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Godoverevery:
For every of there Bleep up there always an excuse.

They are the always victim in every situation.

I wont argue with you cos it ain't worth it.

Just know the reason why marriage is a joke today is because you women will always blame everyone apart from yourself and never own your shits

Men also shift blame to their wives. It goes both ways.

fyzaila:
Alot of men this days don't exercise, they just fat up anyhow with putruding belly. So this make them lazy and find it difficult to last more than 5mins. Hence, not satisfying their wives. So results to taking different herbal concoctions or viagra just to last long whereas, they just sign their death warrant when they indulge in sexual enhancement drugs.

They key 🔑 is healthy eating and exercise not those rubbish burantashi

Don't mind these men. There is no need for sex enhancing drugs, just romance your wife well, touch her well and caress her before the main act of sex itself.
It's enough to satisfy women.

AroOkigbo:
Husbands also lose interest in their wives after a period.
What else makes them to cheat?

Humans naturally get bored of the same thing after a long time, both wives and husbands get tired of each other but cheating is not the solution.
Spice up the marriage and spice up your sex life instead. But the problem is that men don't want to put effort to re-spice the marriage. They just run outside and cheat instead but expect faithfulness from their wives.

Godoverevery:
When a husband lose interest in sex.....no one advise the wife to satisfy the man.

The man is accused of cheating or getting it somewhere else.

80% of married women are boring in bed yet they expect the man to do everything.

Tell her to come on top to ride after 3min is already tired and complaining but she will expect you to bang her non stop for 30min.


Anyways isnt there fault but that of foolish men we have today.

80% of married women are boring because African society doesn't encourage sexual freedom in women, many men marry virgins or inexperienced women and expect them to be pornstars, besides you don't need to do acrobatics on bed or bang for hundred hours to reach climax, try pre-intimacy for a long time, kiss, touch, caress, build up gradually to orgasm before diving into each other. That Wil help both you and her reach climax, but a lot of men just want to hit it for thirty seconds, then leave their wives hanging.

obinna58:
Only simps care to satisfy women sexually, it should be the opposite

adeniyilamlek:
you took it from my mouth... Wàhálà full ground for men

Selfish reasoning. Both of you should work to satisfy each other, not always you using her body to please yourself.

VawulentMan:
After working 9-5 or 8-8 only to continue the next day.
Abeg she should bring something to the table, then I will consider and reduce my work time for her pleasure

You think women don't also work? No wahala, don't complain en they she starts telling you she's not in the mood every single day.

Is simply because their husbands are not satisfying them in the bedroom during intimacy.
As a married man, try and give it to your wife very well.
By "give it to her" I mean sleep with her in a way that she can reach orgasm after sex.
I know a lot of men complain that their wives lose interest in sex after some time in marriage. The reason is because they do not enjoy sex with you, either they don't enjoy it at all or they don't get satisfied or orgasm.

Sex is truly a vital part of marriage for both husband and wife and if one party is constantly unsatisfied and never gets any sexual pleasure or satisfaction then they are bound to lose interest.

Talk to your wife, let her tell you what she likes you to do in the bedroom when you are intimate and please do those things so she can keep coming back for more instead of complaining of headache or pretending to be on her period just to avoid you.

Tallesty1:
I swear Nigeria men cheat too much.




That is why they are ready wolrd war 4 if you mention DNA test

LMAO
Why are the men on this thread so defensive?

Saintmary:
Dey play

Have you noticed that it happens like this in real life? I mean cheating husbands facing setbacks because they hurt their wives? I would really like to hear any stories about it you have.

Nehyooh:
To be faithful to my wife still remain one area I have been praying for. When you're married as a man,I believe staying with ones wife is very paramount. A wife you're loyal to, treat well and never cheat on will definitely make you a happy man, that's my orientation and nothing can change that.
If you think as a man, you can be jumping on young girls, spending on them and neglecting your legally married wife, money they have never spend on their biological mother I pity you. Always remember no matter what, your body go tell you someday. Age will cash up with you and then that wife you tortured emotionally, embarrassed, neglected and treated badly will be the one that'll take care of you when you become old. A cheating married men should just pray his wife forgive him, if not he'll regret his life and all those years he messing around with useless young girls. Your own girl child will be mesed with as well when she grow up.

And to the young girls/side chicks, no girl in her right frame of mind, decent, well-trained and from a good home will be opening legs for a man you truly know his is married. You are directly or indirectly punishing your life and the man's wife spirit won't be happy with you.
A girl dating and sleeping with married men are wicked, terrible. They're capable of doing anything, single guys be careful. Girls like that should just expect that by the time they get married too, another lady will be sharing their husbands with them just as they did and they'll be neglected as well. YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND STILL HAVE IT BACK.
FACT!

Thank you for helping me buttress my point so well.
I only pray they listen and take it serious.

Nothing good can come of treating an innocent person badly just because you think can get away with it.
Women dating such men are partly the problem because some of them enjoy taking a man's attention from his family but that one is another topic.

Curiouscity:
While I don't like to do comparison, the bold part of your statement is why many men have gone to the beyond very early. Most Nigerian women can appear to be kind and soft, but when their wicked side is activated are deadlier than all men combined. Women are very lovely creatures, and are very good at covering their true identity.

@bold, which one be true identity biko?
I don't agree with that statement sha but okay.

shortIGBOman:
Women have done worst to house helps than that. Besides, these days married women cheat more than married men. Some of them dey do hook up sef

Okay, but this topic is for married men that maltreat their wives because of sidechic, the fact that some women cheat does not mean I should ignore the problem my topic is addressing, you can start a topic about cheating married women if you like.

mariahAngel:
Oh! They always do get it eventually.

