before making the moves.

One can successfully live and work in the US for 100 years and more as an alien without the right documents so long as you stay away from trouble and keep to the rules.

The system is aware of this fact that loads and loads of illegals abound in the country and of course, are doing the jobs their people won't do which are jobs in very critical sectors and the authorities turn the other way so long as the jobs get done in a timely manner and the economy/system keeps spinning.

In my 1 month that I've been here, Na God bless America I dey take sing every morning...

God bless my destiny...

God bless God too...

Na to work move all my family if possible, my entire clan comot from that dustbin called country.

When I step out from airport, na cry I cry go reach where I dey go inside train when my eye see wetin country and living suppose look like.

May all Nigerian evil leaders both past, present, future, and the ones in the grave continue to rot in hell....

Demons...

I pray for every Nigerian to experience life outside of Nigeria, particularly to first-world countries to understand the difference between life and living.

Modified:

All the people quoting me to type nonsense and call me names, I pity all of una and wonder what it'd profit you lots to keep discouraging people who seek to better their lives. The best you can at least do is encourage and give the best positive ideas and information as you know it and be sure to mention that what information you are giving is to the best of your knowledge and not going on and making a blanket statement with all airs of authority.

Most of you earning nonsense based off of your personal experiences are babies in life matters, trust me.

That you had it rough or still having it rough has a lot to do with your mindset, the vibes you give off, and your general way of life.

How do you expect not to have it rough when in your mind you'd rather feed people with discouraging and wrong information just to dissuade them from coming to compete with you as if say na your money dem wan come pack for US or wherever.

How do you expect not to have it bad and rough when all you do is lament, complain, and get ungrateful to God and life with your negativities.

I wish people well and always want to see the best in fellow humans plus I do not play with gratitude. Do you know what this does for me, it makes me navigate through life not without any hurdles but the ability to surmount all hurdles with ease, grace, and favour.

You expect me and other people to have it rough and preach same?

Common, go check yourself.

I repeat..I can confidently gross $5k-$6k per month and mind you folks, I'm working through an agency and as such get paid less than the direct workers oh....just this morning I had to turn down 2 shifts to get some rest but as I think of the amount wey I for make my mind dey judge me but man need to rest to see body take enjoy the money.

If you don spend 100 years for America and you no get the right information it's best not to say a word at all.

My attitude to life and zeal to see others prosper has been working perfectly for my good and I keep finding grace and favour from unlikely sources.

There is work in abundance here that I wished I had the means to bring people suffering in Nigeria in to come work and earn a decent living without breaking a back.

Where I work presently through an agent, they've been disturbing me to leave the agency and come work directly with them because they love my work ethic but dem no understand say I never get my papers complete..

They are even willing to buy me off of the agency for as much as $5k upwards, you can imagine. Na me dey dribble dem with excuse and other gists.

Funny enough, the system and authorities know that there are people like me but they deliberately turn their eye because we dey meet need for critical sector.

Forget oh guys, America na the world.

For some of you chastising me say I be JJC lol..I had lived in Germany for more than 10 years and believe me when I say now, I feel those years were wasted with what I have seen in the US particularly as an immigrant but God never makes mistakes so I'm grateful for all the lessons and process to get here.

The Hispanics all around here in their millions will never discourage their folks and a good chunk of them no get papers and are living well...

Common..

God hates whiners, complainers and ungrateful people...

I'm just 2 months old here and I use a 2014 car.

Most of those discouraging people and who have lived here for year's and had not even a bicycle in Nigeria all drive brand new luxury cars here.

Cars here aren't luxury but pure necessity and our people dey use big cars well.

Me sef jejely settle down collect my small one as time dey go I go upgrade lol

I forgot to mention that I was called up for the job I'm doing right now the very next day after I arrived here and since then, na me dey tell dem say I want rest.

This my epistle is to encourage someone..

If you want to live well in any first world country keep off debt and only eat what you cook.
If not you go pay hospital Bill and you go believe there headache get more than 1000 prescription drugs to use.
. Buhari say Nigeria youths are lazy come US you go see wetin be laziness and entitlement program humans.

