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Estharfabian:
You really didn't get me...

There are other things besides "Money" that could Actually show One Cares...

My brother, Spending doesn't mean u care!...it only gets us to Notice You..!

@ bolded, well said. Methinks a man should minimize the spending, especially in the early stages, but at the root of the spending is the ego trap, which a manipulative woman can feed on using flattery.

kilode100:
Yinmu.
Sweetie, those Ladies didn't measure up... You weren't attracted to them, because, if you were, you would have sold your car, added more money and bought a better one for her and she would have dropped you a few times, and that would be it.

This is not rocket science Bros.Xes rules the world and you are a Man!!

@the bolded, the sex trap is not tailored to men alone, women are trapped also.

donholy28:
Women too re easily manipulated...just they mere whisper of i love u is enough to make her steal her papa money

Even in this age?

SirWere:
The entire act of women "enslaving" men with punna actually started since the biblical times. Women in that age were opressed, sold, and in some cases treated as furniture. The only fragile power women had then was too keep a guy hooked with sex. And that was how seduction was born. It has expanded even beyond the original practicer ever dreamed of



look at cleopatra. She was wxiled and supposed to die at an early age. Yet she ended up ruling Eygpt for almost 20 years. How With her punna!

Its nice to have you on this thread. The web of seduction truly spawns from time past. A man is at war! Some don't know it.

jaymejate:
I have the spirit of God in me so i cannot be manipulated by ladies.
When i get married also, i remain the Head.
Just that some guys can't control themselves and it's bad

We will/have all being manipulated at some point in our lives. Manipulation like a feather, can be so feint you only feel the tickle.

tpiar:
Why is it still a man's world if so.


the problem is, women equate sex to power, but men dont.

thats why you see females bragging they have a man if they sleep with him, meanwhile the man will sleep with her and myriads of other women but it will not even interrupt his day.

so, op, its a mirage.

You have an angle I haven't heard before, pray, tell me more.

EroticAngelina:
oh so its only the men who are easily manipulated

well, to answer ur question, women are now getting stronger and wiser do me, I do u.

Oh no! We do have manipulative men also. But with a sizable tincture of confidence I would wager that pound for pound we have more manipulative women than men. You disagree?

iceberylin:
Everything turns around when we get em to spread open...

That's another way they manipulate you my boss. They know as long as they make you believe there is "hope" you won't mind being used. Rabbit and carrot, man, rabbit and a dangling carrot! You follow?

A few hours ago I saw a post :https://www.nairaland.com/2781861/finally-exposed-stategies-women-use. Reading through the comments, I observed that there was agreement that men are easily manipulated by women by most people who commented. I took the question offline and some of my pals agreed that " the easiest way to get a man is to use a woman".

A good percentage of history seems to support this fact as pointed out by SirWere. So my post wil serve two purposes:

1.To show why female manipulation works most times (weak spots).

2.To show how men can avoid this trap (defence), because as punkyveer said, manipulation smells like BS. Here goes:


Weak spot 1:The Male Ego: The male ego explains why the average man does not want to be outdone, competition, the ego explains the death of most men in hotel rooms, it is the urge to Impress. How do women use it? Simple: by creating deceptive situations were your tendency to impress is put to test. Examples : asking you for money when her friends are around, comparing you with her ex stylishly e.t.c.


Weakspot 2: The Male Sex Urge: Men are sexual beings. A man gets "FULL", and when this happens the biological tendency is to "DEPOSIT". This explains wet dreams. The need for sex is strong so much so that biologist and psycolgists say its almost as strong for the need for food. How do women use it?

some women use sex the way some mothers use food, as a reward, as a tool for enforcing obedience, as a bargaining chip, mothers go the extra mile to prefect the kitchen skill, women go the extra mile to perfect there sex appeal.


So having known the weak points of the male armor how do we defend it? Simple:

1. Accept that you are vulnerable, looking strong is different from being strong. It is what you are aware of that you can guard.

2. Develop the discipline to prove yourself only when it is needed and safe. Practice and learn smart replies. Sometimes the best proof is no proof at all.

3.Change your mindset. A voice once told me: it is not the women that are strong, it is the men that are weak. Sometimes men open themselves for manipulation by making the first move, by appearing desperate. When you appear to want it at all cost, you give the woman the oppurtunity to determine that cost.


Warm comments are encouraged.


Cc. Lalasticlala,rocktation,and farano.