My only concern is what women in such situations can do. Especially for their mental health.
People will always say leave, but we all know that can't be enough.
What about the years she's invested wasted? Who can give her those back?

That's the problem, they don't want to waste years of investment and many don't want their kids to grow up in broken homes.

shortIGBOman:
Have you ever heard about a man who maltreat his house help? But everyday, we see cases where women maltreat their house helps. Some Women are naturally mean.

Some men rape and molest househelps, even underage ones but please can we focus on the topic of cheating married men treating their wives anyhow, let's not derail thank you.

I will appreciate if this topic is taken to front page
@ Royalroy
@ nlfpmod
@ Rocktation
@ dominique

mariahAngel:
My dear, it's true.
As long as the wives themselves are innocent.

Alright, that will be sweet justice to wicked husbands

izonborn098:
You lied when you said women are more kind than me, men are more generous than women that's why it's very hard for women to raise each other like men do..

Okay sir, if you say so.

mariahAngel:
They end up making their wives so bitter, and no man whose wife's heart is bitter towards prospers.
As a man, if your wife cannot pray for you, you're doomed.

Are you sure that's true and not just sentiment?
Have you seen it happen in real life like that?

izonborn098:
The problem applicable to women, give women the same power today and see how they'll maltreat men like dogs e.g how lesbian treat each other and how they wicked the less...
It's nature and we've to deal with it because i don't see that changing today, tomorrow or next year...

It's better to treat what is wrong as wrong and try to correct it, even if like you said women will do same but personally I don't think so because females are by nature more tender and kinder than men, even their physiological and hormonal makeup makes them softer.

mariahAngel:
Some men can be very wicked sha,

Infact my dear so many of them, the ones that are kind are so few. It's very sad.
Everyday I see all manner of horror stories from married women at the hands of their cheating husbands online....

izonborn098:
Men have a very low respect for women because of maybe how nature, religion or tradition make it look like. As a man you expect your wife to forgive u or understand when you're caught cheating but heaven will fall when the table turn.
I don't have time for any both (men and women) to cheat but men need to respect their wives because they've the same feelings as they do. If you want to cheat you gats cheat with sense


Women also have their problems.. Las las everybody go dey okay..

@bold, that's what am saying.
But some men don't give a shit about their wives emotions or mental health. They cheat and treat her like crap in the process.
And expect her to stay and tolerate.
Very inhuman and evil behaviour, just because society overlooks it.

CoronaVirusPro:
Ladies should learn to walk away if they cannot manage with the promiscuity of their husband!

Marriage is not by force. Your happiness and mental health is worth more than the union. Even when you dont care about your mental health and happiness, you should care about your health. STD`s can send you back to God at a prime age!


Leave the dog and move-on!

Easier said than done, there are many unfortunate consequences for married women that divorce cheating husband in nigeria, her fellow women and even men will stigmatize her and see her reasons for leaving as trivial and nonsensical. Majority of men in Nigeria cheat on their wives, the behavior is so widespread that women now take it as normal and assume every man cheats and "it rains everywhere".
Her female children will be stigmatized too because they will be seen as kids raised by a woman who couldn't keep her marriage,so they themselves will not make good wives.
Nobody cares to know how terrible the marriage was for the woman before she chose to walk away.
Marriage for majority of women in Nigeria is hell on earth because of their cheating husbands behaviour.

Please you guys should consider the mental health of your wives before or while you cheat and sleep around with other women outside.
I know that the society we live in does not admonish cheating men or acknowledge that their behaviour is wrong so many married men take advantage of this and cheat on their wives without remorse or regret,
some of you will even show more love and affection to your side chics/girlfriend outside
Some of you will give money that you cannot spend on your wife to sidechic
married men will go above and beyond to please their sidechicks in the bedroom, some will even lick her vagina to orgasm but when it come to their wives they do the regular twenty seconds and roll over and sleep leaving her unfulfilled. Some even stop sleeping with their wives completely when they have sidechic.
Some call their sidechicks all manner of sweet pet names like honey, baby, sweetie pie etc meanwhile their wives at home are "mama Felix", "mama purity" etc.
Some even act so irritated whenever they are with their wives because they think sidechic is newer/fresher/better, so they talk to the wives like she is dirt, they treat their wives like crap and when the woman feels frustrated and withdraws because the husband no longer shoes love, they will use it as an excuse to abandon her completely and focus on sidechic.
Some men talk down on their wives to please sidechic, cal their wives all sorts of insulting names, like she is dirty, old, smelling, condemn material etc. Just to make side chic happy that they prefer her.

The downsides of men keeping sidechicks are so many, I don't know why society encourages it and expects women to just tolerate and tolerate until the man starts to suffer sexual problems in his very old age and can no longer sleep around then he will return to the neglected and depressed and mentally bleeped up wife and expect her to just welcome him with open arms just because society overlooks his infidelity.

I know many men cannot control themselves sexually and feel they have to sleep around but try your best to put your wives feelings and needs before the Ashawo outside.

Anything you know you wouldn't want your daughter to suffer in marriage, please don't do it to another person's daughter.

I read some women's forum on Facebook and other sites and the stories these women share about their cheating husbands are just devastating and heartbreaking.

Married men, If you must cheat, you people should pity your wives when you cheat and don't torment her, mentally abuse her in the process.
Women are human beings not animals or emotional punching bags.

As for the girls/women that knowingly sleep with men that are married for whatever reason, I wish you badlucks and setbacks in your life and everything you do because you are all pieces of shit.

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