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Foreign Affairs / Re: CNN Apologises For Spreading Israeli Fake News On 40 Babies Beheading by Harmony22: 11:06am On Oct 14, 2023
That is not surprising after all a country invaded another sovereign country on the pretext that that country is developing a WMD only to find out that the notion was a total ruse after destroying the country to the extent that they are still suffering from the lingering crisis till date. Despite that no one dare hold the country responsible for such atrocities.
The truth is that the world is not Fair. The powerful dictate the tunes to suit their interest.
Politics / Re: Allison Madueke Released On Bail In London (Video With Bodyguards) by Harmony22: 8:28am On Oct 10, 2023
We Africans are just wicked set of people to each other inclusive of the followers because the society is a reflection of the people. Imagine the leaders embezzling the commonwealth of their people to find their way to developed countries (who use their own resources and your resources to better the lot of their citizens and their country ) with this wealth to live their best life at the expense of seeing your people wallowing in penury and poverty.

Diezani Alison-Madueke Released On Bail In London (Video With Bodyguards)[/quote]

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Politics / Re: Tribunal Dismisses Adebutu’s Petition For Referring To INEC Result As Purported by Harmony22: 4:19pm On Sep 30, 2023
I think they are only trying to buy time for this ApC illegitimate Ogun gov.


With this ruling here, Adebutu will win in the Appeal court of justice. [/quote]

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Politics / Re: Tribunal Dismisses Adebutu’s Petition For Referring To INEC Result As Purported by Harmony22: 4:17pm On Sep 30, 2023
Family / Is There Something Wrong With Me? by Harmony22: 8:28am On Nov 29, 2022
This is going to be a long narration to pour out my mind very well, let me apologize for boring you with my story first.
I got married just about one and half years ago to a lady who has once had a child when she in her first year to a man who is now living in the usa with his family he is an expatriate and works in oil company. Obviously we didn't get to court that long before she get pregnant and I don't know either by principle or by desperation I just wanted her to keep the pregnancy despite that she do even threaten to terminate it whenever we had quarrels but I try to appease her not to do it and I think that sacrifice is one of the best I ever made in my life whenever I look into the eyes of my 6 months old child with his cuteness. I must mentioned she made it known to me before we finally agree to settle down that she has a kid and I don't think It really bothers me, I saw some potentials I do love in her and that's what matters to me but sometimes I feel we could be having conflict of interest on the long run as she is a Christian and I'm a Muslim but I still feel we can always talk about them which I actually practice doing and it works. However,it is her baby daddy that always send money for the upkeep of her daughter and of course she had made it clear to me initially as regard to that so I have always known I'm not responsible for it, and that keeps her and her baby daddy in constant communication every now and then especially whenever she needs something for her daugther, though I don't really have issues with it because I believe even the little communication they are having will soon fade away by the time she got a job as she has about 4 offers while we were courting then that I believe one will work out for her. Unfortunately none of the job work out. The point is years of depending on the baby daddy for the upkeep of her daughter is even making her to see him as a meal ticket as he is living up to his responsibility as far financial aspect is concern. I start to get worried at a certain point when the baby daddy call at odd hours sometimes 12 p.m or 1 a.m in the night.initially I let it pass because I feel like he is in the US probably that's the time he could call when he is free from work and due to the time difference they are in the evening time there. But one day I had to take it personal for her because my wife is even a kind of woman that is very jealous as well as she do peep through my phone and react aggressively whenever she sees a chat that indicate me flirting with a woman or a woman flirting with me. In the course of taking that habit of her baby daddy personal with her she noticed my attitude and wanted to know what's wrong so I had to tell her because I don't want her to start sneakily communicating with him because I know the password to her phone. At a certain point I choose to become vigilant so I started to peep through her phone secretly despite that I'm not a type of someone that does that infact for the few times I check her phone I just go straight to read her babydaddy messages with her. And some things I could deduce from those messages is this . 1. Her babydaddy likes to flirt with her 2. I feel sometimes she try to make money off her child upkeep why I said she see him as a meal ticket earlier.3 Sometimes she try to appease her babydaddy because she needed him to respond swiftly to the needs of her daugther
And I must say that during the course of our courtship, I realized the babydaddy would have love to have her as her Nigeria wife and he gave her so many incentive to influence that but she choose to be with me.
Her daughter don't live with us except on holidays.
I'm doing very well for myself as well , infact very comfortable enough as a man that's capable to settle down before I marry her....
Sometimes ago when we do have some serious quarrel she always utter some disgusting statement that I just let pass that it is women talk, and there was a time she threatened me that i don't give her money and I don't want her to ask outside and I was broke then her mom had to interfere and I told her mom point blank that I won't live by anybody's standard if it is 10 naira that I have it is that 10 naira we will manage. Sometimes I feel some of her disgusting statement would sound blackmailing like I don't like her daughter or because she is a Christian but the point is sometimes or let me say every now and then I feel threatened that am I married to a woman with two husbands and it's killing my vibes. And there is no way I could cut her off totally from communicating with her babydaddy without her giving the impression that I don't like her daughter. And for once the conflict of interest I think it doesn't matter is really giving me concern.
Just want to make this as short as possible.
Family / Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Harmony22: 7:44pm On Nov 08, 2022
[op I can understand your feelings and majority of the comments here are just trying to make you feel like your concern is not justifiable probably because you don't come from a loving and close family calling you and checking on you all the time, I have been in your shoes and I know your feelings my mom wife's used to be like that too calling every morning afternoon and night.infact if anything happens within her environment the next thing is for her to call my wife and gossip about it. I felt concern as you are now and I thought of complaining to her as regard to that but I realized just as many people are talking here that it might feel because I don't have my family calling me the same way so I drew a plan I told my mom to be calling me everyday too morning afternoon and night even what she want to say is irrelevant she should call and we would talk at length on any topic that arise so when my wife start noticing this she first started calling me mummy boy I don't even do as if I heard her I make sure my mum keeps calling and there was a day it got into her that she had to tell me that would I just bring my mom to start living with us and I ask her why she feel threatens but she couldn't reply so you see when the table turns around the women will not tolerate it for long but here you are people making you feel maybe you have less love from your own parent. I rest my case and the ball is in your court op

