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| Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Hassasin: 5:00pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
A few hours ago I saw a post :https://www.nairaland.com/2781861/finally-exposed-stategies-women-use. Reading through the comments, I observed that there was agreement that men are easily manipulated by women by most people who commented. I took the question offline and some of my pals agreed that " the easiest way to get a man is to use a woman". A good percentage of history seems to support this fact as pointed out by SirWere. So my post wil serve two purposes: 1.To show why female manipulation works most times (weak spots). 2.To show how men can avoid this trap (defence), because as punkyveer said, manipulation smells like BS. Here goes: Weak spot 1:The Male Ego: The male ego explains why the average man does not want to be outdone, competition, the ego explains the death of most men in hotel rooms, it is the urge to Impress. How do women use it? Simple: by creating deceptive situations were your tendency to impress is put to test. Examples : asking you for money when her friends are around, comparing you with her ex stylishly e.t.c. Weakspot 2: The Male Sex Urge: Men are sexual beings. A man gets "FULL", and when this happens the biological tendency is to "DEPOSIT". This explains wet dreams. The need for sex is strong so much so that biologist and psycolgists say its almost as strong for the need for food. How do women use it? some women use sex the way some mothers use food, as a reward, as a tool for enforcing obedience, as a bargaining chip, mothers go the extra mile to prefect the kitchen skill, women go the extra mile to perfect there sex appeal. So having known the weak points of the male armor how do we defend it? Simple: 1. Accept that you are vulnerable, looking strong is different from being strong. It is what you are aware of that you can guard. 2. Develop the discipline to prove yourself only when it is needed and safe. Practice and learn smart replies. Sometimes the best proof is no proof at all. 3.Change your mindset. A voice once told me: it is not the women that are strong, it is the men that are weak. Sometimes men open themselves for manipulation by making the first move, by appearing desperate. When you appear to want it at all cost, you give the woman the oppurtunity to determine that cost. Warm comments are encouraged. Cc. Lalasticlala,rocktation,and farano. 5 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by pet4ril(f): 5:04pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Huhhhhhhhhh  |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by iceberylin(m): 5:04pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Everything turns around when we get em to spread open... 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Ain't it obvious?  Guys are dumb...Girls are Smart...  We got the girl power, brains, charisma and Charm! Who could resist? PS----i forgot to add "Some guys"... 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
oh so its only the men who are easily manipulated  well, to answer ur question, women are now getting stronger and wiser do me, I do u. |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Tallesty1(m): 5:09pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
If you want to set trap for me. Use food as a bait. If you want it to catch me that very day. Use egusi soup. You're officially on your own if you use a woman. 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Tallesty1(m): 5:12pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Estharfabian:The way of fools seems right to them kilode100:hope you know that your dad is a man? He's obviously the chairman of "SMAN". Senseless Men Association Of Nigeria. Your boyfriend is our secretary. kilode100:Hot legs may get you a job but you need brain to keep one. A girl with hotter legs will come around one day and you know what that means. No, don't tell me you can keep one with vjay cause no lady's vjay is the best. He will fire you when he's done with it kilode100:It is possible that you don't wear any ie is if you're not working @ porn firm. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1:I don't see the connection...?  1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by kilode100(f): 5:13pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
That because Men are senseless!! I got my first job by merely uncrossing my hot legs.. I wasn't even qualified for the job sef. My neighbour, when i was single, drives me to work, while his wife jumps buses and his kids trek to school.. I worked on the island while he works on the mainland, he was always punctual, I dumped his tuketuke as soon as my sugar daddy bought me a car and guy never even saw my pants... 44 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Estharfabian:You ladies always take guys generosity and care for mugu.Guys should stop being caring. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Hassasin: 5:15pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
iceberylin: That's another way they manipulate you my boss. They know as long as they make you believe there is "hope" you won't mind being used. Rabbit and carrot, man, rabbit and a dangling carrot! You follow? 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
kilode100:You are even bragging about it.Karma is on the way. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by kilode100(f): 5:18pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Love Machine: I didn't brag na  Haaaaaa I was just narrating o 7 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Love Machine:Who told You Guys Are caring? mbanu!You think caring revolves around Buying 100naira rechargecards? Small Mama put? Or Buying her sanitary pads? smh! LoL! there's a lot to caring than spending abeg.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Hassasin: 5:18pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
EroticAngelina: Oh no! We do have manipulative men also. But with a sizable tincture of confidence I would wager that pound for pound we have more manipulative women than men. You disagree? |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
it's really saddening, (I take an exception) I CAN NEVER BE MANIPULATED BY A WOMAN. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by jaymejate: 5:19pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
I have the spirit of God in me so i cannot be manipulated by ladies. When i get married also, i remain the Head. Just that some guys can't control themselves and it's bad 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by KELVINXY: 5:20pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
kilode100: Leta they will ask me why am i always mean to ladies  well this is one of them 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
kilode100:Shiit just got real! high5! they'll be eating from our palms in No time!12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
One girl tried it on me before.I was so obsessed with her curves.She wasn't that beautiful,but her curves trips me a lot.I gave her #1k one day.She decided to take me as her papa.She would tell me she was hungry.Another time she would say I should buy her soft drinks.Na so i just dey look her until she backoff. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by tpiar: 5:23pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Why is it still a man's world if so. the problem is, women equate sex to power, but men dont. thats why you see females bragging they have a man if they sleep with him, meanwhile the man will sleep with her and myriads of other women but it will not even interrupt his day. so, op, its a mirage. 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Estharfabian:Except you jazz him. |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Hassasin: 5:26pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
tpiar: You have an angle I haven't heard before, pray, tell me more. |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Love Machine:Jazz fire! Nowadays...U don't need Those... sum'Guys Are getting stupider by the day...5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
The entire act of women "enslaving" men with punna actually started since the biblical times. Women in that age were opressed, sold, and in some cases treated as furniture. The only fragile power women had then was too keep a guy hooked with sex. And that was how seduction was born. It has expanded even beyond the original practicer ever dreamed of look at cleopatra. She was wxiled and supposed to die at an early age. Yet she ended up ruling Eygpt for almost 20 years. How With her punna!3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by otipoju(m): 5:29pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
kilode100: It is your kind that made me say no to four ladies who needed a ride from work at 4 am in the morning. Same neighborhood we lived in, offered to be buying fuel etc. On our first day of working together, I had helped one of them. I was using her phone GPS since she had her address on it already. A call came in while I was driving and she stored the guys name with " IDIOT ". I asked her what she would store my number with " Driver"? Next day i no gree carry anyone of them. They called me evil, they called me devil...I no even look their side. Once I get off, I exit the doors and drive home. I dont blame you ooo, but I will never do anything for any woman unless it is absolutely convenient for me. And may God help you if you uncross your legs. It will immediately piss me off. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by tpiar: 5:29pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Hassasin: shouldnt be new to you if you're male. with all the manipulation, why are men still the ones in power and why does women's "manipulation" rarely go beyond he bought them some material toys or they had sex? 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by kelechi50: 5:30pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
kilode100:karma awaiting the arrival of your own children |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Estharfabian:You ladies are not truly weaker as we thought.So if a guy buy you #100 recharge card and takes you to a mamaput joint,he is not caring enough,unless he takes you to sweet sensation ba?Have you spend your own money to purchase meatpie or coke at sweet sensation before?Be sincere. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by kilode100(f): 5:30pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
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| Re: Why Are Some Men So Easy To Manipulate? by Hassasin: 5:32pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
jaymejate: We will/have all being manipulated at some point in our lives. Manipulation like a feather, can be so feint you only feel the tickle. 1 Like |
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