But as a naija guy you go hustle and you must make am provided you no lazy.

SecretAgent7706:
This road is road to PSquare family house. PSquare and Peter Obi are from same State.

Today, Psquare is living in Banana Island that Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu brought to Eko Atlantic in Lagos and he is telling Nigerians to give Nigeria to Peter Obi so that he can rule Nigeria like he ruled his state. Godforbid!

Okodo Oro.

- Chinedum Agwaramgbo culled this from: Donald Femi Ojumu wall.

ME: After OBItuary na burial.

Let set the record straight
The igbo own more building in lagos and north before the war Ojukwu would have owned more than half the building in apapa if not for the way the guy was buying anything buyable then.


Election no be way ooo

Francisanointed:
I arrived at a new house. Passage house(face me I face you house). I just wanted to spend sometime here pending when I have money to rent a self contain. On my arrival,I noticed a lot of people wanted to be my friend but I tread with caution. A lady who cohabits with a guy came to ask me for gas, I gave her. She continued asking for my gas for like a month. She would use my gas to cook fresh meals severally. I couldn't say no because I am Christian and I don't want people putting me in a bad light. She kept using my gas for almost six weeks. Till it finished. Before my gas finished,she will borrow the gas and not return it. After my gas finished, she went to fill 1kg. I was no longer having gas to cook. I used hers to cook about four times and I went to buy gas again. Hers finished,she started using mine again. My gas finished. Yesterday I filled my gas again,she came to borrow gas and this time I lied to her that I borrowed gas from our landlady. She was obviously angry that I didn't give her. This woman is a business person,she has money but she won't spend it. Our co neighbors complained to me that, she always do it when a new person enters the house. Even a young guys who lived in the same house said she did the same thing to him but he stopped her. Another woman too,she did that also . It has become a norms for her.
I don't know how to tell people NO. I can only frown my face to tell you NO but I will still give you that thing.

You don't do things to please people people pleaser never amount to anything be it relationship marriage or friendship you will be used over and over until you are no longer relevant.

I learned the hard way after spending money and time in "Angola"
Here's your reading list
No bs ruthless management for fun and profit for entrepreneur by dan Kennedy.

Charlatans forgotten the name of the author but it was about a doctor who sold goat testicles as remedy for impotence.

Learn the hard way or make a new habits totis tist

Climate change strike again... another vaccine injury to keeping the narrative going they said it was a rare condition how manage...
They label us anti vac when we shouted to high heaven but it's clear to the blind
The covid vaccine was a dangerous spike protein they label us anti-vacs.
All the celebrities and people following them will collect one by each. Enjoy your vaccines in peace

Climate change strike again... another vaccine injury to keeping the narrative going they said it was a rare condition how manage...
They label us anti vac when we shouted to high heaven but it's clear to the blind
The covid vaccine was a dangerous spike protein they label us anti-vacs.
All the celebrities and people following them will collect one by each. Enjoy your vaccines in peace

Johndagr8t:
Good evening guys.
actually this will be my first time here on nairaland I really
need advice please,am 21 and honestly I don't just like the
fact that I still look feminine like it really embarrassing mehn.
Alot of times people take advantage of my look to cheat me
and whole lot.
am very fair,curly full hair(natural) ,tall, hairy,pink lips and am
just too fair to be a man honestly,i am an introvert I know coz
my dad always tell me that yeah.
And also am a student of unijos it just crazy the way lecturers
we tell me to stand up in classes and start asking me if am a
girl or boy,like it really embarrassing mehn,so I have decided
to come and ask elders on nairaland if there is anything I can
do to make me look like a real man,even girls feel
intimidated around me like WTF who I offend

Stop eating soy products and other estrogen producing compound in your food suppy it's making you effeminate.

Stop eating bread beans wheat and sodas and soft drinks

Work out

The strong will alway prey on the weak it's just the way life is and whether you agree or not is none of my business. Maybe you can ask God why if you believe in him.

Most of the good done by even the billionaire are for selfish grandiose reason. They simply want to feel important.