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Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2006 For Sale by Harmony22: 9:15pm On Sep 28, 2022
Anchor84:
2m?
No sir I mean send me a message on whatsapp for last price
Autos / Toyota Corolla 2006 For Sale by Harmony22: 10:58am On Sep 28, 2022
Toyota Corolla 2006 for sale first body no fault goes for 2.4M and slightly negotiable contact me on WhatsApp 08023133468

Family / Starting A Family by Harmony22: 4:17am On May 20, 2022
I gave Birth to new baby boy today and yes it’s a thing of joy for whoever is fortunate to produce an offspring and I’m happy for that. But here I am waking up in the middle of the night reminiscing about my life, thinking at 35 you are just giving birth to a baby when most of your colleagues whom you graduated together now has at least 3 kids whose first born is about 9 years old. The thought of this sometimes do steal the joy of the moment from me I feel I started too late and the most annoying thing is I don’t have any justifiable reasons why I started late other than I didn’t get married sooner and not just because I couldn’t have afforded the means of getting married sooner as I have been at least comfortable to do so for the past 8 years.
I’m as much as it could sound that I’m being ungrateful because there are some people whose life is far worse, I just don’t think through that perspective to console myself rather I feel sorry for myself that my life sucks, probably because I have no reason to have stay this long as a young man living alone and doing good for himself for the past 9 years. Though it’s mostly believed that God time is the best sometimes but I am a student of school of thought who shared that sentiment but mostly find it difficult to subscribed to it possible because I always feel our life is shaped by our actions, inactions and the choice of decision we do take. I will be very blunt here with these few point about my personality as a person. I’m not bad looking guy but I must say I’m blessed with few things that aids the attention of ladies and had enough to sustain a family life
Here are some fact about the situation of my life journey as regard to getting married
I have always been lucky to have some friends who always encourage me to settle down early just like them even to the extent of introducing girls to me of which I normally disappointed them by showing no interest or probably feel ridicule to have chosen for me
Secondly I must say at a point in my life I have this low self esteem and lack confidence in myself as a boy who grew in a family settings where intimidation and fear is one of the tool my father command respect.
Over the time I tried to over grow that low self esteem as I choose to drinking alcohol and it helps to some extent to boost my confidence but still couldn’t have gotten me get married sooner.
At a point in my life I was so desperate to get married that it started to affect me emotionally and psychologically that making money was even getting difficult for me so I had to let go of that desperation by acting like I don’t care anymore in order to get back my state of mind so as to be able to pay bills and live fine again.
Along the line again family pressure starts to creep in to the extent that they do feel sorry for me like something is wrong with me spiritually that needs urgent attention of spiritual cleansing.
Despite all odds I met a lady who I dated for a while and now given birth, but this thought of I was too late and even my friends who I was even better than few years ago who settle than early have at least 2 kids are even living fine Even better despite all the bills, school fees and the likes.
Pardon my gibberish I’m only just trying to express my thought in a rational and irrational way to let go of this mindset of mine that do affects me emotionally and psychologically whenever it cross my thoughts.
Opinions and bashing is highly welcome I am not seeking for self pity I am a student of school of hard knocks that call a spade a spade.

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Religion / Re: David Kingleo Elijah: Going To China To 'Destroy Coronavirus' – Nigerian Prophet by Harmony22: 12:33pm On Feb 27, 2020
How can a pastor be vomitting this kind of gibberish from his mouth and people's still attend his church and even pay tithe..... What a pity to these sheeples.


uote author=Mrcomedimatic post=86995837]Prophet David Kingleo Elijah of Glorious Mount Of Possibility Churuch revealed that he will destroy coronavirus.

Furthermore Prophet Elijah revealed that he will be going to china to destroy the deadly diseases.

Also, he revealed that he will destroy coronavirus prophetical because it affecting business for Nigerians.

Watch the video below..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Zk8-wwgWE4[/quote]
Investment / Re: I Have 5 Million Naira To Invest. by Harmony22: 8:56am On Jan 08, 2020
Ambassador1991:


Do hookup and dating, by opening a website and an App and connecting people. The truth is, sex sells. If you wish to do the two, less than 800k will start it. But if you want only the website alone, less than 300k or 195k if you wish to start small. You can make a millions monthly as the world is a global village. Everybody wants to hookup, date, chat etc If interested, I can teach you the means of raking in cash. It is very lucrative.



I wish you the best.

Kindly contact me on WhatsApp 09051898428 i like your suggestion I might be interested in investing in that
Investment / Business Inquiries by Harmony22: 7:51am On Jan 08, 2020
I would like to seek an idea or co partner to venture into a mini start up business whose capital won't be more than 6 million naira, I have an existing building and space that can be used for production in case of mini production and an office space in a busy area in ikorodu in case of IT or other related kind of ventures..... Anyone with Good business idea can add me up on WhatsApp 09051898428.
A reward await a good business idea.
Investment / Need A Co Partner by Harmony22: 3:07pm On Nov 07, 2019
i have an idle office around Ikorodu Garage , a busy and commercial area but it is bigger than what i am presently subjecting it to so i will need a co-partner with a sound business idea who can bring about maximum utilization of the office for productivity........ You can add me up on whatsapp 09051898428
Business To Business / Need A Co Partner With A Sound Business Idea by Harmony22: 2:42pm On Nov 07, 2019
i have an idle office around Ikorodu Garage , a busy and commercial area but it is bigger than what i am presently subjecting it to so i will need a co-partner with a sound business idea who can bring about maximum utilization of the office for productivity........ You can add me up on whatsapp 09051898428
Politics / Re: FFK: Jimoh Ibrahim A Ritualist, Sleeps In Coffin, Anus Overstretched From Sodomy by Harmony22: 8:08am On Nov 25, 2016
This FFK of a man is fast becoming a nuisance to the political circle of Nigeria..... Is this his own new style of presenting his opposing views about someone he does not align it..... if i were your kid i would call you to order... and even serious minded people has stop taking you serious because you dont fight with a pig he would only drag you to mud..... Just the last time during the electioneering campaign that he said Lai Mohammed use pampers and Bola tinubu has mouth odor... very childish of a grown man like him.... even someone like me in my twenties cant even say that to condemn those that dont align with me ideologically.


melvinjames:
The strange thing is, he's right.