[quote author=Arkhanmu post=113654662]I wish I can but she will keep giving me the same assurance she won't do it again.My thought now is to engage her sister whom she have high regards for a lot.You know hearing different experience from people can help ik the long run to some extent..Appreciate your response.[/quote

You'd better put a stop before it's too late if she can't make up her mind to change on even her sister or Jesus can do it.
You want to learn the hard way then keep going with the charade you call marriage.
You are in love with her while she's loving and fucking her ex. Paternity fraud loading...40%......
Get off now why you can

Owo youth are cowards they should be the one interviewing these criminal not the criminal in uniform.

Now they will never know the truth.

spiritualmubi:
Hello, good day Nairalanders.
I'm presently in a critical situation in my life. I really need your advice on this situation of mine.
I just feel like a looser, I am an undergraduate studying botany. In 300 level due to me deferring a semester due to a Relapsing illness (schizophrenia). I suffered from brain fog when I resumed school after the relapse and lock down. I'm 26 and I don't have any skill and don't have a degree at hand.

The reason for this is not far fetched because till date I still harbour that anger for what my Dad has done to me. When I was in Jss1 in a very good school and also doing well, he removed me and my younger brother from school and took us to a Quran memorizing Islamic school following the advice of a hausa colleague of his in his place of work.

We memorized the holy book but for me it came with it's price, I didn't even have solid memorization of the Quran self to speak. I went through hell in those two years memorizing the holy book, ranging from mental, physical and spiritual challenges, which I believe triggered the schizophrenia am suffering from today. After the graduation ceremony from the Islamic school he enrolled me in conventional secondary school into Ss1 which means I never attended Jss2 and Jss3. Had episodes of relapse of the ailment am suffering from after then twice apart from the first occurrence after my memorization of the holy book. I believe that if I was allowed to continue my education back then I would have been a graduate by now and even working and must have gained financial independence
Presently my mum brought the idea that we should meet a Sheikh who is a saint of God, regarding my issue of not being able to read, assimilate let alone retain, the Saint said that I should defer a session, that is a year so that he will pray for me that there is a good spirit standing beside me that needs to be dissolved into my system, which (the spirit) is as a result of a spiritual book, litanies I read that my father gave me.

So now I don't have any skill, my Father has no source of income whatsoever, he doesn't earn any salary, he only has ND, the money we are even feeding on presently is a contribution by BOT of a foundation he founded to buy a house for its Islamic school.

I started learning photography during the lock down but left it for no tangible reason. My Dad insisted that I should learn shoe mending, that it is easy to learn and get small small change, I started it but had to leave it when I faced the challenge of sowing and polishing shoes, I don't just like the work.

Presently am been pressured by my parents to get something doing to be getting money because even to eat once in a day is a problem for us now, and to buy the drug am living on which enables me to sleep but believe me I'm at loss of what to do, should I go back and learn photography as a skill or should I find a job, like a company that can employ an Ssce holder. Cos the former needs start up fee and also need time for me to master it before talking of getting money from it.

Secondly, regarding my academics, I am thinking of using this one year or two years which I would defer to gain financial independence and mental well being, then rewrite jamb and apply for my original passion which is medicine and surgery but hmm, am already in my late twenties, so please Nairalanders help a confused soul.

Sorry for the long write up, just had to say everything.
Thanks, any contribution is welcomed I am really in a critical situation.

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New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

Congratulations Start preparing to be a good father remember this child did not ask you to have unprotected sex with the mother it's your choice.

Don't remove the pregnancy you should take 100% responsibility for your actions.

People will always talk get use to it... it's call life.

Start giving your wife enough Amino acids and omega three oil rich food so that you'll help your child out of the gate to be intelligent and strong.

I greet you again as a would be father

You will probably learn the hard way.

You have started giving reason why you don't want to stop and a lie told many times always seems like the truth.

Prepare well oo after all every man must go six fit but you are using your hand and legs to call death.

Wish you the best if you refuse to flee!!!!

Entitled entitimentality
he hired you he payed you case closed...you should thank God you are not dealing with a person like me.
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