FFK is a literary giant, soooo good with words.


*Modified*
For those abusing me, check out the reason FFK sacked Jimoh's airline when FFK was aviation Minister.
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 10 by Harmony22: 9:49am On Jul 29, 2016
i would like to ask anyone who has an idea of how the study permit works as regards to immigrating or traveling to canada, For a study permit that is granted for 2 years programme. does it mean that irrespective of if the person attended the school that year the study permit will still be valid..... Assuming that the study permit was granted late and the school do not defer or allow student to come late... could the same study permit can be used to travel if given admission for next year fall semester since it is still valid or someone had to apply for another study permit....
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 10 by Harmony22: 4:36pm On Jul 17, 2016
please everyone i would like to ask if the Medical call is done by phone call or by notification through someone email.... besides im yet to link my paper account online i just hope the CIC have the right email the VFS used to mail me to acknowledged the submission of my document.
i kindly need some response please
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 10 by Harmony22: 9:52am On Jun 26, 2016
lobito007:

Somebody, please...

I think with the kind of training the program entails it's possible you get a job with those companies especially since ur cv will also be garnished with hands on training activities which you would have been equipped with during the course of the program if you're opportune to get an internship. Probably by the time I start working in one of those company in the next couple of years I should be in a better position to tell you if it's possible to get a job there with the degree
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Need A Wife... by Harmony22: 5:59am On Apr 26, 2016
i'm a muslim of 29yrs, self employed and i've gotten almost all what i needed to care for a family.. i think its high time to settle down with a good woman i can call my wife.... i'm a little bit shy of a guy and hardly have time to chicks around.... my whatsapp is 09051898428, i believe fate brings people together
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 10 by Harmony22: 9:10am On Apr 19, 2016
i would like to ask and kindly seek advice from people on this forum as regard to the kind of dilemma or mixed thought i found myself..... i got an admission to study bachelor of applied petroleum engineering in sait, canada.... but i would like to have an insight about the prospect of pursuing this program if it really worth the investment.... i would appreciate the input of anyone who had done this program in sait before or present student studying the program at sait who can enlighten me on the following questions
1.... Due to the dwindling oil price, how bad has it affected alberta oil industry with respect to the ease of getting a job
2.... how easy it is to get an internship in the oil industry in alberta for the 2nd year of this program and how much is the student paid
3.....what is the probability of getting a job easily after the completion of this program, though the school stated it has high industry demand and i don't want to believe this is just a marketing strategy.

thanks in anticipation for your kindly advice
Travel / Re: Nigerian Students In Canada: How Do You Survive? by Harmony22: 1:09pm On Feb 04, 2016
gbade11:

i just applied to SAIT FOR BAPT PROGRAM TOO CAN WE STAY IN TOUCH BY WHATSAPP SO WE CAN CREATE A GROUP TO SHARE INFORMATION AND IDEAS HERE IS MY WHAT'SAPP NUMBER 09051898428


Bro,I'm also planning to apply to SAIT now.just went thru their application process.
Bro kindly let's share ideas.
Thanks

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Agriculture / I Have A Land Built To Lintel Level In Ikorodu Area And Would Like To Convert It by Harmony22: 10:25am On Jan 25, 2016
i have a land built to lintel level in Ikorodu area and would like to convert it into poultry farming ...... The money for the capital is not the Issue but i need an expert to work and collaborate with to kick start the project..... Any Poultry expert (PLEASE I MEAN EXPERT THAT HAS SUCCESSFULLY RUN THE BUSINESS) in the House should add me to whatsapp 08179293535 or 09051898428 or add me to BBM 2B52572B

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